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6piecesofsalami · 2 months

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i’m on the aro spec, ofc i complimented my homie and called him sexy and then got confused when he asked if i was hitting on him

#alloaro #arospec #i can compliment the homies #lithromantic #lithro #kiss the homies goodnight #cant belive kiss the homies goodnight is a real tag

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arovaricious · 2 years

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Romo aros, romance favorable aros, aros who sometimes experience romantic attraction: sending you all so much affection and care!!!

#aro #aromantic #queer #aro spec #romo aro #romance favorable aro #greyro #cupioro #bellusro #lithro #frayro #etc etc #👑 anyways im a romo aro ^^

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teacup-captor · 1 year

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Me: Man I love being single. It's honestly better than being in a relationship

Me: Being in a relationship sucks. Just having the crush and fantasizing is so much better

Also me, when I found out I'm lithromantic:

#aro #aromantic #aro meme #lithromantic #lithro #aspec #arospec

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aro-sora · 1 year

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[ID: Three versions of the Kingdom Hearts logo colored with the lithromantic flag. The first one has the heart colored as the flag and the crown yellow. The second version has the crown the same color as the red top stripe. The third version is colored so that the stripes are divided equally on the full symbol including the crown. End ID]

@arospecfanworksweek Day 5: Lithromantic

Fandom: Kingdom Hearts

These are free to use just please reblog if you save them ❤️💛

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#kh #kingdom hearts #arospecfanworksweek #aromantic spectrum awareness week #aro #aromantic #asaw #asaw 2023 #lithro #lithromantic #arospec #my edits

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flip-flopping-frede · 1 year

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My attempt at Lithromantic Positivity

I want to preface this by saying I am ~in general~ not a fan of positivity. Trying to “force positivity” is quickly a slippery slope to toxic positivity and superficially. Nonetheless, I feel like I could have realized some lithromantic positivity, and thought it was necessary to share rather than keep it to myself.

It is ok that there’s nothing good about being lithro. It is ok if there are no benefits that we can exploit from ourselves and take advantage of ourselves (or our relationships) with. Lithromantics not necessarily having *any* positives to being lithro (besides our dope flag) means that those of us that have accepted ourselves, are some of the most compassionate, kind, strong, and resilient souls. The amount of self-compassion one has to develop before they can radically accept themselves as lithromantic, is so much higher than essentially any other queer identity.

In a world that has yet to be educated on aromanticsm, aromantics and cupioromantics are scared to date alloromantics, due to alloromantics behaving like it is a “dealbreaker” or “end of the world” if their [romantic] partner is not “in love” [essentially experiencing romo attrac] towards them. It’s valid for both aros and cupioros to be scared to date alloros because of this arophobic mindset they have, tho.

Anyways, a lithromantic might “seem” more appealing to an uneducated alloromantic, since we do experience the romo attrac, or what alloros mistake for “love”. At the same time, once an alloro experiences and returns that romo attrac towards the lithro, the lithro’s romo attrac fades. Not necessarily fades, but flees and turns into romance repulsion (for most lithros). Uneducated, insecure, and/or unaccepting alloros might feel very hurt for the lithros sudden change. Simultaneously, the lithro may also be hurting for not being able to “keep” or “hold on” to the romo attrac. It feels like, being lithro leaves everyone worse off (and is potentially traumatizing for the lithro). This is why lithros who have accepted themselves have learned how to be compassionate and kind to themselves to an extent that most other queer identities never have to go to before they can accept their queer identity, due to there being more external support, education, and acceptance for their queer identities (including for aros).

It is so easy for lithromantics, especially lithros that have chosen to remain closeted, to drown in a sea of their own self-hatred and shame of being an arospec identity that leaves the alloromantics that reciprocated the romo attrac angry and confused. In a world where alloromantics have all the privilege and amatonormativity is everywhere, lithros are so strong, brave, and resilient for existing as our lithromantic identity in a world that refuses to see us, acknowledge us, validate us, support us, accept us, or understand us.

This is where the lithromantic positivity comes in: lithromantics can relate to everyone. Lithromantics know what it feels like to experience romantic attraction; and we know what it feels like to have a romantic relationship look you dead in the face and not want it. We are also romance ambivalent! We understand what it means to have more than one attitude towards romance. We can understand both apothiros and cupioros. We can relate to another largely unknown arospec identity—frayromantism, since frayros also experience involuntary, primary romantic attraction, just like lithros do. We can even relate to alloros in terms of experiencing romantic attraction involuntarily and getting crushes. And finally, we can relate to aros with struggling to desire romantic relationships in the same way an alloromantic does.

There are so many other identities lithromantic is similar to, like aegoromantic, bellusromantic, and frayromantic. Lithros belong in arospec spaces, and lithros’ voices are so valuable to the arospec community. Lithros are essential in terms of helping to bridge the distance and alienation that is only growing between aromantics and alloromantics.

At the same time, lithros need support. Unfortunately, a lot of lithos hate their identity, and feel no pride for it. We don’t feel seen or validated, and a lot of us feel a lot of shame for being lithromantic. I personally didn’t really see any actual lithros celebrating their lithromanticsm during this year’s arospec awareness week, which is sad. We need the arospec community to affirm that are voices are valuable and that our experiences are valid, especially as we are struggling to accept ourselves.

