#kit vents

[kitjosten13]

Fucking Christ it’s just Kits no good terrible very bad day, my ankle has been swollen and bruised for 3 days, I had to call out of work today while I have so much grooming school shit to do, I physically can’t walk because of how bad my ankle is, I have no way to get my ankle looked at

I’m just gonna fuckin explode atp

#personal #Kit vents #fucking Christ dude I ask for peace just once

[kitoodle]

i’m so insanely frustrated because i have this professor who assumes all his class is on the same level of knowledge that a lot of people hadn’t covered, has no additional materials, gives very disjointed and confusing lectures, and likes to stand in the middle of the class room and where he is behind me i can’t really understand what he’s saying. i have no idea what is going on and there is really no way to catch myself up because he offers no additional study materials and if i show up to my office hours he is going to make me feel stupid. a lot of people do better in his class because he used to do practice sets but for some reason he refuses to do them this semester and now i have no idea what he expects. i’m just so stressed and frustrated between this and three other incredibly time consuming classes

#kit vents

[sheepstiel]

okay last thoughts about this for now.

bi people can be in straight relationships and still be bi

yeah i know the internet hates the cishetsTM. but have you considered not alienating every ally or closeted person by telling them they are not queer enough to be in queer spaces

gender nonconforming people exist and their sexuality and gender is none of your business

#ok ok i'm done #current event #sheep talks #vent post #kit connor

[proj-sh4dow]

Envy.

#reposting #sth #sonic the hedgehog #kitsunami #kitsunami the fennec #kit the fennec #sonic fanart #fanart #art #vent art #my art

[darkmoonravewolf]

Imagine a soft kiss between Marcille and Falin.

Imagine them going, "My Dragon" "My Lord".

Imagine them holding onto each other for fear that the other might disappear or change into something they can't recognize.

#the kit screams! #the kit's manga #dungeon meshi #marcille donato #falin touden #farcille #I feel like more people need to play around with the whole Marcille 'At one point I could make you do whatever I wished #but all I wanted was for you to come back to me' #like she was the dungeon lord at one point. she must still have these weird desire to control the monsters and dungeon #she must still want to have Falin at her beck and call and you just know that Falin would do anything for her #sorry my mind wandered. I can't draw them kissing how I wanted so I'm just venting

[ace-geographer]

Well Questies a lot has happened this week, and I finally have free time, so please enjoy these long overdue Willow text post memes

Part 18/?

Credit to cap-that.com for the images (it's only just occurring to me that I haven't included a credit tag whoops)

#i love that a month ago i was like “yeah it'll just be another week before i post again��� #and then just straight up didn't post anything #but im sorry for the long wait #finals was just paper after paper after exam after exam because i was taking six fucking classes #but its over now! no more all-nighters! #anyways #im not taking the news about willow too well #the emotional rollercoaster this has been is insane #i think ive vented and ranted and moped enough through tags and reblogs for now #willow 2022 #willow series #willow disney+ #willow #tanthamore #roguereaver #graylora #kit tanthalos #jade claymore #graydon hastur #thraxus boorman #venoma scorpia #elora danan #kenneth the mudmander #ruby cruz #erin kellyman #tony revolori #amar chadha patel #adwoa aboah #ellie bamber #save willow

[moodymisty]

Hey guys, feel free to keep sending in things like normal i would really appreciate it, but I'm going to take a few days off. Thanks for being here <3

TW vent

Very long story short, I still live with family for multiple reasons. It's complicated, and the current landscape doesn't help. But my mother is mentally ill and has no desire to get help for herself, and a lot of things fall onto me. But she has put a lot of time and effort into making me the one with every issue, rather than looking inward. My childhood was a lot of being called retarded and many other things, having passive aggressive jabs thrown at me, and getting berated at for getting caught wearing makeup and dresses because she wished I'd been born a boy. It's stressful when the person demanding so much attention and work from you has never really wanted you to begin with. this is only the tip of the iceberg but

Anyways.

I've had to deal with another meltdown, and my human interaction meter is largely at it's limit, so I'm going to go play some Elden ring or something else and try to relax. Thanks for being so patient with me.

#tw vent #to delete later #I apologize for being cringe on main but i figured i would give a slight explanation before dipping #I'll respond to comments and reblog the stuff i've been tagged in (sorry Kit) when I'm back

[venacoeurva]

The ideal Skyrim mod for me is a house building mod where you can just grind all the materials and build a village or something from the ground up and random NPCs will move in and you decorate as you please. Maybe you can choose aesthetics (Whiterun, Windhelm, farmhouses, Little Riverwood houses, Solitude, etc). I love all the walking and getting materials and walking back and adding to the house. Farmer Bjorn or whatever gets 350 shelves and cheese wheels in his house, because.

