#lgbtqia+ problems

[muggle-born-princess]

Reblog if you're LGBT and are against MAPS/Child Groomers

#i kinda want to prove a point to certain people #i don't usually post my personal problems on here unless I need to because I find it unecessary and childish #but this bullshit has been eating me the fuck up and I need to vent #LGBT does not equal groomer #Child groomers are not LGBT #MAPs are not LGBT #TW: Child Grooming #Tagging it that just in case anyone feels uncomfortable with said topic #fucking hate Texas and religion extremists and conservatives #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA #reblog bait

[ventingintears]

I'm thinking about trying out relationships again, cause I just want to be held and hold someone else and receive tiny lil forehead kisses, but.. I'm scared if I try that and it works out, then I will be making it seem like being Aro is a phase.. But if it doesn't work out I'm scared of hurting the other person.. I just-- I dunno what to do :[ I feel bad for feeling this way, and I dunno why. If anyone has any tips, please give them!!!! I legit have no clue what to do and I need help ffdjkldjklfdsjfkdljsdkcxlisuoekrhfciods

#lgbtqia+ problems #lgbtq+ problems #vent #lgbtqia+ #cw vent #I know its okay if it is a phase.. but I don't want people to use me as an example as why being aro is a phase. Idk if I am making sense..

[wonderingwhereiam]

#personally im too nonbinary for this #there's also several problems with this graph #but if you like it or it helps you that's good #lgbtq #lgbtqia #trans #nonbinary #gender nonconfirming

[queerism1969]

#corrupt cops #police state #police officer #arrest #police brutality #prison #queer #lgbtqia #lgbtq #mental wellbeing #mentality #therapy #problems #mental heath support #the mentalist #actually mentally ill #mentalheathawareness #mental health #struggle #stress

[asexual-in-distress]

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #ace positivity #ace pride #asexual #alphabet mafia #aroace #asexual pride #ace problems #pride month #pride dresses #lgbt

[sparrowsrandomthoughts]

According to society I’m old enough to have a crush on a boy but not old enough to know if I like girls

What a stupid age to be

#sparrowsrandomthoughts #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #aroace #lesbian #lgbtq problems #pride #aroace pride #lgbtq community #aromantic #asexual #society #lgbtq pride #genderfluid

[asexuwales]

I remember from before i realised i was asexual and me and some lads were talking about relationships and people cheating and the horrors and i piped up:

"if i had a partner i really wouldnt care at all if they slept with someone else, i dont want to have sex but they might so its easier for them to just fuck someone"

EVERYONES faces dropped in horror,,, thats when i started feeling like there was something wrong with me.

Looking back at it i realise, most asexuals dont see sex as a form of dovotion or an act of love, so to me I interpreted it as the equivalent of "oh they can go tenpin bowling with their mates, i dont care i dont like bowling so it wouldnt be very fun with me but i hope they have fun"

I keep forgetting and seriously sex is taken and given in a allo relationship.

#aroace #aromantic #asexual #asexualpride #asexual things #asexual thoughts #asexual problems #asexual stuff #acespec #ace #ace pride #lgbtqia

[muwfui]

Queerness.

If you’re intersex, you’re queer (includes PCOS), if you’re trans, you’re queer, if you’re gay, you’re queer, if you are aromantic, asexual, or on the aroacespec/aspec/arospec+, you’re queer, you use mpsec labels, you’re queer, if you’re gender-fluid, you’re queer, if you use xenogenders, you’re queer, hey if you’re apart of the LGBTQIA+ you’re queer! I’m tired of seeing other queer people shit on others for who’s ‘really’ queer, it’s not a fight, we’re literally apart of the same goddamn community.

Edit: You don’t have to consider yourself queer! This is for people who do!

#lgbtqia+ #aromantic #acespec #arospec #queer #trangender #queer community #queer problems #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #lgbtq #xenogender #xenogender pride #intersex issues #intersex #intersex pride #trans pride #gay pride #gender fluid

[the-names-august]

“Aroace people can still have romantic and have sexual relationships, so it’s okay to ship them!” Only works if that character has been implied to shown to be on that part of the spectrum.

Plus, this can also create a double standard of shipping. For an example for most (sane) people don’t tend to ship lesbians with men or gays with women, because it blatantly erases that representation. But whenever it’s a aroace character that has never shown any interest In romantic or sexual attraction at all is shipped with another character is seen (by surprising a lot of people) to be okay. Which is annoying.

Aroace people barely have any representation in media because of how lesser known the label is. Especially the ones who are completely disinterested in having any relationships unless they are platonic. So it be like adding salt in the wound by using the “aroace is a spectrum” just to ship a aroace character.

But overall when people do ship a gay man with a woman, or vice versa, it’s usually for the sake of shipping. So in my opinion, if you are going to ship a aroace character (who, once again, is completely disinterested any type of romantic or sexual relationship) with another character, just say because you want to ship them instead of grasping at straws and using flimsy excuses.

