hey y’all...let’s talk abt some things...
just wanted to let you know that im turning off asks for a while. i’ve realized that its becoming a point of anxiety for me that i do not want to have. and while i appreciate the kind messages i get sometimes, some of them are really invasive and recently ppl have been antagonizing me on anon about my gender identity and my race. i don’t have to prove anything to anyone, but let me make this clear, YET again: im a black queer nb femme. if you have questions abt my identity, think about why you need me to justify my existence for you. also, i think we need to discuss the ideas of being nice vs kind. i think it is nice to impart positive messages onto ppl, but if everyone is getting the same thing, it can come off as ingenuine, even if it comes from a good place. i love the idea of building community, but pls take the chance to get to know and appreciate me for me, not just my sims or what you see. my dms are open for anyone who wants to chat w me and i’ll share my discord w certain folks but i think we can all take a moment to think abt what community really means.
that’s my thoughts on this sunday morning, pls take this as a reminder that u can set boundaries whenever u need them and it’s okay to prioritize your feelings.
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