the discourse around being dyke for dyke or les for les is genuinely so fucking stupid. if it can be as normal as it is for so many bisexual women to go on the internet and talk about how they could never date women because they are so scary and a SMALL percent of lesbians can’t say they have a dating preference. yes biphobia for sure can be rude and real but biphobia isn’t a system of oppression yes bisexuals can face homophobia but to act like you have some specific disadvantage because some lesbians won’t date you is wild.
it’s also always to unicorn hunters who have the most shit to say 😭
"There's no good wlw books" "omg yes there are ur just not looking for them" NO THERES NOT I have YET to find/read a truly good wlw book. A LESBIAN book. I want them to both be lesbians. I don't a girl who's always dated men and then starts dating a girl and it's drama. And I want it to be a thriller or sci-fi or SOMETHING. I don't want this stupid cliche shit of oh "ones out ones not" "edgy Bisexual meets femme lesbian vice versa" etc etc - and I want SMUT but not weird smut !!
Things like the locked tomb trilogy are good !
Books similar to movies like the new love lies bleeding, never going back, the l word series, dare me series (the book had like no romance what so ever of Beth and Addy but yeah), yeah 😀🙏
I want books like aftg, the mortal instruments, Shiver, hunger games, BUT THE MC AND LOVE INTEREST ARE LESBIANS.
Being a lesbian is so lonely. I am 20 years old. In college. I interact with friends of the LGBT community all the time. Yet, I have never met a fellow lesbian even though I came out 4 years ago. How is that even possible? Like sure there are bisexual women that I have met, became friends with, can date and have dated but its so different to have a partner that can fully understand your experience. Growing up lesbian is so lonely.
I yearn for someone I can share that kind of experience with. I want to just even TALK to a fellow lesbian my age, dating is optional. I just want to meet somebody who understands what its like. The only lesbian I knew growing up was a distant severely alcoholic aunt.
Idk if this can be made into a pole but, why is it when a bisexual person says they’re bi4bi it’s acceptable but when a lesbian says they’re les4les it’s not acceptable and is actually hated one way too much. It seems homophobic and invalidating to lesbians. I honestly think a lot of bi people don’t truly understand, like, and even care about lesbians and our issues. It sucks bc I don’t want to feel like that towards people in my community but it’s hard not to when bi people pile on lesbians often.
i’d light some candles, have you lay down, and grab some of my favorite stress relief lotion, slowly and thoroughly rubbing your muscles out, every inch and curve on your body because knowing how you feel after a double shift at work is rough and i can’t have you feeling like that before bed. gently leaving soft kisses down your neck, back, shoulders, arms and legs before having you flip over and doing the same… except this time i might leave kisses on your chest and breasts, occasionally taking one of your breasts in my mouth. trailing down your stomach, still leaving kisses, and looking up softly telling you just how beautiful you are to me. making my way down lower and lower, the tops of your thighs, your hips and waist.. and then i’d look up at you as i part your legs and lay down between them ever so softly raking my fingers along the insides of your thighs before finally leaving slow, soft kisses on either side of your beautiful inner thighs, getting closer and closer to your clit. i’d blow soft streaks of air on your pussy before gently running my finger through your lips just to feel how wet you are (and to get a reaction) and once i get a reaction, i’d look up at you with my soft eyes and say: “use your words, what exactly do you need me to do to help make you cum” like the good sub i am