#like overwhelmingly so

[jacob-blogs]

I know there's a better way to articulate this but every so often I come across a trans man that I feel like... Is more man than I can handle?

#jacob blogs #i saw someone on twitter who was very attractive #like overwhelmingly so #i wouldn't know where to start #not sure how I'd even say hello #like you say the word and you own this ass sir #anyway im headed back to the enclosure anyone else want anything??

[petersthree]

Bonus: Not even five minutes later

#smoshedit #smosh #smosh pit #ian hecox #amanda lehan canto #smoshcentral #beopardy #janie makes stuff #*gifs #guess who can finally gif again :') i'm so happy #(and asdfjkl bc while making this I remembered that I have to check like 3 different screens to make sure ppl don't look horrendous lmfao) #but still overwhelmingly :')))) so happy. and this was such a fun video #and this moment took me out

[kybelles]

#name a sexier man… #he’s so overwhelmingly hot i can understand why laurent acted like a rabid chihuahua around damen for the 85% of the series #captive prince

[borderlinereminders]

Identifying and clarifying emotions can be really helpful in learning how to cope with them.

For me, I start with “what just triggered this feeling?” No matter how small it was. Even if it was just a minor thing that unraveled a bigger issue. Maybe it’s something like your friend didn’t reply to you when you thought they would. Maybe your friend said something that unintentionally hurt your feelings.

I then focus on “what physical feelings do I have?” For example, is my heart racing? Do my hands feel shaky? Does my stomach feel like it’s turning? All of the above could indicate I’m feeling anxious. Where things like clenching your fist or feeling “hot” could indicate anger. Take a note of what you’re feeling physically and if you aren’t sure what it might indicate, looking it up might help!

The next thing I ask myself is “what urges is this feeling giving me?” If I’m feeling like yelling at someone, this could indicate anger. If I’m feeling like hiding under my blankets, this could indicate anxiety. If I’m feeling like sobbing on the floor, this could indicate grief, sadness or something like that.

Once you’ve identified your feeling(s), you can start to look at ways to deal with it. A lot of times, our urges to deal with the feelings aren’t the things we should do.

Skills like urge surfing can help with this and working on some grounding exercises might help clear your head to rationally figure out your next step. This might be where we look at how to deal with the feeling. Maybe to deal with the feeling of sadness, we need to let ourselves cry. Maybe to deal with rage, we need to scream into a pillow. Everyone is different and every situation is different but the goal is to find a way to deal with the feeling.

Another skill I usually find useful in dealing with feelings is the wise mind skill. This helps me figure out how to proceed in a situation like something a friend said unintentionally that upset me.

If I’m feeling frustrated with my friend for not replying, I may step back and look at the situation. I may be feeling frustrated because I feel like they’re ignoring me so I then consider the possibility of an alternate explanation. Could they be busy? Possibly overwhelmed? Could there be an explanation that isn’t about them ignoring me?

Another thing I ask myself is “what can I do to feel something else?” For this, I have a list of things on my phone that I know make me happy. Things like cute animal videos, my favourite songs to listen to, etc. I keep the list because these things can be hard to remember when other feelings are so strong. But a lot of the time, doing something in the list can help me get beyond the other feeling. While we do need to deal with our feelings, sometimes it isn’t the time or place and it’s better for us to focus on something else for the time being. This can also help us be able to look at the situation more rationally once we’re not so caught up in the feelings about it.

I think I could go on and on about ways to deal with different feelings, but this post is getting very long already, so I’ll leave it here.

#I really had so much more to say #but the posts can get overwhelmingly long #I should find a way to break things down more #like dealing with different feelings #or ideas for them specifically

[freakpit]

david ward you will always be famous for your misery and your. autism.

#op #i am in eskew #i have not seen anyone else read him as autistic but i cannot help but read a majority of his character as that #like . overwhelmingly so . #the part where he talks about how he fantasizes about something horrible and unpreventable happening to him #so that he would have justification for being Wrong #when in reality nothing horrible needed to happen. he’s just like that #I Get Him

[canisalbus]

Your art is so poignant and skillfully executed. I'm always excited to see what you create, and all the various influences that are revealed(or hidden) in each art piece.

That being said, I was not prepared for the sudden influx of Sad Dog x Bright Dog art you've been sharing recently! Machete having the potential of being loved and enjoying tenderness despite himself is one of The Best reveals of 2023. I enjoy how you express his relationship and struggles just as much as i enjoyed the stand alone pieces you've shared.

