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— A complete guide to understanding your Black Moon Lilith

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🤎 The various sides of Lilith

🤎 Detailed Lilith in the houses series

Hi beautiful, it's Jenx here! As promised, I'm back with another post on Lilith:) We'll focus more about Black Moon Lilith (h13) this time. This should help you guys with understanding the basic of your Black Moon signs & houses as well as aspects and its transits in different points in your life🤎 Lilith has always fascinated me and I truly encourage you guys to read more into my old posts linked above before reading this:)

What is Black Moon Lilith?

To successfully connecting with one's Black Moon Lilith means that one must essentially make peace with issues regarding life, death, and rebirth.

Themes surrounding Black Moon Lilith are:

— radical, wild femininity that radiates or emanates from deep within, femininity as an emanation and not a projection that seeks to please, ruthless self-individuation, fantastically embodying the lunar/non-linear mentality, conscious and embodied power, sex as an act of divine creation, comfort in the state of ecstatic-orgasmic being, the body as a source of infinite wisdom and grace, graceful acceptance of what no longer serves us, achieving the sacred inner marriage of anima and animus/the feminine and the masculine, intuitive connection to our creative/sexual processes and their wild nature, swift identification of falsehoods in ourself and others, the ability to cut away at the falsehoods until all that remains is the essential, core, wild self – nothing more, nothing less.

Lilith In The Signs

Lilith in Aries

The Aries Lilith emerges in the great need to be respected and to feel deserving. However, a profound sense of unworthiness stands in the way of this pursuit, frequently leading advantageous possibilities to be missed. We can only obtain what we believe we earn in life, and when we believe we are undeserving, we will evade or dismiss people, jobs, or opportunities that we believe are too good for us. With Lilith in Aries, self-sabotaging is common. There may also be a need to demonstrate one's value to others, even if it occurs in the context of  boasting. Aries Lilith fiercely protects oneself and opposes everything that contradicts one's ideals and principles. Aries Lilith typically evaluates how well they do or measure up to their own aspirations of success, identity, respect, and accomplishments. They may hold the view that one's success and worthiness are determined by what they have obtained or achieved. They must learn not to compare themselves to others; not to judge their accomplishment by the standards of others; and to appreciate oneself as a unique expression, therefore developing consciousness. Examine any areas where you have settled for less than you planned. Consider what you would do if you were declared worthy. Make an effort to engage with this idea. Consider how important the idea of success is in your life. Consider what you are continually attempting to achieve. When you've found the solution, consider if you truly want it. Is it worthwhile to put forth the effort? You will achieve a natural level of internal equilibrium by developing the knowledge that you do not have to be the best in every scenario. When the Black Moon is in Aries, we have a great fear of being inadequate. This place might make romantic relationships difficult since we feel intrinsically unworthy or worthy of things like a healthy relationship. We know we've found true love when we accept romantic intentions from someone who sees us as successful in some manner and admires and appreciates us.

Lilith in Taurus

The more they have with Lilith in Taurus, the more at ease they are. As a result, they believe that the more at ease they are, the safer they are. Because there is a widespread feeling of insecurity in the globe, there is a pressing need to feel safe in this circumstance. The Taurus Black Moon arises from an almost insatiable need to acquire and hoard possessions, money, or anything that makes us feel safe and secure. However, no matter how much they collect, it will never be enough since the hole they are trying to fill cannot be filled this way. It may be temporarily satiated, but the underlying anxiety will arise again shortly. Occasionally, the persistent desire to appease the fear of not having enough results in the buildup of debt, weight, or obligations — the very things you are attempting to avoid. With the Black Moon in this position, there is a strong desire to be gratified. Insecurities are strongly held, and there is a great fear of people learning about these worries. The assumption that the world is destructive must be debunked. This darkness is healed by integrating the thought that we have all we need inside us. They  no longer need to gather goods to feel safe when they focus on who they truly are on the inside. One  no longer need to be afraid of world events when one realize that everything is unfolding according to a divine purpose. Regardless of what happens, we all return to our Source. This is the sanctuary that the Taurus Black Moon wants. Reduce the amount of whatever it is that is filling the void. This will cause quick discomfort and leave you with a lot of free time. It's critical to let go, to grow at ease with quiet. When you feel compelled to take on more, spend more, or devour more, go sit alone or slow down in some way. You will nourish your internal thoughts and require less from the physical realm if you practice remaining motionless when you are most uncomfortable. We have a basic fear of not having enough of anything that makes us feel comfortable while the Black Moon is in Taurus. We recognize real love when we are with someone who makes us feel safe and comfortable. We run the risk of a superficial partnership if we overemphasize financial stability as a source of comfort.

Lilith in Gemini

Those born under Gemini Lilith have a crippling fear of rejection. They are people pleasers, which causes them to wonder what they genuinely appreciate and dislike. This shadow manifests itself as a drive to make decisions or act in accordance with what others approve of. Pursuing a life that others want for them is harmful to one's soul since it hinders them from expressing their unique qualities. When activity is dependent on or driven by another, the actual self is suppressed. It would be a major error not to look into who they truly are. It's also dangerous to "over-do" for others in the hopes that people would like them, which may lead to burnout. With the Black Moon in Gemini, it is vital to confront the craving for acceptance from others. Every one of us has something unique to give the world. What matters is not whether people approve of us, but if we approve of ourselves. W e must grant our own permission. When you can intentionally put yourself out there to be rejected while knowing that the consequence will not harm your spirit, you will have reclaimed the power that has been locked in the dark side. When the shadow is healed, rejection no longer exists since inner recognition has been accomplished, resulting in a richness of talent available. When making decisions and allocating time and resources, consider who you are doing it for. The answer should always be "for myself - for my highest and best, which helps everyone's highest and best." This does not imply that you should disregard others; rather, it implies that you factor yourself into the equation. Healing this shadow necessitates careful control of your time, energy, and money, as well as how you use them. It will be clear when your energy is being diverted and whose acceptance you are seeking. You will incorporate and regulate yourself in relation to others by practicing making little judgement calls on your own desires. We have a deep fear of rejection with the Black Moon in Gemini. True love is when we are with someone who embraces us for who we are — the good, the terrible, and the ugly. Geminis are noted for their inherent need for companionship. We must learn to distinguish between someone who only flatters us and someone who genuinely likes and accepts who we are as individuals.

Lilith in Cancer

The Black Moon in Cancer brings a persistent sense of inability to care for oneself. This darkness shows as a desire to control events in order to become dependent on others. In this manner, they are reassured that they are not alone. This mistaken perception of support devastates relationships by making others feel burdened or overwhelmed. People often feel undervalued for the things they do for others while the Black Moon is in Cancer. Personal growth is stifled by a persistent sense of not being supported, because personal needs are satisfied by others rather than by oneself. It is necessary to confront one's reliance on others for assistance. We must sustain ourselves by not surrendering ourselves. This means taking care of and attending to our own needs. Action in support of self-sufficiency is required. Actions performed for the benefit of others should be unconditional. When the notion of togetherness is incorporated, the concept of abandoning becomes irrelevant, and connections spontaneously adjust to absolute balance. Begin doing things for yourself that you would like people to do for you. When you need something that you typically would ask someone else to acquire for you, go ahead and get it yourself. Begin with minor tasks and progress to larger ones. Make a decision that you would not have made on your own. You can balance the shadow that relies too heavily on others by practice doing more for yourself. We have a deep fear of being abandoned when the Black Moon is in Cancer. When we believe our spouse is supportive of us, we have found real love. True love is someone who does what they say they will do, since we value dependability and responsibility the most. Because this location is prone to dependence concerns in partnerships, we must be careful not to be excessively demanding of our partner.

