#lithoromantic

[genderstarbucks]

Okay new rule

Only aspec people can ship aspec characters until you allos learn to behave

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #demiromantic #demisexual #demian #demirose #greyaromantic #greyasexual #greyrose #cupioromantic #cupiosexual #cupiorose #frayromantic #fraysexual #frayrose #lithoromantic #lithosexual #lithorose #reciproromantic #reciprosexual #reciprorose #aroflux #aceflux #aroaceflux #orchidromantic #orchidsexual #orchidrose #aegoromantic #aegosexual

[nerdygaymormon]

#aro #aromantic #demiromantic #greyromantic #lithoromantic #aromantic spectrum awareness week #queeeer chameleon

[psychicmisfortune]

aphobes are coming back from twitter so this is a reminder:

this blog welcomes ALL ASPECS. aromantics, demiromantics, grayromantics, lithoromantics, aegoromantics, aroflux folks, asexuals, demisexuals, graysexuals, lithosexuals, aegosexuals, aceflux folks, aroaces, aroallos, alloaces, allohets, hetallos, ace pans/bis/lesbians/gays/polys/anything else, aro pans/bis/lesbians/gays/polys/anything else, and anything else i didn't list.

y'all already know you're valid as fuck. keep going, y'all are awesome.

#aspec #aromantic #demiromantic #grayromantic #lithoromantic #asexual #demisexual #lithosexual #graysexual #aroace #lgbtqia #lgbtq #queer #pride #ace pride #aro pride #trophy talks #🏆

[its-kayyyy]

You are valid (:

#lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #lgbt+ #aro positvity #aromantic #aromantism #aromanitc #demiromantic #cupioromantic #bellusromantic #aegoromantic #lithoromantic #apothiromantic #aroflux #autoromantic #grayromantic #frayromantic #desinoromantic #recipromantic #arospec

[twigstarpikachutroll22]

The thing about how when I tell people offline that I'm aroace they usually go "Oh, I didn't know that was a thing!" is like. It’s a good response, it’s good that the response I get generally isn’t outright aphobic, but it reminds me just how much they don't know. Like. The sheer range of the aro and ace spectrums and the experiences relating to attraction that I see people in those communities talk about, the amount of breaking down of attraction and relationships, the amount of discussion about ALLLLLLLLL the hecking nuance both of those can have, and like. So many people literally Do Not Know that even the words "aromantic" and "asexual" exist. And just "doesn't feel attraction" is the easiest and most basic thing here to understand. It’s the tip of the iceberg. It’s the tip of a really really freaking huge iceberg. And plenty of allos have a hard time wrapping their heads around even that, let alone all the many more identities and many many more kinds of experiences on these spectrums. So many people literally do not know that not feeling attraction the way they do is a thing. So many people, like, the VAST majority of the population, are entirely confined to this incredibly freaking limited ONE standard concept of how attraction and relationships can work that seems mandated for everycreature. So many people don't even know that anything outside of that exists. And SO MUCH outside of that can exist. It's some straight-up allegory of the cave junk.

#.txt #aromanticism #asexuality #aromantic #asexual #ace #aro #amatonormativity #compulsory sexuality #frayromantic #fraysexual #grayromantic #graysexual #demiromantic #demisexual #aroflux #aceflux #lithosexual #lithoromantic #queerplatonic #alterous attraction #alterous relationships #relationship anarchy #aegosexual #aegoromantic #recipromantic #reciprosexual #orchidsexual #orchidromantic #cupiosexual

[sh1ny-r0ckruff]

reminder

shout out to all Aroflux, Aegoromantic, Apothiromantic, Aromantic, Arospike, autoromantic,Bellusromantic, Caedromantic, Cupioromantics, Demiromantic, Fictoromantic, Frayromantic, Grayromantics,Lithromantic/Akoiromantics, Myrromantic, Quoiromantic, Recipromantic, Requisromantic + more people !!

u guys are so amazing and super valid /g /pos

#aro #aromantic #aroace #arospec #aspec #aromantic asexual #aromantism #aroflux #aegoromantic #apothiromantic #arospike #autoromantic #bellusromantic #caedromantic #cupioromantic #demiromantic #fictoromantic #frayromantic #grayromantic #lithoromantic #akoiromantic #myrromantic #quoiromantic #recipromantic #requisromanic

[dynamic-power]

Happy ace visibility week! 🖤🩶🤍💜

Please check on all your aspec friends and make sure they are still visible to the human eye. Doing so at least once a week ensures optimal happiness, but doing it this week in particular grants the aspec person extra feelings of Appreciation and Validity!

