#korean Asian boy

[happypotato48]

This Is A Gay Asian Rant About BL Comments Made By Some Queer Westerners I See Sometimes.

So you know of those gays (usually white) that made dumb tiktok dancing to list of countries that legalized same sex marriage and list of countries that discriminate against LGBTQIA+ poeple as a way to say something racist. yeah i kinda got the same vibes from some comments regard how asian BL is homophobic just cause they don't live up to queer western standard. look, i'm not saying that some BLs and their creators don't deserve criticism regard how they capitalized/exploited queerness for an easy cash grab.

But people need to understand that Asian countries despite recent progress are still very much culturally conservatives. so when people says that thai bl is homophobic and all the characters looks like bunch of straight guys, which is true for some olders thai BLs i'm not gonna denied that. but after all this time and newer BLs generally being very queer and most of creators being out queer themself and poeple still making these comments, i'm annoyed.

And don't get me start on the actors. you don't know them! why are you making assumption and calling them queerbaiter just cause they acts in bl. like maybe they're straight, maybe they're not but what they're definitely doing is making queer content for you know, queer people here. so when you made halfass comments about their sexuality what do you think that made other queer people who still in the closet feels. and when you add the nationality to that, "these thai bl pair are this and that, this korean actor is so ungrateful for his bl past", etc. when our societies are still very much still in progress regard LGBTQIA+ acceptance. it make us living here feels fucking awful like somehow we're lesser queer than people in the west just cause we don't have citibank at pride or some shit.

And the shittiest in my humbled opinion are comments regard censored chinese bls. people do know like, that the creators making these bls are risking their livelihoods for this. that these shows getting make at all are miracles. yes it sucked that they're censored but they're still very much queer shows making by queer people who want to express thier queerness despite the chinese government being the chinese government. when people dimissing these shows as not belonging in queer media, you're also dimissing their creators and audiences as not belonging in the community.

Look what i want to say is that we're trying our best over here, and maybe our best are not up to your liking. the ways we talk and express our queerness maybe still can be perceived as problematic by western queer standard. but these media are our house and you're the guests. for people aren't shitty we appreciated that you're here engaging and loving our media, this is your home too and you're welcome in it. i can speak for myself that i very much love being here on tumblr and interacting with people from all over the world who love BL. but for people who are being shitty sometimes about asian bl.

YOU'RE THE GUESTS, BEHAVE!

#bl drama #thai bl #asian lgbtq dramas #personal rant #dumb boy rambled #japanese bl #taiwanese bl #korean bl #asian ql #asian bl series #asian bl dramas #ql dramas #bl fandom #ql meta #queer media #just fandom things #fandom #chinese bl

[b-brightvc]

ahn hyoseop icons

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#ahn hyoseop #ulzzang icons #dorama icons #bg icons #kdrama layouts #kdrama icons #a business proposal #lq icons #lq layouts #ulzzang boys icons #korean boys icons #a time called you #kdrama users #kdrama lockscreens #kdrama wallpapers #asian boys icons #male icons #model icons #icons aesthetic #ahn hyo seop icons

[7698]

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[ace-phee]

Guys. Song Joong Ki's role is not just a reprisal of Vincenzo in Queen of Tears— it's a reference to all of his major roles in television!

1. Youngest Heir to a Conglomerate Family — Reborn Rich

2. Former Soldier — Descendants of the Sun

3. Spaceship Guy — Space Sweepers

4. Werewolf — A Werewolf Boy!

#vincenzo cassano #kdrama #korean drama #asian drama #kdramaedit #Vincenzo #queen of tears #queer of tears ep 8 #song joong ki #reborn rich #descendants of the sun #space sweepers #a werewolf boy #jtbc #jtbc drama

[ohmyboytoy]

Koo Ye-chan by Stealer Studio

#koo ye-chan #model #asian men #male model #stealer studio #asian boys #asian model #korean boys #korean men

[heretherebedork]

Myungha so desperately trying to make Yeowoon happy and to be with him and to love him and yet he cannot let himself rely on him, just as he cannot rely on anyone outside of himself, because he does not love himself, he doesn't care about himself at all, he loves the people around him and doesn't see how anyone would love him, why anyone would want to care for him.

And so he rejects everyone who tries to care for him, tries to care for them instead, tries to make their lives better by making his life worse and he doesn't see how much that hurts the people who love him because he doesn't understand love on a fundamental level, because he sees love as something he gives but cannot receive.

Again and again.

Myungha gives and gives and gives and tries to give enough love that other people will be happy but never accepts or receives love because that feels selfish, that feels like the wrong thing, that feels like an ache in his chest and like selfishness and so he pushes all his love out onto them to try to make them happy, to try to do the things that he thinks is what they want.

And even when presented, directly, with what they really want? He doesn't know how to do that.

And he jumps to all the worst conclusions. And he leaps feet first in the worst version of himself every time because he doesn't see any way that he can be the reason someone's happy, that he can make someone happy just by loving them.

Myungha loves Yeowoon and he pushes him away out of this sense that he can't possibly make him happy no matter what he does so it's best to leave him, best to push him to love someone else, because loving Myungha has never made anyone happy.

