#its just unncessary

[bumblingbabooshka]

The Pathways Novel is the holy grail of young Tuvok characterization because I can just sense so clearly through the page how insufferable he would be to talk to

#and let me tell you? insufferable IS affectionate with a million hearts drawn around it #A girl confessed her love to him and he basically grabbed her by the shoulders and said Sophie....please get ahold of yourself! #Remember WWJD!! and she has to be like '.....y e ah ok. yeah. sorry.' and then they parted ways forever #Tuvok at the monastery observing the other initiates like I'm the only one who /really/ gets what we're going for here but who am I to judge #I think the line is something like 'Tuvok despised what he thought to be the partaking in unncessary luxuries but he trusted that the elders #knew best' #I think Tuvok's life is just going through different particular types of Difficult-To-Talk-To #crybaby kid to know it all teen to wannabe priest to holier than thou initiate to when-I-was-your-age dad #then he FINALLY started chilling the hell out #AH I keep saying 'monastery' its a temple #I love Tuvok him being earnestly annoyed by others has fine-wined into dry remarks while definitely NOT rolling his eyes #Tuvok cares SO much is the thing. <3 guy who is full of not-love #Guy who makes terrible horrendous first impressions but then eventually worms his way into your heart (VERY unintentionally hes NOT trying) #It'd be funny if everyone liked T'Pel right away in contrast hehe...<3 #Tuvok's parents' characterizations in that book are NOT canon to me though #also there's a funny moment where Tuvok is complaining about how their sons are (in his opinion) not disciplined enough #and when he looks to T'Pel for her opinion she's just fallen asleep #and he considers waking her up despite the fact that she JUST gave birth before going hmm.....better not. #Wise Choice Friend HEHEHEH....g od...dumbass <3

[borzoilover69]

I would like you to elaborate on dirk and Dave's relationship post game! 0u0

I want to make one thing clear. Neither of them are particularly bad people for reacting the way they do. They are products of their environments and their upbringings, and this reflects a LOT in their behaviour. This is my personal interpretation.

I think it starts off generally well. They have enough in common to talk a lot, and so much to catch up on! I’d imagine they chat for quite a while and build up raport.. and then as time goes on, they start to sort of get on each others nerves.

Dirk has a habit of over analysing and trying to get into peoples minds to further understand them. This isnt a bad thing, i think he genuinely does it out of wanting to understand and “vibe” with them better, but it may seem weird and unncessary for others. What with being isolated socially for so long, the alpha kids in general have some strange ways of saying things that seem perfectly normal to them, as well as interpretation, that strike others as off or strange, and dirk is no exception. They arent as handy with social cues.

This is important because well, while Dave is good at running his mouth, he struggles to articulate effectively when he cares. Im sure as we have seen in canon, especially with people he loves, Dirk will probably try to look too deep into it and reach a conclusion that isnt the best. Dirk needs people he cares about to communicate honestly and openly. This is something Dave will struggle to do due to his aforementioned inability to articulate when he cares the most.

Of course I cannot forget mentioning the abuse in the relationship Dave had with his bro. One that on reflection of his childhood later, led to him being incredibly uncomfortable with when he realised the way he was brought up was certainly not normal. It did not help qualm Daves nerves. Especially when Dirk said he could see himself doing that. Dave is compassionate, but he is not entirely forgiving. I feel that while Dirk thinks its best to be aware of this manner, it would just make Dave uncomfortable at the idea of repetition. One which i feel he could not voice.

Diving deeper into personal musings, considering some of the evidence that Dirk coveted Dave for a long time, Given how much we see him covet Dave it has a very high chance of flipping the other way as a natural prince of heart destroying and picking at himself. Dirk has a desire to be useful, a desire to succeed, and his accomplishments fail in the face of daves in both timelines.

Dirk has two people we are established he holds especially dear to him, and that is Dave and Jake. However with that level of attachment and endearment it can become unhealthy. Dave and Jake arent the best when it comes to communication, or establishing the most stable of relationships if canon is to go off of. Without proper care and communication this turns out bad.

