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every-dayiwakeup · 2 years

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Currently missing Dacre Montgomery and Joe Keery Hours

The last one... Dacre please 😭

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askwholehearted · 1 year

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jadalou28 · 1 year

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When you feel like life is going the direction you need it to then BAM access denied bitch

#struggle is real #lifeishard #aniexty #depression #life goes on #is what it is #fml i guess

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sleepdeprivedxcii · 2 years

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#daria morgendorffer #best memes #memes #relatable memes #wtf is life #sleepdeprived #alwaystired #lifeishard #sarcastic #cynical #needsleep #plshelp #insanity #memesdaily

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dreamyartistgirl · 2 years

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REAL LIFE IS UGLY

Everyday we face so many different situations

Sometimes we think that we are less lucky than others.

We look at other people’s social media thinking that “wow” they live a happy life. They are enjoying their time. And “ I am struggling right now”

We assume that we are suffering more than influencers or just people you follow on instagram.

I found that there is a big difference between real life, social media and movies/books.

Sounds obvious but let me explain.

With social media people mostly post good positive things because if you look like a mess and if you feel depressed it’s not what social media is for. You can’t show people that you failed. Or that you had a bad day. Or you ugly cry almost every day. If you show that then people would think that you are not a perfect human being, you are not coping well and that time when you posted that positive quote you are not following your own advice. Ha. Real life is much more complicated than that.

You can be mindful and meditate, and have a good support system and still cry and have bad days every week.

Because you know what? Life is hard. I am tired of hearing that when you have a good career then you will be happy. People can have good careers but they also can hate their job. Or that if you have good friends they will always be there for you. This is not how real life works.

In real life things happen. There are times when friends will help you. And there are times when they start having kids or something happens in their life. And you have to be on your own at the hardest days of your life.

In books and movies there is romanticization of bad communication and lack of boundaries. I am not saying this in all books and movies. But you get that idea that talking about your needs is silly. They have to guess your wants and needs.

There is this belief that if you have friends you don’t have to work for that relationship. It’s enough to just click with the right perfect friend.

No one tells you how awkward you feel when you tell your friend that you feel hurt by their words. Or that you feel like they devalue your experience.

Every experience that we see in the movie or read in the book has a different, real life version of it.

Real life is beautiful and ugly, really ugly.

It’s joyful but sometimes it's so so painful.

Shame, confusion, self-doubt, self-betrayal.

Ugly crying, self-pity, social awkwardness.

Being insecure, scared, lonely, codependent, sad and not feeling enough, imposter syndrome. Ghosting and miscommunication.

Guilt and people pleasing.

Trying to know who you are but also not knowing. Being scared to be who you are.

Being scared to show up. Sometimes being stupid and sometimes having smart insights.

Helping someone or not being able to help.

Having small tantrums everyday. Self-soothing with ice-cream.

Misspelling words. Making mistakes.

And failing everyday at something. We actually failed so many times but surprisingly we are still scared to fail every day.

Did you notice that when an influencer tells you that they are not good at something, or that they were crying or they made a mistake, or that they had any bad real life experience you actually feel better because they are just as human as you.

So I wonder what would happen if people started showing their failures more?

Fantasy world and the real world are too different. Your life is real life. At times it’s magical. At other times it’s ugly, imperfect, hard, lonely, messy and sad.

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poetrythreesixfive · 2 years

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Facing It

Birth is hard,

exiting the womb is terrifying,

and that is why we cry.

But we cannot continue to float within

the amniotic paradise of blind security

if we ever hope to supersede ourselves.

Some would kill you before you even

get a chance to throw a punch; others

will batter you from your first breath.

But if safety is your only concern; if

avoiding difficulty is the main mission,

then being human may not be your thing.

Welcome the cold fluorescence of the

maternity ward; brave the rain and cold;

relish the cavities of the unpaved road.

This thing that you’re going through—

it is required. No one ever said it would

be easy; I’m saying, it should be hard.

No one ever achieved a state of higher

living without killing

the lower.

#poem #poetry #poetrythreesixfive #georgefilip #spilled words #spilledink #poetsontumbler #poetsandwriters #poetryportal #lifeishard #nofear #deep thoughts

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xtheditions · 2 months

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Life is hard ~Michael Sheen~

#michaelsheen #michaelsheenedit #motivateyourself #motivation #speech #podcast #davidtennant #lifeishard #talking #podcastclips

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hearingthroughdeafear · 2 months

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The Lessons Learned The Hard Way

Everything that happens to us has an impact on us whether we notice it or not. For an example, graduating from college can sometimes give us a little more of a feeling of achievement in life, and sometimes makes it easier for us to get a job throughout in

Daily writing promptHow do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?View all responses Everything that happens to us has an impact on us whether we notice it or not. For an example, graduating from college can sometimes give us a little more of a feeling of achievement in life, and sometimes makes it easier for us to get a job throughout in life, thus a…

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#achievement #college #collegedegree #dailyprompt #dailyprompt-1838 #everything #faith #forgive #hard #highschool #impact #job #journey #learning #lessions #life #lifeishard

