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marzipanandminutiae · 6 months

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as a woman who grew up with an emotionally abusive mother constantly telling me I needed to wear more makeup/more revealing clothing/date (boys) more/go out to "normal" parties more, I despise "she should be at the club"

god forbid some people- especially young women, who already have to deal with a thousand different behavioral standards from a thousand different directions -not have the same dreams and desires for their lives as you do for yours

fucking hell. the correct response to "women should stay at home and have kids and be submissive wives" prescriptivism was not MORE PRESCRIPTIVISM

(I also just saw a poll asking if people partied as teenagers, and OP responded that the answers were "killing them" because No was winning. like? why is everyone so personally invested in other people having a very specific kind of fun?)

#memes #s t o p telling women what to do #being the partying type does not automatically equal being a Free Independent Woman and vice versa #guess what? I'm a 30-year-old lesbian with no kids (yet) and a career and I have NEVER liked clubbing.#I didn't like it when I was 19 or 21 or 25 and I still don't like it now #(I do love my mother; we have a complicated relationship. but the fact is that she did some things fitting the definition of emotional abus

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thisismisogynoir · 26 days

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I love it when women hate men. I love it when women are allowed to vent to each other about how horrible and creepy men are. I love it when women form friendships with and prioritize each other over relationships with men(whether they're attracted to them or not). I love it when women put men dni in their bios and on their nude photos and on posts on their blogs. I love it when women refuse to mollycoddle and accommodate entitled male feelings with "but this doesn't mean I hate all men, I know a few men who are great, I love my father/sons/brothers/uncles/male cousins/guy friends" I love it when women complain about men WITHOUT "not all men" being a disclaimer. I love it when women avoid socializing with/refuse to be around/befriend/get close to men because they know men can't be trusted. I love it when women make "kill all men" jokes. I love it when women offer absolutely no concern or care for men's feelings and if their misandry offends men whatsoever because why should we, men are the oppressor class who have raped and killed and abused us and kept us as subjugated as second-class citizens for millennia, they regularly mistreat us and the women in their own marginalized communities still every single day and make this world so much harder and more awful for us to be in, and if we choose to hate them and not spare them any sympathy then so be it, and I don't just mean "men as a class" either, you can be a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with any man on an individual basis and completely cuts off men from her personal life too and ykw I will love and fucking support you in that because men deserve absolutely NOTHING from us. If they're so tough and strong then they can handle it just like they can handle being lonely. If you are a woman who hates men, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN AND/OR A TRANS WOMAN, then just know that I love you. I love you, I support you, and you are safe here.

#was going to make a post about how much i hate that women aren't allowed to hate their oppressors but i decided to spin it into something #positive instead #this is supposed to be the feminist site that makes reddit mgtow piss their baby diapers so let's go back to despising men and not coddling #their feelings and let's dye our hair blue while we're at it #i am so tired of this new wave of guilt-tripping and gaslighting women who hate men and don't trust or want to be around them #i hate how we're made into villainesses or the problematic ones for not valuing them in our lives or for wanting to guard ourselves or be #safe from our oppressors #and i'm tired of people who don't know the first thing about feminism being like 'BUT THAT'S TERF RHETORIC WHAT ABOUT X MINORITY MEN'#guess what women can also be x minority that you're trying to protect the men of and we get to hate men too #trans women are included when i say women btw and trans men are included when i say men #if anyone has the right to hate men more than anybody else it's trans women esp trans lesbians because they put up with so much shit #from men that even cis women do not and they especially know how vile men are behind closed doors #so #terfs fuck off #radfems fuck off #and if anybody tries to make this post more appeasing to men or 'not all men's this post you are getting blocked and hit with a hammer #feminism #misogyny #sexism #patriarchy #tw men #tw rape #tw abuse #misandry #terfs dni #radfems dni #feminists need to go back to being scary and unpalatable for men none of this 'but some of them are good!' bullshit #men are entitled to nothing from us #and if you try to prove me wrong then you are just proving my point if you have nothing good to say then simply keep scrolling #ok? ok.

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thepringlesofblood · 1 month

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using the signs in the 1.6 update as intended

#original post #sdv #stardew valley #1.6 update #in case youre wondering this farm is ayda aguefort #after making #an adventure zone themed farm #a monster factory themed farm #a farm exclusively for being in a lesbian relationship with Leah #a star trek themed farm #and a good omens themed farm #(and another good omens themed farm that i share with a friend)#i decided it was time for dimension 20 to have its time in the sun #1.6 spoilers #i guess?

