#low-contact

[thepeacefulgarden]

#recovery #stop enabling #self care #self care is not selfish #doing the hard stuff #self care is not an indulgence #codependency #boundaries #relationships #unhealthy relationships #family #friendship #mental health #make yourself a priority #self compassion #healing #low contact #no contact #dysfunctional family #people pleasing #fawning #love #find your people

[javajuicedraws]

Headbutts >>> hugs

#digital art #my art #fanart #rottmnt #rottmnt raph #rottmnt Donnie #rottmnt fanart #rise of the tmnt fanart #rise of the tmnt #im autistic and I approve this message #donnie headcanons #Donnie headbutting as a low contact form off affection is so real #I’m definitely not projecting(lies) #brains and brawn #tmnt #tmnt fanart

[artsybi]

leverage is so deeply fun as a show because sometimes they just break into places to steal back physical items and money and SOMETIMES they straight up psychologically torture the mark and make them think they've been contacted by aliens that now want to abduct them, or convince them they're dying of cadmium poisoning or fake a whole dreamscape to get them to reflect on their fucked up actions

it's incredible. no notes

#leverage #i ramble #the first contact job #the low low price job #the white rabbit job

[mossycobblestonewrites]

DC X DP PROMPT #18

Danny sometimes forgets that it isn't normal to let the ghosts of your dead best friends speak vicariously through you - especially as a totally normal human boy.

Danny is only confronted with this fact at the face of a very concerned hero. (You pick, just anywhere that's not Gotham because it is much funnier. I personally lean towards one of the flashes)

#dc x dp #dpxdc #he lets his dead friends possess him and cohabitate #for funsies #not ghost king danny #just doesnt jive with it #hes just sad #idk how sam and tucker died #probably a reveal gone wrong #jazz is still alive though is low contact for protection reasons #hero that stopped danny: who let the freaks out or gotham

[jetskisonyourmoat]

Obsessed with how every time it cuts to Alex he’s looking away with his eyes half closed, he’s so bashful.

[X]

#the autism had him in a chokehold that day #he’s so awkward when it comes to compliments #he doesn’t know what to do with them #so he just avoids all eye contact whenever Zane gives him one 😂 #alex turner #zane lowe #the car #autism

[ddarker-dreams]

blushing at the thought of teaching chrollo to dance to modern music ....

#we can't have him embarrassing us at the club!!!!!!!! #he can waltz do slow dances etc ... but turn on a pop song and he's a bit at a loss #he's a quick learner though #he has this smoldering eye contact that looks extra good in the low lighting + a few cocktails in the system #AAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #chrollo brainrot

[despazito]

Parents referring to their grown childs spouse as "competition"

#then wonder why they go low contact #go to therapy!!!!

[puppyeared]

man

#maybe im being pessimistic abt this. im not saying u should wear a mask every waking moment of your life god knows i cant #but also. hell no i dont trust u if anything i distrust u ppl even more after how things played out for the past 3 years #like there are situations where it might be inevitable catching covid. most of my family members are nurses and in constant contact #but there are also a ton of ways to make that risk low as possible like masking and wearing a face shield and having sanitizer #for me its not enough to just say oh we're in a small group and we're all vaccinated #motherfucker your kid is sick from preschool EVERY TIME WE VISIT. of course ill be wearing a mask she gave me covid last year #also no the fuck it isnt seasonal the cases go up because lack of caution makes the virus spread and mutate especially around times when #ppl gather. add that with virus transmission in cold weather and its a matter of different factors increasing the risk of spread #im also tired of ppl not understanding that i wont be their responsibility if i do get sick. maybe they can help me recover #but at the end of the day the risk of death and long term health is all on me. i cant change that #the govt barely gives me accommodations what makes u think theyll do anything for every individual case of long covid or worse #im so tired. im so tired #i dont even know if its possible to want this to be over anymore i just wish we didnt have to deal with this in the first place #ALSO COUGH INTO YOUR SLEEVE SERIOUSLY HOW IS THIS SO HARD TO REMEMBER #oh its just a cold/dry throat its not like i have covid or anything. no!! its basic hygiene!!! how is this so hard to understand!!!!!!!!!! #and no this isnt abt whether people have the means to protect themselves this is me bitching abt my relatives not taking me seriously #vent #my art #myart #doodles #covid 19

[munamania]

yeah ppl who say nancy wheeler is the straightest girl they’ve ever seen just don’t understand her like i do etc but also they’re looking with their eyes closed on purpose because. hello.

