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#just because people aren't physically showing affection doesn't mean they aren't in love with each other
freyito · 6 months
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ᴊᴏʜɴɴʏ ᴄᴀɢᴇ & ᴋᴇɴꜱʜɪ ᴛᴀᴋᴀʜᴀꜱʜɪ + ᴀ ᴛᴏᴜᴄʜ-ꜱᴛᴀʀᴠᴇᴅ ʙᴏʏꜰʀɪᴇɴᴅ
this ones super self-indulgent, simply cause im in a bit of a mood and i need comfort. so why not write little drabbles with my HUSBANDS!!!! sorry im still working on requests! my schedule is packed and thursdays are about the only days i get to myself, so im working on them, i swear!!!
for more context, there's a couple different ways people can be touch-starved and how people react. i know some people seek out touch actively, but im one of the people who has an aversion to it. that's why it's written like the reader doesn't quite enjoy it!
also, this was kind of inspired by Kocham Wolność by Chłopcy z Placu Broni
cw: male reader, just fluff really, bonus, proofread
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-Johnny Cage
Johnny's flashy, touchy, and over-the-top. Of course he is, he has to be. With his status, he wants everyone to know exactly who you are and show you off. You're all his, and only his, and he needs every single one of his fans to know.
So when you shy away from his touch, dodge away from his hand, or even keep your distance the very first time, his heart shatters. He doesn't quite know how to handle it. But he doesn't go with the same approach. He doesn't give up, either.
He's a sucker for physical touch, and if he's denied it, he doesn't know what to do with his hands. He quite literally looks down at them and wonders what he can do.
His first thought is that you dislike him, actually. That you hate him. He has a deep-seated fear of rejection, and for his beloved to turn away from his warmth and love, it stings. He overthinks, and he reacts as such.
Johnny is a 50/50 with being logical. It depends where he is and what environment he is in. However, with love, where he is completely and utterly vulnerable, giving his all to his boyfriend, logic does not take place with his emotions. He does not think that you do not seek the touch he seeks, he craves.
But, before he can let that vile, horrid, agonizing feeling in the back of his throat take hold, there's slight reassurance. A soft gaze that mends his broken heart, if only for a moment. That's when he finally rationalizes.
You don't even need to tell him at that point, he silently understands. Besides, he has other ways he can show his love for you. Spoils you rotten, tells you all he loves about you. See, he can find ways to make up for the lack of physical touch!
Johnny makes sure to ask you before any physical encounter. He asks to hold your hand, asks to hug you, asks to hold you, asks everything. And each time you say yes, he has the biggest grin on his face.
One night, while you two were sitting on the hood of Johnny's car by some cliff,- like those stupid romantic scenes in movies- you lean over to Johnny and rest your head on his shoulder. Your arms are touching, his shoulder provides a comfortable pillow. You feel safe. Gazing at the very few stars scattered in the sky, the night sky's beauty stolen by the city below (and by you, Johnny says). Johnny's beaming. He's trying so hard not to show it, he's trying to act cool. But he can't. He's almost vibrating because of the butterflies in his stomach. He's proud of you, he's in love with you, and god, he's so happy. He leans his head on yours, and whisper all sorts of sweet things, 'I love you', 'You mean so much to me', 'You're the most beautiful man I know', and 'Thank you'.
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-Kenshi Takahashi
Since Kenshi focuses on touch mainly in the relationship, he has to re-evaluate how he goes about this without touch. He doesn't start off with it, like Johnny does. But he slowly builds up to it. And when he tries to place a hand on your shoulder, feeling you completely dodge him almost feels humbling.
He's at a loss. But unlike Johnny, his first thought is the right one. Perhaps you aren't ready, you aren't comfortable. And that's okay. He's going to think of different ways to seek out your affection, even though physical touch is the only way he really understands love.
But, he also understands. He knows what it's like to dislike touch, after years of hollow touch and forced affection. And he understands if you just don't trust him enough, he's empathetic.
He'll wait for you, however long it takes. He isn't afraid to admit it's a bit disheartening, but he understands and he loves you and he will always wait for you. He still cherishes your time together, and it isn't spoiled one bit. Besides, he can tell you just how much he adores you. He doesn't have to rely on touch every time.
Like Johnny, he will always ask. But he does prefer that you make the first move, at that point. Any little touch, he also cherishes. Even if it's your hand accidentally brushing against his while walking. You always catch a small smile from him when that happens.
He's happy as is, really. The lack of physical touch doesn't take away anything from the relationship or from you. Simply basking in your presence is enough for you. He adores you, and he knows you're his as much as he's yours. That understanding is really the only thing he craves in the relationship.
He relishes in every little touch you give him, however. Simply holding hands is the most intimate thing to him. He isn't big on PDA, but he loves holding your hand anywhere in public. Even if Sento offers slight guidance to him, he loves knowing you're there to guide him.
The night you finally initiated contact, he fell deeper in love with you. It was quiet, alone, still. In your room, you lay next to him, simply enjoying the pleasures of the mundane. You reach for his hand, and gently trace the ink on his hands. He's calm, collected, but inside burns a fire so bright, that you can feel his body temperature rise. He slowly turns his hand, opening his palm to you. For a moment, your fingers linger, tracing the creases in his hand, before finally intertwining your fingers with his. He turns his head to you, a soft and inviting small on his face. He breaks the silence, whispering an 'I love you, so much', before the silence lay over you two once more.
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-Bonus! Johnny Cage AND Kenshi Takahashi
They both agree not to smother you and take their time with you and your comfort. Since most dates and activities will always center around all three of you, they're specifically gentle with you, and are rather hands off with both you and each other (as hard as that is for them).
Just because they are comfortable with each other and each other's touch, doesn't mean they are going to flaunt it. Kenshi believes the ideal is to slowly incorporate you into events. To suffocate you with the idea of touch is too much.
And they do just that. Johnny follows Kenshi's lead, really. Neither of them can live without your touch, and the idea of turning you away is a mutual fear.
When you found yourself between Kenshi and Johnny, simply "watching" a movie from Johnny Dearest, you ended up placing your head in Kenshi's lap, and your legs in Johnny's. You were tired, that was all. Just so happens you had the most comfortable men to lay on. Johnny gave Kenshi the most bewildered look, before realizing the man was still blind. But regardless, Kenshi almost shared the sentiment. However, Kenshi didn't waste his chance. He places his hand on your head, scratching at your scalp. While Johnny just revels in the fact that you've finally warmed up to them.
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yooms-posts · 10 months
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God gave us two hands, two legs, two eyes, and two ears, but just one heart so that we could find the second and today I found my pair in you.
Characters: miles morales (both earth 1610 and 42), gwen stacy, hobie brown, pavitr prabhakar
Pairings: all of them x gn reader (separate)
Reader: gn reader
notes: reader is around the age of the charcaters don't be weird, mentions of fights and blood, reader could be seen as a person who speaks Spanish for miles, contains some spoilers for atsv
genre: fluff with a hint of angst 🤏
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Before that look at this edit‼️ ITS SO DKDKOSJSIWB GO SHOW LOVE AND SUPPORT TO THE CREATOR
Miles morales (1610)
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he is such a sweetheart fr 🤞
definitely gets nervous and shy when entering a relationship with you
his love language is definitely acts of service, physical touch and giving gifts
is shown in the movies that miles is a very good artist, I'm sure he'll give you a very precious gift made by himself
need help with anything? he's there trying too help, homework is getting difficult for you? he's ready to teach you easier methods
holding your hand to keep you close? you got it babe
i feel like he likes to kiss your forehead as a sign of affection
in moments of vulnerability, he would place his forehead against yours
meeting his parents of course, family means a lot too him
his mom and dad may be wary of you (sorry), but they start too loosen up when you interact with them more
they could tell that you were the right one for miles, and they couldn't be any happier
that was wayyyy before you knew he was spiderman
why? because he thought it may make you view him differently
after all he couldn't keep it from you, you were one of the important people in his life (and he was running out of excuses why sometimes he has to leave earlier on dates)
it was definitely some sort of a shock! being spidermans s/o? crazyyy
have i mention dates when the both of you sit at very high buildings? dont worry he's watching out for you
miles just swinging while you hold him tightly for dear life
helping to patch him up after a fight while scolding him for being reckless sometimes
sometimes he has to comfort you when you realise you could lose him due to his duties
best date views, best atmosphere
the both of you just leaning on each other, wrapped in a blanket watching the sunset? yea thats the life...
