#like dont be ableist maybe?

[disagigglebilities]

Anyway, a big go fuck yourself to the disabled people who sit on a pedestal and throw rocks at their disabled peers for things like "being lazy", "wallowing", "not trying", "being a complainer", "being vague about their disability"

#istg if this person said this shit to me irl id be throwing hands #like dont be ableist maybe? #fucking asshole #internalised ableism #internalized ableism #ableism

[sukifoof]

i think im just gonna start blocking people that engage in flowey age discourse <3 im not in the fandom for petty drama about nothing im here for analysis and art and its really irritating to be looking for art and all there is is arguments. i love uty dearly but the sudden uptick in pointless arguments regarding floweys character is infuriating. why can't we talk about how well hes written and that hes an extremely good example of ptsd why must we argue. if u disagree with something block and move on dont act like children

#im just really annoyed #this is part of the reason im taking a break from twitter its really annoying to want to see my favorite character #and instead the only 'content' is people fighting #its a shame to see it being dragged here too. every day i get a little closer to leaving social media Forever #'umm reading comprehension' hey if u have a point to make. make it. without being ableist and rude. #this goes for both 'sides' of the argument. also yes its ableist if u say that because he acts like 'that' he must be a child #hey!!! maybe dont call symptoms of ptsd something only a child can experience!!!! its incredibly demeaning!!!! #ive said this plenty times before but i absolutely do not at all care what age u view him as #do whatever u want im not ur mom. i personally dont wanna see anything suggestive or mean so i think from now on ill be blocking freely #can we maybe communicate with understanding and kindness and agree to disagree #riel

[actual-corpse]

Saw a YT vid with the title, "Fandom Can't Handle Asexuality"

You're right, they can't... Because it doesn't fucking exist to them.

#aroace #asexual #enby people arent real either #we're told to stop using neopronouns and to stop being aroace bc 'nobody will take LGBT seriously' #keep being exclusionary #i dont want to be your friend if you're gonna act like that #I'm a genderqueer aroace person who's pronouns are it/its and you're gonna fucking respect that or be called a bigot #this shit has got to stop #also... because it matters #dont be ableist #ever. just dont #one of the main reasons i hate Alastor so much... is the fandom's treatment of him as a character #most of them completely erase his sexuality in favor of shitty crack ships. #I think a QPR with Lucifer or Rosie is a cute idea! but that's it #keep Vox pining for Alastor... that's great too #its like when I tried to erase Porter Gage's Bisexuality.... It was wrong and I've changed (Fallout 4's romanceable companions are cannonic #cannonically bisexual... I don't make the rules) I was just mad because someone had MY BLORBO in a disgusting ship and I got sick of seeing #it... And THEN I learned how to block tags!!! #idk where this is going #i'm just upset that aros and aces and enbys are erased #maybe it's a confirmation bias and i've just spent too long doing demographic research #i HATE demographic research #it takes me to disgusting places #i need to find my sewing patterns so I can refocus my energy into something good

[abstractlesbian]

Find someone slightly annoying but in really small harmless ways so I decide none of the behaviours are worth bringing up with them → realizing: hey, Im also annoying! solidarity! → realizing we have a lot in common and starting to bond → finding out other people find this person annoying and are vocal about it behind their back → finding out this person has ADHD like me that's (at least one reason) why we have all these traits in common → fear.

#trying to be as vague as possible even tho this is someone I know offline and no one involved follows me online #on one level I get it that relying someone who is forgetful and does things slower/differently than you can be frustrating #but like its a medical condition. and u dont need to know someones medical info to have some empathy instead of assuming malice/incompetence #i just found out they have adhd today but day one i was able to go 'wow i did not like the way they handled that but i dont think they were #being hurtful/careless we just handle this task differently. rhey didnt do anything wrong and i can let this go and adjust my expectations' #not to say im perfect and never ableist towards others. my first reaction to seeing traits i dislike in myself (from my disabilities) #in others is often to get annoyed and needing to adjust my thinking #i get annoyed with myself when I cant focus / cant be coherent or concise / cant finish tasks quickly etc #→ get annoyed sometimes when I see others doing that → realize thats not fair to them → realize thats not fair to myself #→ assume good intentions and find ways to communicate/collaborate better with them → get along better and maybe make a new friend! #sorry i am rambling #idk its scary seeing someone being disliked for adhd symptoms/traits that im mostly doing a good job of managing/hiding in this #social environment so far and knowing that could happen to me in the future #but im also like ready to have this persons back #me 🤝 them: prioritizing the wrong tasks and overexplaining things and struglging to get our points across #and not noticing when we talk too loud and forgetting tasks halfway thru etc #not to be that guy but : without love it canmot be seen!!!! #lifes so much better if u just assume ppl arent doing things a certain way to be annoying + let go of / adapt to the thing that are annoying #but not harmful #thats not exactly what without love it cant be seen means but thats one of the ways i apply it in life #just like dont assume malice. assume u dont have all the info. approach ppl/situations with empathy. #or youll make yourself more miserable needlessly #again like only for shit that's not harmful obv #i need to shut up and go to bed

