#like i think modern adhd culture/diagnosis/understanding is questionable at best and outright munchausen at worst

[angel-macabre]

im making Caleb an anti-concussion care package because that boy can't manage to not hit his head every dang time he works on vehicles. ☹️ if anyone knows of any home remedies and care that i can give past just letting him rest and sleep as much as he can please give it thank you cutie.

#ive got a banana. green tea. vitamin d pills. a slice of Ezekiel bread. and an avocado in it so far. #im going to cook him eggs with avocado and toast when i get over there #i wish he had fresh blueberries idk how frozen blueberries fare for anti-inflammation as opposed to fresh #i just can't afford to go get a ton of stuff but maybe some cranberry juice would help too #he swears his headache isn't from hitting his head but it's lasted two days after working on his buddy's bus #what the fuck is it about men that makes them so anti caution. like i love him and he's not an idiot but some of the things he does #im just like please have an ounce more of long term self preservation lmao #but that's just him being a man and all u know #he also is in the same boat as me where like. we have add even though we both acknowledge that we don't. we still know we do lmao #it's smth you don't understand unless you rly do have add/adhd... & also are skeptical of the medical industry even the slightest amount lo #like i think modern adhd culture/diagnosis/understanding is questionable at best and outright munchausen at worst #but there's undoubtedly something to actual add/adhd just bc of my own struggles with it.... and my own experience. idk #it's a nuanced issue i don't have the stamina to talk about right now lol but if you know you know <3 #all that to say: i know he'd do all this for me and waaaay more if i had potentially concussed myself. i know he'd go all out for my health #so why can't he want to do that for his own health in the same way lmao #i guess that's just part of being human though. looking out for those you love more than yourself sometimes #you know what you could actually say the exact same about what im doing right now by going over there #seeing as im fighting an infection and should probably stay home and rest. so ill shut up about it now LMAO #oh yeah also the point of me bringing up the add/adhd was to say that it affects how cautious he is lol #he's the adhd side of the diagnosis so he's way more likely than me to be reckless so i forgive him for that #save