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fishing-lesbian-catgirl · 2 months

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It is funny to me how much arguing there was between people trying to speculate on Ryoko Kui’s sexuality and people saying it’s literally none of our business. Then she uploads art where she draws a bunch of elves from video games and refers to multiple of the of the elven women as “her wife” or “fell in love at first sight”. And yet in a twitter thread about it I still saw people saying that referring to women as your wife could be straight woman behavior actually (???)

#i agree it’s not right to speculate on a creators sexuality and stuff #but like. she wasn’t exactly being ambiguous #lesbian. bisexual. whatever. that tiny astarion in the corner told me all I need to know that her taste is quite good actually #(drawing all the elf women and calling them hot and her wife and then making astarion tiny in the corner like ‘oh he’s an elf too i guess’

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0m3n-0f-d3ath · 13 days

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Old woman yuri in celebration of the eclipse

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lunarharp · 5 months

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Very important conferences.

#witch hat tag #orufrey #some real serious discussions goin on in this atelier today. dont u doubt it.#agott is the only one who has ever thought about this because she is a 12 year old lesbian and UMM..FRIEND? LIKE FRIEND? IS THAT..LEGAL???#this is all i drew today because silly things like this take hours lol. at least it's practice for poses -_-#i got the pattern of the girls' dresses wrong but i couldn't be bothered to change halfway through.#don't worry if you're like what is the naakiwan downs. is that name even mentioned in the main manga #ANYWAY i KEEP thinking about what if it's actually banned for professors and watchful eyes to date like that would make a lot of sense.#like maybe it should be banned. SO??? are they just low-key Aware of what the deal is and they're just Putting their feelings aside #until graduation??? take my tassel as an unspoken reminder of how i feel?? living together trial period?? this feels like it's truly it #When we're free to be together........ Sensei loves homophobia parallels without there actually being homophobia #Let's invent reasons why men cant be together. Ummm well whatever. i'm screaming in my head but it's fine.#this will probably form the theme of my orufrey for a while. i've thought of this before but for some reason today it's big for me.#i guess the tassels might not specifically be a part of that since they exchanged them before tower of books #and qifrey made his mysterious decision to be a teacher after that and..well whatever. I need more of backstory and just..everything?#But i also don't mind when vinanna interrupts my wishes with just a chapter of just being really dreamy? I love witch hat?

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cherubdulce · 4 months

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“ I can't see me lovin' nobody but you

For all my life

When you're with me, baby, the skies'll be blue

For all my life ”

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#🦆🦌#I guess now is the time post my trevorbambi comm after being in my drafts for awhile 😭🫶🏽#GUYS YOU DONY UNDERSTAND WHEN I FIRST SAW THE FINISHED PIECE I WAS ROLLINH AROUND CRYING RUNNINH IN CIRCLES OG MY GOSH #ULT FAVE EVER…..#they even got the height difference spot on….#I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND RAGHGHGH #giggling and kicking my feet!!!!🩷✨🫧💥#🌼gifts #self ship #self ship community #fictional other #f/o community #lesbian selfship #bipoc selfship

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ava-ferin · 8 months

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any non romantic albatrio fans out there please raise your hands i need to see more of my own kind

their dynamic means so much more to me when they aren’t dating or pining or anything, they’re just buddies :] they’re friends and that friendship is the strongest damn bond you’ve ever seen

I’m a firm believer in “platonic friendship is just as (if not more) important than romance” so maybe that’s skewing my beliefs but like albatrio where they’re the best friends you’ve ever seen to the point where they ARE in love, just platonically. like brothers and sisters are. they hug, they fight, they’re odd and confusing to a stranger but to everyone that knows them it’s “kinda just how they are”

bonus they’re all collectively Ollie’s older sibling figures but they have different styles of raising children so gillion is trying to train him in the art of the blade and being a hero and whatnot while jay practices gentle parenting and chip trains him in the art of being a little rascal

the riptide crew is one big family and i would not trade that for a canon romance any day of my life

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iwillfightgodandwin · 5 months

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Neil Gaiman and Taika Waititi are out here doing all the work™ for queers right now and that's beautiful

#i love them #just two cis dudes being great allies #i actually dont know #about Taika tbh #man gives off serious queer energy #Taika Waititi #Neil Gaiman #american gods #good omens #the sandman #ofmd #the thor movies I guess #i haven't seen the newest one #I'm going to throw in #coraline #because those old ladies are lesbians and you can't tell me otherwise #it's more like 80% Neil and 20% Taika

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icedjuiceboxes · 5 months

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I think it's super sexy for Emily to go high chaos and become corrupt BUT like it's so overdone so there's no flavour so please consider Emily to be so afraid of losing herself to revenge and bloodthirst that she'd rather let herself get hurt than hurt another (no matter how much it'd be justified.)

