#like u can just say c!dream didnt start out abusive without implying c!tommy brought it on himself for pissin off this Sweet Nice Guy

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anyways i think its kind of funny (and also really concerning) how so many c!dream apologists will be like "c!dreams character doesnt revolve around c!tommy!! stop reducing him to his relationship with c!tommy!!" and then blame c!tommy for how c!dream treats him and go all "c!tommy destroyed everything c!dream is just reacting to what he did!!" like. hello?

people seem to just forget that tommy didnt do anything to dteam that they didnt already do to each other kcnsks like c!dreams obsession with c!tommy started when he started literally stalking him during the disc war 😭 stop blaming c!tommy for c!dream being a weirdo towards him you dont have to resort to victim blaming to make a point about how c!dream is a fully fleshed character

#like u can just say c!dream didnt start out abusive without implying c!tommy brought it on himself for pissin off this Sweet Nice Guy #my abuser was a very kind person before we were friends! doesnt mean its my fault he started abusing me n being a dick to others lmao #if youre gonna point out the fact that c!tommys a little shit to c!dream you HAVE to be careful with your wording #bc otherwise it just comes off as very victim blamey and shows a very concerning understanding of abuse #c!dreams a weirdo! hes a creep! just bc hes also just a guy who started out just fuckin around w friends- #-doesnt mean you should diminish the fact that hes! kind of horrifying! and that abuse is horrifying! #its horrifying BECAUSE its real to our human lives. its horrifying BECAUSE its an overreaction. its horrifying BECAUSE- #-the victim(s) got abused simply because the abuser Wanted To Hurt Them. #dont downplay how Wrong c!dream is for his actions towards c!tommy just so you can talk abt the other aspects of his character #if you want us to stop making c!dreams arc abt c!tommy then you gotta do it too bestie #but ultimately his obsession and abuse towards c!tommy makes up a way bigger chunk of his character than most other aspects. lmao #dream (character) #fandom critical #abuse tw #victim blaming tw #mask mews #amaryllis analyzes #stalking tw #aka uh if explaining a relationship between two ppl needs like 50 fuckin tws bc of one of the people involveds actions then. #maybe consider that the one in the objective wrong is that person and not the victim who at worst was some annoying teenager