both of you making nicknames for each other
he would call you: mi luz (my light), bebé
*if you aren't familiar with spanish, you would definitely pester him and ask him for the meaning
you would call him: lindo (cutie), mi hombre (my man) if your feeling slightly playful, babe
trading clothings is common
his jacket? suddenly your in possession of it, your shoes or clothes that fit him? it's his turn to wear it
lots of photos taken, whether its good or questionable (you accidentally spilled water on him) it will be kept in his phone
Gwen stacy
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i remember seeing her and questioning myself fr 🏳️‍🌈
anyways, your very precious to her i dont make the rules
like miles, nervous and shy when entering a relationship but leaning towards nervous
her love language is definitely acts of service and quality time
being spiderwomen definitely brings a challenge to the relationship
thats why quality time is very precious to her, any time your together is makes her happy
it doesn't have to be anyone talking or doing anything, she just want to be with you
acts of service? if you ever mention that you need something, she'll pick it up own her way back
kissing is very rare but when it does happen it always on the knuckles of your hand or on your cheek
inviting you over to her house for dinner, which lead to you meeting her dad, peter and aunt may
of course her dad approves you, he notice how she lits up even more around you
but after the incident where gwen loses peter, she unintentionally shuts everyone out
it causes a riff in your relationship because all you want to do is help but she's pushing you away
it got into an argument between the two of you and she accidentally slipped out that she's the heroine
that was the reason she was pushing you away, scared and afraid you might be next
comfort her, hold her, tell her that you aren't going anywhere, she needs that comfort
the relationship became better and stronger slowly
same thing as miles, you patching her up and muttering she shouldn't be too reckless
dates with her are always exciting, she would be showing you places where only her could acces due to her spider abilities
nicknames are the regular ones between the both of you
you would call her: my girl, babe and wifey (as a joke to tease her)
she would call you: dear, bae
its shown that she leaves her sweater/jackets in other people's room soooo...
yea, leaving her stuff at your room and taking it back a few days later
technically making it yours too, i dont make the rules 🤷‍♀️
Hobie brown
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i wish british people are real 😔
i wanna say it would be a 'you fallen first but he fall harder' type of scenario
like it's impossible to not fall in love with him a little
love language? it's got to be words of affirmation and giving gifts
he would be those types who would be able to tell that somethings bothering you
he would reassure you if you ever feel bad about yourself or have bad days, he would be there to boost your confidence
remember how he made his own version of the watch to travel different dimensions?
then get ready for him to present to you self made gifts for you
whether it's like a pin or a accessory, he puts a lot of love and thought into it
he gives me the type to lazily pepper kisses on your face teasingly
but if he needs the comfort or other way round, one of you would cradle the others face and kiss the other
going to shows and pubs for entertainment
definitely invites you to watch his show, if you are there you bet his eyes stays on you
him casually entering your house (with your permission!!) at the most weirdest time
around 2am he's knocking on your window so you could help with with bandaging
the first time that happens is when you didn't know of his secret identity which worried you
fights don't really occur between the two of you since he knows what to say and not to say if things get heated
since gwen sometimes crashes at his dimension, she would have probably meet you
it's like a sibling bond between you and her, you sometime lend her your clothes and she tries to help around in the house
im not sure what his actual age is tho...if you know please tell me, its confusing some said he's around gwens and miles age some said he's 19-20
if he is 19-20, you and him would probably be like the older brother and older sibling to gwen
which later on include miles too (miles heard how kind-hearted you are when talking to gwen)
to be honest, eveytime your with him it feels like a date
he's unpredictable at times, making it exciting to figure out what he plans on the date
nicknames is common between the two of you
his nicknames for you: love, darling and hun (he rarely calls you that, it happens when he is sarcastically teasing you)
your nicknames for him: sweetheart, B (since his name is hoBie yk?) and babe
if your open to different types of clothing style, he would lend you his jacket
the both of you would trade small accessories with different styles to match each other
Pavitr prabhakar
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my cutie patotie fr ( not trying to baby him in anyway!! he's just precious in my eyes)
he is so sweet and polite to everyone, so i wouldn't blame you if you fall for him
you know those confession letters? he would probably leave one at your locker
very understanding if you dont feel ready for any PDA at the start of your relationship
physical touch is his main love language followed by words of affirmation
if you are okay with being held, get ready to be held by him
his arms wrapped around your side and arms, he likes to hover near you to hold you
holds your hand almost everywhere and most of the time
he has a way with words definitely, he knows exactly how to make you laugh, how to make you smile or how to jokingly tease you
you mean the world to him, of course he would notice little things about you
definitely giggles when kissing you, whether it's on the cheeks or the tip of your nose
introducing you to his aunt, which she takes a liking to you :)
bringing some food made by his aunt to share with you
you already had suspicion that he was spiderman, you didn't say anything cause he looks so proud when keeping it a secret
eventually it ends up with him spilling it since he gets cuts the next day without proper excuses
which led you to remind him to care himself when doing patrols
proudly showing you off to people, your just amazing to him really
dates with him is very calming and stress-free
like doing each other's face mask or shopping for things together etc
nicknames has got to be cute for you two (or purposely cringy to get the other to not pay for the meal)
his nicknames for you: baby, babe, bae or my s/o
your nicknames for him: pav, my s/o or darling
i feel like he won't mind lending you his clothes, just give him a heads up first
like it could be his tie that you found cute or his pants that fits you nicely
Miles morales (42)
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his whole design was just so sick and just so hdisbosjso?!
him and you? yea you wish...that actually came true congratulations ‼️‼️
it takes a long time to be his friend but as a partner? even longer but it's worth it
he just have issues like lots of them, he's got to know if he could depend on you for help
take your time and slowly tear his walls down, show him your trustable and reliable
his language would range from acts of service, words of affirmation and physical touch
physical touch is a 50/50 with him though, you have to reassure him it's fine if he doesn't want to show PDA
acts of service is definitely his strongest love language
for example, if he notice your too tired to do something he would wordlessly do it for you
do the same for him! he would deeply appreciate it
if you ever have bad days, dont worry he would be there telling you interesting stuff to distract you from it
once your relationship is secure and good, he introduce you to his mom and uncle
his mom already had a feeling that he was seeing someone by the way she notice he slightly smile at a text on his phone
when you meet them, his mom would welcome you with open arms
asking you if you have eaten the typical mother things you know?
his uncle though? he intimates you at first, once he notice you were good for miles he let's loose slowly
likes to kiss your hand generally, like the knuckles and palms
if he feels a little more bold, he likes to tease you by kissing the corners of your lips and ghosting above your lips before pretending nothing happened
that prowler business? you were bound to find out sooner or later
he trust you a lot, he asks you too sit down with him to properly explain why sometime he doesn't show up to dates early
that would be a massive relief for you, you were getting worried that he's starting to loose interest
which you have to mess up big time for his trust and loyalty for you to dissappear (don't)
dates would take place at the rooftops, blankets laid down with snacks to watch the sunset
you cant tell me he would have a soft smile glancing at you from time to time while watching the sunset
seeing that his spanish is more noticeable than miles 1610, his nicknames for you are all in spanish
his nicknames for you: mi cielo (my sky/heaven) , mi corazón (my heart)
*if you aren't familiar with spanish, you would probably try and search up the meaning before asking him
your nicknames for him: guapo (handsome), cariño or mi amor (my love)
i feel like he likes small accessories from you when trading clothing
it's like a reminder to him that his yours and your his
probably brings it with him everywhere he goes
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Wooo im finally done!! If theres any spelling mistakes tell me. I hope you enjoyes yourself. Im thinking of writing more itsv/atsv if i have time. Let me know what you think. :)
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vegasandhishedgehog · 6 months
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Seeing a lot of upset posts about how the show ended with Boston and feeling like something really went over a few heads. Do I also believe Boston deserved better? Yes. But let's be realistic in the way Jojo and Ninew approached this.
Boston and his promiscuity have been the target of harsh judgements from episode one. And the writers have stated that he has a moral code, it's just very different from others. I was never expecting him to state it outright, that it would just be a thing worth paragraphs of speculative meta, but he does!
Boston stated his definition of boyfriend. If he wants to be exclusive, that's for all the emotional bonding that he desires with someone special, but does not deny him the ability to fulfill his physical desires with whomever he wishes. That's not just polyamory, it's a very specific kind!!! And it's entirely different from the traditional sort of relationship society has accepted. The thing is, he wouldn't have discovered that possibility without knowing Nick.
Boston did genuinely fall for Nick. But how could he have handled that properly when he has no experience being loved and has never learned how to love someone back? Moreover, how could he come to the conclusion that he likes being exclusive in one way but not another without absolutely fumbling the bag with someone who's on a different page? It's not exactly Nick's fault that he prefers physical affection to be exclusive as well, that's just how he is. There couldn't have been any discussion about this, it was a discovery in the making.
The truth is Boston would still have a hard time finding happiness in Thailand due to the political climate, especially with his father being a politician. He's gay and that alone makes achieving his dreams more difficult, but being as promiscuous as he is means even a majority of the queer community will shut him out. He's better off moving to the states where at least he has rights and better acceptance for who he is. And that's what happened.
Because having a sexual or romantic appetite outside of monogamy is still looked down on. I still see it in the BL fandom. I see it just in general. 3 Will Be Free is so often cited as a must-watch, but how many people stick to their comfort branded pairings?* How many people have made or heard jokes about the "Seattle polycule"? How many romantic aces and allosexual aros get othered and excluded and judged for their identity?
Jojo said there was no intended message, but that doesn't mean there isn't one to be found. Boston's arc is a prime example of how slutty queers get treated even by their own peers, even by people who care about them most. It's a cry from the cold and lonely dark that if we think these people deserve better, we need to change existing paradigms and find how we can give them that!