are you serious rn

#not even touching on her deep levels of repression. like #would a straight girl wear that first one. r u jokin #it’s very much tote bag gay girl who’s gonna tell you about crystals and herbs and stuff. she hasn’t accepted that part of herself yet but #that’s the vibe. look at those layers #exhibit b. intense eye contact with robin. rainbow hair clip. again that low lighting and the tension filled glare she hits robin with #after ‘you never know’ #exhibit c. sure maybe the straightest of them all bc she reunited with jonathan and that does look like a regular 80s outfit #however i’m not willing to overlook the rainbow shirt or the purple pants. #nancy wheeler #ronance #abby talks #stranger things #st4 spoilers

[jennjamindraws]

he’s a fun lil guy @:)

#welcome home #welcome home puppet show #welcome home fanart #wally darling #welcome home wally darling #tw flashing gif #tw eye contact #my art #digital art #the gif quality is so low ;v ; ugh

[thepeacefulgarden]

#healing #boundaries #walking away #letting go #detachment #forgiveness #detaching with love #mental health #family #relationships #friendship #codependency #do what's best for you #unhealthy relationships #abuse #low contact #no contact

[gideonisms]

Also some man at work is making me his manic pixie dream girl again and I'm literally too tired to deal with it or make it apparent that I'm not. Keep dreaming I guess

#look. if my unhinged charm combined with my inability to make eye contact or speak with confidence at this point in time win me admirers #who am i to say they're wrong #i'll never ever fuck this man. but while he thinks i will i have a very low effort way to make conversation at work

[cozycryptidcorner]

Going from the scapegoat to the golden child in a narcissist’s eyes gives me such whiplash because ten years ago if I told my stepfather that my landlord is charging me an extra $400 a month, he would be like “and what did you do to get this treatment??”

but now he’s like “okay let’s review your lease and see how you can legally make her life a living hell + still follow it to the letter.” Like hello where was this man when I was 15 and being bullied by my entire softball team? Lmao.

#personal post #vent post #turns out all he needed was 5 years of low/no contact #and all of a sudden he’s like #well I KNOW I said you’d never be my daughter #because of whatever reason #but like you are actually made in my image. we are twins tbh :)

[djsadbean]

ive changed my mind about the dark academia aesthetic of the magic school au. i hereby announce the aesthetic is y2k classroom partly funded by steven himself and whichever parents were gracious enough to send tissues and markers etc.

i think it would be so fun to see steven put so much care into decorating his classroom and every year he sets a prediction to see how long it all stays up before it somehow all gets ripped off the walls again. sisyphus or whatever but exhausted high school teacher

#i forgot i literally have no interest in high class dark academia but i thought that was the only thing magic school could fit in #before remembering Who I Am #i make stuff up all the time and i love middle/low class y2k #brings me back #magic school au #wordgirl #djsadbean rambles #steven boxleitner #also can u imagine public school nonsense but with MAGIC #i need the cw to contact me RIGHT MEOW i have a silly show to write and i need the most unserious network to help me

[mod2amaryllis]

who else haunted by an apology you never got the chance to make???? 🤪🤪🤪

#this isn't too serious this is about my college roommate #i was awful and i think about it all the time and wish i could send her a pizza and say any resentment is justified i'm so sorry #but i don't keep track of people. i don't know her last name i don't know how to contact her or if she'd even want that #i just think about it constantly for some fucking reason #if you're out there....man i'm sorry i didn't try harder to be friends i was 19 and at my absolute worst #I'm sorry about the illegal rat cage i never cleaned #literally i wish i could pay you reparations you wouldn't have to say a word to me just receive 'you didn't deserve that' + 50 usd #i think part of why this particular memory is so persistent- and has been for years like it constantly comes up when i'm tired- #is because the stakes are relatively low #like i was just a shit. i was just annoying and unkind. and then we both moved on and i'm better now and i assume she's ok. #the scope of it is just small enough.... like a burr. in my brain. #I'm hoping if i throw this into the ether i won't think about it as much lol #m2a

[moriphile]

Intro Post

Permission Given to Send Me Literally Anything in an Ask I Love Reading Your Random Thoughts and Comments

I'm going by Mori or M here for anonymity's sake, just like the little weirdo I love.

18+

He/they/it pronouns, no preference

AFAB & GNC transmasc

Call me a theyfab and I will eat you

Aegosexual, omnisexual, demiromantic

This is a blog dedicated to my struggles with paraphilias and PDs, as well as information surrounding them. I have multiple of both. As for PDs, this includes ASPD, NPD, BPD, and AVPD. My BPD is... especially severe. Routinely fucks up my life. As for paraphilias, I have more than I can count, but one is part of the Big 3; I am a staunchly anti-contact and non-offending 🗺️. I speak pretty openly about it because I'm tired of being vilified for it. Though other paraphilias will also be spoken about.