#aroace #aro pride #arospec #acespec #aroace spectrum #lgbtq #lgbtqia #aroace character #aroace community #aroace pride #aroace problems #aromantic #asexual #ace pride

[im-a-goddamn-cat]

really odd how ppl will advocate for sexual freedom and the ability to determine your own sexuality but then turn around and make fun of and/or insult ppl who don't have sex, ppl who don't have sex often, and ppl who don't have until sex later in life. you can't pick and choose whose sexuality is more valid. ik that sex and having a lot of sex is demonized to hell and back but the solution to that is not to demonize ppl who abstain from sex, ppl who don't have much sex, and ppl who stay virgins into adulthood for whatever reasons. ppl who don't have sex/a lot of sex or haven't had sex are already stigmatized as is. if you're gonna claim to be all-for sexual freedom but then look down on ppl who don't fit your criteria for how much a person should have sex then you're not truly for sexual freedom bc sexual freedom isn't just about letting ppl have as much sex as they want and how they want, it's also about letting ppl decide for themselves what their boundries are and if or when they want to have sex or not

#sorry idk if this makes sense #but damn im so sick of this shit man #its so shitty to many ppl #ace ppl and allo ppl who dont want to have sex or havent had sex yet get shit on so much and for what??? #fucking hate it #this isnt strictly an ace problem but im gonna tag it anyways #meowing #ace #asexual #asexuality #aspec #acespec #queer #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtqia+ #lgbt+ #mogai

[hiya-im-mary]

Here’s my hot take!!

When people try to make sexualities into Oc’s or characters,they always make their interpretation of asexuality a sad,serious,low energy “emo kid (derogatory)” ,while all the other sexuality characters are happy little goobers…it honestly irks me a lot >:(

Here’s an illustration to show what I mean!!

I’ll just say this!! If you’re gonna try to force the diversity of a single sexuality into one characterisation…

LET 👏 ASEXUALS👏BE👏GOOBERS👏👏👏

(Please <3)

#I guess this is the problem with creating a character based off a single sexuality!! #So many different types of people can be that sexuality!! #so trying to create a single character based off of the sexuality ignores all the people that don’t relate to that character!! #I’m AroAce and…I’d say pretty extroverted and happy!! #And then people make my sexuality into someone who I just…don’t relate to #and all the other characters look all happy and high energy and stuff!! #But not Asexuals #WE NEED MORE ASEXUAL CHARACTERS WHO ARE EXCITEABLE LITTLE GOOBERS!!!!!!!!! #At least we have Spunchbop!! #Asexual #Asexuality #LGBT #LGBT+ #LGBTQ #LGBTQ+ #LGBTQIA #LGBTQIA+ #Rambling #rant

[cloud-based-and-rainpilled]

I’ve been highly confused as to why Michael “deeply openly thirsting on Twitter about David Tennant for half a decade” Sheen is half-in half-out the closet but apparently Wales is absurdly homophobic lmao what the fuck how is a country the size of New Jersey that much of a hater bruh we out number the shit out of you

#i thought googling ‘how to say gay’ in welsh would be funny but it just made me sad #i knew the uk in general had a problem with trans people but WOW it’s fucked up in wales like. there are 8 of you what are you doing #i feel bad now lmao #wales #my weird welsh hyperfixation has taken me places let me tell you #cymru #homophobia #gay #lgbt #lgbtqia #good omens #bbc staged #michael sheen #i thought he was just ‘oh i’m quiet about my personal life’ but that’s not even true like my man’s probably actually scared #what a fuckass country lmao awesome #uk politics #united kingdom #david tennant #what is it with this tiny ass island taking over the world and being shitty lmao and this is coming from an american #bisexual #<- bisexual gang gang feel bad you fuckin haters lol #yes the whole world is homophobic i know etc but it’s like outrageously bad out there apparently #stay mad that i think nationalism is dumb ‘how dare you ever have an opinion you american’ #you’re white you are not going to like where the power + privilege argument inevitably goes

[userwaddles]

I really need someone to sleep with. Like literally hold and sleep and wake up next to. I don't want to date you or anything. Just be a friend, be a roomie.

Let me listen to your voice, let me count your heartbeat and let us drift off oversharing.

#aromantic pride #aromantic problems #aromantic #aromance #aroace #arospec #aromantic asexual #asexual #ace pride #lgbtqia #aesthetic attraction #platonic #platonic attraction #qpr #queer platonic relationship #queer platonic attraction

[darthginger-5]

✨Korra sitting in bisexual✨

#avatar korra #the legend of korra #lgbtqia #bi pride #legend of korra #sitting in bisexual #gay girl problems #avatar the last airbender

[asexual-in-distress]

Anyone else? No? Just me? （−＿−；）

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #alphabet mafia #ace positivity #ace pride #asexual #asexual pride #ace memes #asexual love #asexual memes #asexual humor #asexual community #ace jokes #ace humor #ace problems #acespec

[bidotorg]

#lgbt #queer #bisexuality #bi #lgbtq #lgbtqia #bi pride #bi visibility #bisexual #bisexual memes #bisexual visibility #bisexual pride #bisexual positivity #bisexual posting #bisexual panic #bisexual problems #coming out #lgbt community #bisexual women #bi women #bi girls #biseuxal #bi men #bi men positivity #bi men exist #bisexual men #bisexual moodboard #bisexual male lead #bisexual movies #bisexualidad