#loveless aromantic

[aroacesmartass]

I think it's so hilarious when people (non fanfic readers) assume that you like and are okay with whatever you read because I will sit there and read the most disgusting dead dove smut fic out there with a straight face and feel physically uncomfortable when people ask me out.

#aromantic #loveless aromantic #aroace #asexual #asexuality #aspec #reading fanfiction #fanfic

[natalinova]

"being queer is about love" hmm actually being queer is about defying societal norms about gender and sexuality and does not depend on feeling love at all

#loveless aromantic #aromantic #aro #respect loveless aros or die 🤺

[infiniteorangethethird]

sure "romantic" isn't the only type of love but also "love" isn't the only type of positive feeling. So maybe stop insisting everyone needs love to be happy and accept that loveless ppl exist? Pretty please?

#man february arrived and im on a roll with these posts #thought to myself 'tumblr could use more loveless-posting' #decided if no one's gonna do it im just gonna do it myself #also this isn't directed at anyone specific im just being salty at random #loveless #loveless aromantic #loveless aro #aromantic #aro #arospec #loveless apl #loveless aplatonic #aplatonic #aplspec #lgbtq #queer stuff

[aromanticunt]

“Love makes you human” actually what makes me human is a large amulet that I hid hundreds of years ago that’s slowly feeding me power so my mortal body can live on forever, but you do you I guess

#hate to break the news like this #aro allo #allo aro #aromantic #loveless aromantic #aroace #aromantic pride #aromanticism #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #actually aromantic #heartless aro #aromantic memes #lgbt memes #text post

[fallenrain40]

"but aroaces can still feel lo-" shut up. it doesn't matter if we can feel love or not. why is this always your defense to why aroaces should be valid? it gets even worse with alloaces and alloaros. people constantly saying "aces can still have sex!!" and "aros can still have love and have partners!!" YES, they can, but you aren't bringing that up just to bring awareness towards aroaces. No, you are using that fact as a way to ignore and condemn the part that makes us aroace; the lack of attraction. I'm sick and tired of seeing aces and aros have to defend themselves by bringing up all the other ways they can love. Why can't we for once celebrate the parts of us that DON'T love?

#just a very tired loveless aroace's ramblings... #aro #aroace #ace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #loveless aroace #arospec #aspec #acespec #aromantism #aroacespec #loveless #apothisexual #apothiromantic

[monstrousparalysis]

Fuck it, on this Valentine's Day, here's a post devoted to every single aromantic who fits the negative stereotypes!

Every aroallo, no matter what other labels they use!

Loveless aromantics, especially ones who are loud about not feeling love and refuse to listen to the countless "but what about"s!

Aromantics who don't feel other, even more "universal" attractions, like platonic or familial ones!

Aromantics who lack empathy, who are "cold", who prefer logic over emotion!

Nonhuman aromantics, especially the loveless ones, for whom "Love is what makes us human" is a dismissal in both directions!

Aromantics with trauma, trust issues, or fears of intimacy!

And of course: the aromantics with personality disorders, especially the narcissistic or antisocial aromantics!

If you meet one or more of the above criteria, you are entitled to keep being who the fuck you are and to do so with pride!

Arophobia is not our fault, it is the fault of the arophobes who use our image to justify attacking others. We are hurting nobody just by existing as we are.

No matter what you want in terms of relationships, be that friends with benefits, queerplatonic partners, multiple partners, or no partners at all, ever, I hope you get it!

#rem's ramblings #aromantic #aromanticism #aro #aro pride #aro positivity #aromantic pride #aromantic positivity #aroallo #aromantic allosexual #lovelessness #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #aplatonic #afamilial

[saffigon]

Love is not required to be human. Love is not a requirement. Love is not inherent to relationships or orientation. Love is not the epitome of all human interaction. Love does not determine your worth.

Love is neutral. Love is not universal. Love can be rejected. You don't have to have love if you don't want to.

#aromantic #aro #arospec #aplatonic #apl #aplspec #aspec #loveless #loveless aromantic #loveless aro #loveless aplatonic #loveless apl

[lovelessrage]

This post goes out to unfeeling aros. To aros that choose to reject love and aros that don't see it as a part of their life. To aros that had no choice in what love they struggle to or can't feel at all. To aros with low or no empathy, to aros that can't fit the ideal of "still caring in a different way". To aros that very rarely or will never "love in other ways". To aros that can't, won't, or don't want to be defined by how much they love their friends or family instead.