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dawniepie · 3 months

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It has been a while

If anyone sees this, hi all, I think it's been a few years since I've used Tumblr, think this also is my first ever post! Think I took a step back at the end of 2018, I am not sure why, I just stopped using this website. A lot has happened in the last 5 years of my life. It has been a rollercoaster. Growing up is terrifying, and sometimes I wish I could go back to the days when I was younger, sitting in my childhood home on my laptop with my childhood pets. I want to experience college again, I want to know what it's like to stroke my pets one last time, I want to be able to protect my younger self, and say to her everything will be okay, even though deep down I still know it is not. I was diagnosed with depression back in 2017, even though I did not get told until 2022, alongside being diagnosed with PCOS. I started therapy back in 2018, and went continuously until a year ago. I want to go back, but I am unable to afford it. I have gone through a lot of grief and heartbreak, and it broke me. I am glad I had the memories with the people not in my life anymore, I hope they are healthy and well, but I really hope they understand I never meant any harm, and I hope they wish I am doing well too. I used to be such an anxious person, but after all of the grief I have gone through in my life, I am continuously numb and I find it extremely hard to care. I do care about animals, and I want to protect them, but I am being very self-destructive to myself and I wish I wasn't like this. I haven't felt true joy in years, I want to, I can still laugh and smile and enjoy things, but I do not think I can ever experience true happiness for a very long time still. I know people care about me, but I still feel so alone and used. I hate people presuming I am weak, and I don't like asking for help, I feel like I need to deal with things on my own, to make myself stronger, although I am a hypocrite as I do know talking to peers and having the help of loved ones helps so much, however, I greatly struggle, even though I am almost 24 years old. I've forgotten a lot of my past, and I am scared I will forget things which genuinely made me smile, I do not want to turn into an adult younger Jordie does not recognise, I want to turn into someone she can feel safe and happy around, someone she knows can help save animals. I know I am talking into the void currently, but I hope life is a little bit easier in another 5 years, by then I will almost be 30. I hope I will be a bit happier by then too. Life may be hard, but I am sure I can manage. I was able to get through a lot already, I just hope I can have a break from it all soon.

#dawniepie #iamjusttalkingtothevoid #lifeishard #growingupisscary #imissmycats #iwillbeokay

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fixquotes · 5 months

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"Life is hard; it's harder if you're stupid"

- John Wayne

#quotes #qotd #quoteoftheday #lifeishard #harderifstupid #johnwayne #wisdom #lifelessons

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arioagio · 8 months

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SEP.TEM.BER.

Semoga dimulai dengan hal baik dan diakhiri juga oleh hal baik.

Semoga selalu diberkati, dan selalu dilindungi.

Semoga selalu dikuatkan dan selalu dijauhkan dari yang jahat.

Terus berusaha. Terus mencoba.

Kendalikan diri. Atur waktu. Kelola pikiran dengan baik.

Biar segala cerita yang ada buat diri jadi lebih baik.

Akan kusambut dengan hangat, hai September.

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feelingsareforweak · 9 months

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When you have readers block and feelings and you don't know how to cope: *planning on different types of self+ others' murders*

#lifeishard #fuckeveryone #firstly me #feelingsarehard #ineedacitizenshipforimagination

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kioukas-blog · 1 year

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Τα καλύτερα μας χρόνια #letsgo #letsdoit #thewayweare #doit #wecan #morefuture #lifeishard #lifeisbeautiful #sucessisthebestrevenge (at Monmartre) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cp1vwFno05p/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#letsgo #letsdoit #thewayweare #doit #wecan #morefuture #lifeishard #lifeisbeautiful #sucessisthebestrevenge

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xtheshirtlesswonderx · 1 year

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Its so easy to say your okay.

To smile, put on a brave face and your big girl pants.

But recently ive been finding that hard.

Having to accept that my body isn't going to be at the same place it was before cancer

The constant health anxiety over any little new symptom.

The fatigue from just day to day.

But most of all trying to take your own advice that you share to others.

Remembering to be kind yourself and that its okay to feel whatever your feeling.

#breastcancerwarrior #breastcancer #cancer #lifeishard #itsokaynottobeokay

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anthonycfrancis · 1 year

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A little corner of the show Collective Memory. I’m excited to show my new short film as part of this show as well. #peace #lifeishard #love #portraits #art #family https://www.instagram.com/p/CnaOjjkuBem/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#peace #lifeishard #love #portraits #art #family

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zanetazzahra · 1 year

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Udah lama banget rencanin meja kos jaman kuliah dulu* bisa dibuat ulang, pas udah kerja jadi gini aja, tapi masih ada yang sama yaitu si kalender abadi yang tanggal 7 Januari kemarin ingetin kalo..

“Bila bisnis berantakan, kita akan lebih lama di kantor, memanggil konsultan atau berinvestasi lebih banyak lagi..

Lalu bagaimana bila kehidupan keluarga/diri sendiri tidak berjalan mulus, apakah kita akan melakukan hal serupa?” (Nambahin diri sendiri karena alhamdulillah keluarga saat ini lagi di roda baik2 aja)

Lumayan jadi wake up call dikala lelah sama semua yang lagi dijalanin, waktu buat diri sendiri jadi jawaban untuk dengerin apa kata si hati, kenapa ga pause sebentar dulu..

Baiklah, sekian tumblr. Itu aja yang mau dibagi, semoga bermanfaat🫶🏻

*kalau mau cek meja kos ku kaya gimana, bisa discroll2 aja semua post q, bye

#tetepalhamdu #lifeishard #hiduppanggungsandiwara #thistooshallpass

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