Lilith in Leo

The ego is challenged by Lilith in Leo. It shows up as egocentrism and intolerance. One is usually accused of being egotistical while in this position. This is because whatever strengthens their standing in life automatically attracts their attention. Any counter-arguments are promptly discarded. Dread of losing face or status develops from the fear of change. Exhaustion might result from rigid attempts to retain the old order, structure, or attitude. The Black Moon in Leo must address the need for segmentation and classification. There is no hierarchy in reality, and everything is interconnected. Change is unavoidable in life, and it presents opportunity for advancement. We all have roles that we alternate between; the idea is to be able to take on positions and situations in which we both lead and follow, so that nothing stays the same. Contribute to people who are in need. The Black Moon in Leo has a strong motivating quality. When you're confronted with new circumstances, think about how you can strengthen someone else who is engaged. What can you do to increase their sense of worth? Consider how you can give someone else a piece of yourself. When you're around other people, try to notice something special about them at the time and then softly remark on it. With the Black Moon in Leo, we have a fundamental fear of change and are preoccupied with order or status. When we are with someone who prioritizes us, we know we are in love. Simple actions that need some of our partner's time (such as picking up our dry laundry) are regarded as acts of love. We must be careful not to develop a pattern of prioritizing our own demands over those of our partners. We dislike on-again, off-again partnerships because we like to believe that our relationships are stable.

Lilith in Virgo

The Virgo Lilith searches for flaws before conceptualizing them. Constant dissatisfaction, particularly with oneself, is a sign of this darkness. When Lilith is in this position, many people find it difficult to feel good about themselves for extended periods of time. A generalized sense of "not good enough" sneaks back in all too soon to sustain internal strife. The Black Moon in Virgo constantly puts one's capabilities to the test, hence they want to have a very active schedule in order to demonstrate their abilities. They put in a lot of effort but frequently fail to see things for what they actually are because they are constantly under pressure to show to themselves and others that they are not flawed. The urge to find fault must be confronted while the Lilith is in Virgo. When we acknowledge that nothing is absolute and that there is no absolute good or evil, we gain a healthier frame of mind. Every level of ability has something to offer. Healing this darkness necessitates realizing that defects are an illusion. The key point to remember is that when we have Virgo Lilith, we perceive our sense of alienation from Spirit as our fault. Everyone experiences spiritual separation, but Virgo Lilith makes it personal. This is the core reason of their feelings of inadequacy. To mend the darkness, we must recognize that this sensation is, to some extent, an outcome of the human experiences. We have a strong fear of failing with the Black Moon in Virgo. True love is when we are with someone who appreciates our abilities and exhibits faith in us. We are born with a sense of nervousness about relationships, and we may even assume that genuine love is impossible to find. Even if we are in love, our fear of failure makes it difficult for us to commit to a relationship. Breakups and divorces are very difficult for us.

Lilith in Libra

Libra Lilith is a perfectionist who puts everything and everyone, including oneself, to a high level. This darkness is obsessed with the "ideal" and is acutely aware of their estrangement from reality. This emerges as strong self-criticism and fragmentation of the self into acceptable and undesirable parts. In an attempt to improve itself, this shadow crosses borders and sorts through everything. Its goal is to achieve perfection. This can lead to a never-ending cycle of disappointments and relational schisms. Maintaining any kind of perfection is difficult for anybody, but they frequently find themselves fussing about being exhausted or not having enough time. This darkness is likewise characterized by indecisiveness and self-denial. The desire to judge must be confronted with the Black Moon in Libra. This shadow is inextricably linked to the trip through the judgment and subsequent rebirth in a new way. It is a voyage to discover what is genuinely valuable. When we recognize that love is the only thing that matters, we find inclusion rather than separation. We come to adore all of the pieces, rather than just a few. When we realize that everything is interconnected, we realize that the fear of separation is a figment of our imagination. Find something beneficial about the circumstance if you find yourself becoming critical. You may not think some aspects of yourself or others are flawless in look, but you may discover that they are quite useful in terms of usefulness. The shadow that believes in perfection is cured by practicing discovering worth. With the Black Moon in Libra, we have a profound concern of being alone, which leads us to engage in partnerships that are not always beneficial to us. It is frequently more vital for us to be in any connection than it is to be in a good relationship. Couple this with the fact that the Black Moon in Libra desires perfection, which is an illusion, and partnerships can be difficult. True love, like the Black Moon in Gemini, is when our spouse views us as wonderful just the way we are.

Lilith in Scorpio

To save, aid, rescue, or win, Scorpio Lilith will go to great lengths. This shadow's favorite gift was earned after a difficult and long process. The Scorpio Lilith emerges as a deep hole of sadness with frantic attempts to escape. One  cling to or adhere to anything that helps them stop feeling like they are falling apart in life. In order to avoid growing sentiments of loss, daily life is commonly perceived as a war to win. Even informal contacts are sometimes appraised based on what was gained or lost during the transaction. The energy of the Black Moon in Scorpio is quite strong, and it can generate a lot of worry. They  are particularly drawn to persons who are in need of help or who are being oppressed. The desire to battle is highlighted by the Black Moon in Scorpio. Because there is no such thing as death, simply shift into a new form, nothing is ever truly gone. There's no need to go to extremes only to prove that we can win or to keep things from coming to an end. The transformation from a view of loss to a viewpoint of love is facilitated by practicing the arts of appreciation and surrender. Material possessions fade away, but love lasts a lifetime. Become used to losing. It is critical to let go of everything to which you are too connected. Start with the tiniest thing and work your way up to being able to walk away from situations that can't be saved. We have a deep dread of loss with the Black Moon in Scorpio. We recognize real love when we are with someone who makes us feel “alive.” We frequently associate real love with either rescuing or being saved. We have a tendency to stay in unsatisfying relationships in order to avoid dealing with loss. We choose partners that we have "won over" or who we regard as a "prize." As a result, we run the risk of objectifying our relationships. The death of a lover is sad for everyone, but it is especially tough for us.

Lilith in Sagittarius

Sagittarius Lilith has a complicated connection with the notion of justice.  There is a strong desire to find the supreme truth in everything, which leads to a never-ending series of questions. More significantly, one need to think that others are telling us the truth, as they do not trust all that is told to them. Relationships may become stressful if one partners feel compelled to show that they are telling the truth all of the time. Deceit themes frequently appear in their life, possibly as a victim of deception. This shadow is characterized by ongoing doubts about not only our purpose in life, but the meaning of existence itself. Stagnant feelings are not tolerated. The need to continue looking must be met with the Black Moon in Sagittarius. You have to believe at some time. All truth-seeking ultimately leads back to the fact that All is One. What does it mean? Whatever we select to be significant is significant. When we recognize that everyone of us has our own perception of reality, we may let go of the drive to identify a single supreme truth. Assume responsibility for the creation of purpose in your life. Assessing what is genuinely significant leads to the discovery of meaning. What is significant to you? You will have constructed the truth according to you – once you have the answers to this query. We have a crippling feas of nothingness with the Black Moon in Sagittarius. When we can interact with someone on a deep level, we know we've found real love. We value friendships with profound thinkers and truth seekers. We place the highest emphasis on honesty and have difficulty rebuilding confidence with a partner who has lied to us.