I am a survivor of CSA and grooming from multiple people (both contact and non contact), as well as an extremely mentally and verbally abusive household. I may speak on my trauma here but you have no right to ask me about it. Do not.

Feel free to ask me anything (except the previously stated). I'm an open book and love spreading information and sharing my experiences. There's no such thing as a stupid question as long as it's asked in earnest. Worst case scenario, I don't answer or point you to someone who can.

P.S. Before you say it, I am already in therapy. And am also in school to become a therapist. Double whammy.

Masterposts

MAP Resources

Common Tags

#m.beingpissyagain ; My more serious thoughts. Mostly unfiltered. It will also include important information from others.

Nested tags:

#m.pers info ; Information on personality disorders as a whole. #m.aspd info ; Information on ASPD. #m.npd info ; Information on NPD. #m.bpd info ; Information on BPD. #m.avpd info ; Information on AVPD.

#m.para info ; Information on paraphilias as a whole. #m.big 3 info ; Information on the big 3 as a whole. #m.pdf info ; Information on pedophilia.

#m.cptsd info ; Information on c-ptsd.

#m.kink info ; Information on kink as a whole.

#m.asks ; Asks. That's it lol. They usually don't fit anywhere else.

#m.positivity ; Positivity posts! About a variety of things.

#m.thedemonswon ; My paraphilic thoughts. Almost entirely unfiltered. All posts will be marked as mature, but I don't generally provide specific CWs. Mute this tag if you don't want the graphic shit.

#m.venting ; Me venting when it's not also something important. I will not mark these posts as mature or provide specific CWs, as I find it disrespectful to request people censor themselves when venting. Mute this tag if this bothers you.

#m.fuckassery ; My random weird thoughts. Have fun trying to make sense of them.

#m.rb ; My random reblogs. Usually memes or things I find funny.

#m.discourse ; Because I can't stay away.

Content Warnings

I will talk about a wide variety of disturbing and uncomfortable topics here, usually untagged. I don't like to censor myself. These content warnings include but are not limited to:

Paraphilias (duh). If you don't want to see anything related to 🗺️s, mute #🍸.

Mental disorders, heavily focused on PDs.

Intrusive fantasies & thoughts.

Abuse and trauma of... all kinds really. Child abuse or otherwise.

Idolization and romanticization of horrible things and people (yes, I'm aware of it. No, I can't help it. Piss off).

Honestly, if you can think of it, it could probably be on this list. Just be aware and cautious I guess.

Stances and DNI

I do not have many boundaries, but they are very harsh and I do not appreciate them being disrespected. I will block you.

Stances

Pro recovery (specific views in link), psych critical.

Very pro kink.

Cluster b abuse does not exist, you were emotionally abused.

Transandrophobia is just as real and harmful as transmisogyny.

Contradictory labels are great. Go be hot and sexy.

MOGAI, LIOM, and xenogenders are great. Go be hot and sexy.

Otherkins, therians, etc. are great. Go be hot and sexy.

Singlet and thus divorced from syscource. If you're chill, we're chill.

Anti-contact (for paras that would infringe upon consent) and absolutely unwilling to engage in discourse on this viewpoint.

Proship, darkship, comship, etc.

Pro para.

Anti-radqueer and transID.

RPF of minors is, by law, CSEM.

Don't approach me with discourse. If I want to engage, I will.

DNI

Minors. I swear to god do not interact with me.

Thinspo. It's a genuine trigger.

I don't particularly care who interacts with my blog (besides minors and thinspo). I also don't particularly care if I'm on your DNI or not (unless you're anti-MAP, in which case I will block you for my own safety), I'm gonna interact anyway. Feel free to block me if that bothers you.

However, if you're touting harmful ideology to yourself or others (AAMs seeking MAPs, MAPs seeking AAMs, pro-cs, etc), I am more than willing to report you.

Reblogging random art sideblog: @bsdposting

Writing sideblog: @degens-paradise

#actually borderline #actually antisocial #actually avpd #actually npd #actually aspd #actually bpd #pro recovery #anti contact #low empathy #pro paraphile #pro para #para safe #paraphile safe #big 3 safe #big three safe #aspd safe #bpd safe #npd safe #avpd safe #cluster b safe