#lovequeer aro

[delphiniumjoy]

You’ve heard of hopeless romantic? I’m a hopeless platonic

#I just love my friends so much #it’s embarrassing #I feel like a teenager doodling initials in hearts #lovequeer #lovequeer aro #aromantic #aro #amatopunk

[st-ivangeline]

aromantic talking:

in the song my love mine all mine by mitski i genuinely kid you not thought she was talking about the concept of love and how she had the power to use it however she likes but i just realized that was Big Aro Dumb of me and that when she sings “My love..” she’s referring to a person and i just aksnfjrkrks

#aromantic #aro #alloaro #just aro #arospec #non sam aro #loveless aro #lovequeer aro

[aroacearchangel]

hey who wants to hold hands and play with my hair and be so gentle with me i might shatter into a million pieces

#might delete tomorrow #i am so touch starved #yearning #aro #aroace #aromantic #aromance #aspec #aspec community #aspec stuff #aromanticism #ace #a spectrum #aspec culture #queer yearning #lovequeer #lovequeer aro #aro pride #grey aroace #aro spectrum #arospec #grey aromantic #cupioromantic #touch starved #alterous #alterous attraction #alterous yearning #alterous relationship #queer platonic yearning #queerplatonic

[quiggel]

When I say “I love you” I do not mean it romantically. I don’t even mean it platonically. For me “I love you” is a way of say “I am in love with the universe itself and you are apart of this universe and right now you are reminding me why I love it so. Thank you.”

#aro #lovequeer #lovequeer aro #aromantic #positivity #west says

[bizarreaizen]

"can i still be aro if i'm ____?"

"can i still be aro if i'm dating someone?"

"can i still be aro if i said _____ to someone?"

"can i still be aro if i feel ____?"

there's no "wrong" or "right" way to be aromantic, aromantic is a spectrum and it goes beyond by a lot so yes if your aromantic, it doesn't matter how you feel/act or do, if you know your aromantic. you are aromantic.

#aromantic pride #aromantic spectrum #aromanticism #actually aromantic #aromance #aromantic positivity #aromantic #arospec #aro positivity #aro pride #aro spec #aroallo #aroflux #gray aro #loveless aro #lovequeer aro #actually aro #aro #sexuality #romance repulsed #queer #pride #lgbtq #lgbtqia+ #lgbtq+ community #lgbt community #lgbt pride #lgbtqiap #lgbtq rights #lgbt

[enbeemagical]

normalize being a little bit in love with your friends

normalize being not at all in love with anything

normalize love being confusing and weird as hell

normalize love not being romantic

normalize love not being

normalize not loving

normalize loving in the wrong way

just. normalize being unapologetically yourself

#sleepyposting #i 100% should not be awake right now #i'm a little bit in love with a lot of things and people #aromantic #actually aromantic #lovequeer aro #loveless aro #this post is loveless aro inclusive #cuz it's awesome #it's like being around people who say they don't do bad things bc god says not to and rhen not understanding why an athiest doesn't do them #and by it i mean: being around people who think love is necessary to be good or a person or whatever #and oh it doesn't have to be romantic. and then they get confused by loveless aros and they go #like oh you actually do feel love you just don't call it that. oh you actually do believe in god you just don't call him that #like no actualy #god and love are unnecessary for goodness and personnenes and uh. *draws a big line around everythung* that #OKAY GOGOD NIGBT NOW <3 #i primise #probanly

[manyminded]

hey this pride month

shout out to..

aroaces aroallos non-sam aros loveless aros lovequeer aros loveloose aros lovepunk aros aplatonic aros questioning aros auto aros objectum aros aros in qprs aros in romantic relationships

and every other aro out there!!!!

#aro #aromantic #arospec #aroace #aroallo #alloaro #non sam aro #loveless #loveless aro #lovequeer #lovequeer aro #loveloose #loveloose aro #lovepunk #lovepunk aro #aplatonic #acearo #autosexual #autoromantic #objectum #qpr #queerplatonic #aromantism #aromance

[my-t4t-romance]

some aro blinkies for pride month!

