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forestpixies · 1 month
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no actually you’re either gentle parenting your child or you’re being emotionally and/or physically abusive to them, whether or not you’re aware of that.
because the term gentle parenting already includes discipline and teaching your kid right from wrong. gentle parenting doesn’t mean you can’t tell your kid no. it means you can tell them no when they do something they shouldn’t, but instead of punishing or yelling at them, you’re explaining and giving them reasons why they can’t do that, you are helping them learn and encouraging them to be better. gentle parenting means you’re using reasons built on mutual respect instead of anger. because yes, no matter how young your child is, they deserve respect too.
I’m sorry but most of the times when someone says they’re a strict parent, what it means is that they give their child childhood trauma that’ll last a lifetime, whether or not they’re aware of it. especially parents who brag to other people about how strict they are and how they punished their children.
and I’m sorry but saying you have a short temper is never an excuse to be emotionally and/or physically abusive towards your kid either.
“I yelled at you because I have a short temper” then why am I the one suffering? if you can’t control your anger, then get help. work on it. do better. be better.
also… your child standing up for themself against you, when you’re being abusive to them, isn’t them being disrespectful towards you. it means they are defending themself because you wouldn’t do that for them and so they had to step in and be their own protector.
if you’re a parent and can defend and stand up for yourself when you feel like you need to, but at the same time punish your kid when they stand up for themself against you, then you are the problem.
I was that child and I’m gonna make it as simple as I can for any parent out there — because no kid deserves to go through what I went through — imagine yourself owning a dog. really. you can either
a.) beat that dog whenever they do something wrong and simply take your anger out on them until they’re fully submissive and are terrified of you
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b.) train them with love and gentleness and earn their love and loyalty in return
now imagine both A and B dogs on leashes and imagine them no longer being on leashes one day. which dog do you think will run away as far as they can and never look back, and which one do you think will stay because they love and want to be with their owner?
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valorascult · 7 months
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⭐️ RESET ⭐️
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- delete contacts you no longer speak to, old notes on phone, playlists you no longer listen to. 📱
- unsubscribe from podcasts, channels, music, remove apps & accounts that you no longer absorb. (replace these things with content the person you’re becoming would consume) 🎵🤍
- go through your wardrobe & create a donate, sell, & keep pile. don’t keep things you haven’t worn in months. before purchasing something, ask yourself if you’ll use it more than 5 times. for every item you bring in, 2-3 items should leave. 👚👙👟
- start adjusting your diet to fit your personal goals. remember that slow motion is better than no motion + discipline is necessary. don’t force yourself to get healthy / fit in one week this is a steady win - avoid burnout. writing your goals every week helps. ✍🏼🍳🍎🫐🥑
- practice detachment. i don’t mean from emotions & becoming ‘stoic’ but from materialistic objects, remove yourself from labels, become nothing so that you may become something. detach yourself from people that no longer serve you, stop dwelling on the past; there is only ‘right now’. detach yourself from the future, it is not promised & only creates anxious emotions. 🧠🫀🦶🏼
- learn to become comfortable with the uncomfortable. train yourself with breath work. I recommend pranayama, morning & night. I used to be anxious about anything that is ‘new’ until I started simply breathing properly & quieting my mind first thing when I wake up, I swear by it. 💆🏼‍♀️
- journal morning & night. track your mental + emotional patterns. write down why you feel a certain way & if you don’t know why, break it down instead of looking at the bigger picture. 📓
I could list more but I will end it here. There are levels to a reset. (lvl 1)
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bebx · 1 month
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when someone says, “after all I’ve done for you…” they are revealing that what they did “for you” was not for you at all, but for their own need to control you.
their “generosity” was a contract with hidden terms to make sure you always owed them and to guilt trip you into doing something for them in return.
a reminder that if someone really loved you, their generosity should and would be genuine, in the sense that they’d never bring up what they did for you to remind and guilt trip you into doing something for them. all the things they’ve done for you, they would’ve done them because they loved you, not because they wanted you to owe them.
— via instagram: subconsciousthinkers
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blackphillipdarling · 24 days
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Signs to tell if the person in your inbox, asking you to reblog a post with a link asking people to donate money for their sick pet or kid, is a scam
Before we start, a disclaimer that this is NOT a solid confirmation that this person must be a scammer. The intention of this is for you to be wary and always check before donating or rebloging this type of post.
Without further ado and from firsthand experience, here are the red flags:
The person in your inbox asking you to reblog a post with their donation link will always ask you NOT to publish the ask they sent you (but to only reblog their post), and their reasoning would always be something along the line of “I don’t want people to think I pressured you into doing it🥺”
But if you go to the person’s profile with their post asking for donation, 100% of the time, you’ll find that the account has only just been created days ago. — How can you tell this? Easy. You can literally scroll down to the first ever post of their blog in less than 10 seconds.
