#lgbt questions

[sillyunknownkitkat]

where do you guys find your girlfriends huh? like everybody is ranting about how fucking amazing they are while I don't find anyone tf-

like do you go to a store? is there a country with just thousands of perfect girlfriend??????

#wlw post #wlw #wlw love #wlw longing #lesbian #lgbt pride #pride #lgbt questions #lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbtqia

[starcoffinxd]

Okay so genuine question:

Is there a term for agender people loving women and agender people loving men? Like I know some people will do like an 'NB' for nonbinary folk but like, I feel like us agender and neutrois folk need some terms as well.

#lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq community #agender #neutrois #nonbinary #non binary #aspec #aspec community #gender void #gender null #questions #lgbtqia+ community #lgbtq+ #lgbtq+ community #lgbt questions #lgbtq questions

[roseate-felidae]

Social anxiety and the confusion in my romantic orientation

Hi,

So I've been trying to figure out my romantic orientation recently.

I've known for a very long time that I'm Asexual. Specifically sex repulsed. Accepted it, moved on.

For a long time I believed I was (and I still am) homoromantic. Liked girls, love hugs and the occasional kiss. Never questioned it for years.

Didn't think about that stuff for very long time and then recently started too. Woo midlife crisis without even being that old yet :D

Thought about getting a partner, dating apps were an experience to say the least.

From finding out most people won't date ya If you won't have sex and realising just how important shared interests are to me. All fine until I met some lovely people and had panic attacks (not their fault though).

I just couldn't deal with the idea of constant contact. I went from rarely speaking to people to trying to think of doing so long-term. Too much too soon. My autism panicked and I couldn't take it. Became extremely anxious and became unwell.

To cope with this revelation, I wondered if I could be aromantic. Turns out I'm most likely not. Doing my research it doesn't fit too well and neither does the idea of queer plantonic relationships. All this trying to make it "fit" is making my depression worse too, as I know it doesn't feel right.

Most of what I thought was aromantic-ness is actually just my social anxiety. I know if I get to know someone I can be very affectionate. It's just getting to that point.

So I have a lot to work on anxiety wise but at least I've come to terms with it.

I would like to do some more research into aromantism though. I know I'm not one myself, but it would be nice to appreciate and understand them more. Not just think about them during pride (or to avoid my anxiety).

Geez don't you just love autism and anxiety?

#homoromantic #aromantic #asexual #social anxiety #actually autistic #autism #neurodivergent #lgbtq+ #lgbt questions #lgbt

[moonandris]

Can anyone please kindly explain what the term 'Bi-Het' means? As a bisexual, I am very confused and slightly concerned...

I literally just discovered this term this morning and I see it being used in less savory corners of the internet (*cough* Twitter *cough*) and it seems to be often used in a derogatory manner. If it means something in a non-derogatory way, I would like to know that as well. What exactly is a bisexual-heterosexual and what is the purpose of this word's use??? Am I missing something here?

Please be nice, I am genuinely asking this and I cry easily. 🥺👉👈

#faye asks #bisexual tumblr #bisexual #bisexuality #bi-het #bihet #bisexual-heterosexual #bisexual questions #LGBT questions #bisexual concerns

[unluckyshinyhunter]

ok so i have 2 questions for the bisexual community

1: is it bisexual if you’re into women/men and no people

2: is there a separate term for it

i don’t know im new to this

#bisexual #bi #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #lgbtq #nonbinary #nb #lgbtqplus #lgbt questions

[corvidaemnit]

hello, this is .. very different from my average post but I wanted to ask for some assistance here due to not having anywhere else to ask

I’ve recognized the fact that I’m transmasc nonbinary for quite some time now, and I don’t pass.. at all. I have a plus sized body type and my chest pokes out a lot- and I have pretty feminine, rounded facial features.

I know that passing isn’t everything and gender norms are silly etc, but for my own personal confidence I would like to try and pass more. for example, I would like to get a binder but I have no idea where to start..

any suggestions?

#daemnthoughts #trans #transgender #transmasc #nonbinary #lgbt #queer #lgbt questions #lgbt help #queer help #trans help #binder #chest binding #help a queer out #genderqueer

[ankle-breaker-101]

QUEER PEOPLE! PLEASE HELP!

I NEED TO KNOW WHICH FLAG IS CORRECT FOR QUOIROMANTIC!!!

AND QUICKLY!!!

Sooooooooo, I figured it out—sorry peeps—I guess I’ll still leave this up though to show support for fellow quoiromantic/sexual people. 🖤💚🩵🩶

#lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #lgbtqplus #lgbt questions #quoiromantic #aromantic #asexual #quoisexual #please #hurry

[gaygayhomesexualgay]

can t4t be considered a microlabel?

#lgbt pride #lgbtq #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #transgender #trans rights #gay #trans pride #lgbt agenda #trans agenda #lgbt questions #t4t #t4t wlw #t4t nblw #microlabels

[smol-unis]

Anyone have a experience with either of these ? And do you prefer half or full tanks ? Especially for bigger sized chests

(And Ik Amazon isn’t recommended for binders but these are underworks brand and we’re currently only able to buy through Amazon)

#binder #chest binding #chest binder #binding #ftm #ftm binding #ftm chest #trans #transgender #transmasc #trans man #ftm trans #underworks #underworks binder #trans questions #lgbtq #lgbt questions #system #text🌈

[twoclownswithadhd]

My steps in finding out some part of my sexuality 

I’m heterosexual.