Emily coming back from each mission beaten and bloody, hands scraped and coat tattered. Meagan trying to convince Emily it's her or them. That she can't afford to spare every enemy she crosses paths with.

Emily trying to keep her spirits high but failing with each mistake and slip up and having to bear a new scar as a hard-learnt lesson.

The loss of innocence, hope, and preservence slipping until Emily can barely recognize herself anymore. Not because of what she's done, but what it cost at the expense of herself. Because that's what an empress is meant to do, isn't it? She have to lead by example. She cannot be a hypocrite. She must meet impossible standards which goalposts are constantly shifting.

#dishonored #emily kaldwin #dishonored 2 #my dh rambles #does this like make sense-#“came back wrong” but like #well i guess its being traumtised.#anyway meagan and emily hurt/comfort lets go lesbians lets go

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thepoisonroom · 4 months

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why are people so concerned with policing women's leg hair like bro if you're seeing leg hairs she is not wearing pants. get with it!!!

#still baffled and upset by thia advice column letter i read #from a lesbian who wanted to know how she could say on her dating profiles she didn't date people who don't shave body hair #like i GUESS but what the hell #personal nonsense #sorry for seeing leg hair and immediately being like 😳😳😳

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farewell-superiors · 17 days

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The only important persona tier list

#my only adjustments would be maybe Akihiko in bi because of the beach scene #but I think it’s funnier if he’s gay lol #can you guess what ships I like #persona #persona 3 #persona 4 #persona 5 #also I fully believe yusuke is asexual #he just thinks that women are aesthetically really beautiful #he doesn’t actually care about them sexually at all #and Ann is 100% a lesbian I could go on about it for a while #I think social link romances are all noncanon except for a few specific ones (like Aigis)#so Ann being in love with ren and ren being in love with any of the women is noncanon #if that makes sense #p3 #p4 #p5

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nametakensff · 4 months

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Oh vibrators I have missed you 🥰

#also honestly some of the stories on serotica still go so fucking hard #there are so many good lesbian fics on there #i guess 'good' is subjective but what some lack in story-telling and accurate depictions of wlw relationships #they make up for in sheer fetishy horniness #there are also some great cheesy gay fics and plenty of het ones too god I love being bi #anyway thanks for the orgasms years later serotica writers #nttalks

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squirting-sub · 3 months

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Does anyone have tips on bratting/provoking my dom?

I want her to be rougher and let her frustrations out on me. But I want to make it easier for her as she's a nice person and can't just be a dick out of nowhere. However, I'm a people pleaser, so I actually don't brat and have no idea how to provoke 😅

#i guess I'm afraid of looking ridiculous or being mean?#sigh #lesbian nsft #dyke nsft #wlw bd/sm #sapphic nsft #lesbian bd/sm #lesbian d/s #wlw d/s #sapphic bd/sm #wlw nsft #sapphic d/s #brat #bratting #provocation #sub original

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hatosaur · 1 year

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why do yall feel compelled to give ellie a biological child. why do you insist on writing ellie to have a more traditional lifestyle. immunity be damned, why is it not enough for some of yall that a lesbian can just not do those fuckin things.

#talkies #tlou #not to be pissy after being gone for weeks but i can't stand pregnant ellie fics #jj is literally her son; HE is her child #obviously if you want them having more than one kid fine i guess but making ellie the csa survivor who's a lesbian do it smells fishy to me #that's just me idfk #why do i see more pregnant ellie shit than fics of her bonding with jj

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sarochafreen · 1 year

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Gap the Series deleted scene from the trailer

#gap the series #gap yuri #freen sarocha #becky armstrong #unhinged vibes in that trailer but #it's funny to me that they deleted this because of the backlash of Becky being young #but then eps 8 and 9 have multiple love scenes lmao #what is the truth?#if she's old enough to vote and drive (tho she doesn't) and be a lawyer why cant she have sex scenes?#i guess idol culture is all about cuteness #idk #if someone had already uploaded this here and wants me to delete this just dm me #thai drama #thai series #gl series #gl drama #mp #lesbian

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