I personally feel like as time would go along, the silence between them would grow longer due to the lack of communication of issues between them. Dave would rather skirt them, Dirk would rather bottle them until he eventually explodes. Its that or theyd have a codependent relationship for a while before cutting it all off out of a want to fix things by trying to be there for the other, but facing difficulty in their desires being too different, Dave wanting time to build up raport and slowly close that gap while Dirk just wants to get there as efficiently as possible and missing the point of the picture.

TLDR; If you put a kid through literal isolation for 16 years and give him a meager amount of social situations its going to be very difficult for them to aclimate to someone more accustomed to the ebb and flow of relationships. If you give an abuse victim a younger alternate version of their abuser theyre never going to be ok with it entirely.

Its 3 am ill prolly delete this later

#borzoi talks #asks #dirk strider #dave strider #homestuck #hom3stuck #borzoi meta #homestuck meta

[fanonical]

If you don't mind me asking, what are the conics like? I've never read any of his work before

Sandman has its ups and downs with trans women, particularly in the fifth volume -- A Game of You -- and whilst i think the story behind it is fundamentally anti-transphobia, at a time when terf opinions were taking off substantially, it still has a lot of really unncessary & gratuitous transmisogyynistic violence against trans women and death of trans women. for example, there's a sequence where the trans woman in question, Wanda Mann (ugh. yes that's her name. ugh.), has a nightmare where she is forcibly given genital reconstruction surgery. she's misgendered pretty much every other panel throughout the whole story, it's deeply depressing and not very fun to read, really gratuitous, and more than a little voyeuristic.

whilst Gaiman had the best intentions, i personally have never felt represented by these comics so much as disappointed and heartbroken that the beginning of "positive" representation for trans women in comics was like this. he also has (had?) uh, let's say a "fixation" with specifically pre-op trans women, in a way that feels quite fetishistic & nausea-inducing, imho.

there's some good discussions of it on a forum here, with both pros and cons, people who liked it and people who didn't, but fundamentally, most people agree, "whilst this story was anti-transphobia, it would be nice to have trans women with happy endings, or at least whose entire existence in comics isn't just being misgendered, attacked, killed, harassed by terfs, and abandoned by the gods for their perceived maleness". it's extremely depressing stuff.

#Sandman #The Sandman #Netflix Sandman #Netflix The Sandman #Neil Gaiman

[lightandfellowship]

I'm nosey but also curious on what your opinion is on whether or not the khdr should come back in some way into the main plot. Like if they were in quad or something. Personally I would love to see them come back but idk if that would weaken khdr's tragedy or not. Its the days dilemma

(Major KH3/MOM/KHDR spoilers)

The KHDR fan in me would be thrilled to see KHDR breach the confines of its game. It's an excellently written story with a compelling and likeable cast of characters, even if many of them are underdeveloped/underutilized. I think there's a lot of fun and interesting things you could do with them to make their potential shine more, if you were to bring them back. And in a way it would almost seem fitting to bring them back precisely because of this aforementioned lost potential.

And even speaking more neutrally, I don't really have too big of a problem with characters from KHDR "coming back to life" in some shape or form. That's just kinda normal for this series, even before Roxas and Xion were brought back in KH3 (see: the entire Organization coming back to life because they got recompleted. AFAIK this plot point was discussed in interviews long before it finally made its debut in DDD, so the concept of KH bringing back dead characters is pretty old, actually). And of course everyone has different opinions on these once-dead characters returning, but I'm of the mind that coming back to life doesn't necessarily erase a prior tragedy, at least not in all cases.

I'd say the only problem I see with bringing them back is the fact that Xehanort and Eraqus are now canonically passed on in the present timeline. With no one around left to make these characters' "revivals" emotionally relevant within the story, their inclusion in the main plot might feel kinda strange and unncessary. Unless, like you say, this is a Quadratum scenario where Xehanort and/or Eraqus are running around alive as well.

Of course characters have inherent narrative worth outside of their relationships to other characters, but I'm just saying it'd be a bit of a wasted opportunity to, for example, bring Vor back but then not have Eraqus around to emotionally react to it, you know? Their return, ideally, should have a strong impact on the characters, not just the audience.

#rambling about dim path #One exception to the last point I think would be if a revived character has to grapple with one of their loved ones #Not being there waiting for them when they come back #That can be an interesting emotional thread to explore

[kouhaiofcolor]

Idk why it makes my skin crawl sometimes to hear black ppl try guilt tripping other black ppl ab choosing not to vote. On anything.