Lilith in Capricorn

The Capricorn Black Moon emerges as a desire to exert control over the path of events. They  have a propensity to be demanding when this shadow is dominant.They can go to great lengths to get people's attention. They  have strong opinions about how things should be, and others frequently cave to their willpower.Th ey frequently refuse to give up until someone – anybody – recognizes what they have to contribute or agrees with ones viewpoint. With them, a little amount of recognition goes a long way, but a little amount of neglect goes even further, and Black Moon in Capricorn has a long memory. Interpersonal connections, on the other hand, weaken when they force another's free will to conform to theirs. As a consequence, relationships grow stagnant, and the wonderful spark of life is killed. They are diligent workers, but they also have high expectations of others. With the Black Moon in Capricorn, it's important to think about what you're trying to manage. They must also give themselves the credit they deserve. When they are able to do so, there is no need to force others to obey their preferences because we already have all we require. Examine the areas where one must have their say. Keep a close eye on yourself. Are you instructing someone how to do something, when to do it, or what to do? Allow people to do things in their own unique way. We have a significant fear of not being noticed with the Black Moon in Capricorn. True love is when someone pays attention to our likes, dislikes, hobbies, opinions, and so on. We value good listeners. We also value partners that appreciate our efforts to make others happy. We must guard against concerns of control and the belief that our way is always the right way.

Lilith in Aquarius

Lilith in Aquarius is commonly connected with feelings of solitude. They are typically fully aware of their enormous personal power and are afraid of it. Their powers and skills may be near-miraculous, giving them a great sense of superiority. They have powerful faculties and a vast variety of talents that they might use to benefit or harm others. Few can match their influence, and the urge to control others may become an endless fight. It is way too simple to emotionally and intellectually dominate them. Because they are prone to pushing their boundaries, ethical concerns may arise. In situations where they feel powerless, they want to isolate themselves. The propensity to dominate others must be confronted with this position. There is no need for anybody to dominate another when we know that we are all interconnected. Everyone has capabilities and limitations that alter and fluctuate throughout time. The additional power that comes with us may be redirected back into the collective of mankind in the form of amazing ideas and inventions that benefit the entire. To keep this electricity from exploding, a route or outlet is required. When the emphasis turns to power sharing, everyone benefits. Examine whether you are abusing your authority by ignoring or criticizing others. Do you, however unintentionally, enjoy the benefits of others? We have a deep dread of helplessness with the Black Moon in Aquarius. True love is found with someone who believes we are strong, powerful, disciplined, or skilled in some manner. We must be aware that we are prone to power struggles in relationships, which can lead to significant difficulties.

Lilith in Pisces

The Pisces Black Moon is sensitive. They are  concerned that if others find out, they'll use it against them. People and events are often judged primarily on the possibility of being injured. It may be tough for them to be really vulnerable and personal with others. It is frequently difficult to trust individuals, and they put people to the test until they feel safe. This shadow can manifest blatantly ,in the form of clear emotional boundaries, but it can also exist discreetly by appearing on the surface to be very open, but upon closer inspection having definite commitment issues. On the other hand, one might make commitments before they have established trust. They risk being betrayed or disappointed if they place our faith in someone too soon. A hazy sense of safety is maintained in this manner since a deeper sense of connection is never reached. With the Black Moon in Pisces, the experience of being disconnected from faith is severe, and the great desire to not be present in the moment can result in considerable dependencies, substance addiction, or fleeing one own troubles by focusing on others. With the Black Moon in Pisces, the desire to build a protective wall must be addressed. The fact is that life may be difficult, and people may injure us whether they mean to or not. We must learn to trust the individuals we know we can rely on. We have a tendency to restrict ourselves, yet this is a crime against our selves because we are naturally closest to divine light and have much to give with others. When we believe that we are strong enough to bear any insult, our shadow is cured. Consider who you are most physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally receptive to. It is critical to examine your degree of trust in the people around you and honestly analyze if your trust is well-placed. Balancing the shadow of trust is as much about not putting your faith in individuals you know you shouldn't as it is about letting others see who you truly are. We have a tremendous fear of vulnerability with the Black Moon in Pisces. We recognize real love when we are with someone in whom we have complete confidence. Infidelity by a spouse is very difficult to overcome, as is a spouse who "changes colors" once committed. We frequently have problems determining who is right for us and can comfortably ignore evident warning signals throughout the dating period.

Lilith In The Houses

Lilith in the first

The most challenging challenges for this placement are inextricably tied to how we feel about ourselves. The shadow side influences how we spend our energy, what motivates us, and our overall feeling of well-being. Personal appearance, or how we look to others, is a key issue for many people. If the shadow has a strong hold on us, our conduct will reflect it. The Black Moon is now in a highly personal position, and our shadow issues will have a significant impact on our lives. The gift of Lilith is the vast amount of personal energy we have at our disposal. This type of energy has the potential to produce incredible healers as well as incredibly creative people.

Lilith in the second

The greatest difficulties of this placement are inextricably linked to our sense of security. We appear to be tormented by financial concerns. The dark side blurs the distinctions between emotional and material/financial requirements, and partnership views might be influenced by security concerns. Our value systems are embedded with the shadow side, which might appear to be at war with our actions at times. This Lilith's gift is the kind, comfortable feeling we provide others, which leads to numerous significant, long-lasting interpersonal ties. People find us not just charming but also disarming, and they like spending time with us.

Lilith in the third

The most difficult aspects of this are intimately linked to self-expression. The shadow side is characterized by inflexible attitudes and strong ideas, which can bring us a great deal of harm. There are moments when we are completely unsure of the path we want to pursue in life. Early childhood has a greater impact on us than later life. In the most persistent manner, the outgrowths of infancy thread their way into later life. Sibling conflicts can last well into adulthood. Our uncanny, rigorous capabilities of observation and communication are our gift. These abilities can be used in a variety of ways. In addition, our ability to accurately perceive events provides us a distinct edge in life.

Lilith in the fourth

Our struggles are linked to our foundation and sense of belonging. The shadow has an over-identification with home, and a great deal of effort is put into establishing a sense of belonging. Relationships with parents (particularly the mother) are typically strained as a result of this placement, especially if our parents did not offer a stable environment. There is a proclivity for being trapped in the past and/or incapable of forgiving and forgetting. Our talent is the capacity to not only be aware of, but also to accommodate, the needs of others. We will do everything it takes to make someone happy if we genuinely trust them, making us excellent partners.

Lilith in the fifth

The true capacity to genuinely appreciate life is one of our's biggest obstacles. This shadow is steeped in the pursuit of pleasure, yet struggles to find it. To feel stimulated, we are prone to taking chances. This placement reveals issues with the father. If Saturn is predominant, the father may have been absent or inattentive. This shadow side may also be focused on children, either desiring children but not being able to have them or failing to properly care for one's children. Resilience is one of our gifts. We seldom stay down for long, no matter how dissatisfied we are. We have exceptional problem-solving and leadership skills. We are adaptable to change and may shift direction in the middle of a stride.