Nick wasn't prepared to do that because he is still hurting, and that's also okay. Not everyone has to change themselves to make the puzzle pieces fit. Boston and Nick's story centers around that so much. Nick being jealous and trying to copy Top, Boston trying to be what he thinks a boyfriend is - they only hurt each other because the parts that don't fit are digging in.
I hope we get a second season, but if not friends, remember Boston. He represents such a particular demographic that gets hated on and ignored constantly, and they deserve a chance. They're not easy, but that doesn't mean they're not worth it. Remember Nick too. We all have a Nick in some manner - someone that made us want to try, but no matter how much we cared for each other it just wasn't going to work. Family, friends, partners, whoever.
Instead of being outraged with the show, be outraged with society. Do something about it. Be kinder. Community is important, now more than ever. I cannot possibly overstate how much we need community, especially among minorities.
*this isn't meant to be judgmental toward fans who prefer branded pairings or aren't interested in that particular show. I know watching anything requires time and energy and scratching a certain itch at the right moment. It is, however, a concern that so many fans complained about numerous aspects of OF to the point where the creators went to the effort of explaining themselves on a weekly basis and editing certain parts to avoid backlash. I mentioned 3 Will Be Free because it's another example of Jojo's work. Many BL fans have heard of it, but only a small portion seem to have watched, and that can be an indicator of certain biases. This is not to imply anyone who hasn't seen it has said biases and is only intended to encourage reflection if needed.
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thebroccolination · 5 months
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Do you ever think about the motif of handholding in Be My Favorite?
I think it gets the most attention in the last episode when Pisaeng is reliving their amusement park date, this time with better results. The first time he lived it, Kawi was nervous about the physical aspect of their brand new relationship, so he was grumpy and standoffish.
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And he wouldn't take Pisaeng's hand.
But the second time, Pisaeng has came back from a future where they've been together for years, but Kawi's sick and Pisaeng is terrified he won't make it. Pisaeng isn't feeling confident at all, so Kawi approaches the whole day differently. And I think part of why is that Kawi enjoys taking care of people.
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Even though this future version of Pisaeng is older and far more experienced than the one Kawi's used to, Pisaeng is also vulnerable and afraid, so he has to lean on Kawi for once.
When Kawi takes Pisaeng's hand, it's because Kawi's not only willing to admit he's afraid of the roller coaster, but that he's willing to take risks as long as he has Pisaeng with him.
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Tellingly, Pisaeng says he only got through that time-traveling experience with Kawi's strength.
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While holding Kawi's hand.
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What makes their dynamic so sweet, so real, and so enduring in my heart is that they're meant to be like this for each other. It's not that they're destined to be together, because we see that there are timelines where they barely know each other. But their best selves are a match, and once they start to orbit each other, I think they can sense that they'd work better together than apart.
I think it's why so much of that montage of their life together just shows them hanging out in their apartment.
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And why Pisaeng is so convinced he's the only one Kawi could have gotten sick from.
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Once they get to know each other, they learn how easily they fit each other, and that's the way they live their lives. And because of how well they're written, it doesn't feel like the story just forced them together, but rather it feels like nothing else would make sense.
There are timelines where they aren't together, but those are the timelines that feel wretched. Where Kawi is alone. Where Pisaeng is living a lie. Where Kawi is repressed. Where Pisaeng is brokenhearted.
But back to handholding.
What I love most about it as a motif is that it doesn't just represent overcoming fear.
For Kawi and Pisaeng, handholding is part of their shared language.
For them, handholding is comfort.
(I had to include video for this because Pisaeng is literally trying to hold his hand twice. Kawi is holding his left hand, so Pisaeng moves his right hand and tucks his fingers around Kawi's.
My reading is that Pisaeng can't hold Kawi yet, so he's trying to get as close to him as he possibly can in any creative way he can.)
For them, handholding is reassurance.
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For them, handholding is affirmation.
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For them, handholding is intimacy.
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For them, handholding is affection.
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For them, handholding is friendship.
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And for them, handholding is, of course, love.
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Every time they hold hands in this series, it means something slightly different, and the fact that Waa took something so common in relationships and made it so meaningful is just another reason why this series absolutely captivates me.
It's not just that Kawi and Pisaeng love each other; it's that they became who they needed to be to fit the best version of each other.
And that shit makes me feral over them. :')
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rocketturtle4 · 2 months
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Pit Babe Thoughts - What a Banger of a show!
So having just realised I watched the entire CUT VERSION of this show and now planning to rewatch the entire thing from scratch because it's so good I want my extra minutes DANG IT.
I thought I'd put some thoughts down first because DAMN this show may not have been perfectly polished but it was amazing for a multitude of reasons.
Playing fast and loose with pairings and ships.
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Now obviously our main 2 ships were our main 2 ships, we haven't entered a parallel universe, but the amount of tension they threw in anytime ANY two sides were together was delicious. It's fun to not know who will end up with who, the show teased and toyed with possible pairings and I LOVED IT.
(Also main ships may have been main but I was half wondering if we WOULD end up with Way/Babe somewhere in the middle there!)
2. Having fun with personalities and sex dynamics.
Now I have recently run across the understanding that a lot of BL is based of one specific pairing type from a much broader range of couple dynamics present in Yaoi and Shounen-ai (super darling X milquetoast) stories. And while this doesn't really feel like we're distant from that pairing type. The show doesn't strictly fit this and certainly plays with the audience perception by having Babe as the Uke.
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3. Omegaverse
OBVIOUSLY
But also introducing lesser known elements of Omegaverse like Enigma's was extra cool.
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4. New settings!
Racing BLs aren't exactly the norm.
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5. More playing with lanuguage dynamics
Not brand-new but we got a lot of play around language and age, Papa Mama, Loong and Nu, The way Alan switched around his "I" Pronoun so much. BL not leaning so heavily on Pom and Phi or Gu and Mung or even Khun and Pom is fun to see!
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6. A lot of casual physical affection
Now this is definitely becoming more common but I still want to highlight how physically affectionate Babe and Charlie (In particular) got to be with each other the whole time
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Overall the series was compelling, intense, and well executed. The relationships (Friendships and romantic) were utterly compelling. I love the way so much teasing was done with all the side peeps. I love how it had real stakes, emotions and consequences. I loved how much it played out the background and relationships of the characters, the way that all of Tony's children felt something for him, were compelled to love and hate and feel responsible. I loved how some people got forgiveness and others didn't and how people's very real pain, anger and betrayal got explored so deeply.
The show was not flawless or perfectly executed by any means.
But it was a compelling and interesting plot with utterly compelling relationships played all the way out without rushing or skipping.
And I loved it
I am off to watch the Uncut Version, can't wait.
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animekpopsimp · 7 months
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Married Life With Them (pt2)
Albedo
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At first, Albedo doesn't know much about love. But as your relationship progressed, he did his best to learn. By the time you two were married, he was more familiar with what it was like to be in a relationship. Though he usually doesn't show much emotion, Albedo tries to express himself more. With you, he smiles more, and surprisingly, he can be really romantic on occasion. Since he's usually really busy, he always tries to make time for you, not wanting you to feel lonely. He'll spend more time in Mondstat, taking you on simple, yet romantic dates. Other times, you'll join him at Dragonspine, watching him work. The two of you can be found sitting by the fire, you resting your head on his shoulder on occasion. Admittedly, he's not good with words, so he prefers physical affection and acts of service. When the two of you are cuddling, he'll keep his arms wrapped around you. And other times he'll bring you gifts that remind him of you. This can include, flowers, jewelry, and other small trinkets. He may not be the most expressive husband, but he cares.
Xiao
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When you first start your relationship with Xiao, he's rough around the edges. He's used to isolating himself away from others, and he never expected to get into a romantic relationship with someone. But, deep down he's grateful that you've stayed with him, even marrying him. Being married to Xiao means he's always looking out for your safety. He'll accompany you around the city when he's not busy, walking next to you. Even if he's not there next to you, he's somewhere nearby keeping an eye on you. Still, no matter how much he adjusts to being married to you, a small part of him will always worry about his karmic debt affecting you. Sometimes he pulls away from physical touch, not wanting you to get hurt because of him. You know he doesn't mean anything bad by it, and you're always there to reassure him that he has nothing to worry about. Xiao is reluctant to go to you when he needs comfort, it makes him feel weak. Despite his best efforts to hide it, you always know when something is bothering him. With some time, he's more willing to admit when he needs comfort. He's grateful to have you by his side.
Cyno
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Cyno is a stoic man, but when it comes to you. He's a loving husband. When he's by your side he always has a smile on his face. Your presence alone helps him relax. He loves cuddling, the two of you will lay in bed for hours and just hold each other if given the chance. His job, however, does keep him busy and sometimes, he'll be away from home for long periods of time. He's always thinking of you when he's away, hoping he'll get to see you again soon. When he does get to come back home, he brings gifts and won't want to leave your side for a while. Cyno loves telling you jokes, they aren't always funny to most people, but he never fails to make you laugh. And that's what matters to him, seeing you smile. He'll always be trying to come up with new jokes, hoping you'll like them. Cyno is protective, he's made a lot of enemies during his work, and deep down he fears that someone might try and hurt you because of it. Because of this, when he's with you out in public, he's always on high alert. He'll have an arm wrapped around your waist and be looking around to keep an eye out for any danger. He won't let anything happen to you.
