#kink mention

[ace-aro-queerplatonic-positivity]

Credit: insta @/acedadadvice

[there was no image description on Instagram or Facebook, I would welcome if someone wrote one into a reblog]

Obviously these terms aren’t set in stone, these definitions aren’t gospel, use whatever definition/ term you are most comfortable with!

I’m sharing this because I went “oh hey, it me!” when I saw this.

I have made it a point to call myself averse to sex consistently and I will keep using sex-aversion to describe my views. It’s nice to see this info-graphic mention aegosexuality in context of that :)

Because yea, I’m a sex-averse aego-ace

EDIT FOR CLARIFICATION: Aegosexual as a sub- / micro-label for asexuality is not inherently connected to being sex-averse. The mention of aegosexuality in this context refers to an aego-ace being comfortable with the fantasy/ idea/ imagination of sex without necessarily wanting to participate in those sexual acts. Many aegosexuals use the label because we prefer sexual fantasies and things we can remove ourselves from (aego literally meaning “without self”). Not all aego-aces are sex-averse. Which is precisely why I said “mentioned in the context of that” since aegosexuality is not inherent to being sex-averse and sex-aversion is not inherent to aegosexuality.

Also, please keep in mind this is about personal feelings towards sex and towards participating in sex. Most asexuals are sex-positive which means we support that everyone has the right to have as much or as little sex, as vanilla or as kinky, as they want to have.

Sex is not shameful, sex is simply something people can do with their bodies. Sex is exactly as meaningful/ intimate as the people participating want it to be. A bodily activity or the most intimate act to share with your chosen partner – it’s as important as you make it out to be, nothing more, nothing less.

#about me #about the mod #sex averse #sex repulsion #sex repulsed #sex aversion #sex positive asexual #sex positivity #sex positive #we are kink positive here sir #kink mention #kink positive #kink ment #acedadadvice #aegosexual #id in alt text #id included #image described #image description in alt

[echoes-lighthouse]

I’ve been seeing an increase in DNIs that list ‘freaks dni’ and it fills me with a visceral rage every single time. This is the freaks website!!!! It’s where I learned to be myself!! Fandoms and fandom conventions were made by freaks for freaks! 

I don’t CARE if you mean weird kinks or weird ships or weird clothes or weird obsessions, that’s all what tumblr is FOR!!! This is the one place where I learned to find community as an autistic, obsessive, queer teenager and I will be GODDAMNED if you shame other people like me into thinking they’re dangerous or broken. 

-last photo pose source- 

#i know i keep saying this in different forms #but DAMN #i see 'freaks dni' like multiple times a day now #what is happening in people's heads??? #proship #tw vent #kink mention #sebaciel #(mostly for blacklists if people care) #my art #hark i say nothing #tw caps

[princeminnow]

20oz sippy cup kickstarter! 💕

hi!! im really excited about this product and backed when it first got listed, but its been losing traction at about half of the monetary goal and has a lil less than a month left, so i thought i’d share here too!!

i backed the light green one :3

‼️ EDIT: i forgot to mention here in the actual post, but y’all should know that the creator is a kink artist and the artwork linked in the kickstarter description above the product details is 18+ ‼️ stay safe!

#txt #agere gear #kink mention #no dni bc idc if this breaks containment i just want this funded

[miraculouslumination]

Kinky asexuals are an astonishingly irreplaceable pillar of the community

#Jean mumbles #kink mention #Which community? The answer is Yes #Because we are so cool and epic #Asexual #Asexual positivity #Kinky asexual positivity

[fandomeldersintheirthirties]

"but [kink] sexualizes [trauma]!"

If you are not able to distinguish consexual and conscious kink play from real life traumas and mental conditions we are not ready to have this talk

#kink mention

[agerefandom]

Fizzarolli Regression Headcanons

has always been a playful/intentional regressor, insisting Blitzo clean up when they were kids because he's 'just a baby'

was vaguely aware that it was more than an act: when threatened or flustered, his body gets more clumsy and his brain works slower

insanely obvious when he's regressing: his entire body language changes, his tail either wraps around his legs or he starts fiddling with it in his hands

his regression actually retreated after the fire: he couldn't get back to that safe, cozy place that he remembered

he wondered if it was just another thing that Blitzo had taken with him when he left without a backwards glance

and then, Asmodeus.