Lilith in the sixth

Our biggest shadow challenges are related to our health and employment. Coworker conflict might arise from time to time, particularly when it comes to judgments of our job performance. Our level of self-discipline is entrenched with the dark side. It's possible that we'll be accused of being unorganized. There's also a propensity to go between ignoring our bodies and focusing too much on them, which can lead to health difficulties. Our gift is a clear understanding of how everything is connected. We frequently keep a database of information that others find useful.

Lilith in the seventh

Partnerships and dedication are at the heart of our problems. This shadow side is driven by a strong desire to find mutually satisfying connections, which are frequently difficult to find. Furthermore, others find methods to exploit us, sometimes to the point of treachery. Life can be unjust to us at times, and others would certainly agree. There may be concerns of dependency or neediness in the middle of all of this. Our talent is the capacity to see and create beauty in the tiniest of details. We are naturally geared toward balance, so we can readily spot what is out of whack and then work to correct the problem. This is an extremely useful talent that may be used to a variety of situations.

Lilith in the eighth

Death, inheritance, investments, and sex are among our greatest problems. For the Black Moon, this is one of the most challenging house placements. The shadow side is rooted in loss; in fact, we may believe that our lives are nothing but a series of losses. Anxiety may be evident if the Black Moon is in the eighth house. Our vast depth of empathy and capacity to look beyond the surface is the gift of the shadow. We rapidly figure out what people's genuine motives are. Those with whom we are connected gain much from our wisdom and insight.

Lilith in the ninth

The shadow's most difficult issues are connected to our life philosophy, religion, spirituality, higher education, the law, and the society at large. This shadow is preoccupied with moral questions. We have strong opinions, which frequently lead to disagreements with others. We have a propensity to feel cut off from others and ourselves. We may even feel obliged to cut ourselves off from the rest of the world. Our talent is a sharp brain that we may use to a wide range of subjects. Our knowledge spans a vast range of topics, allowing us to relate to a wide range of individuals if we so want.

Lilith in the tenth

Ambition, authority, social position, and responsibility are all issues that we face. Traditions and family responsibilities are very important to us. This shadow is rooted in a sense of responsibility and lofty goals, and we keep a careful eye on our development in the world in comparison to others. We have high standards and expectations, which might lead to conflict with others if we expect too much from them. Our ability to persist is a gift. We are dedicated workers who always do more than our fair share of the job. When we make a promise, we do everything we can to maintain it.

Lilith in the eleventh

Our difficulties are linked to our aspirations, ambitions, and desires. The shadow is concerned with our place in humanity's unity. We may find ourselves being accused of being selfish or self-centered as a result of "self vs others" issues. We have a hard time dealing with change. The capacity to bring people together is one of our gifts. We have an inherent ability to form connections. We're also fascinating individuals to be around and real pioneers.

Lilith in the twelfth

Unconscious motives, addictions, institutions, and rivals are among our greatest problems. Anything that is hidden is associated with the darkness. The Black Moon is veiled by its sheer nature, making this spot difficult to comprehend. Most people are frequently unaware of an aspect of ourselves. Others may not realize how much emotional pain we are going through until they get to know us. Our ability to empathize with others is our talent. We appear to be able to effortlessly offer to others what we may be unable to offer to ourselves. We are sophisticated individuals capable of handling difficult jobs and materials with ease.

Lilith & Conjunction/ Opposition

Black Moon Conjunct North Node: One will have a lot of trouble figuring out their life path until they realize the Black Moon's primary fear. The teachings of the South Node must be assimilated before we can activate the North Node, according to most astrologers, and this is especially true when the Black Moon conjuncts or opposes the North Node. These characteristics also point to a significant proclivity for self-sabotage. We begin to reconnect with our destiny as we begin to repair our shadow side. Black Moon Conjunct South Node: Significant previous life concerns have returned this lifetime to be handled. This aspect shows that the fundamental dread of the shadow has become a prominent personality trait, impeding our progress. When the Black Moon and the South Node are conjunct or oppose, it's more difficult to perceive our collapse in life and the concerns that our Black Moon brings up. These patterns are strongly ingrained, and deciphering them requires greater work. We are free to go on in a healthy way when we begin to repair our shadow side and remedy prior life cycles of conduct.

Black Moon Conjunct/Oppose Sun: With these aspects, a shadow is cast over our capacity to express ourselves and achieve our potential. We may feel a continuous lack of personal energy or chronic sadness, as well as health issues, especially if the placement is in the sixth house. We may feel as if we are stuck in a never-ending loop of starts and stops, finding it impossible to go forward in life. The most challenging aspect of the Black Moon is the natal conjunction of the Black Moon and the Sun, which might signal a heightened risk of self harm, especially when the transiting Black Moon returns to this position. We have powerful sentiments of liberty and regeneration when we begin to overcome our dark side, almost as if we are a new person.

Black Moon Conjunct/Oppose Moon:While it may seems obvious that a natal conjunction or opposition between the Moon and the Black Moon would aid to balance the personal shadow, this is not the case. This symptom implies a problem with recognizing and expressing emotions. Our emotional nature is heightened, and our capacity to cope with feelings is harmed. This feature produces a level of turbulence that makes interpersonal connections difficult. We have a stronger reaction to primary fear than others, which might lead to phobias. We may want further assistance in learning how to properly regulate our emotional life as we begin to repair our shadow side.We may want further assistance in learning how to properly regulate our emotional state as we begin to rehabilitate our dark side. However, if we have the capabilities we need to deal with our emotions, we can have healthy, happy relationships.

Black Moon Conjuncts or Opposes Mercury: We have difficulty recognizing the causal consequences of our acts, which may be detrimental to our professions and relationships. We may also believe that no one understands us or that we will never be able to convey our objectives, ideas, or feelings properly. We have a hard time accepting responsibility for our actions or defining what part we play in circumstances since we are frequently misunderstood. Judgment errors are prevalent. We notice a distinct ease and enhanced clarity about life when we begin to mend our dark side.

Black Moon Conjunct/Oppose Venus: The sole aspect that genuinely moderates the Black Moon is the natal conjunction of the Black Moon and Venus. The natal conjunction of the Black Moon and Venus represents the reunion of the personality's dual essence. In relation to the proximity of the conjunction, light and dark are equalized. Our interpersonal interactions are more balanced, and the principal fear is typically not a big obstacle in our lives. The Black Moon's natal opposition to Venus is a different story. This element is frequently plagued by relationship issues. We generally have a series of major connections through our lifetime because of this positioning. Finding companions is not a problem for us; sustaining relationships is. We have a hard time balancing ourselves in relation to others when it comes to this element. Because we may believe our needs are not being addressed by our spouse, we are more likely to get involved in love triangles. Financial pressures in one's life might also be a sign. Satisfying relationships and stable financial conditions emerge when we begin to repair our shadow side.

Black Moon Mars Conjunct/Opposite: This indicates that we may have difficulty managing our emotions or suppressing anger. Rather than suppressing these inclinations, the Black Moon amplifies them. This component makes it difficult to control our emotions, making us unpredictable. We may have to deal with impulsivity. We learn to consider before we act as we begin to repair the shadow side, making life simpler for ourselves and everyone else. With this component, tempers rarely calm fully, but we do learn to control our reactions.

