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aro-culture-is · 4 months

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Loveless aro culture is your partner saying I love you and your brain freezing because that was not part of the plan and you cannot say it back truthfully

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod phoenix #loveless aro culture

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loveless-aro-culture-is · 1 year

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loveless aro culture is using the word "love" very loosely.

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#loveless aro #loveless aro culture is #loveless aro culture #aromantic #aro #andy-mouths-off

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disbestyx · 11 months

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It's Pride Month, which means I crawl out of the fetal position in the corner of my room to produce these spectacular pride memes for you, the people of tumblr!

#aromantic #aro positivity #aromantism #arospec #aro culture is #platonic #aro memes #friends #humor #aro pride #aroace #aromanitc #lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqplus #loveless #funny memes #lgbt pride

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awkward-aro-ace-princess-76 · 2 years

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The allos love to say shit like “it’s so sad their relationship will never go beyond friendship” and “these people just need to sleep together and their relationship will reach its full potential” like no. Just no.

It’s not sad when a friendship stays a friendship. There doesn’t need to be sex in a relationship at all even if the relationship is romantic. Romance isn’t the highest, most pure, most desirable place for a relationship to reach. Allos love pretending a relationship is NOTHING if there’s no romance or sex involved. If the characters aren’t fucking or dating, the relationship is trash in most people’s eyes. It’s so infuriating and frustrating.

#allonormativity #amatonormativity #aroace #aroace frustrated with fandom culture #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #arospec #loveless aro #romance repulsed aro #aspec #acespec #sex repulsed #shipping discourse

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curlyhairedintrovertsworld · 3 months

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what if i ship these people as friends, then what fuckers. what if i ship them as enemies because i made up a scenario in my head, then what? you gonna be a coward about it??? what if i ship these people as this person loves romantically, and this person loves in this is my forever friend with tax benefits??? what if i ship these people in they live together because they just seem like they would be the good roommates??? what if i shipped them in the most unromantic unspecified multilayered queer way possible??? what if what if what if what if- i'll fucking do it

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zombiestarillustration · 1 year

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I need to make more Aro art

#Aromantic #Aro #arospec #Aspec #Aro culture #Aro art #Aromantic art #aroace artist #Voidpunk #Voidpunk art #red string of fate #aro lovecore #lovequeer #loveless #lovequeer aro #loveless aro #If you’ve seen this art posted by another account hi I’m the same dame just got a shiny new art blog #Dreams of a Voidpunk art Zine dance in my brain #I have to many projects

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shiutsu · 1 month

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I got the idea from some of the reblogs from my previous aplatonic dedicated post.

Like as I mentioned several times on this blog, alloplatonics obsess over friendships & think everyone has the same experience.

Like as if everyone had a specific friend they just like the most out of the other friends & who would pick them over anyone else.

Like man idk where you got that,but I recommend you to open your eyes or stopped smoking something since this is the most delusional shit I've seen.

Not everyone is the fucking same!! Like if you spread nonsense how every single person is different but think that everyone acts the same or has the same opinions as you, then you're pretty hypocritical.

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brain-empty · 2 years

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Bee's aro rant abt "Love is Love"

So, "Love is Love", probably the most well-known LGBTQ+ tagline (outside of MAYBE something like "PROUD") is quite exclusionary of a lot of the LGBTQ+ community, this rant will be focussed on mostly the aro POV of it but let me take a section to talk about gender identity exclusion in the tagline "Love isn't Gender Identity"

"Love is Love" is odd from a gender sense, love involves gender to some degree but due to "Love is Love"'s context we know it's referring to stuff like mlm, wlw, nblnb, etc which can exclude transhet people, so that's already an issue but that's not our main point today.

"Love isn't for Everyone"

"Love is Love" can be heavily exclusionary to those under the aromantic and/or asexual spectrum, you can argue "Love is Love" includes not experiencing romantic/sexual love but with how the tagline is presented ('you can date any gender'-esque) I'd highly doubt that, aces and aros especially tend to be excluded or bundled together already so trying to push back on exclusionary taglines is a step in the right direction for aro & ace representation, so I propose... "The new 'Love is Love'?"

If we want to push back on using "Love is Love" then solidifying it with a new tagline may help, so I'm proposing "We are who we are" a similar tagline to "Love is Love" but more inclusionary. "We are who we are" symbolizes unity and acceptance of the LGBTQ+ whether it be cishets accepting us or us accepting eachother's identities, it's merely a proposal and y'all can discuss your ideas for a possible replacement for "Love is Love" because I'd love to hear opinions! EDIT: "Love is Love" is a good slogan in the context of HOMOSEXUAL/POLYAMOROUS/NON-CONFORMING RELATIONSHIPS but that's not what the entirety of the lgbtq+ community is since it's much more then romantic/sexual relationships, so the slogan of "Love is Love" for the ENTIRE lgbtq+ community can get exclusionary quickly. Another reason "Love is Love" is not exclusionary but trying to be stolen by a worse community... "Love isn't for that disgusting illegal shit" Anyone who's been on the internet in the past forever should know what a p3d0ph!le is, and anyone who's been on the internet for a while should know what a z00ph!le is and if you haven't seen the "p3d0/z00 community" shit then I am jealous- but besides that they've tried on a few occasions to use "Love is Love" for their own community, which, yeah, sucks and while it's not a slogan there per-se it is one of their attempts to 'fit in' with the lgbtq+ community and a thing I've seen them commonly use to try and quick-defend their shitty actions/community.