#vena vents #not art #Sometimes you need to be overencumbered and enjoy the nature of Skyrim with ReShade grass and tree mods and cranked to ultra graphics #an in game watered down creation kit focused on housing...the dream...

[bonefall]

Did you man beam Drizzle? If so, why not just pair up Rustle with Cranberry instead? I get for the amazing ship name but I'm curious about the choice /gen

I totally forgot Drizzle's original gender, but also, I really don't want to overthink it. I'm so tired of overthinking it. I wanted CranberryDrizzle funny ship name and it was getting exhausting to plan out where every pairing in several hundred cats would be getting their kits from

Rustle is going to die at some point after having two QR kittens, and Cranberrydrizzle is going to have 2 important litters (Sunstrike and Emberfoot in the first, Fernstripe in the second). I have done an exhausting amount of work (weeks of planning and hours of work at a time, scouring the wiki and facebook screenshots, redrawing tangles, reading through suggestions, writing out full posts of changes and creating new groups with their own histories) untangling broken fragments of family trees and like... I'm tired. No more shuffling. I deserve Funny Ship Name. is this too much to ask

Boy Drizzle is just the easiest answer. I'd like for Drizzle to just be transfem but I was also told to avoid cats being trans just to have kits, which is ALSO frustrating me at this point, I don't like this weight of "perfect representation" that's being put on me when I'M not even perfect representation as a living human queer.

Do I let Drizzle be transfem and "break a rule," or change them to a boy and "lose" a lesbian pairing? It feels gross to me to have fallen into a mindset where I'm treating queer relationships like quotas or rigid rulesets

I feel like if I 'get something wrong' (like forget the gender of a Missing Kit or a side character, or handwave 'where did these kits come from' with 'trans/queen's rights' without considering a real secret surrogate) I'm going to get smacked upside the head and be forced to hyperfocus on one small part of a massive project when I already have a million other things to work on.

So unfortunately the most honest answer I can probably give is that im tired. I'm really tired. Overthinking minor details before making every single tumblr post is draining me. I forgot the missing kit's original author-assigned gender and didn't scroll to the bottom of Onestar's wiki page to check it before posting. I like the ship name. Cranberrysplash somehow gets pregnant twice, but I was told to avoid trans bioparents, yet doing that is making things even harder after I had to do weeks of work to make a good tree in the first place

I'll figure out Drizzlefall's gender when they become relevant in some context

#i dont want cranberryrustle i want cranberrydrizzle #for my own sanity I am probably going to start straightup deleting asks and replies about accidental misgenderings of missing kits #i cannot keep the gender and names of 600+ characters straight 100% of the time #Especially when they were only named in authorial statements #i deserve funny ship name. i just. i deserve funny ship name #do i not bleed enough to deserve funny ship name #i don't think I can work with this ''minimize trans bioparents'' rule. It's done nothing but cause me frustration and make burnout set in #redtail is a man and he gave birth. get over it. im sick of feeling guilty over my own hobby project #for characters like sedge where it's a plot point it will stay but I CANT keep working with it in mind #Hazeltail is unkilled. She is trans. She is taking Mousewhisker's place in ThunderClan so he can go to riverclan #If canon gives mouse kittens then they will be hazeltail's. trans people fuck and have kids. deal with it #and you know what? in a world with countries that will fucking sterilize you if you want to legally transition #maybe it *should* be more normalized. #tw transphobia #btw anon it's clear you're being genuine so im not mad at you #vent a long time coming I think #bone babble

[kithehedraws]

I keep going on twitter and getting traumatized by R*ck*try fanart. I blocked all the tags and words related to it but it keeps popping up on my tl. What more can I do before my algorithm gets the memo?

I’ve had to block so many accounts 🥲

#rick and morty #rick sanchez #rick and morty fanart #morty smith #vent post #kit talks

[kitjosten13]

Maybe a hot take but I don’t think a landlord should be allowed to sell the house your living in and only give you 3 days notice that he’s bringing buyers in and then not fucking tell you if they plan on keeping you as tenants or if they’re gonna kick you tf out and leave you homeless

#personal #kit vents #i fucking hate it here #I fucking hate America

[kittygamer2888]

Imma be honest, I'm starting to think my Evil Sonic AU isn't all that exciting as I thought, I've been feeling like I should just give it up on it.. "=>=

Idk though, maybe that's just motivation and lack of story ideas--

But all I know is that I've been feeling a bit too unmotivated lately to even draw anything. Perhaps I'm finally burnt out fully, then? I really just don't know anymore at this point.

