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lesgenssucent · 1 year
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You told me to close my eyes, grabbed my hand and pulled me across the store. Told me to point and that the book I picked was meant for me and all I wanted to do was to push you against the shelf and kiss you til we couldn’t breathe…
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redheadbigshoes · 11 months
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I don't see anyone bring this up, but there has been a lot of internalized misogyny within the lesbian community.
While every lesbians have every right to personal preferences, I'm seeing them bring down other lesbians who "looks like a straight girl with a long hair and makeup" and prefer to date girls who looks like a cinnamon roll that has short hair and wears non-revealing clothes because they "most likely not to cheat and betray you" and as someone who has long hair, and makeup, I only wanted to look attractive for women only, and now I'm questioning if I'll ever be good enough for them and I hate men FOR REAL and yet - men comes after me instead. #lesbianstruggles
Some lesbians really love to fight against each other and it’s a shame.
Bringing down someone because of the way they look is just so shitty…
As you pointed out you can absolutely have preferences regarding someone’s appearance as long as you respect people who don’t fit your preferences. It’s completely unnecessary bringing someone down simply because you don’t find them attractive.
I feel like when it comes to feminine lesbians (I’m specifically mentioning them because that’s what you brought up) I’ve seen some lesbians treat us as if we’re not real lesbians because they think deep down we’re attracted to men, use the fact that a lot of people assume we’re straight as a way to bring us down or even treat us like a straight person.
And yeah it’s a real struggle lol it’s a shame how when you’re feminine the people who will mostly come to you to flirt or to try anything are men.
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welp it was pretty easy for this hopeless romantic to fall in love in october but i can’t say it was mutual... does that at least count for half a point?
i need a girl to fall in love with me
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My mother has bought me spongebob and Ben 10 boxer brief style underwear, watched me turn every baseball cap backwards regardless of weather, never been introduced to a bf, has been told SEVERAL times I will NOT be marrying a man and comments on the fact that I'll buy heels for a special occasion only wear them once until she takes then. And after all that she still asks when I'll find a bf? Like ma'am, how do you NOT know I'm gay? Should I ask the doc to adjust your glasses?
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Me for way too long: OMG I am so jealous of lesbians!! I wish I was a lesbian, I mean have you ever seen a girl? THEY ARE SOO PRETTY. I mean boys are okay but I would rather be with a girl tho. Damn, it’s such a shame that I am super straight.
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taylorisiert · 5 years
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A little extra need for listening to All Too Well on repeat rn. The girl I had/have a crush on has a boyfriend for SIX YEARS, that's huge. He's a cool guy, I met him today. I just feel sick and I just wish I could ask some magician to turn me straight or something like that. Idk.
@taylorswift @itgetsbetterproject
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aravensdaisies-blog · 5 years
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I am dumb (entry 1)
it is past midnight where I live and yet I am watching buzzfeed ladylike because Jen is really hot. I wish I could shave my head (and live up to my dyke potential) without looking like kim jong un. alskdhf;lskdjflks
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kitten-inthe-garden · 6 years
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My girlfriend looks like a man
But that doesn’t mean I like men. She presents herself in a masculine manner and calls herself a gentlewoman. And I love her for it. People assume that because she embraces masculinity that correlates to me liking men! Masculinity and feminity don’t define sexuality. When will people stop asking me why don’t I just date a man?
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aj52094-blog · 6 years
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Damn, I look pretty drunk 🤦🏻‍♀️ but still low key like this pic
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tinynachoblizzard · 7 years
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Lingerie by Cristina Aielli Model: Threnody In Velvet Photography: Iberian Black Arts
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huurpaula · 4 years
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I think the really shitty thing about being lesbian is the fact that I get told by random old men DAILY that i will “find a man someday” or “i’ll get married and have beautiful children”. Like, you don’t know me, you don’t know my sexuality or family or life. I know you mean it in a kind way, but it’s really annoying to constantly get told by random people i dont know that i’ll ”find a man” cuz for one, i dont want a man and 2, my love life is none of your damn business, old man.
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lesgenssucent · 3 years
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Just made out with a girl for the first time today and holy shit dudes, I am very fucking gay
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makileigh · 5 years
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Being a lesbian can be kinda confusing sometimes
It’s like. Damn. I’d kill to have her body..... But I’d do worse things to have her body pressed up against me.
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medusa-xoxo · 5 years
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Just a Lonely Lesbian
I really wish that there were some other out young lesbians (13,14,15) at my school so I had someone to relate to. Just gets lonely sometimes oof.
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colleennholland · 6 years
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I get kinda sad when I see a pretty girl because part of me knows I’ll probably never get to know her.
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slicemyheartintwo · 7 years
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Pretty convinced that Dua lipa is the physical embodiment of the realest of lesbian struggles: do I want to be her? or be with her?
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