Scaramouche
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Your relationship with Scaramouch is a rough one, he's been through a lot before he met you, so it takes time for him to fully trust you. But, with enough patience, he lets you in, and you two get married. Though most of the time he keeps up his tough act, it's easy to tell that Scaramouche is soft for you, but he will always deny it if someone points it out. It's only when the two of you are alone that he completely lets his walls down. He secretly loves cuddling and prefers to be the little spoon. He adores it when you run your hands through his hair, it helps him relax. Scaramouch will compliment you sometimes, but not in front of others, and the moment you compliment him, he's a blushing mess. Now, if he overhears anyone talking badly about you, he won't hesitate to step in. He has a sharp tongue and can shut down anyone who even mentions your name. He's a protective husband, even the thought of losing you scares him. This does lead to Scaramouche being jealous a lot of times, but with reassurance that you won't leave him, he learns to trust that you'll always be there.
Venti
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Being married to Venti is a roller coaster ride. He's loud, flirty, and full of energy most of the time. Of course, he does get serious, and you know about his true identity, he doesn't want to keep any secrets from you. Venti is grateful that you accepted him for who he is. He's a huge tease, always trying to make you blush. He'll compliment you every day to remind you how amazing he thinks you are. He also loves playing music for you, especially when you can't sleep. He's a very charming, very loving husband.
Neuvillette
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Neuvellette is a very busy man but despite that, he always makes time to spend with you. You often visit him in his office, which he appreciates since being around you helps him unwind. You two don't need to talk to each other, just sitting there in silence is something both of you enjoy. When Neuvellette isn't busy, he will bring you on simple yet romantic dates that both of you enjoy. He enjoys seeing you smiling, it makes him smile. Neuvellette isn't very good at showing his emotions, yet he tries his best for your sake. He wants to make you feel appreciated. Neuvellette is very sensitive deep down, and he always turns to you when he gets emotional. You two are each others' rocks.
Lyney
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Lyney is eccentric, it's just his personality. He will tease you every time he gets the chance, just to see you blush. He rarely ever calls you by your actual name, there's a long list of nicknames he has for you. Lyney will surprise you with hugs from behind, and randomly kissing your cheek. You always show up to his shows, sitting in the front row. Every time he spots you in the crowd, he can't help but smile. Even outside of his shows, he'll perform small magic tricks for you, especially making flowers appear. Though deep down, he feels protective. Lyney's childhood was rough and there are times when he doesn't think he deserves you, you know about him being involved with the fatui, but you understand that he isn't a bad person. He's grateful that you don't hate him for it, he just really loves you and doesn't want to lose you.
Kazuha
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Kazuha is a very gentle man, he always speaks softly and never gets angry. Being married to him is very romantic, and he loves writing poems for you, that he'll recite for you. Seeing the way you smile when he does makes him smile as well. Kazuha loves cuddling, he loves physical affection in general, it's his love language. He loves playing with your hair, he finds himself doing it when the two of you are alone. He's also very protective of you, he's already lost someone close to him once, and he doesn't want to go through it again. He's usually next to you, an arm around your waist as he pulls you close. Kazuha is the best husband you could ask for.
Heizou
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Heizou absolutely adores making you blush. He's a very teasing husband who's happy when he sees you flustered. You two aren't only married, but you also work together. And you work well together since you tend to know what the other is thinking. Heizou is very proud of the fact that he's married to you, and he loves showing you off. If anyone flirts with you, he doesn't get jealous. He trusts that you won't cheat on him, and you trust him as well. Your marriage is one full of love and embarrassing each other as often as possible.
Gorou
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Gorou is a very soft person deep down, despite being a general. He's just so in love with you, and he isn't afraid to show it. He absolutely adores physical affection, especially cuddling. Something else he loves is when you play with his ears and tail, usually, it bothers him when someone does that, but you're an exception. He also loves playing with your hair in return, he'll also randomly kiss your cheek. Gorou also knows that he's made a lot of enemies and he worries that they will come after you as a result. That's why he always keeps an eye on you, afraid you'll get hurt. He's a very dedicated husband who will do whatever he can to keep you safe.
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hello :D could u maybe do some hcs on wht dylan lenivy would be like as a boyfriend nd what kinda stuff him and reader would do together
sure!! decided to combine this with another request because they're essentially the same thing. i hope you both enjoy!
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tws: amputation (dylan's hand post game), mentioned violence but nothing descriptive
dating dylan lenivy headcanons (the quarry)
first off, he is so funny. he always knows just what to say to make you laugh and to cheer you up. he's the funniest person you've probably ever met and he knows it. he makes the strangest jokes ever but you always at least chuckle at them, just because it's him telling them
he's much more than just his jokes, though. he's compassionate and very caring. he's putting you before himself every chance he gets
dylan falls for you first. you're sweet to the kids and you're always checking up on him. you're able to read him really well. you know that his jokes are just a front right from the beginning
he confesses to you first and you almost think he's just being playful until you look up at him and see the completely serious expression on his face
it results in a long, heartfelt conversation about your feelings towards each other and you'd been dating ever since
when the events of the game happen, the two of you are stuck together like glue. you tell him, "if you die, i die" and he feels the insatiable urge to try to protect you
after dylan's hand gets cut off, he worries you won't like him anymore. of course, you reassure him and even make jokes about it to cheer him up. he thinks he's a fool for even thinking that you'd leave him because of his hand
as an amputee, he struggles with phantom pains (a pain that feels like it's coming from a body part that's no longer there). he pokes fun at it a lot, but you can tell that he's actually really scared because of the loss of his limb and having to adjust to a new life without it
he has to relearn how to do a lot of basic things with one hand and you're there for him every step of the way. he expresses his gratitude a lot. he'd be lost without you, and a lot more tears would be shed if he didn't have you around
he's definitely the type of guy to show you off to anyone. if someone even brings you up he goes, "oh yeah, my partner". he is so head over heels for you it annoys all of the other counselors
they're all really happy for both of you, don't get me wrong. dylan just rubs the fact that he got some in their faces (affectionately) and it makes jacob very frustrated
he's affectionate, both in public and in private. he's happy with PDA and he'll actually encourage it if it's something you're okay with. he does love to show you off, as mentioned before <3
an arm around your shoulders, his hand in yours, a light touch on your face to brush your hair away. he loves touching you, and it's one of his love languages
he's a gentle person. he can come off as loud and (slightly) annoying at first, but he's the opposite. he wants to be liked by people and usually just puts up an act in front of those he doesn't know that well in the beginning
he gives great hugs. they're so comforting. his height is an added bonus in any form of physical affection with him. he makes you feel so safe
dylan talks a lot about your future with him and it's clear that he wants to be with you for the rest of his life. he brings up marriage often and you just roll your eyes. you're both young, but you wonder what being married to him would be like
even though he makes jokes about 'wifing you up' (he'll use this term no matter your identity unless you don't like it), he actually means it. he's so serious about spending his life with you because he just adores you so much
he's defensive over you and your image, especially when you aren't around. he takes no one talking poorly about you and he makes it known that if someone has a problem with you, then that extends to him too
he's a great listener and he knows what to say to comfort you. he can be serious but his jokes also cheer you up a lot when you're feeling down
dylan's love for you is so obvious. he's completely fallen for you and you have him wrapped around your finger even if you don't realize it
he looks at you with the softest expression on his face and love in his eyes. he admires you and everything you do
he's so proud of you and he makes sure you know it. every time you do anything he's always telling you about how well you did it or how good it looks
he's never met anyone who understands him as well as you do. you never push him too far and you're checking in on him all the time, asking him about his day and how he's doing
it might be the bare minimum to some people, but you're doing that and more. if he's feeling bad, you bring him whatever he needs. he does the exact same for you
you both have a very heathy relationship and dylan knows for a fact that he found the one person destined for him
he's your number one fan <3 he plans on bothering (loving) you for a very long time
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ballad-of-birdy-lamb · 4 months
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could you please write something for coral?? She is so underrated 🙏🙏💕💕
Me x Coral frfr
Coral x gender neutral! Reader (romantic headcanons)
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Summary: romantic headcanons with Coral and gender neutral! Reader
Contains: lowkey toxic Coral, headcanons intermixed for District Four, before, and during the Games
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Coral doesn't treat her partners any differently than she would anyone else, only difference is being able to kiss her lover. Doesn't mean she isn't as aggressive with her partners, it's not very fun when she's being rough, especially with her strength.
Growing up in a violent environment, doesn't lead to healthy viewings of love, notably when people have killed each other to feed themselves. So, don't expect her to have an extremely healthy view of love with you.
That doesn't mean she isn't kind to you. She does gain a softer tone and touch when you have her full attention.