#sth #Evil Sonic au #THFTME #kit's ramblings #text post #slight vent

[fluffyblue-multifandommess]

how in the fuck do yall expect to get more queer content when every time a queer show or movie comes out you harass everyone involved like i dont give a shit how self-righteous you think you’re being by forcing this “queer content should be made by queer people” bullshit all you’re doing is fucking the whole community over. you’re literally harassing our own people and giving them reasons NOT to keep creating queer stuff

the more you harass creators and actors of queer content into coming out of the closet when they don’t want to, the less queer people are going to want to make queer things

you’re all fucking idiots on top of being giant assholes

#hearstopper #kit connor #forced outing #vent post #forced coming out

[phantom-fleetways]

Honestly, as much as it would be neat that Surge and Kit are kidnap victims. I would actually hate to see it come to pass. And I do mean hate.

Like listen, I'm not good at explaining things. But you all do realize the level of cop out that would be right? So what if they're kidnapping victims? That makes them no more interesting than the people Eggman has harmed or even kidnapped himself.

Surge and Kit are supposed to be impressive to Eggman. Not run of the mill. Any old annoying bad guy in IDW can capture someone and put cybernetics in them! Hell! Sonic Lost World is canon to IDW. And Tails was like half robotized or whatever they called it in that game. If Surge and Kit are two kidnap victims who have metal skeletal structures and generator's forced into them, then they are no different then a cyborg.

Like... Do you genuinely believe Eggman, the man who invented robotatization itself, would be impressed by something like that? Impressed by a Cyborg?

I honestly believe that the two aren't. Mostly due to two different factors.

Starline sucks at kidnapping people. (Even with help he's only half decent at it.)

Starline was more than happy to own a DNA sample of Tails.

Not to mention the fact that he most definitely looked into Project Shadow. Something we know impressed Eggman in the past (and maybe still does. Seeing as Shadow really is an interesting foe for him.) Or the fact that he wanted Belle's coding to help make a personality.

Like I'm not saying that they can't be kidnapped. Frankly if you want to believe they are kidnapped Mobians. Go ahead. I won't make you change your headcanons. I might not agree, but you can have them. And they don't inherently clash with my idea. I just refuse to believe the Surge and Kit we know and see are kidnap victims. Maybe they once were, many many many experiments ago. But the ones we got right here? They're test tube babies to me. They just sorta... Have to be.

#Phantoms #toxic waste #kit the fennec #kitsunami the fennec #surge the tenrec #honestly i don't actually wanna start fandom discourse or anything #and you don't gotta believe me #but if you want me to prove it #i have some evidence i can show #although at the end of the day #i know nothing since I don't work in IDW #i just feel like saying they are kidnap victims and believe Surge and Starline at their words to be a bit #foolish #regardless #this is just a lowkey vent about how tired i am of the kidnap victims take i see everywhere #not really angry about it all #it just feels tired and underestimation of the writers for IDW

[seagull-scribbles]

I know this is very out of character, but the motif of heavy rain, lightning and a supportive relationship was enough for me- so here is this nonsense

Did this is a different style then usual because I can :)

#sth #kit the fennec #kitsunami the fennec #surge the tenrec #lyric comic #struck by lightning #Sara keys #cavetown #sonic idw #vent art I guess #I really love my friends guys #so much #I am oh so grateful for them #even when like we don’t do anything we just do exist in the same space #like honestly I’ve been in such a bad place but like the fact I get to do exisist with these people I am so so lucky #this is so messy and sloppy and I was so lazy but that’s okay I like it like that actually #Spotify

[hael987]

The more I think about Kit Connor’s forced coming out, the angrier and sadder I get. It never should have happened.

These people are so chronically online they've forgotten the dangers of the real world (as well as things like common decency, compassion and respect for privacy). They've forgotten what boundaries are, completely lost in a parasocial relationship. You’re not entitled to any aspect of him or his life. People treat him as a commodity, not a person. The disconnect from reality is astounding.

He was harassed to such an extent, he’s just a kid, barely 18! Not to mention a real person’s sexual identity can’t be “queerbait” and how the harassers co-opted that important word just to use it incorrectly to carry out harassment. Further, he repeatedly expressed his desire to not reveal or discuss his sexual identity and that - his wishes and autonomy - was just completely ignored and trampled on.