"Our ancestors died so that you could vote," is just absurd I'm sorry 🤦🏽‍♀️

Those black ppl didn't die for that; they didnt die of natural or even reasonable causes, lbfrfr. They were murdered. Period. In large ass droves. For no truly necessary reason. By ppl (white and nbpoc) who felt they didn't have a right to exist. I commend black ppl who get out there & do "their part" (since that's something I've also been hit w aggressively, as if not voting as a black person equates to complacency ab black suffering), but there are valid reasons to doubt the power or range of influence stuff like that will have in this country.

It is 2022 & black ppl are still being gunned down & brutalized by police officers; black children are still treated differently than their non black counterparts in schools; black women are still being unyieldingly harmed or killed by our own men; black schools & communities are still poorly funded & taken care of; black neighborhoods are still being gentrified w no end in sight; black businesses are still normally overlooked & spoken over when it comes to wealth distribution or fair business opportunities; black women still suffer commonly at the hands of malicious doctors who subject them to medical malpractice; colorism is relentless; misogynoir is a literal sustenance for billions of ppl & numerous cultures.

There are countless (& increasing) reasons to doubt the United States' humanity & potential to really fix the antiblack things that have always been incredibly imbalanced ab this country. Especially among its citizens & governing body. Not that we should do nothing, per se. But there's been enough trauma for centuries & every single day for enough black ppl that I think it's fair if the Black American individual reaches a point where they're just.... done giving a fuck? At least physically? If that makes sense?

If my ppl being openly dehumanized, copied & stolen from, murdered unjustly, targeted for poisoning by corporations, racially profiled, fetishised, trafficked, harassed on & offline, masculinized & slandered, abused psychologically, criminalized for literally anything, deprived & subjugated for centuries comes down to — "oh, well its cus you're not getting out there protesting or donating to charities or writing your congressman or voting for the right ppl" — that's insulting. Way to apply unncessary pressure. Push up on white & nbpoc w that, not me. Pressure them to get out there & give a fuck. Wouldn't that make more sense?

But having that smoke exclusively for Black People who are simply fucking tired, just doesn't make sense to me. I work too often year round for entirely too damn long for entirely too damn little to have time for just ab anything else. Most ppl do. Most Black people do. Tired black ppl can be tired of this shit. This shit be painful. Tf? 😮‍💨

Non blacks dni.

#black tumblr #black twitter

[fagcrisis]

lol I had Linux for a minute and I never figured out how to install a program. Like my brain could not comprehend it. Least user friendly thing in the entire world. I've used all three (Windows, Mac, and Linux) and unfortunately Windows seems to be both the winner of the 3.

It sucks!! It will appear more user-friendly on the surface but that's because they hide the settings that DO THINGS under 100 pounds of menus designed in 2005

yeah all the linux users ik r people who have been obsessed w computer science since the age of 5 and its like, i respect that but i spent all of that time learning facts about storm drain covers i cannot use linux!! we are autistic in different directions !! mac just sucks shit on every level so windows remains bc i can at least combat the hundred thousand unncessary features with my various allies (youtube tutorials by men with polish accents and shutupwindow10) and its somewhat usable. Somewhat

#i wish there was an operatint system that was actually designed for users to use. but alas

[watchinglikeafangirl]

The BL genre needs to change

Or, I ramble about between us and the eclipse

I don't understand why nealy every BL has a side couple or even multiple ones. I mean I get the idea of showing another love story happening at the same time so the audience won't get bored. The way "love in the air" did it is very interesting to me and I haven't seen any other show splitting the stories to give each couple a proper story with its own arc. It's not revolutionary but it's new and I liked that approach a lot. No storyline was interrupted by the side couple then and each had their own 6 episodes and our brains didn't have to switch back and forth between the different conflicts. Also, it showed that each couple has their own problems to solve and overcome and those problems aren't linked to anyone else's. Mostly, the side couple either has no conflict or has the same one as the main couple which isn't realistic at all. "The eclipse" did it in the usual way but the characters were treated as full people and not some time fillers to keep the story going for 12 episodes. Kan and Thua appeared in other scenes that weren't flirty ones and just them being in the same friend group. That was also realistic since they were closely attached to the main couple and overall social commentary. "Not me" was the same. But these stories were different because "the eclipse" and "not me" carry a message. It's a social commentary, it's criticizm and to show how people suffer and are affected in different ways by the same people, we have side couples. They are closely intertwinded with the main leads and the fight for justice but don't share the same braincells with everyone else. They have their own thing going on.

