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blissfullyecho · 1 year
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how to create a leveling up/dream girl/rebranding plan 🤍🍸🖤
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establish your aesthetic
first thing’s first, you need to know where you want to go in life and what is your “aesthetic”? do you want to be giving “classy, businesswoman”? what about “nyc socialite”? of course these are just examples, but you should know what type of girl you want to embody. remember, you don’t have to fit a narrative, but you should have a general “aesthetic” that you want to be associated with. even if it’s 50 million different aesthetics, it’s whatever makes you, you.
visualize yourself/life
get inspired by making a vision board (physical or digital) and add to your board (if digital) daily. i find that this helps you stay in alignment with where you want to be in the future. you have to stay in that frequency and remind yourself of what’s next to come… because this new life is what’s next to come.
start with habits
please refer to my “starting your leveling up journey” post, but basically— you should create 1-3 habits for each of your goals and work on them until they become second nature. then when you’re ready, start implementing more habits that are aligned with your goals.
create routines with your habits
can you incorporate some of these new habits into a morning or evening routine? we all know that routines are important— they almost become our personalities and they set the tone for the day and night, and even the next day. for me, i know i’m only inspired to exercise in the morning around 10am, so exercise is part of my morning routine.
create daily + weekly goals
let’s say part of your journey is learning a new language. a daily goal could be learning one new vocabulary word in that language. your weekly goal could be knowing the alphabet in that language. use this method for all of your goals.
don’t overwhelm yourself with goals, routines, and habits
start slow; don’t overwhelm yourself. if you want to work on one goal at a time, then work on that one goal. burnout is real and it’s very hard to get back into the swing of things afterwards. i understand most of us are impatient when we just want to be a different version of ourselves, but it’s going to take some adjusting. i suggest not working on more than 3 things at once, but if you can work on more, go ahead
be a part of a community to keep you accountable
tumblr and facebook groups in my opinion are the best ways you can connect with other women who are working on the same thing. you can inspire one another, bounce ideas off of one another, and it’s super fun. you might want to even document your journey online.
set milestones and have a reward system
let’s say you would like to lose or gain weight, no matter the number, focus on 5-10 pound increments. when each milestone is successfully completed, reward yourself with something nice. maybe it’s getting your nails done, or splurging on a product that everyone on tiktok keeps talking about. apply this to any of your goals where there are milestones to get to.
don’t waste the day
you should not have any “zero days” meaning… you should be doing at least one thing everyday to reach a goal(s) you have. it doesn’t matter if one goal was to maintain a more organized, clean environment— do your dishes, set the trash out, clean up the hair from the bathroom sink, etc.
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swabian-princess · 1 year
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I refuse to complain.
I have no right to complain, not about my appearance nor about my health.
I have all the tools and knowledge to transform myself into the best possible version and until I tried everything, I simply refuse to complain about anything.
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miracleunique · 1 year
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xoxo 💋❤️
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haruharuz · 2 years
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2022 Revision July - Dec
@boujeeceo for the post idea because purr I love the idea of this!
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Let's talk about goals, habits, and money.
Anything RED indicates a goal that I MISSED and needed to reevaluate.
BLUE are my current priorities or are works in progress
GREEN are completed or the habit is formed
Habits
Wash dishes as soon as I use them
Clothing placed straight into basket after use
Fold clothes immediately out of dryer
Clean dancer bag after every shift
Whiten teeth weekly
Morning Routine
Night Routine
Gallon of water per day
Declutter house weekly
Declutter digitally every month
20-30 minutes no phone daily
Create a large oral care routine
Goals
Develop mobile app
Develop game
Save $10k
Lip Filler
Dentist Entry Appt
Dentist whitening 50% Saved
Dentist fillings
New laptop
Ombre brows / Brow Tint
New apartment / house
Buy/Save new car ($15k)
Esthetician Course plan Sign Up
Lash Technician Course Find
Plan & save for EMT course
Refresh GED scores
B1 Korean
B1 Spanish
100k on IG
Real estate license
New Phone ($1500 😬)
Vending machines x 2
Nails
Brows
Redecorate apartment
Complete Harvard mooc
Complete Wine MOOC
Business cards
800 credit score
Beauty Notes
Follow entire skincare regimen daily
Keep nails shaped
Pedicure ALWAYS done
Possible lash extensions /lift
Workout DAILY
Money
$10k a month by the end of September
$10k a month by the end of November
Three sources of income by the end of the year
Stockpile photos (lewd not nude) for future money making
Research avenues of income for faceless nameless work
Begin donating plasma 2x per week
Save esthetician tuition
Avoid eating fast food to preserve mental and physical health
Plan Emergency Fund
Build Emergency Fund
Work
Build dancing clientele to minimum 20+ med. Tier clients ($60-100 spent every time they visit)
Spend $1000 on a dancer clothing haul
Build clientele to minimum 10+ high tier clients ($700+ every visit)
Completely flat jade split
Split grip air twerk with no grip aide
Inverted flip to split drop
Jasmine to Scorpio drop
Ayesha twerk
Headstand pole to split
Middle split twerk
Buy Three more fake designer dance sets
I'll be saving things on Pinterest as well for meal ideas, easy workout ideas, aesthetics, motivations, etc! (It's @ harubees)!