The thing these scammers have in common is that they will create a new blog and they WILL reblog some general posts, such as fandom posts, to make their blogs look legit. They will have legit profile pictures so they don’t look like bots. But it will always be a newly created blog with several reblogs (mostly about fandoms, because they know rebloging fandom posts will make them look more legit than if they were to reblog some suggestive photos of some women, since the latter will make them look like p0rn bots), and the only original post they made is that post asking for donation.
Move on to the information they provided about their sick pet or kid. They will provide thorough and detailed information to make it look legit. But the thing is that they could just take that from google or steal that information from someone who actually needed the donation. There is never a way to tell if your money will go directly to help save the pet or the kid. My advice is to google the patient’s name and see how old the case is, if the case of this patient with this name and this information has been used to ask for donation by other people before, etc.
The photo of the patient they gave can also help you determine if it’s legit. Save that photo and then use google image search to see if it’s an original photo or if it’s a stolen one that has been used before.
Bonus: the thing these scammers can’t do is provide updates about how the patient’s doing. So it’s only just one post with the link asking you for your money. If it is legit, you should be able to see consistent updates of how this patient is doing or if there’s any change, etc. (I’m not saying it’s a requirement for those whose loved one is in critical care to post updates on social media all the time, I’m simply pointing out that scammers tend to fail to provide any update because they can’t.)
I’ll always encourage donating and helping spread the posts of those who actually are in need, though it’s just so unfortunate that, while there are people who are genuinely struggling, there are a lot of scammers out there looking for an opportunity to take advantage of people’s kindness and using sick pet or kid as a way to scam people and making it more difficult for people who really need help to be taken seriously.
Last but not least, fuck those scammers. Stay safe y’all.
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palephx · 1 year
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I've just added years to your life. You're welcome.
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onlinewealthcreater · 6 months
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If you are going through difficult time, don't be ashamed to take it one day at a time.
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monicafinias · 4 months
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Because truly the only way to truly enjoy the soft life, is when it comes with commitment!
Most men with money have broken the code, they know if they dangle a few shiny things in front of us, we are sold. But all it os is, he takes what he wants and leaves us empty with just a few high end restaurant experiences, a purse or two and nothing else.
The damage to our hearts can not compare to what we get.
Let’s be sober minded in 2024, and not take the bare minimum.
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vivaciousofficiall · 9 months
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Affirmation Of The Week
These are some powerful affirmations i’ve been loving lately.
Repeat as many times during the day as you can.
1. I love and accept myself wholeheartedly.
2. Abundance is my birthright
3. I am enough.
4. My worth is never in question.
5. Money comes to me easily, frequently & it stays.
Tip: I usually recite my affirmations while i’m taking a shower or oiling up my skin.
Speaking your affirmations out loud while engaging in self care, in my opinion, has a lot of power.
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kittiecode · 22 days
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Are you even ready for your manifestations to come?
Let me explain..
We all have a version of ourselves in our heads that we assume we'd automatically become as soon as our manifestations come to fruition for us in our reality, but what we fail to remember is that we are the only ones in control of our personal actions and behaviors. Your manifestation arriving for you isn't going to forcefully wake you up at a good time in the morning, force you to get up and do your skincare routine, to take care of your oral hygiene, get you to do your workout routine etc
One of the worst things is being caught off guard.. Your manifestation is finally here, maybe it was an SP. He asked you out on a date.. for tomorrow morning.
Oh but your nails aren't done! Your hair is the most brittle and dry it's ever been! Your entire body is in need of an exfoliation! You always imagined yourself being fitter, more toned, with healthier hair, clearer skin, being perfectly groomed at all times whenever you imagined being in a relationship, especially with your SP.
Your manifestation has presented itself for you to experience, and you're a second away from damn near rejecting it because you're not who you wanted to be when you imagined receiving it.
You've sat in your room with oily hair, chipped nails, grown out pedicures, the same pajamas from 2 days ago and all the effort and energy has gone to getting a guy to want you. Now he does, and you're not ready for it.
Take your mind off of your manifestation and give it time to solidify in your reality while you start moulding yourself into who you know you want to be. It'll take the pressure off of you and remove a ton of the anxiety you're probably experiencing as you impatiently wait for your manifestations.
In the meantime, get yourself to where you know you want to be. Get used to regular maintenance routines. You're not forgetting about your manifestation by taking your focus off of it, you're actually welcoming it in even more by reducing the amount of resistance you may feel towards it because you subconsciously know you would be too insecure to accept it if it came.
You're prepping yourself which is helping you to prep your entire being for what you want to experience.
Don't let the experiences of your dreams pass you by. Dream girls get their dream worlds. You're just as important as your manifestations
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yrbshay · 4 months
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It’s literally so easy to manifest like I was daydreaming/ visualizing the future for fun and that involved a friend I stopped speaking to. I was visualizing my dream reality but w them there and boom like not even a day or two later they message me. Mind you this person I knew was holding a grudge. But even though I knew they were mad, (even before I started visualizing) I always held the assumption they missed me and I would see them pop up stalking me from time to time. Only when I visualized us reconnecting is when they made contact.