Coral isn't vocal about love other than calling you romantic names she finds funny. Watching your nose scrunch from annoyance because of the name she would give you would always make her laugh.
She is more likely to physically show affection than vocally. Holding hands is good but kissing is one of her favourites.
Brings you things that remind her of you, like a cat. Before her time in the arena, she would spend her day at the docks. Her free time full of sitting in the watery sand and picking out the shells she liked. And Coral would bring them home and properly clean them to gift them to you.
Of course, she expects more if she gifts them to you but it's mostly just a kiss per shell. Nothing too expensive, it's not like you weren't going to kiss her for the gifts alone. So, she might as well get more from it.
If you're both tributes, Coral will treat you differently if you aren't from the same district, mainly because she doesn't know you enough and she can't always trust you, even if she holds more affection for you than others.
One of the things that comes with getting power over others is becoming manipulative. And the same happens with Coral. It's not a slow reveal, it's a very quick and obvious sign from the beginning, she knows what she's doing and doesn't care. As long as her or you/Mizzen get home, she doesn't care what she has to do.
It wouldn't be far off if she chose to abuse the power over you or others in the group (if you're from a different District). But Coral wouldn't hold romantic things over the other tributes, unlike how she would with you.
Her holding things like getting the water or food would be 'paid' with a kiss for either. If you genuinely feel love for each other, she'll be gentler about it, doing it with a soft smile.
If you were in the Games with her and were from the same District, she would treat you far better than the other tributes. Speaking softly to you simply because she had a softness for you long before the Hunger Games.
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The headcanon of Coral becoming greedier with her power was actually from someone talking about the cut parts of the move, she was supposed to be more manipulative.
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I'm thinking about Bob' Burgers again
I've been thinking about Linda and Bob Belcher a lot lately. Bob's Burgers is my favorite show and I've noticed that everyone who watches the show shares most of the same opinions on things (almost all of them positive, very few being negative) but one thing I've seen quite a few people say is that Bob and Linda aren't good parents. They say Bob doesn't care about anything except the restaurant and Linda favors Gene and is the typical "boy mom" and as a kid whose parents are those exact things I have thoughts about it.
At no point in the show does Bob ever put anything over the well-being of his family, but he does it in subtle ways. We obviously know the restaurant is his dream, but from the movie, you can tell he cares more about it being a source of livelihood for his family, keeping a roof over their heads, and keeping them safe. He did not hesitate to follow Linda into the Mole Hill when he saw the kids' bikes. once he realized he might be taking their childhood from them like his dad did at his restaurant he didn't hesitate to fire them so they could go live their lives and have a good childhood and he didn't hesitate to go get them from the weird old people's pot farm. That episode where Gene has a bully and he tries his hardest to help him out without hesitation. The Thomas Edison episode where they think Tina's hurt and he got to her the fastest despite being portrayed as someone who hates physical activity and never does it. The stone the witch game he plays with the kids where they're throwing pillows at him and jumping all over him while he's reading and smiling so huge because he just loves having his kids around. He got his legs waxed to help Tina through her fear! It wasn't "you're too young" or "that's a stupid thing to worry about" it was "it's your body and this is your worry and also I don't know how shaving works so I'll help you through waxing"
And Linda? Linda so very obviously loves Gene but I don't think she favors him or has that toxic boy mom mentality. When Gene started dating Courtney she was so excited for him to have a new person in his life who could see how cool he was. But when Louise fell into the crime hole? The only thing she cared about was her kids safety. When Tina and Bob told her they got into that accident in the parking lot with Jimmy Pestos car and her first reaction was to scream in terror and concern for her daughter. She loves everything her kids do, she supports them in all their ventures and runs into danger for them at the drop of a dime. Her kids feel safe enough to come to her when they have problems. She brought Louise to the mother-daughter seminar because she couldn't understand why Louise didn't love her and she just wanted to be able to spend time with her and bond with her and once she found the right way to do it she put in the most effort. She sacrificed her valentine's day with Bob to help Tina after she got her heart broken. She's able to bond so easily with Gene because they love all the same things, they're basically the same person, but that doesn't mean that he's her favorite. It means they like the same things and are both more open with physical and verbal affection. Tina and Louise aren't like that and she respects them and that quality and she adapts to it and loves them the way they need and like to be shown love.
My point is that Bob and Linda are top tier parents and are tied for best tv parents with Gomez and Morticia Addams. They still make mistakes but they love their kids and each other and they're like the most functional fictional family I've ever seen, despite being chaotic and weird. There will be no Belcher slander on this blog or like ever
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Y'all, I have been in a whirlwind trying to formulate all my thoughts on this subject into something even mildly coherent. Here it is!
This is my perspective of Eddie and his relationship with physical affection. (A response to my analysis of Buck not being as tactile as the fandom thinks.)
First things first: I excluded Eddie's canon romantic relationships, Christopher, and most patients on calls (you'll see). There's just too much to dissect between those individually, let alone all together.
Okay! Let's go!
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Let's start with Eddie's family. Compared to Buck, Eddie has several members of his family who are openly affectionate with him. His Tia Pepa and Abuela in particular. You can tell his comfort level with them at just a glance, how he welcomes their touches and easily shows them affection in return.
The issue comes from his parents. Especially his father.
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It's an issue that doesn't even begin a road to recovery until the end of season 5. Compared to the bright, freely given attention he gives his new family, Eddie has a distinctly different reaction to physical contact from his dad.
Distinct from the multiple hugs he gets from Bobby, a developing father figure in his life.
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Which says a lot, seeing as all three of these hugs occured within the first year of Eddie's arrival at the 118. (All in Season 2).
It cements that touch and physical affection aren't just important to Eddie, but a major love language for him.
This doesn't mean Eddie is outright affectionate with everyone, or even overly affectionate with the people he loves. It just means that small contacts can be a way for him to express himself. And it's not limited to his team.
Eddie can extend this love language to complete strangers if he relates to them enough. For instance, the marine they met on a Christmas call.
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This soldier, fresh from war, saves a fellow passenger on his ride home after the bus crashes. Literally seconds before, Eddie demonstrated the proper way to assess a patient using a flashlight. Yet, Eddie grabs the soldier's shoulder and assesses him by eye.
Why? Because the man already demonstrated his functionality while assisting the team with their patient. The firm grip on his shoulder is to ground him as Eddie asks for his condition.
Learning he's desperate to get to his daughter's recital, the 118 decide to take care of it. On the way there, he focuses on changing out of bloody clothes. However, there's limited space in the firetruck. Eddie inserts himself several times to help (not really). He tugs at his button-down to straighten (?) it, holds his boot as the soldier ties it. Small things that don't make a huge difference but show support for the stranger and his cause. (Adorable.)
Another instance is with Lena Bosko.
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The first time they meet, Lena is injured but not entirely inhibited. She walks freely without issue. The reason Eddie is lined against her left is to physically block her injured side from the busy rush of the hospital. So no one bumps her.
As coworkers, they confide in each other and discuss how they work through issues. Lena identifies their shared emotional ties with physicality and suggests fighting as an outlet. Through this, Eddie takes it further and falls into a dark spiral of physical aggression and emotional suppression.
His reflection on street fighting helps him identify when others are struggling with similar issues later. He speaks from experience, and it does help them in the end.
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His growth is also reflected after he relapses into physical destruction. And it, again, reveals his love language.
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He didn't trust himself to show love. Street fighting revealed how his language could represent the opposite, and he felt it again at the loss of his entire military team.
Buck is the one to put Chris to bed. Eddie keeps his distance, curls himself away, and never reaches out. But he wants comfort. He rocks himself gently, making self-soothing gestures as he rubs his fingers over his skin.
Tragically, as previously discussed, Buck doesn't offer that comfort because Eddie doesn't explicitly indicate that he needs it.
And Buck is such an important person to him.
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He will move himself to the front of a crowd just to hug him first. Even if Buck struggles with physical affection, Eddie could identify when Buck truly needed it to get his point across. A point not just about Buck's place in his son's world, but in his.
Eddie rarely initiates direct physical contact anymore and that may be due to Buck's lack of touch from anyone. He's careful, because it could be assumed that Buck doesn't typically want a lot of affection. So, how would Eddie, someone who shows love through touch, approach this?
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Hen was shown dragging training dummies along the floors of the firehouse. She's strong. Still, Eddie decided to stay with her under the guise of pulling Buck from under the firetruck when he could have easily went to help lift the monstrosity off of him. But that would mean pulling his hand out of Buck's when it was already holding his so tightly.
Buck knows how to put on a harness by season 4, yet Eddie is there, assisting.
Eddie reaches out - maybe multiple times - to Buck after he's been shot.
And who could miss that small press of his hand to Buck's back while Eddie fights to keep his composure after a call triggers him?
These may seem as more of a comfort for Eddie than Buck, because they are. Eddie finds comfort in being near Buck. Near people he trusts. It's no wonder he started to freak when his hands were restrained after being dosed.