But as I was watching "between us" today and since we reached the point when the two side couples are introduced, I can't help but be bored and annoyed. My personal, unpopular opinion is "until we meet again" wasn't that great. It was good, it could have been better if they would have cut it down to maybe 14 episodes cause there was a lot of filler. And "between us" amazes me since I find it better than "until we meet again", so now I'm disappointed they follow the clichée and give us two side couples. Firstly, this is already a spin-off so why introduce more couples? And secondly, it's so lazily done. There's no meaning behind these lovestories. They are partly characters that are not connected to the main leads and there are just too much characters who in the end cut down important moments of the main couple. Instead of just putting out so many side couples to fill the 12 episodes, I would love it if the production companies would decide 8 episodes will do as well since the story doesn't allow us more.

I think it's in general the problem of the fact that WinTeam are not connected at all. Yes, they are at the swim club but they are obviously distant there. Their friends are not the same, their studies are not the same, their hobbies aren't as well and it feels like they have nothing to talk about. So the script is just poorly written and it's so sad because they are the main leads and the reason why we all are watching. So instead of creating an unncessary arc for the side couples, the writers should focus more on the main story.

I think big dragon does a really, really good job with that. The side couple is non-existent basically, so the main leads can shine. Since the story isn't long enough for 12 episodes, it's only 8 episodes long and that's totally enough.

I think what I wanna say is, I'm getting bored of the genre. There's nothing new and old tropes are being recycled. 12 episodes has been too long for a while already but the companies don't understand that. Eight episodes or six is what people watch these days. Else the arc seems to be stretched and not really exciting.

#the eclipse #between us

[maimishou]

Thoughts on wtFOCK Season 3

This is my favorite season of wtFOCK so far. I’m know it’s not a very popular season and the reasons for that are totally valid, but it’s such a fresh take on the season that I can’t help but enjoy it. It’s no Druck, but it’s certainly still up there for me.

I didn’t much like or care for Robbe in the previous seasons, but this season does a really good job of making you care for him. The way he’s played combined with the lighting makes him really sympathetic and even when he fucks up you still want things to work out for him. Even though I don’t really like Sander the show still made me want things to work out between them because that’s what Robbe wanted and I wanted to see him happy.

My favorite episode this season was the haunted house episode. Yeah the guys were assholes, but it was really fun to see everyone having fun throughout it and a highlight of the season. We didn’t get the house episode that season two (In France it’s episode 4 of season 2 for example. I know it’s not in every version.) normally gives us so it was nice to see it here and with more than just the girls this time. And the changes still make it unique in its own right! Yeah the guys could’ve been less assholeish (That fake shooting was not it and Amber and the others were totally valid to be upsert about it.), but I still thought it was fun.

Putting aside the hate crime and suicide “plotlines” since they didn’t go anywhere (So unncessary changes that are completely valid to dislike for reasons people better than me have put into words.) my least favorite thing was the mental illness storyline. Not only was it rushed, but it didn’t evdn make sense for Robbe to react the way he did given his relationship with his mom.

Speaking of which, I love the relationship Robbe has with his dad. Usually it’s the dad who’s unsupportive (Or even just uninvolved.) and the mom is the supportive one. I like that his dad accepted him for who he was right off the bat and how his dad tried to be there for him. We didn’t get to see much of his family relationship, but what we did see was good.

Next up: wtFOCKDOWN.

#wtFOCK #Druck #Skam Remakes #Skam

[stillfindingmyniche]

Save Your Tears

Life has it's own way to teach. To teach lessons that I never knew I needed.

It made me wonder if things did happened for a reason, are they signs or merely just humbling experiences?

All I can say is, life is short, there aren't many sunrises and sunsets left in this lifetime. I want to live a life I truly yearn for. It is as brief as the morning breeze, as brief as candles, as brief as the tides.