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leiko-in-love · 9 months
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something about hypergamy you’ve come to realise?
In pursuit of becoming a hypergamous woman, I feel as if I robbed myself of all the experiences that I thought I would have only when I was perfect.
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agirlsguide · 1 year
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Outer Order Contributes To Inner Calm
Your living space is a direct reflection of what's going on internally. It's absolutely vital that you keep your space clean and tidy to alleviate any mental stress associated with living in clutter.
Here are my tips to ensure a clean and tidy home:
Put things where they are meant to go. If you give yourself a manicure and bring out all of your polishes and tools, put them back where they belong once you're finished. Most of the clutter in a home is a result of not putting things back where they belong after using them. Once you figure out where things belong, you can focus on the true clutter in your home.
Organize, Organize, Organize! I suggest buying bins for the organization of your smaller things, such as medicine, lotions, and makeup. Having things located in bins in a space like a bathroom closet will categorize your items and it'll be easier to know where things are and how much of the item you actually have. When you have items all clustered in a space, it's hard to see what you actually have and what you're in need of.
Minimalism is Key. When it comes to design and decoration, try to keep things to a minimum. I'm not referring to wallpaper or colorful china, but rather the decorations you use on a kitchen table or coffee table. Simple is key and easy to follow up with in terms of cleaning. When you have a lot of small items laying around, it becomes much harder to clean them and keep them neat.
Coordinate your cleaning materials! Yes, the scent of your cleaning products matters and when you have clashing scents, it creates a harsh scent in your home, making it difficult to appreciate the cleanliness. If you like using citrus scents, stick to those scents for all cleaning products and your home will have a complimentary scent throughout. This tip also works well with candles in your home.
Lastly, take things one day at a time and tackle different rooms every day until you achieve your desired look and feel for your home. Once your home is clutter free and clean, you'll feel much more relaxed and ready to put your best foot forward.
Gracefully,
A Girl's Guide
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Did I mention that my man has a culinary degree.😉🥩🥔
7.24.22
See more of our journey here
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pedigreebaby · 2 years
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Tea - #1
I've been busy recently, but that's a good thing. The busier I am, the more money I make. The more money I make, the more changes I can make when I get back to school.
I have divided the things I want to work on into two lists.
Stuff I will do right now, and stuff I will do after accumulating my savings i.e. when school is in session again.
There's a lot, but that's another post.
Wish me luck.
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gwqgvllz96 · 27 days
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Jessica notices that her stepson Chad has a very messy room, so she decides to have a talk with him about it and tell him how girls are attracted to men who can keep their spaces clean. CONTINUE...
