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snarkyschizo · 10 months ago
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Monogamous or not, introverted or not, asocial or not, possessive or not - we can't or shouldn't ever expect ONE person to cover ALL our social needs. We need a variety of input from different people with different qualities, abilities and perspectives in order to thrive. Expecting one friend or one partner to cover everything is not just unfair, it's toxic and unhealthy.
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xi4ngling · 2 months ago
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🍰 輝きたい!! "KAGAYAKITAI!!" ☆⌒ (ゝ。∂)
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tiannarosetarot · 4 days ago
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Your Love Life In December - Pick-a-Card Reading
Hi everyone! I’m so excited for today’s reading! We are officially in Sagittarius season, and that means my birthday is coming up.
Today I wanted to offer a reading for your love life in December. I have 3 piles in the image below. I’ve added some cute objects to help make your decision. See which one resonates with you now, and scroll down to the correct pile 1, 2 or 3.
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Pile 1
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So overall I'm feeling such positive energy for you guys this month. I see a lot of advancement in different areas of your lives also, so it won't just be your love life improving this month. But overall I am feeling such a sense of fulfillment that you guys have been waiting for for a really long time and maybe too scared to ask for, or maybe feeling like you didn't deserve it. But you guys are good enough for this and you are ready for this so don't shy away now this is your time. I’m seeing you guys are kind of stepping out of a painful period of time, or maybe just feeling some stagnation for a while, but this is coming to an end this month. Any tears of sadness are transforming into tears of joy, so make sure that you are cleansing especially purification through water. It's time to leave that negative energy behind because there are new things coming. With both the cards Stimulation and Flame Tree this is super passionate energy coming in. With this new person that you might be meeting soon you're going to feel that immediate surge of energy, but I feel like it's going to be really refreshing at the same time. You might be worried that it's going to run out and while it is important to be cautious of anything like love bombing or stuff like that, I see this being a really really positive change in your life so I would try to avoid fear of the future and focus on the present moment. There’s going to be some really strong physical, emotional or intellectual stimulation going on between the two of you. but I also see just in general you guys falling in love with yourself this month, or falling in love with your careers, falling in love with a certain place etc. Especially with Sagittarius season you may be traveling a lot or feeling that urge to explore new places and expand your worldview. And so if for whatever reason certain connections with specific people aren't working out it is important to please yourself first. You might need to try to disconnect from what other people are doing and focus on your own needs. It is important to fill up your own cup. Nobody else can do that for you. So for some of you the month of December could be focusing on that own self-fulfillment so that in the near future another person will be able to come in and continue that energy for you. You might also be getting some unexpected financial increases, potentially new job opportunities. There may also be some people coming back from your past who thought the grass was greener on the other side, but now they realize that that wasn't the case and that they really want to be with you. Be cautious about this; might be a case-by-case basis as to whether you want to accept this person back into your life. But over all your wishes are being fulfilled your’re reaching a new level of transformation and self-discovery, overall positivity this month. So don't be afraid of this happiness. This is something that you 100% deserve and if it hasn't happened yet that is not your fault at all. The universe is really wanting to make you prepared so that you are in the right place to accept all of these blessings when they do come in. Some signs that may be significant are Virgo, Aries and Leo, as well as the numbers 1, 3, 10, 18, 30 and 32.
