#labeling yourself first puts you in a box and is just slly

[asexual-means-no-attraction]

Honestly. I love the phrase "fuck labels, just be yourself."

Cuz the label isn't what's important. Be yourself first. And the label will come naturally. You don't need to come up with a new word, or change a definition to fit how you feel. The label does not need to explain all your actions, it doesn't need to describe every little thing. Don't focus on the word. Be yourself first.

#i feel like a lotta people want a word to describe every little bit of their attraction or gender #but that is a lot of word for very little pay of #off* #just go out in the world and have fun #dont worry about it #just be you #and do what you want #your label will naturally come as you are more true to yourself #labeling yourself first puts you in a box and is just slly #silly* #dont define yourself before you can be yourself