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palatteflags · 1 year

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Domestic Dog/Fox Therian based Pansexual and Lithromantic moodboard~ ^^ For an anon! Hope you like this!! ^^ Want one? Send an ask! -mod Jay

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whimsidreams · 10 months

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Does anyone ever prefer the crushing phase over the lovey phase? Like whenever I caught feelings for a guy, I would separate myself from the irl situation and treat those feels like a simulation of sorts, a means to fantasize and create instead of treating it like an excuse to go after a relationship. It was all fun and games. Never took it seriously; so whenever my friends would encourage me to initiate something, I'd be like

u wot m8

#whimsi posts #aro #aromantic #aro spec #aromantism #lithro #lithromantic #akoiromantic #apromantic #just discovered this term and i kinda vibe with it #it's cool learning more about myself :)

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tiredpoets · 9 months

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I love being lithromantic

*falls in love with the idea of you ON PURPOSE >:)*

#lithro #lithromantic #aromantic #aro

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true-autistic-tales · 2 years

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shirt idea or whatevz

[id: PLEASE DON'T FALL 4 ME, I AM LITHROMANTIC]

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probablyaspeccharacters · 2 years

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Yukimi Togakushi is Akoi

[İ.D.: Yukimi Togakushi from Kakegurui Twin, in front of an akoi flag. End İ.D.]

#Yukimi Togakushi #Kakegurui #kakegurui twin #kakegurui twin is wild yall #akoi #akoiro #akoiromantic #akoiace #akoisexual #lith #lithro #lithromantic #lithace #lithsexual

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imoga-pride · 1 year

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Hi, so I’m asexual and have been comfortable with it for like a year and a half. However, I keep changing my romantic labels. It always stays on the aromantic side though. I have been using greyromantic, but lately have been wondering if my “crushes” were actually just queer platonic or alterous.

So my question is, if you’re aroflux could that include feeling like you’re lithromantic one week and then greyromantic recipromantic the next? Or is there another term for feeling like your romantic orientation changes? Also, would this make sense for my not being able to tell if my “crushes” are actually crushes or just a combo of alterous, aesthetic, and sensual? And can my attraction towards the person change from me liking them romantically to not liking them, but then liking them again after xyz?

My last question, is aroflux technically under the greyromantic umbrella?

Sorry if any of this was confusing at all!

I believe aroflux includes all arospec identities, not just grey areas. It also means fluctuating in intensity of attraction. There's abroromantic, sometimes some distinguish the two as abroro includes alloromantic identities. But arospec terms don't exclude "alloromantic"/non-aromantic identities (e.g. demipanromantic). Aroflux can fluctuate to a black area/null state, dark grey and light gray. And for intensity, it can go to high (hyperro?/perissosro), low (hyporo?) and absolute (euromantic)/regular (alloro?/zedro?) attractions too.

Not sure if there's a fluitic/multi-attraction equivalent for crushes/squishes/etc.

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mcbannerprideflags · 11 months

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Lithromantic Flag & Shield

Flag light blue banner lime gradient white base gradient red chief light grey per fess inverted black base white fess

Shield light blue banner lime gradient white base gradient red chief indented light grey per fess inverted black base indented white fess

#lithromantic #lithro #minecraft pride flags

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incinerated · 2 years

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♧ mehehe

You’re my: MUTUAL 💖

How I met you: OTHER MUTUALS & SERVER HE HE

Why I follow you: UR COOL AND I LIKE MAKING FUN OF HORRIBLE WHITE PPL W/ U

Your blog is: A WEBSITE WITH GOOD IMAGES IN FACT

Your URL is: BONES I ASSUME

Your icon is: THE FUCKING GOLD MASK MONAGHAN IF IM CORRECT ITS NICE

A random fact I know about you: THE OLD VIDEO GAME MAN BRAIN GENERATOR

General opinion: YOU SHOULD BULLY GRINGOS MORE INTENSELY THEY DESERVE IT

A random thought I have: 👇

#GUNKJUNK #ASKS #ASK MEME #LITHRO

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falling-mellow · 2 years

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Happy pride!

I myself am ace, biro & lithro 🙂✌️🏳️‍🌈

#Pride #pride month #ace #asexual #bi #biromantic #lithro #lithromantic #happy pride 🌈#lgbtq+#lgbtq #lgbt

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aro-culture-is · 3 months

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Lithro culture is liking fictional characters more than people because the characters can never reciprocate ❤️🧡💛🤍🖤

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #lithro culture #lithromantic culture

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flip-flopping-frede · 1 year

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What about a frayromantic and a cupioromantic story. The cupioromantic would be fine dating or getting into some sort of QPR or QPP with any of their friends, however at the same time the cupioro feels insecure about getting into a relationship, partnership, wavership, or any kind of QPR/QPP without experiencing any kind of romo attrac at all to their potential partner.

The frayromantic and the cupioromantic both come into eachother’s lives. The frayromantic initally experiences the involuntary primary romo attrac to the cupioro. However, as the frayro and cupioro form a bond (emotional and friendship) the frayro’s romo feelings for the cupioro fade. Frayro knows how Cupioro feels about a potential relationship, however Frayro is struggling to accept themself and their fading romantic attraction. Frayro is struggling to accept their frayromanticsm and how they cannot keep their romantic attraction.

Cupioro and Frayro connect over how it’s ok to want a romantic relationship without experiencing romantic attraction, and how both of them accepted that *if* they were in a QPP of some sort, neither of them would require their partner experience romo attrac towards them, which is an amatonormative and arophobic standard anyway.

I see so much stuff about “cupioros and lithros” but what about frayros. Lithros and frayros both experience involuntary, primary romantic attraction, and then it goes away. Frayros don’t deserve to be left out of the conversation.

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