[image description: seven aromantic pride flag blinkies, each of which says "I love being aro" in all caps in various fonts. end image description]

#mossy’s musings #blinkies.cafe #blinkies #aro pride #aro #aromantic #aromanticism #pride month #pride blinkies #lovequeer #lovequeer aro #heartless #heartless aro #lovequeer aromantic #heartless aromantic #pride 2023 #hopeless aromantic

[saffigon]

love is not required. it's not some magical ability that makes you a good person. it's just a thing some people have little of, some people have a lot of, and some people have medium amounts of. and all states of love come with their own struggles. no one's worth is measured on their ability to love

#loveless #loveless aro #loveless aromantic #lovequeer #lovepunk #lovequeer aro #lovequeer aromantic #lovepunk aro #lovepunk aromantic #aromantic #aro #arospec #aplatonic #apl #aplspec

[selfidentifiednerdyprude]

What if I told you that “aromantic people, by and large, are not inherently incapable of feeling love” and “feeling the emotion of love is not required to be a good person” and “it’s an individual person’s choice whether to call something love or not” and “broadening the definition of love is inherently a resistance against amatonormative systems which seek to control the contexts in which love can be expressed” and “both loving differently and not loving at all are valid and vital methods of resistance against those systems” are all compatible statements that can coexist

#lovequeer aro #aromantic

[gender-luster]

big shout out to lovequeer, loveless, and heartless aros today. the way you experience love and the lack thereof is beautiful and amazing and important. especially on this day so centered around love. you are important and valued members of this community and you deserve to be celebrated and your voices to be heard

#shout out to us all <2 #aro #aromantic #arospec #lovequeer aro #loveless aro #heartless aro #valentine's day #a very aro valentine

[gay-otlc]

I adore you aroallos I adore you loveless aros and lovequeer aros I adore you non-sam aros I adore you aplatonics I adore you friends with benefits I adore you queerplatonic relationships I adore you "adore" as a replacement for "love" I adore you aromantics outside of the norm

#am i doing the format right #aro #aromantic #aroallo #loveless aro #lovequeer aro #aplatonic #non sam aro #adore is a much better word than love. dying on this hill

[st-ivangeline]

i was talking to my grandma this morning about how the holidays are really hard as the only single adult at the table, and i really appreciated my grandma’s understanding she agreed that it’s hard and said “you live in a couple’s world”

it’s so true and we talk about it all the time as the aromantic community but to hear my 83 year old grandma affirm me like that made me feel really seen

#aromantic #aro #alloaro #just aro #arospec #non sam aro #loveless aro #lovequeer aro

[hiraeth-daydreams]

Living well with your aromanticism, not despite of it, gets easier when you notice that this world wasn't made for you. You are not restricted by expectations, you don't have to follow a pre-planned course of steps to what happiness should be at; being aromantic can bring upon you the will to mold your life to whatever shape you want, because you know fully well what's expected won't fulfill you. Instead, you have the power and time to find what does.

You can live alone, unabashedly happy, surrounded by the little things that give you comfort.

You can build meaningful, long-lasting relationships that have not even a hint of romance.

You can have fleeting relations with people that make you feel good and not deepen your bond.

You can have one-night stands and leave before the morning comes if it feels right for you.

You can be present in your family or community, helping and being helped by people you trust and feel like a gift of being part of.

You can hear stories from the mouth of your companions and elders, and tell your own.

You can find beauty where people don't usually care to look at, revel in how much wonder is within you.

You can do what people usually feel like they need a romantic partner to do, without the limitations or complications one would need to fit themself around; ranging for dates to caring for children.

You can pursue hobbies, engage with art and craftsmanship, explore nature, do research, fill your days with the joy of creation all by yourself, just because you can.

The world was not built for you, but it doesn't mean it can't fill your days with joy, or that you can never belong in it. There is so much more than romance.

#aromanticism is neither an inherent bless or curse but it has the potential to be either #sorry for rambling. dealing with romantic advances suck ass and i needed to find a bright side to this bullshit #*Not kin related #*My post #aromanticism #aroallo #alloaro #non sam aro #romance repulsed #amatonormativity #aromantic #aromantic allosexual #loveless aro #loveloose aro #lovequeer aro #aromantic positivity #arospec #non partnering #heartless aro

[klavierpanda]

There are ways of expanding the definition of love that do not imply or outright state that love is a universal experience, that love has moral significance, or that everyone must experience love. Expanding the definition of love and rejecting the idea of love are both pushbacks against amatonormativity and should work together rather than throw loveless people under the bus by creating amatonormativity 2.0

#aro #aromantic #loveless #loveless aro #lovequeer #lovequeer aro #amatonormativity #stupid amatonormativity #panda's post

[bizarreaizen]

#aromantic pride #aromantic spectrum #aromanticism #actually aromantic #aromance #aromantic positivity #aromantic stuff #aromantic #arospec #aro positivity #aro pride #aro spec #aro stuff #aroallo #aroflux #gray aro #loveless aro #lovequeer aro #aro community #aro #aspec community #aspec positivity #aspec pride #aspec stuff #aspec #fandom ships #ships #shipping #pride #queer