Noises are distractions that challenges your inner tranquility. Noises are unncessary distractions that stray you away from where you want to be and who you want to be. often i find myself living under the eyes of others, and being overly concerned of what others might think of me. I find myself a fool when the day ends, as i've yet to live a day for myself. Is this lifetime mine to own, or thiers?

often i look down upon myself and end up self sabotaging. I yearn to be confident, yet composed and calm. I will continue to learn to become someone like so and i pray for the day to come when i am truly so.

I want to live a life worth living for, a life of peace and happiness.

I am always learning, and I will continue to learn. To focus on myself and only on what is good for me, to care for people I love, to be myself.

I want To live life to its fullest, after all, life is what I make it. And i want it to be fulfilling to my soul and mind.

[zeldanyx]

(major spoilers for AHS Season 11)

Okay, so why do the writers of AHS season 11 create a metaphor for AIDS (the serial killer(s)) if they’re also going to tell the real story? 

A metaphor is just pointless in that case. Wasn’t the whole point of the murderers to show that the police / the public didn’t care that people from the community were dying, just like it was with AIDS in real life? Then why was the disease actually part of the fictional world as well? At least this aspect was introduced early on in the season, not just in the last 3 episodes. But still. As soon as the Mai Tai killer had been found, what was the point of the rest of the episodes? Literally nothing happened, except everyone dying due to the leather mask killer aka AIDS. But they weren’t actually murdered anymore, the killer changed from being a metaphor into being a symbolic visualisation. These last episodes were just so unncessary, because everything important had already been told - it already had a message, the intent and the metaphor were clear. It wasn’t necessary for the plot or the message to show the protagonists dying from AIDS, they should have continued focussing on the serial killer storylines instead, in my opinion. It all feels like two complete different approaches to the same story, both of them are valid individually, but thrown together they just don’t make sense. Like I said in the beginning of this rant: Why combine a metaphor and its subject in the same plot? It would have been fine if the serial killer thing and the AIDS crisis had just existed indivually in the storyline. You know, a story about a killer set during the AIDS crisis and we see how parallels are drawn, the similar cruelty of both aspects becomes unveiled.

Overall, I didn’t hate the season. I enjoyed the first 7 episodes, although I didn’t pay super much attention while watching. The characters were quite boring, maybe that’s also why I wasn’t a fan of the last 3 episodes, they just didn’t have much impact on me besides being very tragic in general, of course. I still liked the montage in the very end of the last episode, it was beautifully shot. Not the best season, but also not the worst. My favourite character was Gino, by the way. 

#american horror story #american horror story 11 #ahs #ahs 11 #ahs nyc #american horror story nyc #rant

[kawaiiflowerharmony]

Letting go

Writing on a platform that is completely anonymous has the kind of freedom that one cannot find elsewhere.

Over the course of my lifetime, I have been exposed to so much, have experienced so much - I truly don't feel my age. I am an old soul, and my ideals are old and perhaps antiquated according to the younger generations. But I stand by what I believe. And I believe that courage is the root of power. Power to do the previously unthinkable, previously undoable. A good friend once gave me a little stone with just a simple word carved on it...but that one word has changed my life. The word was COURAGE.

The dictionary is simple and straight forward in its explanation:

courage

cour·age [ˈkərij the ability to do something that frightens one.

But I personally prefer the WIKIPEDIA explanation - I identify so much more with it:

Courage - Wikipedia Article

Courage is the choice and willingness to confront agony, pain, danger, uncertainty, or intimidation. Valor is courage or bravery, especially in battle.

Yes, courage in this form is what I have had to grasp onto and hold onto with everything in me for the last ten years or so and I have not regretted it. There were times I have faltered a little and perhaps wished I could have the option to turn back time, but never once have I regretted putting on my big girl pants and taking on or confronting that which loomed ahead of me.

But I digress from my original thoughts...

Letting go has been a huge part of my life. Whether letting go of physical things such as giving away something I had held onto for years because of sentimental value, or letting go spiritually, it takes inner strength and yes, courage. I've had to let go of my parents who passed on, I've had to let go of friendships which turned out to not really be friendships, people that were my own blood, and ultimately I let go of years of anger and hurt and emotional and mental pain. The former being physical was so much easier to do. The latter, not so much. I had to do a lot of soul searching, a lot of talking to my inner child. It hurt. And certainly did not take a few days, or weeks. But once I was finally able to let go of all that baggage, that unncessary extra emotional weight, I felt renewed, as if LITERALLY a mountain had moved off my shoulders. My inner child rejoiced, and has taken over.