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blissfullyecho · 1 year
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how to begin your rebranding journey (self-rebrand tips)
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1. start following accounts (like mine🫶) that helps you with your rebrand. whoever you want to become, how you want to live, use social media as a way to constantly be reminded to upgrade yourself. subscribe to youtubers who live how you want to live and those who will help you with what you need help with. you use social media everyday so you might as well use it for a purpose rather than endless scrolling. change it up, it’s okay
2. this kind of goes hand-in-hand with number 1, but change your mental environment. you are the content that you consume. you are the music you listen to, you are the tv shows you watch, you are the social media you follow— all this media is being recorded in your mind. your subconscious mind perceives it as real. think about it: people who listen to sad music are generally always pretty sad. people who watch crime documentaries are usually scared and on high alert 24/7. it’s okay to enjoy your favorite music, tv shows, movies, books, etc., but be careful of how much of it you’re consuming. change it up, it’s okay
3. change your physical environment. redecorate, move, clean, organize, go outside more, do everything you need to do to change your physical environment. this can be as simple as letting in fresh air and sunlight rather than keeping the blinds closed and being in the horrible fake yellow light and air conditioning (unless it’s extreme heat or cold outside.. obviously). maybe try eating out at that restaurant instead of having it delivered. always look to change your environment and surroundings. change it up, it’s okay
4. i suggest doing the steve harvey 300 things list. if you don’t know what it is, you write down 300 things you want for yourself and for your life. read it every morning and every night. pray over it. meditate over it. and work on some of those things. it’s not enough to just read and pray, you have to do the work. feel free to look it up on youtube
5. start working on your goals today. do something. anything. maybe you can only handle one goal at a time. that’s okay. maybe you can work on multiple goals at once, that’s okay too. it’s not a race. do something right after reading this, it’s okay
helpful things to remember:
it's not going to happen overnight, relax
you must enjoy the process and not try to focus so much on just the end result
you're going to have good days and bad days. again, relax
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swabian-princess · 2 years
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The Cheatcode
Hello Ladies,
I’ve found the cheat code when it comes to hypergamy! You’ll only need a little start capital…not that much, only around 1-2k.
You need to rebuild your entire wardrobe. Yes. Throw out your crop tops and your leggings. No high value man wants a woman that is dressed like a yoga teacher all day. I don’t care if you’re only 21. Buy all those long skirts and button up tops and don’t even think about purchasing a bag cheaper than 500 dollars.
Think about what you can do in terms of your appearance. Maybe a nose job or a skinny BBL? If you’re lucky you can get away with only lip fillers.
Only speak about feminine stuff. Home decor. How you’re planning to homeschool your children. Let the man talk about masculine things like politics or finances.
Are you still reading? Well…I have a surprise for you…
…there is no such thing as a cheatcode.
Sorry, but I need to rant a little bit.
I’m so fucking annoyed at posts like this. There is currently and likely never will be a cheatcode for hypergamy.
Don’t believe those feminity influencers – most of them aren’t even married or have bagged a billionaire. Don’t buy books from these people and don’t give them money for strange online classes, that claim you’ll meet a billionaire within a five step program.
The truth is, wether you like it or not, that only very few woman will marry into high society and even fewer will stay in those circles.
I don’t know if you get it but those men are only human and want a honest connection with their partner. (Well, I’m sure there are men that really only care about looks but is this really a man you would like to marry? Even if he’s the richest man on the planet?)
Hypergamy is work. Hard fucking work.
Many of you seem to think that those men only fuck you and look at you. What do you do if you can’t fuck because you’re on a gala or his mothers birthday dinner? You’ll have to open your mouth and start talking.
I’m like 98% sure that you could be a grenade in bed and the most beautiful woman that ever walked on earth, if you can’t hold a conversation for longer than a minute, you won’t be succesful.
I am not that beautiful myself, I’m average with a few nice features but I can entertain my boyfriend for hours just talking about my day. I can discuss current politics with him and talk about his business without googling every second phrase.
He loves to spend time with me because he likes how I make him feel. I make him feel welcomed in his home, I make sure to listen to his problems and about what brings him joy. I am the first person he wants to call when he has a hard or a very succesful day because he know that my reactions are always honest and genuine. I won’t just tell him what he wants to hear – I tell him my opinion.  
Another thing that bugs me, is that those feminity influencers make relationships seem like the only things to do are shopping, taking vacations and going out to eat.
Honestly it’s fucking hard to be with a high value man.
High value man = very full schedule.
My boyfriend works from 5:30am to 7pm and sometimes even longer. When he comes home he wants to shower, eat something and talk to me.
I prepare his meals and clean the house while he’s at work. I do grocerie shopping and laundry, I iron his clothes and order his skin and haircare products.
He doesn’t expect me in a full face of makeup and a bodycon dress with heels when he gets home but he wants me to be clean and freshly showered. He want’s no drama and he expects that I know my place – beside him.
A relationship is work, especially if you’re in one with a man that works 80+ hours a week. Don’t expect endless shopping trips with him or a nice dinner every day. There is a reason why he has money – he works for it and his working hours are usually very long.
Okay, thats all I have for now.
Bye Bye
Selene
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miracleunique · 2 years
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The major 🔑 to a healthy leveled up lifestyle.
