#man written by a woman

[yourartmatters-itswhatgotmehere]

Nicholas is such a mood here♥. Like soooo a man written by a woman fr. (+THE SONG too)

(he's the one recording/ video from Emma's instagram BOTTOMS bts post♥)

"Five six seven eight.. (laughing) Stop! Stop!.. Guys, you gave me no room, I thought-"

#bottoms 2023 #bottoms movie #emma seligman #nicholas galitzine #august 2023 #queer #gay #bisexual #pansexual #lesbian #lgbtq #lgbtqia #pride month #now playing #rwrb #rwrb movie #red white and royal blue #prince henry fox mountchristen windsor #henry fox #rachel sennott #ayo edebiri #kaia gerber #ruby cruz #hazel callahan #havana rose liu #man written by a woman #nick galitzine #the idea of you #the idea of you 2024 #hayes campbell

[beautyinsteadofashes]

I know we love the slutty ones and the evil ones but i'm trying to explain this very specific niche trope of kinda soft boy or baby girl.

#maybe christian from moulin rouge? #you know that kinda vibe #not kavinsky he's a jock and enemies to lovers but you get it? #every version of clark kent seems to be MAN WHO LOVES HIS WIFE #male wife? is that a trope i want? idk #clark kent #tom hiddleston #jane austen #michael cordero #weirdly enough this post was inspired by travis kelce #man written by a woman #soft boy

[maudefigglebottom]

girlies be like ‘why are my standards so high?’ and then they be looking at ben barnes 24/7

#ben barnes #high standards #man written by a woman #the girlies who get it get it #tumblr girls

[cafewhore]

I love it when you see a painting by a man and you can just TELL that he worshipped his wife

#painting #love #women #man written by a woman #hozier

[hayleythesugarbowl]

jack edwards x reader headcanons

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a/n: i love this man so much so i hope somebody out there enjoys this as much as i do. this one’s for you reader girlies <3 🍒💌

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dating Jack would include…

so he met you in a bookstore 

you know those scenes where two characters reach for the same thing and their hands touch

anyways you started dating 

you go to coffee shops together 

he introduced you to his family and he was so shy it was adorable 

oh my gosh you guys read together all the time 

just imagine sitting on this man’s lap and laying your head on his shoulder while you two read 

for hours

and you have movie marathons

you guys definitely got a cat

he annotates books and writes little things that remind him of you and then gives them to you as gifts 🥹

he also lets you go in B&N and just pick out whatever you want and he’ll buy it for you

you make each other laugh sm

he makes you tea

you guys travel a lot and explore cute bookstores 

he wears so many rings 

because maybe you told him to

he’s so gentle omg 

he loves taking care of you when you’re sick 

and when your nervous or anxious he rubs small circles on your back

he’ll send you the most random puns 

type of guy that would sit up with you at night for hours just talking 

and he’d make ice cream sundaes and insist on making it an event 

you go on long walks 

and dance in the rain together 

you know babes makes Spotify playlists about you 

he absolutely calls you ‘love’

his love language is definitely physical touch 

you guys just love each other so much 

mans was written by a woman and you can’t convince me otherwise 

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ˋ°•*⁀➷ hope you enjoyed these little headcanons!! jack edwards is literally the loml so i had to write this. have a wonderful day/night ⋆ ˚｡⋆୨୧˚🩰🪩

#jack edwards #jack edwards x reader #jack edwards headcanons #jack edwards x reader headcanons #booktube #bookish #booktok #bookworm #books and reading #bookstagram #booklr #reader girlies unite #man written by a woman #fanfic #fanfiction #reader insert #headcanon

[crabsdaily]

“this man was written by a woman” “this woman was written by a man” oh yeah? well i was written by a monkey on a typewriter.

the monkey is gonna write hamlet next

#just a little guy #silly #sillyposting #meme #monkey #man written by a woman

[billyloomisbussy]

"it's so hard being a man who's not 6"4 and has a six pack and- "

SHUT UP

-> t-shirt

-> sweater on top

-> cargo pants

congrats you did it. you have w rizz.

#it's not that hard i swear #i promise you we're not that picky #i just saw like 5 guys that look like that while writing this and it works #dressing #fashion #mens fashion #men #romance #pretty boy #love #cute #written by a woman #written by women #man written by a woman

[zhangster-moon]

ok i just started getting into an internet argument with someone about this so I feel like i Need to put down my thoughts about the whole "man written by a woman" trend/phrase

what happened was someone praised a male celebrity for putting out a fairly good and measured statement on Gaza, ending their comment with "THIS IS A MAN WRITTEN BY A WOMAN Y'ALL". I commented being like "this isn't really the point but I hate that phrase because I feel like it replicates harmful gender essentialism". and then we got into it lol

they tried to explain to me that it's about the female gaze and about how female gaze allows for positive masculinities etc, and I KNOW ALL THAT, but I just feel like I have such a huge problem with the phrasing itself of "men written by women" and "women written by men". I think obviously the latter is a more observed phenomenon but both phrases presume that men write in X way and women write in Y way. the assumption is that women writing men will always (or more often than not) write men to demonstrate those positive masculinities, and vice versa for men writing women (always terrible). but the problem is that there are demonstrable instances of this absolutely not being the case, case in point one of TikTok's favourite female authors Colleen Hoover.