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So you guys are currently in a period of really important transformation. This could be peaking in the month of December or may be coming to an end but it might feel a bit scary. This is a time of really shaking things up, but it's going to help you to ultimately reach a sense of victory and end up in the place that you need to be. I'm seeing with the way that you guys might be living your lives right now it's not really benefiting your higher self, or maybe it's just not the best that you can have. Some of you may be in connections right now, and it may still be possible to work it out, but adjustments are required in order to get this to a more positive place. But overall a lot of these cards are representing transformation and some changes, and ultimately healing and recovery. There may be some repressed emotions between the two of you or just yourself. Maybe you are really really scared about putting yourself back out there after what might have happened in the past or maybe you're feeling like you don't have as much experience or you're not worthy of it. This month is about facing your fears, and it's about to get interesting. I'm seeing that you are either taking on too much responsibility lately or avoiding all responsibilities. Maybe you came to a conclusion that love wasn't possible for you so you shut it out or maybe anytime somebody gets close you push them away. And I think deep down this isn't what you guys want, but maybe you're just not entirely sure about how to get to that place where you want to be. You will be coming to a deeper sense of understanding coming out of this transformation process. And sometimes things need to change or crumble in order to find out where you need to be. There's going to be a major release and it might be a bit painful but ultimately you will be finding a much much more connected and fulfilled place in your life. For those of you who are in a connection right now or the rest of you who will soon, this person may act like they don't care, this could be picking up on your energy too. There's a lot of repressed emotions and you guys are both scared of sharing what you're going through and being vulnerable with your feelings. But I do see that you guys are both really going to care about each other. This connection might catch you off guard a little bit with how strongly it comes in and maybe it's not going to be like anything else you've ever experienced in your past. You might not know how to handle it but don't let past insecurities or things you've already worked on come up again in some form of self-sabotage. Spend this month working through those things so that when this connection does come around or when these things come up you are prepared and confident and you know your worth. There's a lot of abundance waiting for you guys so no matter your situation, there is going to be major improvements happening in the near future. I encourage you guys to not hold on so tightly to things that do not serve you out of fear that there won't be anything else in the future. This is all going to happen at the right time for you. So don't be afraid to be vulnerable and go through that shadow work in order to make yourself really available to fully explore this connection. The signs Aries or Aquarius may be significant as well as the numbers 2, 5, 8, 23 and 44. Gaia may also hold significance for you this month.
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Pile 3! You guys have put in the necessary work and it's finally time to reap the benefits and the rewards. There might be some difficult decisions that you've made recently or that you are about to make but I see you guys are connected with yourself. You know what you want and you have your eyes on the prize. You're not here to waste your time and that is an energy that might scare the hell out of some people but this is something to be respected. You are getting your life together. You are tying up loose ends and already in the process of getting rid of the things that don't serve you. I think to continue this process, work on grounding yourself, connect with nature, try different things like meditation or yoga or anything like that. You are increasing your vitality and are really close to achieving your goals. You may be or are just coming out of a period of transformation and it's important to remember that some things need to end in order to make room for better things in the future. I think if you have recently needed to close out with a connection it was divine intervention, this energy was not right to continue much longer. Trust your intuition about this, especially if you're in a connection right now. You may be having somebody come back into your life or who wants to start over with you. There may be an apology coming. I think this person is finally realizing how much of a catch you are and they might have been a bit intimidated in the past but now they see your ‘true worth’. I think what this person used to or currently defines as worth in a partner is not the most healthy or maybe just doesn’t resonate with what you are looking for. It feels a bit temporary or shallow, so be careful about considering this connection again, because you guys are looking for ‘the one’. You are looking for that endgame connection, eternal love. And I know that some people are going to say that this doesn’t exist, but don’t settle babe! You deserve so much! You’ve been working hard, going through this transformation, and you are really starting to embody this Queen of Wands energy; confidence, warmth, dedication. You are rising above any difficulties. It might not always feel like you’re making progress but you are. And a new love offer is coming in soon, this is everything you’ve always wanted. Not only that, but this person wants you too (no longer falling for unavailable people). They are coming in hot and ready, and you are going to match/compliment this person’s energy. The universe has it lined up for you, as soon as you start believing in yourself and asking for what you truly desire. It’s out there for you, so don’t give up! The signs Taurus or Scorpio may be significant as well as the numbers 2, 6, 8, 11, 17 and 24.
Wishing everyone an amazing December and holiday season! Keep yourself open to amazing possibilities!
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