I now find joy in the movement of a bell flower when the wind blows. I find joy in the smell of rain. I sometimes stand outside and just soak in the sunlight, eyes closed and have the silliest smile on my lips. Blowing bubbles and watching them fly in the air gives me the greatest joy. I have made time to love myself again, to write poetry again, to draw. I am by no means an artist, but my art is emotionally charged and interpretive. Only people that know me well know what emotion I was experiencing when doing particular pieces.

But all this would not have been possible if I had not remembered that one word. I have truly accomplished the previously unthinkable just by keeping that one word burning in my heart.

And now, once more, I have had to put on my big girl pants. The venture I am going into is not guaranteed but will bring the rewards I have asked the Universe for if successful. I just have to believe.

Courage, my child.

#thoughts #courage #life journal #life journey

[thechronicchihuahua]

The Imperfect Proposal Review.

I will never understand a book that hasn't resolved the conflict on the Blurb by halfway.

What am I reading for?

Just to watch him get repeated reveange on her while her friends justify it with actions that were supposed to be moved on from?

This is why Chronic Pain is worse in women. This is why more women than men are on anti-depressants.

I just read a story where the main character establishes in the first chapter that he has had years and years od experience in keeping boundaries with his women. Literally ten years of it.

The second chapter establishes that he has enough comfort in his own boundaries that he's able to phone the police and move house and be open and honest with his family with said boundaries.

The triple kick is that he has enough knowledge of his own boundaries that he's able to neglect the apparent love of his life after shes been stabbed when he got himself involved in that situation to begin with.

SO the hero, Shay Green has boundaries.

Right?

No.

Midway through the book we need to make a "omg wouldn't my life look so boring and rather than show you this, I will show you what you are not" character in there.

Poor Polly.

He just couldn't say no to Polly.

What the hell?

For some reason, she's just so nice, he can't say no.

Why?

Why is there this unncessary addition?

Marriage Is Patriarchial.

The Patriarchy is the largest Sex Trafficking Method around.

The notion of marriage was used to abuse her.

Most of the way through this book we are still having constant purity and validation tests for the traumatised woman.

The make over doesn't work on the flighty non conformer unless she's very young, so that's a nice teenage fairytale, maybe don't make her in her 30s.

But yes, the social grouping is still socially tolerating and encouraging that he barter with the response to trauma she made in her youth.

He doesn't even have the excuse of youth when he pretends emotional recovery isn't a thing and centers himself on it when he committed to helping her then turned his back.

She wrote to him all the time, he chose to deliberately hide his life from Social Media so that if she did look, she wouldn't know.

Its the same kind of ex that blocks you until he hears your status updated.

The heroine completely changes character too. Instead of wanting somethinf new and fresh per the character that was created she settles for conforming to what he wanted way in the beginning, even though it made her sick and flighty to begin with.

She is watching friends blow up and hes sleeping around.

To hold that over her head when you disconnected from it enough as well is sick and misogynistic.

Would have been nice to see that he had long term commitments to not control her pain and his but instead hes still unregulated at the end of the book.

Because the Emotionally unskilled need something at the end to show you how bad her life wouldn't be instead of showing us how good it will be.

I don't think the author understood the conflict she was setting up. Issues of dysphoria, like Thea acted out are not cleared up by "getting even".

Typical patriarchial response and misrepresenting a harmful morality scale.

3/5 Patriarchial Parable

Landmines and destruction, "not even".

Fingering Another Woman and Many Other Women, "not even".

Stabbed, "not even".

Abandoned For Long Term Recovery, "not even".

Finally refused to say No...to another woman..."not even".

Makes sure he tests her responses to him at wedding before committing to ending things with another woman, "not even".

Seriously only even when she submits to him.

Melissa sure has Shay's back.

Culture needs to change.