[fruit-teeth]

It never fails to throw me off when a seemingly very progressive person on here STILL uses the r-slur against people as an insult. Like hey can you stop that shit please

#sorry came across a stupid asshole on here #who referred to younger gay/trans ppl as the slur because they felt uncomfortable using the word queer #like yeah yeah I get that it’s frustrating if younger lgbt kids have an intense aversion to reclaiming slurs #but maybe DONT CALL THEM AN ABLEIST SLUR???? #literally what the fuck is wrong with you #if you’re really a ‘queer elder’ who wants to set a good example then stop doing that shit!!! #anyway. sorry. #just me things #text post #ableism tw

[capaldiera]

i started reading this fucking out of character thick of it fanfic like a week ago bc even tho i could tell from first glance it was going to be ooc i was just curious and it sounded kind of funny slash tragic. (how are you tagging grief child death domestic violence attempted suicide on a ttoi fic hello?) and i dooo like complaining And for the most part if it weren't supposed to be about those guys it would just be pretty good so im not Regretting it? but i didn't realise how many stories were in the series and im probably 150k words in. and not much more than halfway through

#and it doesnt even have sex scenes. fml #me.txt #iam also so fed up with writing that seems to romanticise women prioritising men andtheir emotions over their own personal safety/ wellbeing #like im not saying you cant Depict that but maybe lets unpack that. and not treat it as if it's just that woman's inherent personality #rather than a something shes been Taught to do #though while we're on the subject actually i dont think the way nicola is written is in character either #like i focus on malcolm bc its more egregious but nicola is not.. shes not putting her kids before herself like that. #i know losing one of them might make a difference but its not even presented like it's bc of that. its just oh im writing a woman well her #priority must be her kids! well no she is a bad mum and doesnt really like her kids so #but that didnt stand out to me so much until i started rewatching s3. #i was more like ah yes. famously anti-racist feminist ally malcom tucker who easily goes not just hours but months at a time without saying #anything homophobic and uses the occasional ableist turn of phrase in his mind but usually keeps it to himself. #i mean i can definitely understand not wanting to comr up with and write realistic malcolm tucker dialogue. i wouldnt want to. #but well the whole thing is a bit he wouldnt fucking say or do any of that #but again. i could see that clearly from the description and walked in eyes open #its good tho its given me a lot to think about at work.

[heartslobbf]

yj is fascinating to me. i watch the silly finale. i giggle. i think huh that's interesting. i go yepyep they're still not interrogating race and disability and consequently having some racist and ableist implications in their narrative. i whoop and cheer when coach ben says fuck them kids and tries to burn down their little cannibalism cottage, not because i think they deserve to die but i think it's deeply funny that ben Did That. what a guy. coach 'i can excuse burning like 12 children to death but i draw the line at survival cannibalism' ben. yes thats his legal name <3 anyway misty girls stay winning

#if i was going to actually write on this show id have a lot of mixed things to say #but i mostly go to yj for the goofs and the gaffs. like i think they need to lean into the absurdism 100x more #it neeeeeeeeds to be a comedy horror. to ME #sometimes the drama works really well and other times well its just a bit goofy. doesnt make it bad but i dont think its the intent lol #nat's death is not a bad writing choice but the execution for me was a bit off #and the ableist implications of killing the recovering addict #they could still have her die in that exact way but they need to interrogate these issues to dispel those implications #otherwise its incredibly easy to read it as punishing an addict. so i completely understand that criticism #things i enjoyed: misty shauna's ritualistic killing timeout the adam storyline wrap up (sooo funny just get elijah wood to kill a cop) #callie!!!!!!!!!!! obviously ben lol. travis eating his little brother's heart (guy who has only seen rgu watching yellowj--) #when shauna looked at callie kind of smiling at the end ohohohohhohohohohoho #again: MISTY. THE IMPLICATIONS #anyway hwatever maybe i will write something on yj. was thinking of being annoying and starting a substack #shut up daisy #yellowjackets

[toolazytodecide]

I'm watching sex education and I can't tell if the woke popular kids not even trying to sign with their deaf friend is foreshadowing them being dicks. That or the writers are lazy and greatly overestimate how effective lipreading is.