Fizz rediscovered his regression through discussions with Asmodeus about kink and Fizzarolli was like 'oh, that's almost but not quite?' and they had a discussion about regression!

Asmodeus is generally familiar with things at the edges of his territory, since he still does a lot of production and sales for them: nonsexual kink and age regression and uses of materials for stim toys instead of bondage gear

Fizzarolli's new regression is very linked to Asmodeus, and the two of them make a lot of time for it!

even though Asmodeus knew about age regression, he didn't have much hands-on experience, because who would trust the demon of lust with such an innocent and vulnerable space?

Fizzarolli would, and Asmodeus thrives in the trust that the two of them share

Fizz is spoiled to hell and back, of course, with treats and stuffed animals and outfits and toys

lots of frog themed gear because of Asmodeus's "Froggy" nickname for him

clingy baby, occasionally pulls Asmodeus out of meetings for more playtime (he literally handles Asmodeus's schedule, he can make sure he catches up later)

falls asleep curled up on Ozzie's chest

puts on shows for Asmodeus with juggling and climbing on top of the fridge while Asmodeus tries to get him back down safely

refuses to eat his vegetables unless there are airplane noises

#helluva boss agere #fandom agere #agere moodboard #agere writing #my headcanons #my moodboards #kink mention #food #/paci #helluva boss #fizzmodeus #fizzarozzie #for people's blacklists if needed <3

[singleserving02]

Having an ƏD and being mostly a dom sucks ass. Like. "No, Daddy can't pick you up and throw you on the bed, Daddy might snap his spine from malnutrition " 🫡😭😭

#adult ana #kink mention #ftm ed #ana male #@n0r3xia #tw ana diary #tw disordered eating #tw ed but not sheeran #tw ed diet #ed not ed sheeran #an0r3c1a #pro for me not for thee #trans ed

[pet-shop-of-horror-fan]

It's clear that many of you talking about sexual violence in Hazbin Hotel have never engaged with conversations around depictions of sexual violence in media. So I will give a quick crash course.

"Rape should never be depicted in detail" is a common option. Usually, because they feel it is impossible to do without fetishizing it and that triggering people is too high of a risk. So the concept that only non-detailed depictions can be good is not some wild take on the matter. Now, I myself don't completely agree with this idea but I know where people come from and I accept that many people feel that way.

"Don't fetishize rape," is another common option. And if you are calling people kink-shamers, Puritans, or such because they are not happy with how Angel's abuse is handled, shut up. Hazbin Hotel is a non-erotica work so kink can not be even considered as a valid excuse. And even if it was, erotica is not exempted from criticism. Nothing is.

#vivziepop #hazbin hotel #angel dust #fandom #media criticism #animation #rape mention #kink mention

[joeyspissstain]

im gonna say it

saying that there shouldnt be any kink at pride is a reductionist take on the queer community

kink, depending on the context, is a huge part of our history

if its a kid's pride event, or meant to be just kid-friendly, then obviously there shouldnt be kink involved but at parades and such?? is seeing a leatherman really the worst thing youve ever seen?

#had a talk about this with some friends today #really got me thinking about this take #queer #pride #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #lgbtqia+ #gay #lesbian #nonbinary #transgender #trans #genderqueer #genderfluid #kink mention #kink cw #kink tw #im bad at tags

[metanarrates]

to be fair. the adversary and the stubborn's whole affair is surprisingly healthy and balanced for a relationship that consists of beating each other to death repeatedly

their practice of risk aware consensual kink is an inspiration to us all

#narrates #slay the princess #kink mention #to be clear i do NOT think beating the shit out of each other has to be unhealthy. sometimes thats how a couple communicates. #by stabbing each other with romantic subtext.

[writers-in-moominvalley]

... This has to be a kink thing for Snorkmaiden, right? The whole abduction thing? That she's, like, into it? Legitimately? I'm not seeing things, am I? It has to be. There's just no way this isn't basically a newspaper-friendly depiction of a character with an open kink about something questionable. Good for her, honestly.

Do you think she might have a collection of dubcon historical/bondage romance hidden somewhere?

#moominvalley #moomin #moomins #lightbulb moment #snorkmaiden #moomin comics #moomintroll #snorkmin #(in order of the photoset) #moomin begins a new life #moomin goes wild west #Snorkmaiden goes rococo #moomin under sail #moominvalley turns jungle #moomin falls in love #moomin and the scouts #kink mention