#aspec #asexuality #asexual #aromantic #demisexual #lithoromantic #aegosexual #i know im missing tons #please add them to the tags! #lgbtq #lgbtqia #ace week of visibility #ace week

[thedo0zyslider]

Mcyt Aro Week Day Five: Baking with BigB!! Get yourself a flag cookie

Full list below the cut, since I'll probably for to tag most of em

#Or: I draw as many arospec flags as humanly possible #ron.art #bigbst4tz2 #bigbstatz #bigb fanart #aromantic spectrum #aroallo #aroace #aromantic #lithoromantic #cupioromantic #oriented aroace #loveless aromantic #aromid #acemid #amid #aroflux #mcyt aro week #demiromantic #I am so tired but I have learned so many labels #This one was really late but yk #demirose #grayromantic

[fireheartwraith]

Num digo é nada

#qsmp #qsmp forever #q!forever #aromantism #aromantic #arospec #lithoromantic

[aceoffangirls]

attraction is confusing, i now propose that if we can not tell if something is alterous, romantic, platonic, or queerplatonic we call it what the fuck is this or wtfit instead

#a new form of attraction wtfit #aroace #aromantism #aromantic #aro #aroflux #aroallo #demiromantic #grey aromantic #greyromantic #cupioromantic #lithoromantic #recipromantic #quoiromantic #abromantic #aegoromantic #iamvanoromantic #aromantic spectrum #arospec #arofluid #ace #aro ace #wtfit

[bloggingboutburgers]

OC-tober day 21 and last day of using aromantic flag palettes. (Sorry it's not very original and kind of a repeat from yesterday art-wise TwT)

Today's flag is lithoromantic – a microlabel for people who experience romantic attraction but don't want it reciprocated / will lose said attraction if reciprocated.

Sadly I couldn't include all romantic microlabels within one week, so I'll also give a special mention today to two at least I wish I could've mentioned more: apothiromantic (romance-repulsed altogether, pretty much), and quoiromantic (people who can't tell different types of attraction apart / aren't sure if they ARE feeling romantic attraction). Hopefully I did all of those definitions justice, like I said I'm very new to microlabels and don't use them for myself so I may be completely off the mark, but I'm always eager to learn more so please do feel free to share any input, if that's alright!

#oc tober #akhtsoctober #oc #oc-tober #lithoromantic #my art #nonburger

[scretladyspider]

Happy Arospec Awareness Week to demiromantics, grayromantics, and all the aros with specific lesser known labels 🖤🤍💚

#arospec #aromantic #aro #demiromantic #grayromantic #cupioromantic #lithoromantic #aegoromantic #aroace #aromantic spectrum #aro ace #lgbtqia

[xxstrawberrybunxx]

Aromanticism can encompass so many wide ranges of experiences, like, so many.

There's loveless and heartless aros and loving aros, aplatonic aros and aros who really value platonic love. Alloaros, aroaces, non-sam aros.

I'm a non-sam aro as in I don't consider the split-attraction model to be very important in my identity. I don't feel the need to put boundaries on romantic, sexual, and platonic love and attraction.

Someone else might also be a non-sam aro and have completely different experiences and definitions then me and that's like, totally fine!

There's no one way to define aromantic experiences and there's no one way to define aromantic love or lack-there-of. All of us reserve the right to have our own spaces and be left-the-fuck-alone tbh.