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inkskinned · 6 months
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what is with men being mad any time a woman raises her voice where did that even come from. someone posted a video of a small electrical explosion, and the top comment was of course the woman screams. the second comment is women try not to scream challenge, level impossible. i had to go back and watch the video again. there is, somewhat fainty, a little gasp emitted off-camera, more of a yelp than a scream. it is mostly lost in the crack of the explosion. afterwards, you hear her voice, shaken, say, are you okay?
i am helping one of my friends train her voice pitch lower, because she wants to be taken seriously at work. she and i do each other's nails and talk about gender roles; and how - due to our appearance - neither of us have ever been able to be "hysterical" in public. we both appear young and sweet and feminine. she is cisgender, and cannot use her natural voice in her profession because people keep saying she appears to be "vapid". we both try to figure out if our purposeful voice lowering is technically sexist. is it promoting something when you are a victim to it?
a storm almost sends a pole through a car window. in the dashcam, you can hear the woman passenger say her partner's name twice, crying out in alarm. she sounds terrified. in the comments, she is lambasted for her lack of calm. how is that even fucking helping?
in high school, i taught myself to have a lower voice. i had been recorded when i was genuinely (and righteously) upset; and i hated how my voice sounded on the phone speakers when it was played back. i was defending my mom, and my voice cracked with emotion. it meant i was no longer winning the argument: i was just shrieking about it.
girls meet each other after a long summer and let out a little joyful scream. this usually stops around 12-14, because people will not tolerate this display of affection (as it has the effect of being passingly annoying). something about the fact that little girls can't ever even be annoying. we are trained to examine each part of our lives (even joy) for anything that could make us upsetting and disgusting. they act like teenage girls are breaking into houses and shrieking you awake at 3 in the morning. speaking as a public school educator: trust me, it's not that bad, you can just roll your eyes and move on. it does not compare to the ways boys end up being annoying: slurs in graffiti, purposefully mocking your body, following you after you said no. you know, just boy things.
there's another video of a man who is not allowed to yell in the house, so he snaps his fingers when he's excited about soccer. the comments are full of angry men, talking about how their brother is unfairly caged. let him express himself and this is terrible to do to someone. eventually the couple has to address it in a second video: they are married with a newborn baby. he was trying not to wake the infant up. there is no comment on the fact women are not allowed to yell indoors. or the fact that it could have been really alarming or triggering for his wife. sometimes i wonder if straight men even like women, if they even enjoy being in relationships with them.
for the longest time, i hated roller coasters because it always felt inappropriate and uncomfortable for me to scream. one of my friends called me on it, said it was unusual i'm so unwilling. i had to go to my therapist about it. i don't like to scream because i was not raised in a safe situation, and raising my voice would have brought unsafe attention towards me. even when i am supposed to scream, it feels shameful, guilty. i was not treated kindly, so i lack a basic form of self-protection. this is not a natural response. it is not good that in a situation of high adrenaline - i shut up about it.
something very bad is happening, i think. in between all the beauty standards and the stuff i've already discussed - this one feels new and cruel in a way i can't quite express. yes, it's scary and silencing. but there's something about how direct it is - that so many men agree with the sentiment that women should never yell, even in an emergency - it feels different.
is the word shriek gendered automatically? how about shrill or screech? in self defense class, one of the first things they tell you is to yell, as loud and as shrilly as you can. they say it will feel rude. most women will not do this. you need to practice overcoming the social pressure and just scream.
most women do not cry out, even when it's bad. we do not report it. we walk faster. we do not make a scene. what would be the point of doing anything else? no matter what we do, we don't get taken seriously. it is a joke to them. an instagram caption punchline. we have to present ourselves as silent, beautiful, captivating - "valuable."
a woman is outside watching her kids when someone throws a firecracker at them. she screams and runs towards her children. in the comments, grown men flock together in the thousands: god. women are so annoying.
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windonthewaters · 5 months
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csuitebitches · 2 months
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Level Up Pyramid.
I will never stop yapping about how important it is to get your basics right. If your base routine is not solid, no matter what you add on to it, it will never be sustainable.
most of us get motivated in the middle of the night, build an elaborate routine that we’ll follow for less than 2 days and we’re back to square one.
I get so many asks about girls getting stressed over their routine and how they should solve the issue. If your routine is stressing you out, you need to cut. It. Down.
this is a pyramid that will teach you to get the basics down and in what order.
if your foundation is strong, your base routine will be an unshakeable of your life. if it is an unshakeable part of your life, you will slowly but surely get better at those things. as you get better at those things, your confidence will increase. as your confidence increases, you will be ready and motivated to take on more challenges.
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