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apostateseraphim · 2 years

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the urge to use "baby" but not in the romantic sense, instead in the "this person is small and cute and i woud rather die then let something hurt them, also sometimes i want to punt them into the sun"

@tisdonuts <3

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alien-ally · 7 months

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So. Yesterday, a classmate asked me a very interesting question. (I’m out to her btw) Lolol honestly me clarifying in between that i’m actually 100% on the far end of being aro kind of collapsed the quo but i told her to ask away anyway. It was something like ‘Hypothetically, if u happened to meet an arospec person in school and you guys managed to really hit it off together, so much that you felt like you wanted them in your life even after school ended, would it…’ basically you get it. So she wasn’t really asking if i would date them but if it could possibly lead to any kind of partnership/if i could see myself in that sort of a companionship. and actually. what a brain-gear turning quo. The answer is no btw, that’s not the brain gear turning part. cause the quo ties to me Also happening to be aplatonic. which means nothing of that sort has happened to me till now and i frankly see the possibility to be very low. There has never been an instance where i’ve ‘hit it off’ with someone so profoundly that i end up ‘wanting them in my life more intensely’. (which doesn’t mean i don’t ever hit off with people or ever find happiness from having them in my life. No, that would be a gross misconstrue.) Uh anyways, i’m not going to explain the phenomenon of being💥apl💥top to bottom once again, just know that the answer is a direct no for me without any further ruminations. However the brain-gear turning part to me is that i nevertheless see meeting a fellow aroace(apl) person as the next biggest thing to happen in my life. And i have fantasized about it on many occasions. cause that would entail an exquisite kind of understanding i’ve never experienced in my life and mark an important milestone. which i’m sure won’t be happening until later. school is about to end in less than 6 months. So then what would it be like? Given that i am what i am. What form would that grandeur take? What form can it take?

On a lesser note, it also made me aware of the sort of ‘lack of determinism’ on my part. cause i have always been so led to want things i don’t truly want, which part of the yearning is real and which an inherent conditioning? Yeah you don’t see anyone asking straight people if they would ever turn gay but it’s allowed to aspecs? And it’s a thing we repeatedly ask ourselves too due to the same conditioning. Given that growing up and finding partnership doesn’t invalidate your aspec-ness in any way? As harmless a quo (my classmate’s) it was, led to a cascade of thoughts all over again. Good old Aromanticism.

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platonic-culture-is · 1 month

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i feel like "loveless" and "lovequeer" are two sides of the same coin like we both saw how much amatonormativity obsesses over love and the loveless people decided to destroy it and the lovequeer people decided to steal it

#like either way #we're fucking up amatonormativity #and that's beautiful #and we get to do our own thing #loveless lovequeer solidarity #aspec solidarity #aro #not platonic culture #cw swearing

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aro-culture-is · 4 months

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low empathy loveless aro culture is hating it when people say "low empathy people can still feel love like everyone else!!" and "loveless aros can still feel empathy like everyone else!!". like i get what they're going for but it hurts and it's definitely one of the reasons i identify as voidpunk.

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#Anonymous #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod phoenix #low empathy aro culture #loveless aro culture #voidpunk aro culture #big mood on that

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loveless-aro-culture-is · 1 year

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Loveless aro culture is using the word love more often that before figuring out you're loveless because that word lost all the meaning for you

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#loveless aro #loveless aro culture is #loveless aro culture #aro #aromantic #tikitikitu

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cluster-b-culture-is · 1 year

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Npd culture is seeing those triggering videos popping up like "can narcissists even love?" and then thered just some misinformed rando overconfidently answering no. Like boohoo, you piece of shit, i guess all the people i love must not fucking exist then, do you even know what npd is?

(but inwardly, seething at how much hate there is towards us. like at this point we deserve the nice things they say we're trying to steal)

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#cluster b culture is #npd culture is #cluster b #npd #Mod Reef #anonymous #MOOD #i personally Can't Love. at least not in any normal way #hence why we're collectively loveless aro #but the way that trait that describes probably a minority of pwNPD (even if it's a significant minority) is applied to EVERY pwNPD #and the way that morally neutral trait is extremely demonized and turned into an attack on our overall character and used as--#--a scare tactic to isolate us and turn us into a terrifying horrid Other that no one should trust #it's not only ableist and sanist but it's also very much aphobic #and it's blatantly abusive but people don't care because ''Oh well you're narcissists!''#and when it comes to people who HAVE been abused it often turns out to be extremely victim blame-y. ''what did you expect from them?''#''they're a narcissist. you should've known better. you should've known they wouldn't ACTUALLY love you.''#(and by the way the way they use it to isolate us and make us seem Terrible is a very... INTERESTING choice.)#(especially knowing that NPD is (in many cases) caused by abuse & trauma.)#i have a lot of thoughts about this in case you couldn't tell

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wreckitremy · 2 years

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I don't personally identify with loveless, (demiromantic & lovequeer myself) but I recognize the level of struggle to get people to understand it.

Bc to understand it, people generally need to already understand asexuality, the split attraction model, aromanticism, and amanormativity to even have a chance at understanding the identity.

Now I bring this up, bc for a while now, I've been having feelings about the concept of wanting to look attractive, that feels similar to how loveless people talk about love.

I am fully supportive of sex favorable aces and aces who want to be attractive. But that is not me.

I am also fully supportive of trans people who want to be attractive. But that is not me.

The way I feel about the concept of wanting to look attractive, is tangled up in my agender and ace identities.

I do not want to be attractive. The idea of someone finding me attractive is not something I would ever want to exist. I may want to look cool, but if the cool factor has anything to do with sexual attraction, I want nothing to do with it.

I also do not find the human form pretty. My view on it is reminiscent of people letting go of the idea that human babies are cute. It's a potato, and im not interested in seeing pictures of it.

I don't know what to call this, but I need a word for it.

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universallygiantwagonhumanoid · 2 years

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Going through the tags for shows as an aro who has a lot of ship tags blocked because ew romance is like