Black Moon Conjunct/Opposite Jupiter : This placement enables our dark side to take control of our personality. Jupiter aggravates the principal dread of the natal Black Moon. The Black Moon in conjunction or opposition to Jupiter signifies the abundance one is prepared to accept, and the Black Moon is an obstacle to this. The shadow might cast a huge shadow over us, restricting our options. This feature might also reflect a traumatic childhood. As we start to heal the dark side, a pathway opens up for new possibilities to emerge.

Black Moon Conjunct/Opposite Saturn: This makes it tough to organise our life in the way we want. We struggle to maintain the self-discipline required to attain our objectives. We are frequently aware of this deficiency and work diligently to correct it. We appear to be our own greatest adversaries, constantly berating ourselves for imagined failings. We usually feel as if everything is coming apart around us. Our shadow fades away faster than the shadows of other planets as we begin to repair the shadow side. This, I suppose, is owing to the fact that we've already descended so far that any reprieve feels like a huge relief.

Black Moon Conjunct/Oppose Neptune: The conjunction or opposition of Lilith and Neptune causes generalized doubt regarding the truth of our lives. We don't feel like we have a place here. It is all too easy for us to become lost in our own worlds, cut off from the rest of the world. We are prone to frustration in life and may find it difficult to put our ideas or goals into action. There's also a greater chance of self-deception. Neptune is ethereal by nature, and when combined with the Black Moon, determining how the shadow side impacts us may be difficult. We may channel powerful energy towards establishing a life after the shadow side and major fear have been discovered and understood.

Black Moon Conjunct/Opposite Pluto: When the Black Moon conjuncts or opposes Pluto, we appear to be cut off from a general sense of brightness. In essence, our serious natures are the product of the Underworld's dual impact. We seemed to be carrying the entire globe on our shoulders. Our generation's mission is profoundly implanted in our psyches, and our life decisions are guided by this mission's goals. We are very conscious of our obligations. We may integrate a much-needed sense of calm into our lives once the basic dread of the shadow is identified.

Black Moon Conjunct/Oppose Ascendant/Descendant: This means we embody the archetypal energy of the Black Moon . Our lives are cyclical, with times of tremendous devastation and rebirth. During our lifespan, we go through a tremendous amount of change. However, it is not easier for us. We may appreciate the fact that we live exciting lives if we can identify that this is our life pattern and learn to flow with the changes.Black Moon Conjunct/Oppose Imum Coeli /Medium Coeli: This presents us with unique problems. To reach our objectives and realize our full potential, we must put in more effort. We may need more time to figure out our job trajectories as chronic late bloomers. We mature at a slightly slower pace than others. The effort expended in periods of stagnation may be transferred into forward momentum when we begin to repair our shadow side.

Transit Lilith in The Houses

Transit Lilith in the first

Our idea of ourselves is being re-created when the Black Moon transits the 1st house. Our identity and emotions of self-worth are placed in doubt, forcing us to reconsider who we are and how we may realign our lives to reflect that.

Transit Lilith in the second

Our value system is being re-established when the Black Moon transits the 2nd house. Our financial status, as well as our sentiments about personal security, comfort, and looks, are all placed in doubt. It is possible to lose money or personal belongings. Reconnecting with the basic joys of life requires a re-evaluation of what is actually valuable.

Transit Lilith in the third

Our attitude and view on life are being re-created when the Black Moon transits the 3rd house. The way we connect with others is concealed. We become more conscious of our own position in respect to others. There is a lot of uncertainty regarding one's life path. Rethinking how we communicate ourselves allows us to broaden our life experience.

Transit Lilith in the fourth

The framework of our life's foundation is being re-evaluated when the Black Moon transits the 4th house. If we consider our homes to be the cornerstone of our life, here is where we will find rejuvenation. Some people consider their professional lives to be their foundation; this is the area that will be altered. A shadow is cast over the past during this transit, requiring us to either let go of it or adjust our feelings about it. We'll re-examine who or what genuinely supports us in order to strengthen our base and soar to new heights.

Transit Lilith in the fifth

Our thoughts about what it means to enjoy life are being re-evaluated when the Black Moon transits the 5th house. A cloud is laid over our capacity to laugh, create, and love, prompting us to reconsider what genuinely offers us joy. As the Black Moon transits this house, problems with children may arise.

Transit Lilith in the sixth

Our health, well-being, and professional life are being re-created when the Black Moon transits the 6th house. A darkness falls over the body, prompting us to reconsider how well we care for ourselves. Workplace dissatisfaction frequently leads to interpersonal conflicts with coworkers or a desire to change careers. Our physical bodies and how we use our personal energies are both revitalized during this passage.

Transit Lilith in the seventh

Our partnerships are being re-created when the Black Moon transits the 7th house. Connections are represented in a negative light, prompting us to reconsider the nature of those relationships and the degree of commitment involved. We become acutely aware of what is missing from relationships and what is most essential to others during this trip. Separations, break-ups, and divorces are possible during this transit; nevertheless, it is typical for a person to have a swift rebound, which frequently leads to a more rewarding and permanent relationship.

Transit Lilith in the eighth

We are taken on a voyage to the Underworld as the Black Moon transits the 8th house, leading to re-creation on the lowest depths. We are frequently put to the test in terms of faith, perseverance, power, and appropriateness. Sexual dysfunction, as well as a newfound sensation of connection, might develop. If other astrological aspects are in play, we may lose something we care about. Winning and losing are intensely felt, forcing these ideals to be re-evaluated.

Transit Lilith in the ninth

Our spirituality is being re-created when the Black Moon transits the 9th house. Our link with our Higher Self is shrouded in mystery. There is frequently a sense of alienation from anything substantial, prompting us to reconsider our life goals and beliefs. In most cases, a "leap of faith" is necessary in some aspect of life.

Transit Lilith in the tenth

The respect and appreciation that people offer us is being looked into when the Black Moon transits the 10th house. Our capacity to take personal responsibility for our life is harmed, and we feel helpless in the face of situations beyond our control. As a result, we frequently increase our personal efforts or our attempt to control others in order to compensate. It will backfire if we try to dominate others. Only personal efforts will help to ease this transition; in fact, they will cause others to completely re-imagine what we have to offer.

Transit Lilith in the eleventh

When the Black Moon transits the 11th house, our objectives, hopes, and desires are prominent. Our social life and the roles we perform in groups are mysterious. Dramatic changes occur in one's life during this transit, forcing a re-evaluation of one's aims and the people with whom one associates. During our journey, we recognize that something needs to change. Frequently, a new life dream emerges.

Transit Lilith in the twelfth

Anything that prevents us from realizing our complete capacity or achieving what we came into this world to experience is erased when the Black Moon transits the 12th house. The Black Moon "cleans up" the place. This transit necessitates a high level of faith in the concept that a Higher Power is in charge of one's life. The Black Moon invites us to surrender to what is happening and let go of our urge to alter things during this transit. During the Black Moon's transit in the 12th house, people have very little control over their life since she creates conditions that lead us to where we need to be. When the Black Moon crosses the Ascendant and re-enters the sky, she takes command and prepares us for rebirth. Because it impacts whatever hasn't been handled in our life, the transit of the Black Moon through the 12th house is highly unexpected. It is the Black Moon's final opportunity to have a face-to-face contact with the shadow side in order to facilitate consciousness progression. During this transit, we must determine how our natal Black Moon's primary fear manifests in our lives, revealing what is genuinely keeping us back.