Also I wasn’t visualizing like we are reconnecting now I just visualized that they where there when ur washed my goals.
Stuff like this really helps my momentum and it doesn’t just affirm that my assumptions about them are true, or even just affirm reconnecting but also affirms the reality I was dreaming of being in (wealthy, big house nice cars etc.) with that momentum I’ll have no problem reaching my goals.
All it takes is confidence. Once you finally manifest use that confidence high and KEEP GOING!!! The more happier and confident and for sure you are because your reality is always matching what you think, the easier and better your manifestations come.
Don’t be worried about how long it takes. Sometimes it takes weeks of off and on for it to finally come. The more you worry about time the more you prolong it. Now that’s not a fact I don’t want everyone to get on my ass this is just my personal experience. But either way I stand on what I said.
Confidence, don’t worry about time and keep the momentum. This is really easy and once you see your manifestation as “this is literally so easy to manifest I don’t even really have to do anything it just comes to me because everything works in my favor” then you be unstoppable
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shemanifesttt · 9 months
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Pick the photo you are drawn to. When you find this it's the message you need to hear.
Deck used is the Sexual Magic Oracle Deck
1. Scarlet johnanson- Conquest card
Im getting sexual magic. You are using your sexual energy to attract things into your life. Some may be celibate and that is making you attractive because the energy you have put towards partners who probably were not worthy of your energy or you felt disempowered with is now focused on you. You are using that energy to manifest the life you want. As well as the sex life you want. You becoming empowered and have zero desire to let others to come into your energy that are not in tune with themselves and bringing their best version of themselves to you. Love this energy. Keep your standards, don't waver. You will get the best, because you believe you deserve the best.
2. Sade- Awareness card
Im getting intuitive energy. I feel a partner or people you are dating feel you are psychic. Your intuitiveness is very high. You may have been interested in tarot or channeling messages. Im also getting coaching, like a life coach is something you are pursuing or interested in. You are very good read of  Bullshi*t. When you feel something is off listen to it. That is a gift of yours. Im feeling a partner around you or person that thinks this connection you have with the universe is beautiful, but makes them a little nervous, because they don’t feel  as connected to the universe as you. Don’t push them to be like you, but if they ask you questions about your beliefs and spiritual practice don’t be sacred to share. Also, don’t hide or feel ashamed of your gifts or spiritual practices. Be authietcally you, that attracts the right people. I also want to say you may attract all kids of people, but that’s where your intuitive knowing comes in. Also, do a lot of energy clearing with yourself and take a moment everyday to connect with yourself.
3. Hilary banks- Healing card
I want to say you have been on a journey. There could have been a past you walked away from surrounding heartbreak, not having the highest standards for partners. Your self worth may not have been high. That was the past you have worked/ working on reversing all of that. You may be working on your self concept. You could have been listening to a lot of content about feminine energy and hypergamy and implementing  that content into your life. Also, see you have a slight similar energy to pile 1 in the fact you may not be having a lot of sexual encounters right now, because of your standards. Your standards may be linked to if your partner is showing up finically in the way you desire to feel comfortable to take that intimate step. Again, keep your standards. Don’t let anyone pressure you and make sure they are backing their words “promises” with action FIRST!
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freyatarotreadings8 · 6 months
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Important Self Coaching Questions:
📌What is important to you in life? Success, inspiration, comfort, aesthetic, travels, nature, art, peacefull mind. It's so important to turn dreams into reality
📌What makes your heart beat faster? Cinema, psychology, spirituality, hypnosis
📌What's pissing you off? Wars all over the world. Irresponsible individuals. Also it's such a torture to wait someone/something. Faux spirituality.
📌When do you feel most alive? When I laugh. Pain also is a powerful emotion
📌What do you value most in your friends? Honesty, loyalty, similar goals/interests
📌How do family/friends describe you? Who are you in their eyes?Stubborn, goal oriented, confident, strategic, a great teacher, a good listener, an enlightening person
📌What do you value in your work? I enjoy connecting with people. I'm so glad that I'm able to change lives of others for better. I provide life changing experiences via hypnotherapy and coaching. Also I give so may insights to others as a tarot reader
📌What are you saying “Yes” to? “No” to what? YES to strategies, self improvement, studies I need to say more YES to sport NO to toxic people
📌What touches you deeply? Powerful life stories of others. 📌What inspires you? My own experience. The way I saved myself, found a life purpose and decided to start a healing journey. Biographies of historical figures and influencers.
📌What do you care about? Mental health, healthy relationships, self love, spirituality, healing
📌Which of these questions means the most to you? What is important to you in life? What do you value in your work? What inspires you? Feel free to answer these questions! I'm tagging you guys: @psychicbyspirituality @julyourwitch @mayeeshahf @llavenderlover34 @blueeyesboba @uranusdelight @kp1330 @theladybrownstarot
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techtalkbyjames · 1 month
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NGU = never give up
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nico-esoterica · 12 days
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Don't ask if you're worthy of your desire. It's if it's worthy of YOU.
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