#chronic pain #trauma #ptsd #complex ptsd #ptsd vent #chronic exhaustion #romance #the imperfect proposal #annie dyer

[hopeididntscareyou]

Christina is probably still being the incompetent manager she is. Yea im hating because she got me in trouble so many times and i just thought it was totally unncessary considering its just what everybody does. shes just too noob, retarded and autistic to understand the work dynamics/culture but whatever. Honestly I'm not really scared of my bosses at work and it pisses me off when my coworkers try hard to scare me. Do they even realize that what theyre doing is threatening and harrasment which violates the work ethic that they care too much. I dont know what they will get out of it to be completely honest. They only make themselves look like they care more about my life than i do. My boss is my boss at work, not the leader of my life. Theres a big difference. The company i work for pays me, not my boss. Therefore my boss doesn't hold my life. These are very simple logical statements that people seem to ignore. My boss is just an employee just like me. The difference is my job doesn't matter that much to me and if i quit anytime its not going to hurt me in any way, another difference is my boss has more responsibilities and works harder than me and probably has no work life balance. There is no way in hell i would want to live that way neither i would ever look up to people who does that. I respect my boss as an another employee but thats about it. I dont know why my coworkers feel the need to scare me with write ups, they seem to be bothered that i dont care. Its funny

[tmabutlesbian]

this is the stupidest fucking discorse ive seen here, people!! ffs!! calm. down. im gonna illustrate soemthing real quick:

"oh hey i made this drawing!! btw i saw this idea from this person, so anyways how yall doing?" ITS. that simple. youre all acting like @ tintanfalling killed your mother and shat on her grave. please.

and dragging @ fox-guardian its just dumb yall- they did the decent and simplest thing and just. credited!! (now one thing is like. @ at someone for that person to see that specific art, that's something else, but credit where credits due)

also. its just. so unnecessary. why are we having this discourse?? the specific post that inspired them was from that specific person, it just makes sense that, if somebody likes that, they'd wanna see more content from that person. right. I'm not the crazy one here-

#disc horse #tma discourse #the dumbest one tbh but anyways #btw!! i hope it doesnt seem like im shitting on fox guardian!! im not ffs #love their art so much and they did. literally nothing wrong. just the bare minimum #its jsut an honest mistake to make!!!! one thats easily rectafied!! #goddamn #ppl are acting like 1) this is outlandish 2) ppl who did this accidentally are the stupidest/ignorant ppl #why are yall just going around telling ppl to do that???? cant u just. leave that to titanfalling #if they wanna do that #its so weird #rens a person who can do shit on their own. also they felt uncomfortable with ppl harrassing others for this #its just unncessary #tmalesbeen talks

[angel-archivist]

I just. think if you need to hire adult actors to play your teenage characters because there are things you can’t film with minor actors. Maybe. those things shouldn’t be shown in your show about teenagers.

#like i just dont understand when media became about explicitly showing every single detail of a teenagers intimate life #about highlighting their sexuality so much that its one of the only aspects that make them a 'teenag'er #it's weird and gross and just unncessary #and like there are LAWS IN PLACE that make it so you cant do this shit with REAL MINORS because then you'd be producing explciit content #WITH MINORS #and for the 'realism' you hire ADULTS which give a false perception abt what teens should LOOK LIKE at the ages of 15-18 #on top of like the already very produced look of media and the people in those shows #like. i just. dont think. thats a GOOD thing #like. maybe just dont film those things dontt. do that stuff #retro.bullshit #maybe high school isn't just about sex and alcohol and parties #mayber there are aspects that are barely explored maybe theres critics of the school system you can have or the way #schools actively harm ND kids and kids who struggle with mental illness #like idk that saved by the bell reboot #i watched ALL of that the ppl in it look like teens and yeah act like teens #but the plots arent revolving around these ppls sex lives it revolves around classism in the school systems #the underfunding of schools and the shallow ways rich parents think donating one sum of money to a school will save it or create fundamental #change to a systematic problem #LIKE U CAN TALK ABOUT OTHER STUFF U KNOW THAT RIGHT. #THERE ARE THOUSANDS OF MOVIES ABT TEENS GONG TO PARTIES AND DOING HARD DRUGS AND HAVING SEX #MAKE SOMETHING. OF ACTUAL SUBSTANCE MAYBE. HUH???