Being aromantic is not something to "redeem".

Being aromantic should not be something you have to dress up in "buts" and "ifs" about feeling in other ways.

Being aromantic means supporting the aros around you, not punching down because you found a way to be accepted more broadly and don't mind who gets left behind. It's all of us or none of us, and that includes aros who can't love, can't care, and won't fit the image of a "good aro" who's perfectly platonic, familial, caring and loving. Even the most solitary aro you can think of is deserving of a judgement-free life.

#aromantic #aro #aromanticism #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #arospec #aspec #scowl corner

[aromanticduck]

@fixing-bad-posts Here's one I made!

#fixing bad posts #aromantic #aro #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #aro things #blackout poetry #organic home grown content #100 tier

[sleepii-freddie]

Guys we need to have the aromantic and asexual tags still trending by Valentine's day. It'd be funny, more importantly very meaningful for the aspec community!!

#aromantic #pride #asexual #aro #ace #lgbtq+ #lgbtqia #aro ace #ace positivity #ace pride #asexual positivity #asexuality #asexual spectrum #acespec #aspec #aroace #aromantic asexual #aromaticism #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #arospec #aro pride #aromance #aromanticism #lgbt pride #queer #lgbt #lgbtq community #lgbtq #queer community

[sapphic-sprite]

I feel like this needs to be said, but some of y’all really need to start learning to mind your own business when it comes to alloaros. especially alloaros who are loveless or don’t perform aromanticism the way you want it to be. being exclusively aromantic isn’t a bad thing and the only reason y’all think it could be is because of amanormativity. sort that out on your own time and stop making aromantic people explain it to you when you are perfectly capable of looking it up. thank you.

#aromantic #alloaro #allo aro #aro #aro pride #aro post #aro positivity #loveless aromantic #loveless aro #aromantic pride #aromantic post #aromantic positivity #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbt pride #lgbtq pride #lgbt post #lgbtq post #lgbt positivity #lgbtq positivity

[aromanticyaoi]

i feel like people often forget that "love" is just a word humans made up to describe a certain set of feelings (that's not even well defined). because a lot of ppl's first reaction to the concept of lovelessness is to ask "but don't you love your pets? don't you love the world around you?"

get this: i simply do not label my feelings as love. others might've if they were in my shoes, but i don't. is it *that* hard to understand?

#пир мысли #loveless aromantic #loveless aro

[aaa-battery-not-rechargeable]

shoutout to aros who hate love fr

fuck love, love loses

#aromantic #aro #arospec #aspec #loveless aro #aromantic pride #aro spec #aromantic spectrum #aro spectrum #aromance #aromanticism #actually aromantic #loveless #loveless aromantic #queer #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtqiaplus #lgbt pride #lgbtq+ #lgbtq community #lgbtqi community #lgbtqplus #lilith has the microphone

[infiniteorangethethird]

loveless people. You agree. Reblog

#loveless #love loses #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #loveless aplatonic #aspec #arospec #aplspec #aromantic #aplatonic #lgbtq #reblog bait #queer stuff

[lovequeerindigo]

i’m not a loveless aro but i agree with their beliefs

#like. technically speaking i do experience love #but loveless aros just Get Things #idk how to explain it #my post #aromantic #aroallo #actually arospec #alloaro #aromanticism #aro #aromantic allosexual #aromantic community #actually aromantic #aromantic thoughts #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #aro humor #aromantic humour #aro community #aromantic spectrum

[creed-of-artemis]

It's always "I may be aromantic but I still love my friends!" and never "I'm aromantic, but that does not mean I have to 'make up' for the love I 'lost' or am 'missing out on' by loving friends or family."

#not to say you shouldn't try to love anyone at all if you're aro!! #just saying that no one needs to replace their love for a partner with love for friends/family #aromantic #aro #loveless aro #aroace #loveless aromantic #arospec #aplatonic #aplspec #apl #love on general is kinda... ehh for me