#im not deaf #but ive been learning sign for years and yeah nah not good enough guys #sex education #tho combined with isaacs comment about the elevator and inaccessibility makes me think it isnt a coincidences #also the teacher is ableist #like how she was yelling #also question about the mic the teacher has #i know those are used for those eith cochelars #but do they work for hearing aids? #l got the impression shes profoundly deaf #idk i dont trust this school #but idk this show rarely portrays anyone as a true villain #especially student's #so maybe the friends will grow #but the show is doing that hollywood thing where they act like lipreading is super effective #it seems to me they made a popular kid deaf to show how progrssive the school is and stopped there #i guess it would be more difficult to find or teach actors bsl #but cmon #i am excited about her character tho #i wanna know if she signs #like even when she was addressing the school she didnt sign #is she the only deaf student or does she not know bsl #idk idk im curious #theres about foreshadowing im wondering if theyre gonna tackle ableism this season #also theyre focusing on isaac more which yayyy!! #sex education season 4

[macrocosmus]

no words make me more upset than "you live in america, speak english." my great-grandparents were forced to assimilate and now a century later the same bullshit keeps getting pushed on folks... i felt so much joy in high school when all the asian kids across different cultures realized they all never spoke english that much at home, so they didn't need to speak english with their friends either. i feel so much joy when im just out at the grocery store and hear so many different dialects and languages, it's mostly spanish i think, and that's just good. and now im jealous. i wasn't born to be monolingual. im mourning something that was taken from me decades before i was even born. im supposed to know italian, i was supposed to be at least bilingual, and now im stuck monolingual throwing myself at language learning resources as an adult, desperate to try to wrap my brain around something that should have been there since before i spoke my first words. and its a slim chance i'll actually be able to walk along side someone and have a conversation in anything other than english, at least for a long time, because its not just knowing another language that i need, its speaking it, not as an exercise, but in mundanity.

i wasnt supposed to be monolingual, and now im struggling to fix that as an adult

#vent post #this literally brings me to tears #i hate xenophobia i hate assimilation i hate being monolingual #things i should say in therapy instead of on tumblr #if anyone comes into the notes to say ''uhm actually its ableist to say that being monolingual is wrong'' fuck off this isn't about YOU #this is about my language skills and mine alone #im desperately grabbing at something trying to just know one other language it doesn't even need to be italian #okay maybe this is about some weird family trauma i have about knowing some distant heritage that i dont feel like i can connect to #and language being the vector that im expressing that #and how that makes it challenging for me to form an identity without feeling like a dumb white kid whose culture was sterile and homogenous #im supposed to be asleep but instead im crying about some shit my greatgrandfather internalized and repeated from some bigots a century ago #i dont even know if i magically knew italian tomorrow if that would fix these feelings because when would i even get to use it #besides online #its alienating its isolating its just making me feel like crap #okay im going to end the post here goodnight

[aquietanarchy]

I love you random.org, I love you oblique strategies, I love you websites like seventhsanctum and springhole, I love you procedural generation, I love you fractal art, I love you dice, I love you tarot, I love collaborating with the random chaos of the universe to create meaning!!

#creativity #oblique strategies #random generators #im bad at decisions! but im good at building algorithms and refining + editing the outputs #like. ive been using random.org to help me choose outfits since i was a teen! i have an algorithm for clothes based on season and weather #and ive been editing it as i need to #i have a doc thats basically an art randomizer. i make rolls for subject matter size and media. it's weighted based on my interests #and im never beholden to the results of the random rolls it just gets my brain started #(like if i *know* i want to push something specifically i wont roll for it. ive been focusing on digital art lately because i really want to #nail down my workflow for that) #coming clean! i used to use colormind.io to give me random limited color palettes for digital art #and i learned so much about what colors i like to use so over the past few months ive been developing my Own color palette #i have 10 colors now that i love and i make random rolls to narrow it down to 5 for any given piece #maybe you neurotypicals out there can just Make A Decision but thats not me #anyways. this post generated because the aipocalypse has brought up a ton of ableist rhetoric in the art community 🙃 #and for a moment there i was bogged down by the imposter syndrome. but then i had a Think #and decided i would rather Celebrate the way my mind works instead of hiding in shame because i dont work the way people think it Should #this is all so tied up in the autism for me #anyways. i love you diffusion models #tag rant #if you actually read all that um. i want to give you a prize or somethin lol #yarrow speaks into the void

[toxictranny]

instead of acting human and being normal my roommates are stepping into their rooms to talk shit and then stepping back out into common space/where they can be heard to resume more casual parts of the conversation. i’m plagued by footsteps rn JJjUST BE STILL!!!!