Because Myungha cannot see anything worth loving in himself.

And so each time he sees Yeowoon sad, each time he hurts him, all he can think of is removing himself from the narrative, as if taking himself out of the picture would make him happier since he never saw that him being in the picture made Yeowoon happier. He only saw the pain he caused, never the love or the comfort.

Myungha leaves Yeowoon because he finds himself unlovable and cannot rely on anyone because he cannot let himself be loved because he cannot see that in himself.

His grandmother was right.

He has to take care of himself, he has to love himself, in order to be loved and in order to make anyone happy the way he so desperately wishes to do.

#love for love's sake #myungha x yeowoon #korean bl #korean bl drama #korean bl series #kbl #bl drama #bl series #asian lgbtq dramas #asianlgbtqdramas #korean drama #korean series #kdrama #kseries #this boy breaks my heart #because everything about yeowoon is true about him too #he just doesn't see it the same way

[espuor]

#͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ ͏͏͏ #ullzang icons #ullzang boys #ullzang girl #korean ullzang #ullzang headers #circle icons #icons random #asian icons #random icons #kpop icons #twitter icons #ullzang layouts #twitter packs #icons #details icons #moodboard

[sadisthetic]

hanbok!!! for fun!

#just because i wanted to see my favorite boys in them #ninjago #ninjago jay #ninjago kai #jay walker #my art #i feel like with the sheer amount of orientalism thats in the show i feel like i have full freedom to draw the fuck i was as an asian dude #for the record i actually dont headcanon either of them as korean i hc kai as japanese which like #i feel like he couldnt be anything else? as the one of the two characters in this show who are actually strongly japanese coded? #like waves hand he could be mixed but he at Least needs to be part japanese #but thats not my personal headcanon tho i just generally headcanon him as japanese #and ninjago doesnt have fucking countries and theyre just legos i know but like #the world is def still based on this one. so gestures very hard. #i do what i want. #and also i headcanon jay as a one fourth chinese wasian who never fucking realizes hes part chinese BC HE NEVER MET HIS MOM #this is funny to me personally #he will never know..... im normal about jay never meeting his mom i swear. #anyways all these tags are irrelevant to the art drawing them in hanbok was just sheer indulgence #lemme have this #(bc sometimes i think about s4 specifically and scream) #closes eyes. at least s4 had best episode ninja roll at least.

[malfoyx]

Wonho

#wonho #wonho monsta x #boy #boys #asian boys #asian #fashion #model #celebs #male model #male #male aesthetic #aesthetic #kpop #kpop boys #korean boys #white socks #socks

[girasois]

cha eun-woo in wonderful world; please, like or reblog ♡

coloring by the lovely @harupsds ♡

#cha eun woo headers #cha eunwoo headers #wonderful world headers #drama headers #dorama headers #kdrama headers #tv headers #random headers #headers random #headers #layouts #cha eunwoo #cha eun woo #wonderful world #wonderful world 2024 #eunwoo #kdrama #drama #dorama #korean drama #asian drama #boys headers #boys #headers boys #korean boys

[goodtwunk]

❤️

#korean boy #me #asian boy #gay asian #gaysian #boys #gay korean #asian twink #gay boy #korean twink #ulzzang boy #gay twitch #gaymer #korean gay #kpop boy #twink #twitch #asian #gay gamer

[b-brightvc]

ahn hyoseop icons

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#ahn hyo seop icons #kdrama layouts #kdrama icons #male icons #korean boys icons #ulzzang icons #dorama icons #bg icons #lq icons #kdrama wallpapers #asian boys icons #model icons #actors icons #long locs #icons aesthetic #a business proposal #song kang icons #minho icons #eunwoo icons #kdrama moodboard #ahn hyoseop

[7698]

#lee taevin #lee tae vin #taevin.lee #korean boys #korean guy #korean actors #korean actor #korean singer #korean idol #korean beauty #korean aesthetic #handsome #handsome boy #handsome guy #asian male #asian man #asian men #asian boy #asian guy #asianguy #love for love’s sake the series #love for love’s sake series #love for love's sake #kdrama #bl kdrama #bl korean #korean bl #korean drama #korean series #aesthetic

[alejunsu]

A Breeze of Love EP5

#a breeze of love #ep5 #boys love #series bl #kiss #couple #bl kiss #boys kissing #korean bl #asian drama bl #so cute #dong wook x do hyun #shin jeong yu #woo ji han

[sailingwithu]

#lee dong wook #korean actor #korean boys #muscles #male beauty #asian men #pecs #kdrama

[heretherebedork]

Lalala tiny side ship song, lalalala side couple song, lalala i love crumbs song

lalala tiny gaybie song, lalalala he gonna get his ass beat song, lalala i am worried for the boy song, lalala he needs a tiny nerdling to rescue him song, lalala but not yet oh noooo

#love for love's sake #korean bl #bl drama #bl series #asian lgbtq dramas #asianlgbtqdramas #korean bl drama #korean bl series #the tiny side couple #this boy needs to be saved y'all #i am worried about him #bl kdrama