Would you look at that, you actually made it til the end:) Congrats beautiful! Be sure to leave me a comment and share your opinions with me after reading this post🥰 For more post like this in the future, be sure to follow #astrojenx for updates:")

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First, I would like to say I love how you answer astrology questions. Thank you for your dedication. And secondly, what do you think are placements that indicate that someone doesn't want to have kids?

Hey there<3

First of all thank you so much for your kind words:)<3 You guys truly have been the best followers ever and my flighty ass could never make this far without you guys.

Let's talk placements that may not want to have kids now:

— indicators of not wanting to have kids 🍼

Lilith in the 5H = complex relationships with children, get scared off by the idea of pregnancy. (read more abt in-depth 5H Lilith here). Lilith is not naturally maternal like the Moon, Venus or Ceres.

Lilith in the 4H, 10H = fear of not being able to trust someone or become intimate with someone enough to create a home. career-oriented people. not wanting to settle down. the idea of " family household" in general can be triggering for these natives. hidden issues with families. (read about 10H Lilith here — 4H Lilith here)

Lilith in the 9H = not necessarily not wanting kids but more like they'd rather enjoy the journey and walk into the unknown. "what is put in their destiny will eventually come when the time is right" mentality. (read about 9H Lilith here)

Lilith square/opposites ASC or Moon: Having children does not line up with their ways in life. Can't imagine themselves having children.

Saturn in Aries/ Saturn in 5H = Saturn is in its fall in the sign or Aries, 5H=children -> this placement is often seen by astrologers as an indicator of childlessness (source)

Uranus/Mars in the 5h = tbh 5H Uranus are very prone to adoption or surrogacy, some odd and "untraditional" way of child-bearing or having children in general, but this could also indicate a certain detachment(uranus) within the topic of children. Mars in the 5H can put up with children and fond of them to a degree but not necessarily are the biggest fans, they're too impatient.

Uranus in the 4h = experienced a volatile and rather unstable childhood. Have different and non traditional views on pregnancy and child-bearing.

Damaged moon sign. The moon represents everything thats feminine, from menstrual cycles to pregancy. So when a person has badly aspected moon( to saturn, pluto or chiron&sun) or placed in signs such as capricorn, scorpio – a "harder" place for the moon, this may signify painful pregnancy or inability to get pregnant, or at best, not feeling the need to have children and refusal to get in touch with one's nurturing side.

Moon-Saturn harsh (opposition, square) aspects: Parents may have clashes against one another and they may have been stuck in the middle. Fed up with this dynamic and don't feel secured enough to have children, dislike the responsibility and restrictions children will bring to their lives.

Moon-Pluto harsh (opposition, square) aspects: Issues with their mother, have a harder time tap into their maternal instincts but also struggle a lot with foundations and structures. Don't want to have a child when they didn't even know what it's truly like to be one.

Moon-Chiron aspects: Not wanting to pass down certain genes or links in their family. Not wanting to burden the kid with their own unresolved issues.

Moon-Black Moon Lilith: similar to Moon-Pluto but more fixated on issues with conceiving or refusing to acknowledge their abilities to maintain a stable household.

According to vedic astrology, the most fertile placements are the three water signs: cancer, scorpio&pisced while the most infertile aspects are Aries,Gemini,Leo,Virgo. (sources)

Pluto&Chiron 4H/5H: issues with children, younger people and childhood in general. they don't want their children to go through what they had to when they were little. Chiron 5H suggest difficult pregnancy of issues with getting pregnant (Kim Kardashian has this)

Saturn/Mercury/NN in the 8th house: difficult with conceiving.

Saturn in Cancer and the ruler of the 5th house opposite Mercury = the thought of having children does not appeal to them.

NN in the 10th house: meant to become successful and focused in their career, not their home in this life.

NN in Gemini, Leo or Virgo.

Sun/Venus in the 10th house: while most are pretty traditional, they may stall having children and childbirth to later years so that they can focus on their career. Still, may felt compelled to have children to fulfill their duties rather than wanting them for their own need. Loners at heart.

^Stellium in 4H/10H: will manifest the same affect as number 14. However, will have a lot of time finding themselves in the grey zone.

5H ruler in harsh aspects to Moon, Pluto, Saturn and Chiron

4H ruler in harsh aspects to Moon, Pluto, Saturn and Chiron

If you find the (modern) ruler of the 5th house (Topocentric or Placidus houses) between one of the following degrees in a female natal chart, chances are high the individual could be childless or child-free: 1. between 26°-28° Leo or Aquarius 2.between 6°-7° Leo or Aquarius or 3. between 25°-26° Virgo or Pisces (sources)

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How would Lilith in 5th house :)??

Hey there:)

I'm trying my best to finish my Lilith series aw I'm so glad you guys reasonate with my posts🖤

Lilith 5fth house

The 5fth house is the house of sexuality, pleasure, creativity, and children.

Ruled by the luminous Sun. When Lilith entered this house, she simply thrives. In terms of sex, while 8H talks more about transformative sex, healing sex or "making love"; 5H is based of pleasure, of fulfilling one's primal needs.

Lilith here could have various strings of one night stands. 5H like to be pleased and Lilith likes to dominate. These natives are like dangerous lions in bed, they put the D in BDSM. They're serial daters, people see them as higly desirable and attractive. Almost similar to 7H Lilith here as they attract others using Lilith energy but they are way less mysterious and are instead more upfront, all it takes is their smile and others will want to bow down.

Fun. Fun. Fun. Adrenaline and serotonin is like a drug to them. Activities that allow them to lead, to be in control will get them excited. Life of the party. Others would want to have then at gatherings. They shine naturally and can turn the most innocent actions to something provocative.

As children (5H) they may have had issues with showing their more promiscuous side or even simply their darker side. They felt as if they're the only one who has these values about sex, about art and life in general. Creatively tortured.

These natives are horrified of emotions and something thats below the surface. This is perhaps why many of them chose to stay like this, their promiscuity is their mask. They HATE it when others try to guess their emotions

^ Either this or they're very keen about who they let into their circle, as they understand that the pleasure is truly what makes them stay. Would never stay with someone who doesn't give them the light and energy they crave. They NEED that fire. That feeling of eyes meeting in a crowded bar. They love a good challenge.

Complex relationship with children(5H). Can put up with them but get scared by the thought of having children (esp HARSH aspects to personal aspects). Lilith is nor the Moon or Venus, she's not even as nearly as maternal like the two. In her world, it is her and the unknown. The idea of pregnancy scares these people.

Once they grow older and matured as time passes, this dynamic will likely change. They will be more open towards children.

Their traumatic childhood may contribute to why they don't want children, feel like children will take aways their "freedom" or personal power. Deeply scared of true intimacy. Lilith rebels from traditional values and the ideas of "settling down" freak these people out.

They have great luck in business as their charming nature are very contagious. People perceive them as calculating but determined.

Lilith's willpower makes her see things for what they really are. They understand that eventually the fun must stop. This ignites the fire in them, thinking about endings.

Lilith 5H individuals adore tortured artist, they're amazed at paintings where the artist can correctly captured the rawest and most primal side of human.

