It's the insecurities about ourselves that make us look for confirmation of our own worth, lovability and general validation on the outside, in others. It's cause we probably never felt appreciated or validated as a person or human being, but we had to prove our worth somehow (maybe through good grades or behaviours).
But we need to take control of this and start realizing that we can validate ourselves. That we are humans and therefore worthy of love and appreciation despite anything else our mind and upbringing or any other issue that may have arised, want us to believe.
It's all inside of us since the first day we were born. We have nothing to prove to anyone. We don't have to reach any specific or particular goal in order to be deserving of love. We're already deserving. It's our natal right.
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You are a beloved and are amazing, ik many people tell you this but 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
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I adored her. Everyone did. It was impossible not to love her.
Anna Biller, from Bluebeard's Castle
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Bulbasaur says you are lovable! Bulbasaur said it, so it has to be true 🩵
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…🤍 ‿You're the reasons i fall in love with life all over again. You're the reason I look forward to making coffee together as our eyes waltz to one another. I love our quiet moments where words aren't needed. It's solely you & I. It's those little moments like making the bed together. Taking our dog for a walk. It's washing the clothes together. For as long as we're in the same household, it doesn't matter for were together…⁀🤍
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