Thank you much for sharing the broader stories and pictures of your characters 💓

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#aw dangit you're making me all emotional #thank you! that was such a lovely comment #sad dog x bright dog art has been the theme of this summer that's for sure #and I'm really moved by the overwhelmingly positive response my dogs have gotten #people genuinely seem to root for them and wish them good things #not to sound too sentimental but Machete has functioned as a misery sink for me for so long #I've spent years putting him through the meat grinder over and over again and while it has been cathartic in itself #it feels almost like a healing moment to give him some hope and happiness and someone to be with #and it's very rewarding to notice that this hasn't gone unnoticed by people who have been following my art and characters for a while #character growth #answered #anonymous #“having the potential of being loved” broke me just a little bit #like yeah who knew

[stealingpotatoes]

Tag Game: 9 Favorite Characters

thank you @its-kinda-snowy for the tag (like 2 weeks ago, i forgor)!!!! i tried to narrow it down to "characters ive gone and continue to go genuinely insane over, to the point where i actively want to gnaw drywall or write a 7k essay"

no-pressure-tagging: @highladyofdusk @nitewrighter @shempchamp @theallknowingowl @tobytost @vagorsol @icedjuiceboxes @spell-cleaver @flightlesskiwi

#if we were being fr this would be at least 80% my ocs theyre my blorbo-ests #tag game #feeling like a terrible feminist and bisexual rn this is not an equal split LOL #did i pick a the cover pic of kell instead of art of him so this wouldnt seem overwhelmingly populated by magic gingers? maybe

[toxifoxx]

Lizzie?? Lizzie moment?? Oh also. Phone dude fnaf 3? If u are still looking for asks about fnaf characters

lizzieeeee!!! :3

(i might do phone dude later but atm i have like 0 ideas for him o_O)

#i really like this design cause at first it's like oh yeah this kid could definitely be clara's #but you look at henry and then its like oh. Oh #cuz i mostly colorpicked from him but made the skin slightly lighter because. william is overwhelmingly white as fuck #anyways i think its funny. will anyone notice? probably not. but i will know. and so will you dear viewer #also i cant draw skirts... um... dont look at me *runs away* #i put more effort into these than iwas supposed to lul #elizabeth afton #my art #toxi fnaf lore

[uncanny-tranny]

It's not uncommon at all to miss your abuse, to miss disordered behaviours, or miss when you were at your worst.

It's understandable why you might feel like you have no clue what to do - recovery is an uncertainty. It is unfamiliar, it is scary. It's okay to long for the stability of those dark parts of your story. You aren't a bad person, you aren't ungrateful, nor are those feelings proof that you cannot recover.

You still deserve to recover, however that looks for you. You don't need to run from yourself, you are not a net negative.

#recovery #mental health #mental health advocacy #abuse tw #abuse mention tw #having nostalgia for abuse/poor mental health is something people don't mention a lot #people expect you to run away from those feelings and embrace the holy light of recovery and joy #but that's unrealistic #i have so many nostalgic feelings for those points in my abuse and that's *common* #i remember watching somebody on youtube talk about them missing the 'bad old days' of their disordered eating #and it's like... that is how it feels. the bad old days are sometimes so overwhelmingly tempting #and we cannot shut that part away and pretend it doesn't (or rather can't) exist

[esprei]

For submas requests, would it be possible to get Ingo happy-crying over a newly hatched sneaslet? (Or just happy-crying in general, cannot get over the joy of seeing pics of him with overwhelming positive emotions)

the little one has arrived!

#submas #subway boss ingo #warden ingo #hisuian sneasel #my art #i hope this comes across as happy and overwhelmingly positive! #actually this request gives me an idea for a comic so maybe that will come sometime in the future? #i love the idea of an over emotional ingo too though ;w; #he hold the baby kinda like a cat #except it's egg #egg with cat inside #not an odd phrase at all nope /j #.

[nguyenfinity]

Sometimes I think about how Hiiro said Hinata and Niki stay up late playing games and eating sugar.

@neptunite-stars

#enstars #hinata aoi #niki shiina #hiiro amagi #if the game won't give us hair down niki content i'll make it myself then damn #also i imagine hiiro first waking up in the morning with severe bedhead is when he most looks like rinne #so for the first week of living together niki got a mini-heart attack every morning #doodle req #also thinking about what games they might play and you think niki would like overcooked #he hates it. #“why is there a portal in the middle of-- HINATA STOP THROWING POTATOES AT ME” #maybe not hates but it is so overwhelmingly chaotic for him #he'd rather play cooking mama #dorm doodle

[loveoaths]

it fucking kills me that i have seen NO ONE talking about the reaction jess jordan, kendall roy’s assistant, has. because it is jess, and rava and sophie roy, who have the reactions that twitter and reddit and all the succession lovers are looking for in shiv, for some goddamn reason. it’s jess who not so subtly pleads with greg to delay calling the election, who is blown off dismissively and ignorantly by greg who cannot understand or even SEE how strong of a panic reaction she is havjng. to him, and every other roy and tom and everyone else at their level, this is just another crazy day with literally zero consequences. a fascist dictator president will literally not change the quality of their lives as rich white people. but it will change jess’ life, as a biracial woman. it will change rava and sophie roy’s lives, in spite of kendall’s money and protection. and the show purposefully cuts off their reactions — jess blinking fast and breathing hard and about to have a panic attack meltdown in the hallway, rava and sophie scared in the back of an SUV — because the show isn’t about them. the show is about the roys, who do not care about the consequences of their actions, partially because they never have to SEE the consequences of their actions. greg does not see jess freaking out; even when she is clearly panicked in front of her he cannot see her pain and if he could, he wouldn’t care. it’s only when he turns his back on her that she starts to break down, which is a great if painful blocking choice. not only is it realistic — she can’t lose face in her workplace, she can’t react negatively when she works for the guy who owns the Devil Right Wing Fascist TV Network, and she most certainly can’t react any way people don’t like because she is one of the few, if not the only, black women in the building and working for the roys. while greg sighs and laughs about this day being crazy, she is having a meltdown as she fears what this election result means to her. if rava, a wealthy woman of color with a powerful ex husband, is scared, how much more scared is jess? is everyone else under jess?

