#literally 01x05 was what dreams are made of and 01x06 made me wanna rip my hair out

[tothedesert]

ok im about to rant hard so brace yourselves

i feel richie’s pain SO HARD. 01x06 was so hard for me to watch, i almost couldn’t finish it.

it was so uncomfortable for me to watch patrick fiddle with his escapulario and agustín (who i was never a big fan of) teasing him for it. when richie explained what it was in spanish and agustín kept answering in english even though he KNEW what richie was saying??? it’s happened to me to speak to someone in their mother tongue only to be answered in english and it’s incredibly disrespectful and diminishing. and then agustín telling patrick to stop giving richie false hopes by calling him his boyfriend (when it was patrick who even started calling him that!!!! hated him for a second for not standing up and saying it). richie’s reaction was totally justified and i really wanted to punch something when agustín started speaking spanish to him like boy!!!!!! go choke on something literally. ‘oh i’m your hermano now?’ YOU TELL HIM RICHIE!!!!

and that thing with kevin ???? ‘he’s gonna get his own place soon’ like i GET it you wanna impress your boss and his bear bf but like... don’t act like your boyfriend’s job (who is literally standing next to you) is only justified if it’s a stepping stone to an actually “dignified” job??????? god i was LIVID  

patrick not even apologizing for what was obviously a very uncomfortable afternoon for richie got me madddddd. richie is such a sweetheart and patrick pulling that ‘come with me to my sister’s wedding’ annoyed the hell out of me. richie doesn’t need you showing him off, he needs to know you actually respect him!!!!! i really expected an actual apology from patrick and not him pulling that card to get out of the situation instead of just asking richie what he feels and what he needs!!!!!!! 

#i don't to say you gotta google someone's ethnicity when you start dating but you have to understand there will be things #you can and cannot say ESPECIALLY when you don't know what you're talking about #i 10000% get richie being defensive about his culture and customs #it always makes me uncomfortable when patrick teases him about them and i KNOW he doesn't mean any harm but i mean #if you clearly don't know what it's about and what richie's opinion on the matter is then just shut up and listen!!!!!!!!! #there will be time to joke about richie's señora soon!!! after you've learned he believes in what she does and it's important to him #i really feel richie's pain i hope he gets the respect he deserves #also agustìn can literally fuck off lmao i never liked him and i've got reasons not to now #it's really weird being latina and always wishing for representation everywhere #and then getting it and it being so accurate #literally 01x05 was what dreams are made of and 01x06 made me wanna rip my hair out #ok im done #looking hbo