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And I know we all laughed at Hen essentially calling out the lack of personal space him and Buck share. But it's important to remember that, yes, he does this with Buck, but he also saw no issue in doing it with Hen. Because he trusts Hen. And it is a show of love that he thought nothing of it to be in the same space. Even if she needed her bubble, which he had no issue in supplying. 😂
TL:DR : While Buck struggles with his perceived inability to show physical affection, it is very much a love language for Eddie. That core difference is shown in how they interact with each other, and the people around them.
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Astrovations #16
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Dionysus (3671) in the 12th - can show someone who can get easily swept into addictions or be quite affected by whatever drug they choose. Saw this in a relatives chart
PoF (Part of Fortune) in the same sign as one of your big 3/conjunct sun or moon works too/also ascendant - Can really make a developed house. Let's make an example. Let's say you have a Moon in Scorpio but you also have your PoF in Scorpio. This can make you have the good and developed qualities of a Scorpio moon. You will likely be observant, able to hold secrets but without a price, non-manipulative, etc. If PoF is conjunct the ascendant then you will have a better first impression even if you make slight mistakes. They may go unnoticed or just slide by in some way. I've seen this amongst a friends chart and wanted to note it down just incase it made sense and I wasn't missing anything xD
Asteroid Angel (11911) opposite saturn - Can show angel guides who may come off in a bad light, per say?? If you've ever had those moments of "well do they really care? It just seems like I'm going through a mess. Like I'm all alone with no help" this is probably why. This aspect brings angels who seek to help you overcome karma more forwardly. They may come off as overlly stern sometimes but this is because they want the best for you. This doesn't mean they aren't gentle! (This can go for conjunct as well however-) also the angel could have very father-like qualities in their energy and hoe they approach your situations in life. Angel guides here are calculative and like you to take your time on your lessons or obstacles rather than speed through them
Chiron in 10th of IC Persona Chart - parents possibly struggled in career at some point or enough for it to be noticed
Significant Libra placements - I feel like most if not all people with these energies in their chart have been through some similar experiences when it comes to expressing themselves. I've had personal experience as well as met many people with this who have had at least someone in their life try to block their self expression when it comes to how they present themselves physically or emotionally. That being said you might have been criticized at times for how you dress "why that style?" Or "no, you're not wearing that you're a [gender]". Maybe it's your hair? "no no that haircut doesn't suite you" "you don't look good in that" The emotional route would be "your acting fake, stop", "grow up some and stop being so sensitive". Ohh oh let's not forget the fairness. I've noticed if they're treated unfairly they can get severely hurt emotionally. They just loath the idea of it honestly. They can't tolerate seeing it or being in it
Bacchus (2063) conjunct anothers Bacchus (Also possibly Bacchus conjunct anothers Ascendant/Sun // Synastry - I've literally seen these both love to indulge in each other, which is like a "duh" with how this asteroid acts 🤣🤣. Whether it be spending time with each other or just wanting to have any form of fun with one another. It's like they each find their sense of pleasure from being around each other, as if that was enough or they want more of them. If this is a toxic relationship then this can make a clingy seperation unfortunately
PoF opposite Chiron - Part of your fortune is the hardships you went through with your chiron placement. Chiron taught you enough to heal from it and grow. You may be well learned in the area Chiron is placed. This fortunate position can also allow you to easily heal others who went through similar Chiron circumstances and to see through their point of view. Your fortune is your challenges. They bring you growth and personal/soul development
AC conjunct IC//Synastry - I have this aspect with a childhood friend that's my closest friend still (kindergarten until now)
Transit Moon in the 12th house - I had his and went through a period of depression and insecurity. Then as it went on I began to feel better and come to terms with my emotions. It's like I needed to let out that emotional jar I had in me because it healed as I used them more!
Libra Risings - From what I've noticed have an innocent pair of eyes. Like even if they may seem slightly intimidating body-wise, their eyes hold a charm of kindness for some reason. I'd describe it as soft and welcoming
Salome (562) // Synastry - I've noticed shows what one finds absolutely captivating about another. It's something about the person that makes our heart throb and want to know more about to another level. Whatever one of their houses your Salome sits in, is where you just can't get enough of and vice versa!
Leo Sun - All the leo Suns I've met have some form of mischief in their personality. Teasing people and playing small pranks (idk why 😭)
Urania (30) in the 3rd - Has possibly tried to bring up astrology or astronomy in conversations before. They enjoy talking about it in general and can actually feel motivated to write notes on it or start observations at some point (I have this :)
Saturn opposite Uranus // Synastry - I've seen this aspect where the Saturn person constricts the Uranus persons freedom in some way. The Saturn person may be more serious when it comes to how the Uranus person goes out or spends their time. If the Uranus person has different ways of thinking that are unconventional or rebel how the Saturn person thinks then this can cause some heated debates. The Saturn person often feels like they should control the Uranus persons eccentric nature or style (it can be at a minimum or maximum it just depends on the chart) I've also seen where if the Uranus wants to try something a bit randomly or 'bizarre' with their routine or style then the Saturn person can point out why it wouldn't be a good idea or the Uranus person would regret it. This is basically a good example of one being more cautious or stern and the other being more laid back and 'free-spirited' in a way!
Shigei (8276) in the 4th - can show someone in your child hood who possibly collected items, was a hoarder or just had quite a clutter of things somewhere in the house. This can also indicate everything always being on edge slightly, like there's some type of issue arising just around the corner more often
Pluto in the 1st/Especially conjunct ascendant - I saw someone with this and OH. MY. LORD. THE ENERGY. Ugh I can't even describe it. It's not bad (not for my scorpio venus at least 😏💖) but like brO. The energy is sO heavy. Like anyone who can feel energy, y'all are in for a treat with these placements because- that's the only way I can describe it, is heavy. Powerful and striking. It's like someone extremely important is walking by and etc. It's a whole other ball game but I absolutely adore this energy. If the person also has a scorpio rising it just makes it more powerful honestly
WHICH ALSO LEADS ME TO BELIEVE // Venus - If someone has the ruler of your Venus sign conjunct their ascendant. You will most likely have a crush on them (EX: Scorpio Venus might fall in love or have a crush on someone who has pluto conjunct their ascendant)
Priapus (h22) conjunct Ascendant // Synastry - I've seen in different charts the Priapus person has a physical sexual attraction to the Ascendant person. However the Ascendant person may (as the Greek story goes) be unattainable. For instance, I saw someone had a sexual attraction to a celebrity and has this placement. They were Priapus, the celebrity the Ascendant which was unattainable. I have this synastry with one of my best friends. She is Priapus and has wanted to have a physical relationship with me and told me she loves me sexually however as the Ascendant person I am into women in a more romantic way personally (unattainable in a sense) we didn't end up getting in a relationship (still friends tho! :D)
Mercury opposite Mars // Synastry - Idk if I've said this before but just in case, definitely seen this in charts of people who bicker and start small arguments over petty things 😂😂
Saturn square Uranus // Synastry - Saw this play out where the Saturn person is restrictive of how the Uranus person expresses themeselves. Like the Uranus person was into new age stuff, liked eccentric styles and had new world beliefs, but the Saturn person wasn't into that stuff (was also quite traditional) and cringed at it often. Causes friction for sure
Synastry // How you view them and vice versa - Whicher planets of yours are conjunct another persons ascendant will show you how you view them (Ex - I have sun and mercury conjunct my older brothers ascendant, I generally see him as logical, smart, confident and funny) there are moments where I've seen this play out where both people feel the planets energy off of each other however I've seen more of the first scenario personally :)
Ascendant ruler in the 2nd house - May be a total foodie however very careful with how they look. So they may really enjoy food but if they start noticing any weight gain it will effect their self esteem
6th house ruler in the 8th/12th - Possibly a hypochondriac. 8th because the house can represent death and sudden extremes. 12th because it can represent the mind and anxieties, paranoia, etc. I'm not diagnosing just leaving the thought on the table ^
Random Observation - I have my ascendant at Scorpio 0° and I noticed someone who had pluto conjunct their ascendant and we have very similar styles, and first impressions on people it's cool but interesting! 😌
Jupiter opposite Venus - As stereotypical as it may sound I've actually seen someone with this be full of love. Always showing affection towards others very often even if it's out of the blue. This placement makes someone very sweet and caring 🥰
Neptune - I've realized over time may actually indicate a place that we can be quite curious of. I say this because Neptune is known as the foggy planet, the planet that creates a mask to cover up the reality of a situation. Neptunes placement will show you where you may question from time to time. For instance, my neptune sits in the 4th, conjunct IC. I don't know much about my family history, I'm not close with my Mom's side of the family too much + I don't know anything really about my Bio dads side of the family. Not only this but there are snippets of my childhood blocked out of my memory, some things I remember as if it were HD and others are like murky water. In this house I catch myself being driven by curiosity to find out my ancestry, relatives, unspoken history, family 'secrets' or info that was never talked about. I will mention, I'm still finding out new info to this day
Uranus 7th house//Vedic Navamsa D9 - NOW NOW, I know traditionally Uranus, Neptune and Pluto are not used in Vedic, however I personally believe all the planets should be included as each holds energy, so I've added them into my own Vedic studies. So if you disagree dw I totally get it! You don't have to read on 🥰 on with the note, my mother has this in her 7th house of her Navamsa chart and she actually did get divorced. Now it took awhile (Saturns in the same house) however finally it did happen :)
This was kinda short imo sorry
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the-cooler-kira · 2 years
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Can I get hc’s for Jotaro with a very touchy and affectionate girlfriend? Like she’s always hugging her friends, cuddling with them, they carry each other, sit on each other’s laps, they’ll even drink from the same cup/bottle without straws not doing a waterfall cause they’re just that comfortable with each other.