#aromantic #loveless aro #loving aro #aplatonic #non sam aro #heartless aro #aroace #alloaro #greyaromantic #greyaro #lithoromantic #litho-aro??? #object-loving that's also cool I'm that #other aros #all the aros #arrows

[our-arospec-experience]

Tw I think there's a hint of aphobia somewhere down this ask

But tldr :Hello arospec gang. I found specific orientations within the aro spectrum and they are on point. I like to use multiple of them, is that normal or okay?

Lo and behold below is the unabridged version:

Anyways. I, on the most unfortunate of fates, realized I was aromantic right after I got into a romantic relationship. It's very recent, but the identity clicked with me almost instantly. The more I read and dig about it, the more I find myself thinking, wow, this is so me.

Eventually, after doing more digging I came across different orientations under the wide range of the arospectrum. And I relate with more than one of these.

The problem though is that when I did come across some sort of info graphic thingy that included the most flags in it, the comments (reddit) were kinda dismissive of these labels. Anyway some comments (and the comments are coming from aros and aces alike) are complaining about the micro labels being too specific and unnecessary. I think they're wrong because, for me, finding these specific orientations and learning how my experience isn't an isolated case is definitely a necessity. If not for these specific arospec orientations, I'd probably still think that I'm alone.

Anyways the question though, is that am I the only one who could relate to multiple of these arospec identities? Like I could specifically relate to, alloaro/aroallo, frayromantic, lithromantic. So that's three. And counting.

While I do identify as those, I still use the term aromantic as a catch-all term to explain myself to my friends (much like in a defensive fashion, because they think I'm monstrous for having limited romantic attraction). Then it dawned on me that I behaved just like the redditors who were roasting the specific aromantic orientations. So I'm rethinking my life decisions now and I guess I should, next time, use these terms even if most of my friends are proudly homophobic. Welcome to the brogrammer industry boys this place fucken sucks

Anyways sorry for the extremely looooonglonglong text thank you so much for your service

Ps the relationship that served as my aromantic awakening is a frozen dumpster fire. I literally can't do romance. Being affectionate with her under the friends label and role-playing as her favorite fictional men was way easier than when she admitted to having feelings for me instead of the fictional men. Like. Wait. That's illegal.

Of course you can use multiple microlabels!!! For example, I am aromantic, fictoromantic, and cupioromantic. It’s definitely normal and valid. microlabels are great for people who want to define how they feel more specifically, and don’t feel like the generic term quite fits them properly. I’m sorry to hear your relationship didn’t work out (unless you are happy about that, in which case, congratulations). Sometimes it’s best to ignore what other people think and just do what is right for you. remember you are valid, and no one should make you feel stupid for who you are :)

#our arospec experience #arospec #aromantic #aro #lgbtqia+ #Tw aphobia #tw arophobia #tw homophobia #tw romance #frayromantic #lithoromantic

[jliesworld]

Types of Aromantic Identities

A video covering aromantic identities:

1.Grayromantic

2.Aegoromantic

3.Requiesromantic

4.Apothiromantic/Antiromantic

5.Cupioromantic

6.Frayromantic

7.Demiromantic

8.Coeoromantic

9.Recipromantic

10.Lithoromantic

11.Arospike

12.Adexromantic

This was also really good practice for me to draw Arrow. I'm actually thinking about turning some of the poses into stickers as well!

#pride month #lgbt #grayromantic #aegoromantic #apothiromantic #cupioromantic #frayromantic #demiromantic #coeoromantic #recipromantic #lithoromantic #pride #Youtube #aromantic

[ainegueneres]

Imagine being an aromantic and genuinely falling in love with fictional characters cause they aren't real and you can freely imagine yourself being in a relationship with them but now whenever you see them getting shipped with canon characters you get jealous.

Like, hey! that's my soulmate right there and we are already married in my head!!

Bonus if you don't even imagine a romantic relationship with them, it's just a slow burn sexual tension scenario with no reaching of commitment in relationship.

#asexual #aromantic #lithoromantic #cupioromantic #asexuality #aromantism #fictional crushes #fictional characters #aroace #arospec #aro stuff #aro struggles