The type of people to look at a piece of art and immediately get the meaning behind it. They know it's their flaky nature that some might underestimate them and grow jealous of them, yet they see this as a compliment.

To these people, attention from enemies are a reward. They will never beg for anything. Prideful. These natives do not like to be vulnerable.

Creative in bed. Can honestly make great politicians if they wanted to. Art comes to them naturally.

Proud of their Lilith, they embrace Lilith trait and let her take over when needed, in fun settings. gathering with loved ones and close friends, the signs their lilith are in now shine and dominate over others.

Lucks when it comes to careers. Their personal lives may be messy, scandalous and inappropriate even. But they truly don't pay much attention. To them, jealousy is the biggest compliment others can give.

The ideal partner. Others crave their fun and relaxed nature, they hide great pain and past trauma so deep down that sometimes, they drown themselves in partis and pleasures, in sex and lust to forget.

People talk about them. They just do. But not in the way people talk about Lilith 7H. But others are more curious about their next conquest, who they're sleeping with.

Their long term partner should be similar to them. Someone who's detached, cold and rational but knows how to open them up. They need a strong partner who will have their back. Lilith is in a fixed house after all. To them, betrayal is a slap to their faces.

Hardworkers if well aspected. Know that in order to have fun they have to earn it. If have harsh placements to sun, saturn or MC, will then very likely to "sleep their way to the top"

Here are some of the basics I've noticed so far:) Lemme know your opinions!Let's discuss it together🖤

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Have any thoughts of children in our natal chart? Appearance + behavior

Hey there:)

I have actually been thinking about this for a while 🤔

While I think before I was a bit of a skeptic when it comes to certain aspects since I've seen a lot of astrologers discussed how the 5H= children so by checking aspects to 5H ruler/planets in the 5H we can check these placements and can have a vague idea of how many children we may have or able to form an idea of the children traits! The reason I was so skeptical is because I did A LOT of research, and sometimes it doesn't necessarily show an apparent pattern as it should have between the parents and the children. But after some time, I formed some speculations of mine and gathered some knowledge from others and came to the following theories:

1. In a (blood) family tree, there will usually be a pattern. Whether this is modalities(fixed, cardinal, mutable) or elements (water,earth,air,fire) or repetitive signs or sister signs in the big 6(sun, moon, mercury, mars, venus, rising)! this is pretty much common knowledge by now, but i'll explain how you can look into this and study further into your family's charts.

eg; I have cancer sun, leo rising/venus, gemini mercury, pisces moon

my brother has libra sun/rising/mars(venus), cancer moon, virgo venus

my mother has gemini sun, sagittarius moon, leo rising, cancer venus, virgo mars

my father has taurus rising(venus), gemini sun, leo moon, cancer venus, pisces mars

my grandma from my dad side has leo sun/rising/venus, capricorn moon, aquarius mercury, virgo mars.

my grandad from my dad side has pisces sun, leo moon, capricorn venus/mars and gemini rising

-> the most common pattern in my family, just by looking into 2 generations before mine you can see how in my family, there are a lot of oppositions signs as well as repetition of:

leo placements(fixed)

cancer placements(&sister sign capricorn)(cardinal)

virgo placements(&sister sign pisces)(mutable)

well distribution of the three modalities

-> by looking at this, you can also have a vague idea of my family dynamics too!

/ from my aspects alone, you can tell that I'm the closest to my grandma. ( a lot of oppositions between our aspects, leo-aquarius& cancer-capricorn energies) hence I feel more understood and when we're together(her mercury opp my rising/venus), I feel as if I'm always learning more and continuing to perfect myself thanks to her, our energy is cardinal and fixed so it is very straight forward and "traditional" to an extent(?!)

/ my father is the closest to my brother, he sees my brother as his bestfriend and can mutually understand one another like no others in my family. this is because of their oppositions (pisces-virgo) a long with having both of their rising signs(outer world approach, way of life) in the signs ruled by Venus and conjunctions in moon-venus as well as their trines in suns and rising-mars + moon-mars. they can instinctively know what the other want and both have a soft yet domineering energy to them too!

my advice: look for similarities in signs first, then extend it to modalities and finally, the elements!🥰

in one of my notes, i also went into details and gave some examples! check it out here

2. somehow, literally in some wicked ways, air sun parents always have very watery/earthy children and this may cause the children to grow faster and quickly adapt to situations

-> children felt the need to protect themselves and their siblings, may had constant quarrels or arguments. prone to bottle up

-> parents may not understand the child and get frustrated from this. unintentionally undermined their simplest self(different element/modality suns) or goals in life may not match up to the parents expectations esp if they don't have others aspects that make up fot it.

-> issues within communication and its harder to relate to one another

3. The eldest child's chart will literally show you where the parent fucked up. I said it. Since it's their first child most families are not as experienced as when the parents started to plan for more children later. I've seen this to be very true for most of my earth rising friends who are the first-borns of the family. Check their 4H ruler aspects to personal planets as well as 10H ruler and 5H ruler!

4. There's a theory on tumblr where the op mentioned how as children we tend to act as our moon sign

While this can be true for the most cases, I think we also act out a lot of our draconic chart.

Check out my draconic chart simplified post to find out more 💓

5. I ALWAYS look into one's Lilith to get to know more about their childhood. Lilith talks a lot about constraints, restrictions, suppressed trauma and pain so by looking at the house/sign one's Lilith sits in, I can form an idea of what planets/aspects to look for next, since most trauma can occured pretty early on, which lead to one's reasoning for their actions. For this part I usually look into both draconic&natal chart to best interpret, it's amazing how much astrology can tell you:)

eg: I have Lilith Aries 7H squares my natal Cancer sun (11H) tight orb. But I also have my draconic sun in Aries.

-> I suppressed my childish&selfish tendencies deep down as I fear other people (7H) may judge me for this since when I was a child, being myself got me into a lot of trouble(draconic Aries sun) with people.

-> I aspire to become loved by the community (11H) for my grace, sentimental values and nurturing nature (Cancer) hence I rejected my more dominant and sexually confident side(Aries Lilith) yet I'll surprise my partners in bed&in long term relationships of how domineering and possesive(Aries) I can become once I'm in a relationship(7H).

for more descriptive writings on BM Lilith in the houses, check out my post here

Phewww so those are some theories I have in mind right now, please do lemme know what you guys think🥰

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saint jenx🖤

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For the top 5! Uhhhhh

Top 5 placements that has BDE 👀😎😎

Hey thereeee

HAHA I would be lying if I tell ya I didn't see this coming🤣 Y'all are a cult istg but let's get into it!

— Mars conjunct/square/opposite Jupiter: stamina 10/10. Aggressive looking you-know-what:D I noticed that rough aspects make it bigger

— Anything Aries: Aries placements are simply bossb energy and I stand by that. the kind of energy you'd get all submissive when you're around them bahaha

— Sagittarius Rising: I vouch for this. Idk what to tell yall but take my word for this istg💀

— Lilith in the first, seventh or eighth house: look like they can kill you, will kill you vibes. very powerful presences.