Jotaro Kujo headcanons: having a physically affectionate girlfriend
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While Jotaro is closed off and appears to hate such physical affection that you give out so freely, that won't stop him from feeling a burning jealousy every time you're touchy with your friends.
With straight girl or gay guy friends of yours, he doesn't feel intimidated. At all. If anything, your friends are more scared of the giant that is your boyfriend. You probably have to initiate it first so your friend can relax... until they notice the cold hawk eyes Jotaro is glaring them down with.
With straight guy or gay girl friends of yours, however, it is a different story. Jotaro is more willing to endure your relentless affection and PDA. Again, not that he feels intimidated. But he may be worried in case they can offer something he can't: a mentally stable boyfriend, or a girlfriend.
You would have to have known him for a while, for him to be okay with you being that comfortable with him and others.
The first time you sat on one of your friends laps he literally picked you up like you weighed nothing and put you on his lap, making sure you were leaning into him, one arm around your waist while the other nonchalantly rested by his side. Maybe even holding a cigarette to keep up his cool façade.
Meanwhile the friend was secretly panicking and staring because they thought their life was about to end.
"The fuck are you staring at?"
You'd be lying if you said you didn't find it attractive.
Needless to say he doesn't want you sitting on other people's laps.
But sharing drinks and hugging he's fine with.
Maybe the picking up? Maybe if it's straight up anyone who aren't attracted to girls.
But he'll pick you up himself sometimes to prove he's stronger than your friends. True alpha behaviour right there.
His mother, Holly, was ecstatic when he brought you home for the first time and saw the way you showed your love for him. (Thats sounds much worse out of context, but I mean that in a wholesome way I swear.)
You get along well with her: every time she sees you she hugs you. Your boyfriend may act annoyed, but he secretly enjoys the fact that the two most important women in his life get along.
"You're just jealous, Jojo!"
"I am not jealous," he grimaced at your antics.
"Keep telling yourself that."
As for Jotaro himself? He would be indifferent to the PDA, at first, assuming this is sent in part 3.
On the trip to Egypt, however, he finds himself missing your presence and touch. When he comes back and initiates the affection let's just say you were pleasantly surprised.
In part 4, you can already imagine how surprised the kids are to see the hard-ass that is Jotaro Kujo have such an affectionate wife and even reciprocate some of the more low-key affections.
By part 6, he's a softie. Always keeping an arm around your waist and trying to be near to you because he knows you'll smother him in affection if he shows he needs it.
Obviously (hopefully) you still have friends that you're comfortable with and Jotaro calms down with the jealousy because he knows you're loyal and that it's just how you show your trust/platonic love for your friends.
All in all, the ever-stoic Kujo may act annoyed when you shower him with affection and pretend like he doesn't care when you get touchy with your friends
might have slightly off topic as these are the first headcanons I've done! hope it was ok @jotaro-kujos-wife
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cryaboutitpal · 1 month
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Discussing what happened between Marshmallow and Paintbrush.
(This analysis post is going to primarily focus on Paintbrush. Sorry Marshmallow fans.)
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As we know, Marshmallow decided to abandon Inanimate Insanity during episode 11 of season 2 and was officially disqualified in episode 12. What I don't see a lot of people talking about though is the relationship between Marshmallow and Paintbrush and just how much hurt this could have possibly caused the poor artist.
So, let's take a look at the whole ordeal together in my attempt at an analysis post and see how this all affected Paintbrush. Marshmallow won't be mentioned too much because I'm mainly focusing on Painty here, not Marsh.
Let's not waste anymore time! Let's go! The analysis is under the cut!
1: Marshmallow and Paintbrush's friendship
(Kinda surprised LightBrush is more shipped than MarshBrush tbh. As much as I love LightBrush, MarshBrush is much more plausible.)
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From what we (the viewers) have been shown, these two are pretty close. From that one Santa ploy they schemed together to trick Apple in episode 9 season 1 to Paintbrush helping Marshmallow hide from Apple in episode 6 season 2, they were commonly shown helping each other and in general just being best buds.
Bare in mind, all that is simply what's shown! I know they're fictional characters and all but still! Imagine all the shit they could've done together off camera! (If that was possible, of course.)
So, with the context that Paintbrush and Marshmallow were extremely close... Doesn't the whole "Marsh abandoning the game to live with Bow, Dough and Apple" thing seem much more tragic already?
No?
Don't worry, I'll show you just how tragic it truly is.
2: Abandonment and the (assumed) circumstances behind it
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We all know why Marshmallow abandoned the game. Here's the thing though: just because we, the viewers know the reason doesn't mean that they, the characters know that reason.
Paintbrush doesn't know that Marshmallow simply got sick of the game and wanted to live with Bow. They have no idea where she is or if she's even alive.
Not only that... They probably think they are at fault as well.
I'll tell you my reasoning as to why I think they blame themself.
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The episode right before Marshmallow abandoned the game (episode 10, season 2) Paintbrush lost it right in front of Marsh and assaulted Fan. Verbally and physically. Doesn't help that the run in with some of their other teammates ended with Paintbrush calling Marshmallow, telling her that they were leaving.
I doubt Paintbrush meant to seem as controlling as I made them sound. They just got frustrated, that happens.
That doesn't mean they don't blame themself now, does it?
I mean, if you got angry in front of your best friend and that anger led to you hitting someone and storming off, dragging your friend along right before they mysteriously vanished, never to be seen again... Well, who wouldn't blame themself for that?
Again, Paintbrush isn't evil. They aren't exactly good but they certainly didn't want to control Marsh. If anything, they wanted to help her. It's just that their anger got in the way and now she's left them.
Things get even worse however...
3: Lightbulb's time travelling shenanigans
(Great quality screenshot, Akemi. You could probably count the pixels in that goddamn thing.)
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Lightbulb fucking around with time in of itself didn't really do much about the whole situation. What I want to talk about is something that is barely even touched on, if at all.
Like with Marshmallow leaving the game, the cast didn't know that Test Tube and Lightbulb were time travelling and messing about in an alternate universe like us viewers do. To the cast, they just disappeared.
Sounds familiar, doesn't it? Yep, it's similar to Marshmallow going AFK.
Not only that, the circumstances are similar as well, at least to Painty.
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They got angry with a teammate, hurt a teammate (emotionally this time) and walked off mad.
Considering how Lightbulb disappeared basically right after this scene, Paintbrush probably thought that Lightbulb had left them forever.
Just like Marshmallow.
Granted, Paintbrush displays a positive reaction to the news but... How do we know that they were actually happy about Lightbulb suddenly going missing? What if they were mentally tearing their bristles out or something? That had to have felt some guilt and self-hatred over the whole thing, right?
Faking a smile is basically Lightbulb's whole character (heavily watered down but still kinda right), I wouldn't doubt that Paintbrush would fake one as well.
Remember: actions and thoughts can be separate! A character could look happy but actually be extremely sad and self-loathing!!
At least Lightbulb didn't actually disappear forever like Marshmallow. That probably made Paintbrush feel a little less guilty. Keyword: a little. Not entirely. They still don't know where Marshmallow is and still probably blame themself for her leaving the game.
Not entirely a happy ending but more bittersweet, kinda like their season 2 elimination.
So, in conclusion. Paintbrush's conscience is probably a guilty one due to Marshmallow leaving them and never coming back.
(I could still be wrong though, feel free to correct me.)
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(This is where I got the "Lightbulb faking a smile" thing from. Check it out, it's really good!!)
Anyway, Sayonara!
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callsign-bunnie · 1 year
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What would everyone's love language be?
Giving / Receiving
Soap: Quality time / Physical touch . He loves giving people his time and loves receiving affection in return. He goes crazy for anyone running their fingers through his hair.
Ghost: Physical touch / Words of affirmation . He knows that he doesn't touch people much so it's his way of being like "hey I like you". He has a lot of insecurities so it's nice to hear that things aren't as awful as they feel.
Rodolfo: Acts of Service / Physical touch . Growing up, it was kind of made clear that people like you when you do stuff for them, so it kind of stuck. He is very touch starved, someone hug him
Alejandro: Acts of service / Quality time . He likes doing things for people to show he likes them. Also loves doing stuff together and going on dates.
Price: Words of Affirmation / Physical touch . He's kind of awkward, love wise, so thinks just going "you did good" is showing it. Also touch starved, cuddle him please.
Gaz: Physical touch / Gifts . He's a hugger. Loves hugging people. Also, likes receiving things because he knows it means you were thinking of him. Goes crazy for notes.