and so if we use these terms as short hand for "man who demonstrates positive masculinity" we are endorsing and replicating these gender essentialist stereotypes of how each gender must be writing their or their opposite genders. that is absolutely essentialist and not helpful to the feminist movement at all, because at the end of the day you are still boiling people down to their genders

furthermore its more problematised by the fact that you're applying these terms to real human beings. I think its fine and fun and all to apply them to characters on screen or in a book, because they're characters, representations, that's all. but humans are humans and saying a real human was "written by a woman" is firstly, dehumanising. secondly implicitly by using this term you are relegating the praise for this man to some hypothetical woman that dreamed him up (more gender essentialism). calling them that you are reducing them down to a representation of them, an image of them that you can project your own thoughts and feelings onto. you can just say "oh this guy is demonstrating positive masculinity" or like "oh this guy is one of the good ones", you don't need to feed into this twee little TikTok trend of "he's a man written by a woman uwu"

dehumanising men is exactly what we should be moving away from if we want to follow through with feminist and trans movements of liberation. the only way to progress is to see people as three dimensional human beings and appreciate that there are things that you might want to venerate about this celebrity and his conduct, but there may very well be things that are not very "written by a woman" at all!

there's more I could say about the difference betwen "women written by men" and "men written by women". you can't at all act like you can use these terms equally and have them hold equal weight, when the latter is not only a phenomenon in the fiction produced by the male-dominated creative industries, but also that we live literally in a patriarchy where women are governed and oppressed by male fantasy and standards. women are expected to be cool or they get kicked out of a drinking group at work that might be the ladder to a promotion. women are expected to put on a smile and layers of makeup or else be deemed unpresentable or unprofessional.

anyway this is a big huge discussion and i have more frustrations about pop feminism but this phrase has really started to grate in recent months. it's boring and tired and offers absolutely nothing new at all and I'm sick of seeing people say "X real human was written by women". nobody is written by anyone we're all living breathing beings with ugly bits and good bits and no matter how three dimensional a character is, it's just a character, let's stop blurring the lines

#zhangstermoon #rant #women writing men #man written by a woman #fuck this phrase honestly #feminism

[umniamusic]

the video essays that inspired DOPAMINE ❤️‍🔥

#mina le #shanspeare #amandamaryanna #spilled thoughts #video essays #yearning #indie music #dark academia #soundtrack #playlist #poetry on tumblr #music #pop music #man written by a woman #dopamine #Spotify

[lazylittledragon]

I NEED TO KNOW WHAT MAMA DEKARIOS'S REACTION WAS WHEN SHE FOUND OUT CYRA WAS PREGNANT :000000 her boy is about to be a dad i think she would lose her entire shit

I THINK YOU’RE PROBABLY RIGHT

#bg3 #baldur's gate 3 #gale dekarios #galemance #dadkarios #morena dekarios #this one is written in my notes as ‘she kisses gale’s entire face then hugs cyra so hard she nearly snaps her in half’ #i think. she is a very put together sophisticated woman #but she also raised a man who threatens to blow himself up at the slightest inconvenience #so she’s also a bit. explosive #and also she’s still recovering from the ‘i fucked and pissed off a goddess’ conversation so she’s probably thrilled #cyra and morena on their way to the stormshore tabernacle to fuck her up #also she absolutely digs out all of gale’s tiny socks for them

[whenthegoldrays]

Yu “I like you, but I won't do anything if you don't want me to or put you in a fix. You just need to say no” Ji-hyuk 🤝🏼 Fitzwilliam “my affections and wishes have not changed, but one word from you will silence me on this subject forever” Darcy

#the man written by jane austen to kdrama ml written by a woman pipeline indeed #(was jihyuk written by a woman? i actually don't know but you get it) #marry my husband #pride and prejudice #austen x kdrama #elly's posts

[jaimejamieb]

a man written by a woman

#jamie campbell bower #jamie bower #wanda martin #grumpy magazine #man written by a woman

[little-bumblebeeee]

man written by a woman energy

#joe keery #stranger things #steve harrington #djo #kurt kunkle x reader #kurt kunkle #walter keys mckey #free guy #spree movie #keys mckey #keys x reader #joe keery x reader #steve harrington x reader #Man written by a woman energy #Oh what I'd give to be that spongebob popsicle

[mazzystar24]

My Roman Empire is hozier saying “I don’t worship and tell” when an interviewer started talking about the sexual nature of his songs and his real life

Actually scratch that

My Roman Empire is hozier

#yes you read that right #WORSHIP AND TELL #the definition of the female gaze #this man was written by a woman #you don’t even understand the things this man has done to my brain chemistry #my ovaries have not recovered from watching that interview #hozier #this man is so fine

[see-arcane]

Mina mocking the New Woman like

#Mina I love you but you are sadly being written by a man who Does Not know what he's talking about #mina murray #mina harker #dracula #dracula daily #The New Woman

[magnus-rar]

trans jonah magnus is so real to Me... a lot of his traits could be partially ascribed to his experience as a 19th century trans person

it would create a separation between him and his body, make him a guest in his own flesh, form a "my body is not my own" sentiment that would last for 200+ years (even if for different reasons). it would force him to create himself, and to fight for recognition. it would form the "it's not in your blood, or your soul, or your destiny" belief (he wouldn't believe in biological determinism at least, which is a solid argument, i think). it would make him afraid of being outed, and thus afraid of being truly known, and yet make him long for someone who would understand

#i'm writing something on that but i really doubt i will finish it. i never finish anything #this is yet another reason why i dislike the bigot elias headcanons. first of all why would you say that. second he's Queer #this was written with Jonah as a trans man in mind but what do you think of a trans woman Jonah #my friend got jumped on on twitter for headcanoning Jonah as transfem which is so silly #jonathan fanshawe is also trans btw. and he did jonah's top surgery. because i said so #jonah magnus #elias bouchard #mine