but the show cuts off her reaction and takes us back to shiv because this show is from the roy’s pov, and this episode is largely from shiv’s pov. shiv “cares about democracy” and the country to an extent, because democracy only effects her to an extent. she knows on paper this election is bad news. she also knows it’s not going to change her life directly because she’s rich. like her brothers, who do not care at all who is President, who only care about which candidate will give them what they want, shiv is more upset because this election means she isn’t getting what she wants. she’s going to lose her power in the potential matsson deal. because that is how the roys chose who would be president: they chose the candidate they could buy and who could sell them control over their interests for the lowest number, and meincken outbid jimenez by a landslide. tldr the reaction people are looking for in shiv and in the roys were there, but in jess and rava. and even rava and jess aren’t progressives, aren’t “feminist icons”, they’re also complicit and victimized all at once, like shiv is, but with far less say and power. it’s almost like… the show about face eating leopards… is making a point that if you get in a cage with a hungry leopard, at some point you will run out of steaks to throw at it and it, too, will eat your face off. huh.

#succession #succession spoilers #this is a ramble but my god i am getting heated now #so many gifs and essay posts about the roys… zero about rava and Jess…. who are actually used as surrogates for the audience and marginalize #*d and even they HAVE HIGHER AMOUNTS OF POWER AND CONTROL AND AGENCY than the average person and woman of color #like. idk y’all I know the succession fan base is overwhelmingly white and therefore has a white USAmerican pov etc etc etc but my god I am #seeing greg levels of missing the point and not recognizing the pain in characters other than the Roy’s lol #and like I get it’ they’re the main characters #but also like. idk. jesse armstrong has a p strong vision and uses his characters effectively so like #maybe let’s look at some of those minor characters reactions here to paint a less insular picture yknow

[thenightisland]

So what if he's drowned a few people we all have bad days

#rote #robin hobb #karen liveblogs books #liveship traders #in all seriousness though every time i get to a paragon section #i am so overwhelmingly heartbroken by everything about him #i can feel it like an ache the pit of my stomach it's so sad

[dreamlogic]

i keep trying to uninstall gender but society keeps forcing mandatory updates that won't let me completely remove the program from my device, so instead i have to settle for just going into settings and removing all permissions & silencing notifications regularly. wish there was an Opt Out button. this gender shit starting to feel like tumblr live & i just gotta keep snoozing it weekly for the rest of my life

#coming out to new coworkers and the results have been overwhelmingly more positive than my last job! #prev job just. ignored my pronouns & refused to acknowledge my transness at all #present job i got abt 50/50 'oh ok cool' & 'oh ok cool but this is v new to me so please be patient if i mess it up' #there's clearly some people who read me as a cis man and it's v hard for them to think of me as anything else #& i'm like bro i'm just a person with a body don't think too hard about it #anyways in this metaphor the computer keeps defaulting me to male as the closest approximation #and i just have to keep reminding it that my man-shaped camouflage is just a performance #there's no gender underneath it's just me #being he/him'd doesn't make me dysphoric im just like 'yeah i guess that's an easy mistake to make. carry on' #like i did spend 10+ yrs & thousands of $ to ensure when ppl inevitably gender me (as most can't help doing subconsciously) they lean masc #so it's not wrong per se #but it doesn't give me the euphoria/relief/comfort of just. not being gendered at all. #ctxt #meatsuit renno

[butchladymaria]

#bloodborne #not exaggerating when i say that even wearing PANTS was seen as an exclusively masc thing btw #there are Multiple cases of women literally PASSING AS DUDES by wearing pants. IN THE ARMY NO LESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #this one lady who wore pants to farm was seen so outlandish it warranted public backlash #women were arrested for wearing pants and button-down shirts as recently as THE SIXTIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #i could go more into maria's outfit as a whole but the pants ALONE make her canonically masc By Definition in the historical context :) #if ur abt to be fucking stupid on this post im Just going to block u btw #having said that if anyone DOES have normal responses or questions i really love history and i have a lot of resources #comment/reblog/inbox/dm are all fair game <333 #in case anyone was curious what my inbox looked like after making that post #most of these are direct quotes :) its just silly to me #like holy [citation needed] #if u want to know more!!!! #i love her so much and im really tired of (overwhelmingly cis) people literally being so insecure in their own gender #that they just start reinventing gender roles in my inbox!!!!! #and everywhere else they can get their hands on #i think some of yall need to realize that uhhhhhhh #butch lesbians seeing maria as a butch lesbian is not fucking '''''''tokenism'''''''''''' or whatever #that is Literally Not What That Word Means #but it may be worth examining why you are so upset by it? #or barring that........have some genuine curiosity about the history of gender.......because its really cool to research imo