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Lavandee's Stimboard Ask Game

Here's how it works! By reblogging this post you welcome your friends and followers to submit numbered prompts to your inbox which you can then use as inspiration for a themed stimboard or gifset!

1. An obscure favourite character

2. Your first OTP

3. Your strangest kin

4. Your favourite colour

5. Your favourite song

6. Your favourite band

7. Your favourite Pokemon

8. An obscure hyperfixation

9. Your favourite food

10. A recurring dream

11. A childhood memory

12. A plush from your childhood or the current day

13. An old OC of yours

14. The first anime you ever watched

15. What you last ate

16. A song from your childhood

17. A character who's birthday you share

18. A hobby you enjoy

19. Your biggest fictional crush

20. A series you plan on getting into

21. A game you never finished

22. A series you have a love/hate relationship with

23. Gifs from your favourite stim blog

24. An interesting moment in history

25. An old hyperfixation or special interest

26. The AMV in your head

27. A defunct website you used to frequent

28. A fandom you're not in that looks like fun

29. An instrument you can (or wish you could) play

30. Create a crack ship!

31. Your zodiac

32. The decade you were born in

33. An overplayed song you unironically love

34. A remake/remix/reboot that's better than the original

35. A meme that makes you laugh

36. Your favourite animal

37. Your favourite sport or game

38. Your favourite holiday

39. Your current OTP

40. WILD CARD! Asker, send in a character that the stim blogger reminds you of. Blogger, make a stimboard of them!

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[la-la-lavandee]

Self diagnosis isn't always "I saw it misrepresented on a 30 second TikTok"

Most of the time it's "I've struggled with horrifying symptoms that caused me immense distress and was taught not to cope by the recommended methods but instead learned to suppress them resulting in further damage and I've taken 10 years to think about the possibility of perhaps something being slightly off with my treatment process."

OCD. As common than having red hair huh.

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[la-la-lavandee]

Hey. How come people who are against policing the identities of mspec lesbians find that endogenic systems have to be their business.

Sit down.

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[la-la-lavandee]

This was sent to me on Discord

I'm the person being talked about here. Black-salt-cage has been periodically checking in on my blog, which they are blocked from. This post was in response to me finding and blocking their main yesterday.

This is confirmation that not only are they block evading me but that they are using another account to do so.

Keep an eye out. Don't harass. Block and move on and do not engage.

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[la-la-lavandee]

Credit your FUCKING stimboards

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[la-la-lavandee]

i dont think you realize how insulting it is to systems that you support "endogenics"

Hey guess what

I know systems. Systems who fakeclaimed me and others and caused severe psychological distress to the point I was put back into psychiatry/therapy to deal with traumatic stress disorder related symptoms.

I also know systems who are kind. Who are welcoming. Who don't fakeclaim others. And I'm on their side.

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[la-la-lavandee]

Hey. If you're plural. I believe you. Just in case nobody has said it yet

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[la-la-lavandee]

I'm ngl, the older I get the less I give a shit about labels in general. From my queer identity to my diagnostic status; I do not care. What are you gonna do, write a paper? Study me to decide if I'm valid? Who died and made you king.

You know?

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[la-la-lavandee]

Me: don't think I'm insane but I have this weird behaviour

My therapist: oh wow. You've formed an internal family system! What you're using is parts language and it's actually a rather complex coping mechanism to have. You should do more research into this if it's helping you. Well done!

Me, totally not abt to cry: so I'm not insane

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[la-la-lavandee]

So many people use autistic headcanons to infantilize characters. More autistic badasses please

Like Starfire and Raven Teen Titans who are both autistic and I'm right about this

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[la-la-lavandee]

The thing that going to therapy has taught me is that labels are labels. You can choose them if they feel right, yes. But there are labels people will assign to you for convenience. For ease of access. To know how they should treat you.

And a diagnosis is one of those labels.

A diagnosis isn't a bad thing automatically but it is a label that's assigned to you so people have a general idea of your symptoms.

You can experience symptoms without a diagnosis. They don't appear out of nothing.

And sometimes a diagnosis is the last thing you want. If you're somebody like me who already has four and counting. Because what will your employer do? What does this mean for your independence in the future?

So don't shit on people who don't fit the mold. They know themselves best.

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[la-la-lavandee]

I know previously I was running with exclusionists. That's unacceptable. I don't stand by it. But apologizing over and over won't fix damage caused. The only thing I can really do is own up and change the behaviour, which will always be a work in progress and I'm grateful that people forgave me at all considering the vitriol I repeated.

Exclusionism is a plague and I was part of the problem. Now I have an obligation to denounce it.

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[la-la-lavandee]

It's convention day and I'm going for the corpse look

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[la-la-lavandee]

Now that we're out or whatever you'd call it do you guys want to like. Meet us

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[la-la-lavandee]

Alright, I've had it.

I compared the IP address fetched by analytics to inactive yet suspiciously not deleted blogs in my followers list. Here is what I found.

The account black-salt-cage is using to bypass the blocks people place of them is @thiswasnttakensoitsmine. Black-salt-cage is stimmyvillain.

That is all. Block as you wish.

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[la-la-lavandee]

Reminder that label discourse is pointless. A kiss to all of you with "contradictory" labels, a hug to all of you systems who don't quite fit into the mold.

From your local mentally ill aroace lesbian

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