I’m heterosexual and I find girls very pretty/

I’m heterosexual and an ally. (Sure)

I might find girls attractive but I’m straight!

I would be with her if she was a guy

I’m just bi-curious that’s all.

Okay, I’m bisexual

I love girls (in bi)

So guys are kinda cool (bi)

Rarely has a real crush on a guy.

Still bi but I’m might want to be intimate with my significant other. (Bi and Demisexual)

I love girls but I don’t want to be intimate with them or guys (in bi ace?)

I may not like guys (lesbian ace?)

I don’t like guys(lesbian ace)

If my partner is female I might have an intimate(Bi??? Ace???)

I want to be with women mostly. I would date girls if it wasn’t for my family. 

I might sleep with the same sex than the opposite if I they are my SO (Significant Other) ????

WTF am I

#lgbtq #bambi bisexual #bi ace #biromantic #bi #bisexaul #lesbian #asexual #asexual lesbian #bambi lesbian #lgbt questions #lgbt help

[sillyunknownkitkat]

what is the sexuality where you're gay as hell but still attracted by the opposite gender (only in mind like not irl) ?

I don'tknow if this makes sense, but we're lots on tumblr so hopefully someone can help me :)

#lgbtq community #lgbt pride #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt questions #need help #gay #lesbian #transgender #asexual #aromantic #polygender #nonbinary #demi genre #I'm weird #:( #aroace #queer community #queer #fruity people #I don't know which tag to use lmao

[yourclown4107]

I'm not getting my hopes up, but is there anyone here who knows where you can buy a chest binder? Pharmacy? A sports store? I went to two places today but came home empty handed. Also I can't buy online because of my mother

Я ни на что не надеюсь, но есть ли тут кто, кто знает где можно купить биндер? Аптека? Спортивный магазин? Сегодня я был в двух местах, но вернулся домой с пустыми руками. Купить онлайн я не могу из-за матери

#на русском #биндер #транс #лгбтк+ #нужна помощь #binder #chest binder #trans #transition #demiboy #lgbtq+ #lgbt questions #help pls

[roseate-felidae]

Retry of question as I did the worst job of explaining things ever and have calmed down now to think straight. I saw my breakdown was not even linked to this scenario (just nutty hormones yay).

Am I aromantic?

I've never been that interested in socializing and usually keep to myself. I know I'm sex repulsed ace too.

But I recently tried dating apps and am confused by my romantic orientation now.

I like girls and I used to think it was romantically but I'm not so sure now.

Like I only want hugs?

I don't want a big kiss or many , just one on the cheek. But I can get that from my parents. Hand holding I never saw as romantic and I don't really care about holding anyone's hands but my nan and step mums. I don't want to share a bed or meet up with anyone.

Romantic movies I hate as they are so boring, I don't envision myself in any of those scenarios. I would not want to go on "dates". They just don't seem that interesting.

But I still like the look of girls?

Can I like girls and hugs but be aromantic? I don't really want much else.

But I thought aromantics didn't want any romantic things.

But are hugs romantic coded if there not with family? Like I hug my friends, pets and family. I give my parents kisses on the cheek and my pets foreheads. But I put no romance to it. But do I really know anything?

So is just wanting to hang, occasionally chat and hug a platonic relationship?

Oh and I'm not social, I see one of my friends once a year (we don't have anything in common) and she asks after me. My online friends I chat to sporadically.

Update- I don't think my nervousness and breakdown was linked to this, my hormones are messed up severly and I will need to do a tablet change soon. But havent yet received them.

Before my hormones fucked up I didn't even think about dating anyone in real life.

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #queer questions #lgbt questions #lgbt #lgbtq+

[peculiarwhiskers]

Question: Is genderflux and genderfluid the same identity? The words flux and fluid have similar meanings so I was wondering

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbt questions #questions #genderfluid #genderflux

[allexisunny]

I have an questions about neutral pronouns in English,my first language is Brazilian Portuguese.

I am used to use more formal talking,I do it in English and in Portuguese,so,I use,sir and ma'am,a bit frequently,and then I saw an post from someone here on Tumblr and I just started thinking about an comment to write to them,and I would usually start the phrase with "ma'am" or "sir" but these person uses neutral pronouns,so,what should I use instead of these?,I seriously was thinking about just calling them "person" but I don't know if it could may come out as offensive.

And also would like to ask if ma'am should only be used with older people, like, ma'am should only be used for older woman?

#non binary #nonbinary #pronouns #lgbt questions #transgender #transgender rights #trans pride #lgbtq+ #lgbtq community #gender neutral post #gender neutral

[crypttrader]

Okay, I have a question

If I'm in a permanent monogamous relationship with a cis bi woman and I'm a trans bi woman - does that still qualify our relationship as lesbians? Or are we bi-beans?

Like, how sapphic do things have to be to gain the title "lesbian marriage"?

#lgbtq+ #lgbt memes #gay #lesbian #trans #transfem #lgbt questions