Graves: Gifts / Physical touch . I think he loves buying gifts for people. Also loves being touched, especially his hair and shoulders.
Valeria: Gifts / Gifts . Look, she's awkward, she doesn't know how to show love or receive love in non material ways.
Farah: Gifts / Quality time . She likes to show she was thinking of someone by buying them random crap that made her think of them. Her idea of a good date is hanging out in the same vicinity as each other, watching a movie, and not talking.
Alex: Gifts / Physical touch. Also loves showing he was thinking of them by buying stuff that reminds him of them. He is a cuddler, he is big spoon, but he loves being cuddled back.
Laswell: Gifts / Words of affirmation . She is randomly buying her wife things, for no reason. However, her wife can get her to do whatever she wants with praise and pretty words.
Roach: Quality time / Quality time . My man's just loves spending time with people.
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sweetlilbird · 1 year
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Hey hun! For the headcanon asks, I was wondering in you had any thoughts on the guys’ love languages (either giving or receiving, whichever you want) for underfell, fellswap and horror tale?
And congrats on the 100 followers!! 💕
Of course! And thank you! (´,,•ω•,,)♡
Underfell:
Red: For giving, Red is all about physical touch. Whether it's a hand hovering over your lower back as you're talking with someone, him resting his chin on your shoulder, or even pulling you in for a tight squeeze, Red shows most of his affection and feelings for you through touch. It's much easier when words fail him (which is all of the time).
For receiving, however, he actually prefers words of affirmation! Most of the time, he's stuck in his head thinking he's no good and how on earth he managed to find someone like you - that's where you come in a tell him exactly what he means to you! Red will blush like crazy and try to brush it off, but he's a sucker for sweet words.
Edge: For giving, acts of service all the way for Edge. Like Red, he is not so good with words, so he shows his love for you through his actions; cooking your favorite meal after a long day at work/school, helping you out with chores because he wants you to take a break, things like that! Though, he tends to be a bit overbearing with this, so if it's becoming too much for you, it's best to tell him so. He'd hate to make you feel like you are incapable! He just wants to help.
For receiving, give this skeleton tons and tons of physical touch! Edge will act like he doesn't want to be snuggled, but he desperately craves the attention and touch. Rub his skull as he lays down on your lap or kiss him on the underside of his chin and he'll be putty in your hands.
Fellswap:
Black: For giving, Black is also an acts of service type of guy, just in a slightly different way than Edge. Black will actually completely take over tasks for you, without asking of course, insisting that you go and rest while he takes care of it. This can be a point of contention with some people, and just like with Edge, you're going to have to tell him if it's too much. Black doesn't quite understand the issue at first, as he is only trying to show you that he's capable of caring for you, but once you explain it to him, he'll ease up on it. Another giving language for him is words of affirmation! Black will notice if you were feeling down instantly, and in his very odd but charming way would comfort you with his words.
Receiving language for Black would have to be acts of service and physical touch morphed into one. Black works long, stressful hours and he'd love nothing more than to come home to his partner and rest. If you were to give him a back massage, run him a warm bath or even order his favorite take out, his sockets would be filled with hearts and possibly even tears. He loves to be pampered by his partner!
Rus: For giving, Rus is definitely a gift giver! However, his gifts aren't exactly what you'd think; he's a very crafty person and he loves working with his hands, so most of the time he's busy making little gifts for his partner during his down time. Things like scarves, small trinkets, even jewelry! He'd love to see you wear a necklace he made you from a small rock he found, wrapped in jewelry wire. Rus also likes to buy you things that pertain to your interests, like if you were really into a certain video game, he'd buy you little collectables to put on your shelves.
For receiving, Rus is big on quality time and physical touch! Rus enjoys parallel play - meaning he's completely content with the two of you doing different things but still sitting next to each other. You could be working on a new project while he sits beside you and plays a game, and he'd be completely content. He also loves hugging and being hugged, especially if you hug him from behind! You may be shorter than him, but he'll tell you that he likes having you as his little back pack!
Horrortale:
Bear: For giving, Bear is definitely a gift giver, but in a very different way. Bear likes to give his partner the gift of experiences, meaning he'll take you on small adventures all of the time! Bear loves taking his partner into the forest, foraging for different mushrooms and herbs. You two would be walking down a small trail and Bear would call for your attention towards him, only to find his arm outstretched towards you with a small little wildflower in his hand.
For receiving, Bear desperately needs words of affirmation. Due to his injury, he tends to forget a lot of things, and with that he is much more harsh to himself. He constantly berates himself for messing up on the smallest things, so it's good for him to have his partner remind him that he is not a failure and that they love him just the way he is. Bear also enjoys physical touch, but he'd prefer it if his partner didn't touch the top of his skull or his legs.
Sugar: For giving, Sugar is all about physical touch. He has a hard time believing that anyone would ever want to be with him of all monsters, so he's constantly touching his partner to remind himself that they are, in fact, real. Sugar likes to pet his partner's hair or rub the back of their neck, sometimes even pulling them towards him for a side snuggle.
For receiving, please give Sugar words of affirmation and physical touch; he is probably the most touch starved out of the skeletons. Sugar can barely look at himself in the mirror without either crying or being disgusted by his own appearance, so having his partner reassure him that he's beautiful and he's not broken really means a lot to him. Sugar, just like his brother, is also constantly berating himself for being unable to do even the most basic of tasks, mostly due to his back. He won't ask for them, but Sugar would very much appreciate back massages from his partner, to alleviate at least some of the pain. Plus, he really likes the way your fingers feel on his bones.
Thank you for your ask! I hope you enjoyed! 🥰
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sketch-guardian · 1 year
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If other people don't want to, then I shall ask! What are their hugs like? And what kind of hugs do they do? Do they enjoy physical contact?
Also, I'm not sure if you know since you mentioned anon asks, but your anons are turned off. If that's intentional ignore this!
That's a very considerate gesture😳you're too kind, thank you🙈💕I'll try my best to insert the requested info into separate headcanons, this way everything should be more organized. So let's begin with the questions!✨
WHAT ARE THEIR HUGS LIKE?
DEMYA
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Demya's hugs are warm and tight. She tends to squeeze,giggle and rock from side to side when she's happy and if she's feeling particularly clingy, she also rubs her face against MC's chest, cheeks or neck (Warning: those last acts may escalate into something else, like kisses or straight up hickeys, due to Demya having a sort of oral fixation-)
AZUL
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Azul's hugs are unexpected, unpredictable, just like him. Sometimes his hugs are as gentle as a breeze, while other times they're tight and quick, there's hardly a middle ground and he's a huge tease. Moreover, his body temperature changes depending on his mood, so if for example MC were to hug Azul when he's sad, they would feel cold (cold colors=cold skin) (warm colors=warm skin)
ZURI
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Zuri's hugs are comforting and quiet. Her embrace is almost as soft as having a blanket on and it would probably be able to melt MC's worries away, to make them feel safe. She tends to stroke MC's head or back if the hug lasts long enough and in the meantime she would be careful of her rather sharp nails of course
DOMNRA (MOBIM)
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Domnra's hugs are brief and they usually don't involve much physical contact with MC, but that doesn't mean they lack love. His body temperature is pretty warm, almost like a furnace, so that means that his hugs are quite cozy. Mobim's hugs are like cuddling with a teddy bear, comforting and squishy. MC just needs to mind its horns, because those are a bit hard and rough. And while Mobim's tail is smooth, it's still a bit heavy due to the "crystal-like" sphere on its end
ODON
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Odon's hugs are hesitant, as if they fear harming MC without meaning to. Moreover they aren't used to receiving affection, so they would be unsure on how to proceed, meaning that at the beginning Odon would need MC's guidance. Once learned how it's done, Odon's hugs would be characterized by a soft squeeze and a gentle hum
WHAT KIND OF HUGS DO THEY DO?
(I couldn't find good references images, so I just wrote how the hugs are called,I hope that's enough🙈)
DEMYA
The bear hug or the hug with twirling involved
AZUL
The back hug or the eye-to-eye hug
ZURI
The slow dance hug or the hug with resting heads on each other
DOMNRA (MOBIM)
The side hug or the hug around the waist (while Mobim would be kinda held like a baby-)
ODON
The patting hug or the catcher hug
DO THEY ENJOY PHYSICAL CONTACT?
DEMYA
Yes, she can be pretty clingy and she isn't ashamed to show it. She loves cuddles
AZUL
Another yes for him, he's kind of a flirt and likes PDA, because he's a show off-
ZURI
She doesn't mind physical contact as long it happens in private. She doesn't want unwanted attention either on herself or on MC
DOMNRA (MOBIM)
He says he doesn't like it, but that's just because he's a tsundere and he's too embarrassed to admit otherwise. Still, he prefers doing everything behind closed doors, because he has a reputation to uphold (Mobim loves physical contact, MC can hug it whenever they want)
ODON
They are touch starved, so I think you can guess what the answer is-
And done! I hope it's okay enough🙈also, you're right! Thank you for telling me, I didn't notice the anon asks were turned off, I'm an idiot🤣now they should be on👍🏻again, thank you!✨
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