— Mars in 1st/5fth/11fth/7th: madly protective people. their silence kills and they radiate badass energy all the damn time. flirts like its nothing too so HAHAH

There you go baddie I hope y'all like this;) Thank you for joining the game ilyyy

saint jenx🪐

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Lilith in the houses — explained 🕊

( FULL )

⚠️ read more abt lilith here before you continue<3

Lilith in the 1st house

Lilith in the 2nd house

Lilith in the 3rd house

Lilith in the 4fth house

Lilith in the 5fth house

Lilith in the 6th house

Lilith in the 7th house

Lilith in the 8th house

Lilith in the 9th house

Lilith in the 10th house

Lilith in the 11th house

Lilith in the 12th house

check out my masterlist for similar posts!🤍

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Hey I was just wondering if you’d be doing Lilith in the 6th house soon? I love how in depth your analysis of different placements are xx

Hi luv,

I'm sorry for being so MIA with the Lilith series can you guys believe it took me 2 months to finally finish it😀 Haha but now that we're done with that, lets talk Lilith 6th house, the last and final post to my Lilith in the houses series;)

🏹Lilith in the 6th house🏹

for my (finally) full lilith series, click here

The 6th house, the house of Virgo, ruled by the intellectual planet Mercury, this is where we start to welcome other people into our worldview. What we're able to offer of ourselves determines how we handle our interaction with the outside world.

While the 1st house to the 5th house focus a great deal on the theme of self and our identities, the 6H branches out our perspective and open us to a world where we no longer just live for ourselves but also for others. An underrated house, the 6th house is often overlooked due to how mundane and real it is.

Not flashy and fun or full of childishness like the 5fth house, not overly idealistic and futuristic like the 11th house, the 6th house is crucial to us as earthly beings. From our routine, day-to-day duties – chores, responsibilities, and paying attention to the smallest of details. The 6th house talks a lot about integrating the resources we have in our 1st to 5H to further give back to the community.

Lilith, being ruled by elemental air, quickly adapts to 6H's perfectionist nature and more often than not, Lilith herself is already demanding, and as she enters this house, here we have natives with a deep need for perfection and unimaginably high expectations. Personally, I consider this house to be one of the hardest placement to have Lilith in, perhaps only second to the 4H Lilith natives.

The 6H doesn't only talk about work. It also talks about one's hygiene and wellness. There's a sense of obsession and obsessive patterns here when it comes to one's health. These native more often than not can have some issues regarding to their health. They can have certain allergies or restrictions within their diet or daily habits. 6H Lilith natives may also have issues down there at the abdomen, as the 6H also rules over this.

tw: eating disorders. I have been observing a pattern of natives with 6H Lilith to have a complex relationship with food. Yet not a lot of astrologers have talked about this, but a lot of the times, perhaps this stems from the individuals' restrictive childhood, 6H Lilith people may be prone to binging or excessive dieting. The 6th house also discusses a lot about diet and where one might find comfort in. These people when younger could have had a complicated experience with food where they find themselves indulge in it at one moment to fill up the emptiness from within, but the come down they experienced afterwards is unmatched and at the end, fuel their already scarred minds more.

A lot of natives with this placement have a hidden need to repair and save people. Perhaps this happens due to their childhood. When they were younger, they constantly find themselves in positions where they have to be the provider, the savior or even the giver. They give and give and give until they can not anymore as they're completely burned out. Earlier in their lives, they can't help but wonder why is it that they always feel this need to serve? To be useful to others? And why is it that theres always this air of inferiority around them and they can't get the respect they deserve?

As they grow up, a lot of 6H Lilith natives reject this side of them. A lot of them can come off as cold, detached and entitled to people intentionally as they fear once they let others in and they recognize their sacrificing nature, nothing good will come out of it and they, will always end up being used and drained and left behind.

!tw!! abuse&r*pe. as children, these individuals could have been abused by aunts and uncles or their father's relatives. these are all the themes which 6H Lilith rules over.

Individuals with this placement may have such a complicated relationship with death as well. Growing up, a death of a grandparent figure, a death of an important friend or an animal or a sibling/relatives may have severely affected these people. They witness close and familiar parts of their everyday life being ripped away all of the sudden and this in turns create a hidden fear of abandonment deep down everyone of them. It is as if when things are too good, they constantly feel the need to be prepared for the worst.

In their normal life, here we have people who either refuse to conform to a normal, mundane life and give into a more Lilith way of living or we have someone who are so prone to overworking themselves and perhaps even other on their bad days. They make the strictest bosses who have such big dreams and aspirations.

The standards these people hold themselves against is unimaginable. They don't want perfection, they demand it. They see things with a keen eyes and they want to perfect the smallest of details. The feeling of being in control is what keeps them stable. Lilith here don't work for power or recognition like 10H Lilith, nor do they work for resources and monetary benefits like 2H Lilith, they work because thats what they do best, they work because it is only then can they have the rare peace of mind, they work because it is work that keep them sane.

These individuals also might have a pretty intense relationships with their coworkers or employees. Prone to an office romance, theres always this sexual tension between them and the people they work with. While they know they have to keep it professional, their seductive nature seems to always tempts their colleagues. Must be extremely careful not to let people pressure them into sexual favours at work. They experience a lot of offers from higher ups for a chance of promotion in exchange for a night with them.

Naturally captivating, a bit mysterious and will always have an air of bewitching beauty to them, they can be seen as the black sheep at their workplace or someone who's inherently stand out amongst an institution.

They're actually healers and are compassionate people deep down. Under their somber facade, we have here soft-hearted individuals who live to serve and protect others.

It wouldn't be surprising to see these people question our mundane life. As they do their best trying to understand, the think the pure purpose of having a 9 to 5 job is nothing but enslavement. Some of the natives with this placement will challenge authority or goes against authority. Beneficial aspects can indicate that they can change the system, change what is considered normal and essential to our life.

A lot of them when younger were taught to follow their logic above all else. It can be very hard for these people to accept the emotional side of things. While they hate ignorance and entitlement above all else, they sometimes don't realize as they reject the emotional aspects of things, they themselves are becoming what they once despised.

They don't want sex. They need it. This is why I see a lot of 6H natives, once correctly made peace with their placement, can go on for hours and hours everyday without feeling tired or drained. Sex with them will make you crave it, sex with them is essential and crucial. They know it is one of the things that is just an everyday thing to them, so a lot of them could try their best to distract themselves and postpone having sex with their partner since when they start, they can't be stop.

May really dislike animals or may love them dearly and animals can be a big theme to their Lilith's development. I see a lot of Lilith in the 6H to be very spiritual in closet and love cats, while others simply HATE animals due to injuries caused by them when younger.

When they get sick, they get really sick. Prone to diseases that are hard to pinpoint and detect. Also I would like to point out how it is so common for these natives to have been wronged by medical practitioners, public health services or the armies.

May be very into BDSM, but more fixated in the idea of master and servant. They either love to be pleased or please others. Yet from my observations, they're often pleasers and are very sacrificing and giving in the bedroom.

A need to change and tame difficult people. As they face these outsiders, a part of them feel understood. They have this rebellious side of them that come out when others least expected it.

So this is the end to my Lilith in the houses series I can't believe I finally finish it🥲 I can move on to my Rising series now thank goodness ahaha. It has been a very fulfilling ride, I can't wait to look back in the future and say to people that yup my followers bombarded my submission everyday thats how I finish that series luv💀 jk i'm so grateful for you guys, thank you so much for supporting me since the very start<3

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saint jenx🪐

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