#ANNOYING!! just pick a fucking spot #one of them is disabled and . idk how to phrase it nicely she walks funny. has an uneven gait. limps. what the fuck evr. #she just says stuff like ‘i be walkin’ so idk what word she’d use to describe this ANYWAY ANYWAY #her footsteps are annoying to listen to . SO FUCKING ANNOYING #it’s a very… uneven sound #they’re being absolutely vile to me an i’m worried about not using ableist language 😭😭 ffs #i miss being friends. i thought we were rly good friends #u know what though fuck it maybe i dont wnana be friends with ur wobbly ass 😤😤 #she’s the one who has the loudest phone sex i have ever heard #jk i wanna be friend): liz if ur reading this hmu …

[reineydraws]

Why didn't you draw Babs with the Batfamily . You stupid bitch . Don't treat Babs that way. She's the queen and far more popular than any of the batfamily members!

wow! your question is valid but your tone is rude and i dont appreciate it. dont tell me how to treat fictional characters when you dont even treat your fan creators nicely.

babs isnt in the photo because she's setting up as oracle; in the caption i mention she sent up a drone to take the photo. babs is great and i love her but there are 11 people in the original photo and i based this in the wfa 'verse where there are also 11 gotham capes (that ive seen so far) on the streets that have babs at the helm, in the clocktower, being oracle. as a result of this train of thought, i unfortunately ended up not picturing her. it isnt bc of any specific babs hate on my part.

#anon hate #tw anon hate #cw anon hate #rei replies #in hindsight maybe the decision was subconsciously ableist but my train of thought was really 'she's in the clocktower' #sorry if it came off that way #i also had a version that tim wasnt in 'cuz i was gonna rationalize him having taken the photo before i realized babs would be oracle-ing #but ye i was just thinking 'all the masks and capes ive seen so far from wfa' #and there was conveniently the same number as there are construction workers in the photo this is based on #again sorry if her exclusion ended up looking ableist. i welcome feedback from anyone who isnt this anon to lmk &/or start a discussion. #the original sketch also had bruce going 'oracle?' so mb i shouldve kept it? idk. #upon further thinking i feel like excluding babs being ableist is like excluding alfie being ageist #theyre both important members of the batfamily that are behind the scenes so #i suppose id add them both. and i have an idea for how i can but now i. i dont want to. #bc now itll feel like im listening to someone who called me a stupid bitch 🤦🏻‍♀️ damn #again tho still open for discussion

[neurotypical-sonic]

honest question does anyone actually like wade's character. I know that theres some "wade adopts shadow" aus out there, but I'm talking about wade's Canon characterisation. is there anyone who really wants to see more of That

#just based off what we've gotten so far. I do not #the jokes are either making light of him being bad at being a cop which. yes thats so funny cops being bad at their jobs haha <- sarcasm #or they make fun of him for being socially awkward or taking things literally or being 'childish' (still living w his parents) #maybe I am being too sensitive but hm!! seems ableist!! #idk i just dont like him at all #egg.txt

[leclerced]

bored at work watching tiktoks about the bianca twit drama and laughing over it all 😭

#my thoughts #laughing at bianca not the ableist joke let me clarify #the fact that her defense is that she accidentally liked it and she doesnt think its funny bc her brother is autistic #its 2023 almost 2024 admit u laughed at a problemtic tweet and move on w ur life #maybe its just me but i think its better to admit fault and actually apologize than to try pretending it was an accident #esp when you later liked another tweet dissing the same driver #like babes u aint even in a car yet dont talk up ur game just to embarrass yourself once you do get in one #i think itd be the funniest karma for her to get in a seat n mess up #i can see the lance girlies now #saying shit like what was that ab driving circles around lance??

[gravitycoil]

I hate you creepypasta fandom. anyways I hope everyone who has drawn that toby fucker explodes 👍 hope this helps.

#also why.... why do ppl abbreviate creepypasta.. stop DO YOU KNOW #I hope you know hes ableist or maybe u dont care (which i believe to be the case) #also. i know these pastas were made like eons ago but still. LET GO

[ruairy]

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#i have a manager who...reads as neurodivergent (to me as a provoably nd person) #like he just has some mannerisms #the way he speaks that everyone else says is awkward or weird #and everyone os always complaining about him and that they dont like him and hes creepy and always asking stupid questions #which makes me feel vaguely uncomfortable when my coworkers are saying such things about....nd traits...... #everyone looks at me weird or shocked when i say i like him and i get along with him lmao #like my guys maybe the problem actually lays with all of u #likes yes ok hes strict w ppl that dont follow the rules but hes also really nice #hes literally always nice to me #he was the only manager who was nice to me when i basically started crying at work bc the other managers thought i was lying when i #said i couldn't do certain duties bc of my anxiety disorder (all cerfied by hr if they had just bothered to liten to me instead of #belittling me in front of everyone lmao) #like if u dotn fuck around or argue with him about stupid shit hes one of the nicest managers we have lmao #he was also immediate on the uptake of my name change and didn't even question it and even told me to go get my name tag officially changed #and then asked to see and gave me a thumbs up when i came back with my new name tag lol #he's nice!!! ur all just ableist!!??