The cruelty of taking away something deeply personal to someone. A person coming out should hopefully be a moment of self acceptance, self revealing, and self celebration happening if a person chooses to, on their terms. And all of that got taken away from Kit, it deeply saddens me. They took away his control, his power, his feelings of safety (due to the harassment) and also the potential future happiness that he could have experienced if he came out on his own terms. Also the fact that he’s so young and it was forced out of him due to harassment, it truly makes me worry about the impact this will have on him emotionally and developmentally, as well as how he’ll now view and feel about the queer community that should have been a safe-haven for him (members of whom forced this situation upon him).

I know it wasn’t just queer people that harassed him, but I feel that so many people seem to have forgotten their roots and the true nature of our queer community: it’s supposed a celebration, a space of security and togetherness, not some ideology based on gatekeeping. A focus of celebrating and supporting those that are in it, instead of a focus on keeping people from/out of it. That the queer community is supposed to be exactly that - a community. It’s supposed to be safe for queer people, both out and closeted alike. Yet more and more people seem to go out of their way to make it unwelcoming - and worse, unsafe - for the latter (i.e the closeted or the questioning).

Not only is someone’s sexuality none of our business but the whole “only queer people can act queer roles/ write queer characters/sing queer songs/be involved in queer media” movement is so unsafe. Media forms have been and always will be for expression and exploration, both of the world and self. While I appreciate the sentiment probably initially stemmed from good intentions (like providing more opportunities for queer actors/voices/creators, the want for authenticity and accuracy for queer stories, etc.), it doesn’t negate the fact that these extreme totalities, this black-and-white all-or-nothing, are not only reductive* but also harmful**. These mindsets lead to this exact situation Kit found himself in: forcing someone to out themselves just to stop harassment or justify themselves. It’s truly disgusting.

[* and ** under the cut at the bottom.]

What happened to Kit Connor should never have happened. It’s sickening and disheartening that it did. It shouldn’t have mattered how he identified, it wasn’t anyones business but his own. I feel like we should all be ashamed that people thought it was okay to do so. The fact that it happened shows a very real failing in society.

Not to mention the biphobia of the whole thing. It seems it stemmed from that he, a man (actually an 18 y/o boy), supposedly had a girlfriend/is attracted to women. How incredibly biphobic that is. People saw/assumed “girlfriend” and somehow their first instinct was to automatically assume “straight”, get pressed over their own unfounded assumptions, and then demand he prove otherwise. Like why wasn’t the assumption he’s someone attracted to multiple genders and then just drop it? It’s the rampant monosexism/ bi/pan-phobia as well as erasure and invalidation. But if I get started on that point I’ll never stop so I’ll just end this little piece here.

People saying he wasn’t outed because he revealed it himself so it’s ~fine~ are really missing the point. He’s just a kid, how could he withstand that pressure and vitriol being spewed at him online all day, every day. He was left with no other option if he wanted to stop the harassment, his hand was forced. If his options were a) stay silent and suffer horrendous harassment indefinitely or b) out himself to stop the harassment, was it really even a choice? If you cut off all other avenues and leave but one option you can’t then frame that as a “choice”. I guarantee he experienced the same feelings of violation, fear, and loss of power/control that come with an outing.

All in all, I’m so upset by the situation, and my heart really goes out for Kit. I hope he takes time for himself and is surrounded by supportive loved ones. I wish nothing but the best for him going forward.

*reductive:

To enforce such a mindset is oversimplifying things immensely. A person may relate to the role/story/song in some other significant way. It might be an opportunity for someone to understand and explore queer mindsets, struggles and lives. A medium for empathy.

For lack of a better example, as I can’t come up with one spontaneously rn: suppose instead that Kit was Questioning (instead of bisexual). He could have then found acting as Nick - who also goes through the experience of questioning his identity - relatable, or that the experience of studying the character, understanding and acting out the role and mindset incredibly helpful to his own personal journey. Even if he then ultimately discovered he was straight, it was still worthwhile for the role to have been played by such a person. (That was all just an example, not intended to offend or discount his real bisexual identity)

Someone could relate to the struggle of finding, discovering and/or expressing their true self despite not being queer.

Someone could be using it as a form/means to better understand and empathise with a queer person in their life.

Reality/lived experience is never so easily separated, distinct and insulated like some people seem to believe.

**harmful:

It puts someone in a dangerous situation and opens them up to homophobia/transphobia and hate crimes. It jeopardises their future career opportunities (because sadly we are still in a homophobic society and this is a very real risk). It plants the idea that a person’s sexuality is any of our business in the first place thus feeding into a harmful parasocial mentality.

These are but just a few examples and points but there are so many, many more.

#I’m incredibly ill rn so I won’t be engaging with any argumentative interactions I just don’t have the energy #but I’m also so angered and upset by the situation that I had to vent #kit connor #heartstopper #heartstopper cast #long post