#maybe AGENDER

[hellenhighwater]

What are your pronouns?

my gender is someone gave me a bowl of raisin bran and my brother a bowl of cheerios, and I like raisin bran just fine, but if they'd asked what I wanted I might have picked cheerios? But I'm already a couple bites into the raisin bran and it seems like an awful fuss to switch to cheerios now, and while I've heard that some people prefer lucky charms or cinnamon toast crunch, and those do seem super fun...I'm not really willing to put in the effort of explaining my breakfast choices to people who think that everyone should just be eating raisin bran or cheerios and nothing else, especially when I don't really care if I'm eating raisin bran or cinnamon toast crunch or lucky charms or cheerios, though I do think everyone should eat whatever cereal they want without being bothered about it.

She/her's fine.

#ive been told that this probably means im actually agender #to complete the asexual aromantic trifecta #but i dont really care enough to do the research necessary to figure out if that term really does apply to me #when i wouldn't really do anything if it did #my gender is i am lazy #also i just realized this is maybe an odd choice of metaphor for a person who doesn't actually eat breakfast

[goldenwaves]

afterlife, oh my god what an awful word

#uh have this. throws it at you #ts4 #ts4 edit #sims 4 #dnd #i had another photo but im not rly interested in editing it rn but one day maybe #even less context than usual sorry! #agender undead warlock with a bowl cut

[thinks-to-thought]

this pride month i think we should normalise not knowing what the fuck gender is

#wtf is gender anyway #maybe that’s my autism #pride month #pride #gnc #gender non conforming #gender #trans #agender #mouse talks

[trans-enby-culture-is]

Trans culture is changing your labels, and not being sure if you're confused about the right lable, if your identity changed, or if your gender fluid.

#93

#trans enby culture #i went form identifying as #agender #to identifying as #androgyne #then identifying as a #trans man #or maybe #transmasc #and now I think I'm agender #so maybe I was always right and I'm just #genderfluid #send help #trans #transgender #nonbinary #enby

[fray]

i feel like most ppl just humor the idea of giving characters from stuff different genders but i need ppl to be more serious about it, it's so fun.

i think it's important to have your own lgbt OCs but mmm yummy junk food making fav character in smth agender and or a butch and or bigender etc etc like ooo

#idr what character i first started hcing as agender... maybe vincent valentine from a decade ago #or fray myste cuz i was a kinnie back then.... clearly #just saying this cuz someone was annoying in tags again like usual ^_^ #edit- lemme put 'lgbt OCs' before someone calls me a biphobe despite being bi SDLKF

[thirtheenprimes]

The only allo I am is vera.

Me:

#get it? aloe vera #asexual #demiromantic #gender queer #agender maybe? #nonbinary of somekind i dont understand gender enough to say #my gender is: who's to say? #also plant #actually im a fern but thats not the joke

[thefishdeath]

Never feel more masc then the times I try to look fem

#Crossdressing as a woman is truly the epitome of being a man #I HAVE to be the most confusing person at the grocery store #Voice of boy? but makeup like girl? but boy mannerisms? Girl hair? Boob? lesbianism? Man? Woman? Man? They? It? Maybe #You'll never fucking know. I hope it keeps you up at night #Committing gender fuckary? In my city?. it's more likely than you would think #It's very obvious how boy I am when I try to girl #I love being a weird little guy #I'm that boy thing wearing a dress what's not clicking here #Transmascs im telling you WEAR THAT MAKEUP!!!!! #PUT ON THAT DRESS!!! #only if you want to ofc but there is nothing more euphoric then dressing like a woman and still feeling like a man #but that's the process. A couple years ago wearing nail polish made me sick to my stomach. AND IM AGENDER!!!! #totally just like rambled in the tags mb #transgender #trans masc #transmasc #agender ism #genderqueer #nonbinary #trans man #trans joy #just fishdeath-ing #genderfluid #genderfuck #multigender #xenogender #genderflux #abinary #transneutral #don't know why I'm tagging this so hard but i learned like three new terms so that pretty cool

[onejellyfishplease]

love subtly hinting towards my gender (its all of them)

My father -to me: You're the eldest of my daughters :D

My father -to my brother: And you're the eldest of my sons :D

Me: actually im the eldest of e v e r y t h i n g bow to me

My Father: Ha thats funny :D

and then the conversation moves on and im there just like >:)

#hell catch on eventually #maybe #weve talked about gender stuff before #not in context of me #but like he has a coworker who goes by all pronouns #and he asked me about it to try and understand #because he acknowledges me as the top gay in the house #which is fun lol #coming out #genderqueer #agender #genderfluid #??? #idk about labels yet lol

[0m3n-0f-d3ath]

Otto

#cloud sweater supremacy #i want a cloud sweater so bad #ottto #really liking how I’m filling up the canvas more #:devious: #honestly xer design will keep changing every once in a while or maybe even each drawing #artists on tumblr #art #finished piece #illustration #my art #digital art #2024 art #my oc art #star themed #clothing because I love drawing it #sfw furry #anthro #furry anthro #fursona #snow leopard #evil art style challenge #one year I’ve been out to my family :gosh: #shout out to all my fellow Agender + Aro ace folk #also happy autism month ‼️

[do-you-know-this-queer-character]

Do you know this queer character?

Ratchet is Gay and uses he/him pronouns!

#maybe also Agender? I tried to find confirmation of this but all I could find was that the character was originally going to be female #if you know more lmk!! #ratchet #transformers #transformers idw #tf g1 #tf idw #tf ratchet #tumblr polls #fandom polls #poll #gay #he/him #western animation #live action #comics #lgbtqia #do you know this queer character

[the-yearning-astronaut]

I wish I could be agender the way Murderbot is agender. Right down to the lack of biological sexual characteristics. So agender that the term agender comes with too much associated gender to accurately apply. You know what I mean?

#help the dysphoria is kicking my ass again today and everything about me looks and feels wrong #demigirl still feels like it is applicable but also i wish i was more masculine but NOT in that way only THIS way #am i uncomfortable with my curves because of internalized fatphobia? because of the association with being feminine? both? #is it my actual curves themselves or is it the very reality of having a physical body that will be gendered some way no matter what i do? #i hate it I hate all of it #Murderbot #agender #gender #gender dysphoria #body dysphoria #dysphoria #fox thoughts #'maybe if i dress more masculine that will help' #nope no thats still leaning into gender #how do i do both at once so that they cancel each other out? #i don't want to be masculine but i don't want to be female lite™ either #I don't want to be perceived as having any gender at all and its not fucking possible #fuck i don't even want to deal with pronouns 80% of the time and i don't care for my name either #why does physically existing suck so bad sometimes #☉

[hysokaz]

illumi is a cis man out of convenience. he does not care enough to think about it. gittarackur is the most genderfuck thing ever tho yas pinhead slay

#illumi zoldyck #illumi is transmasc but amab hes just like. transneutral transmasc . agender masc spectrum #(i know him personally) #hey...GITTARACKUR IS FUCKING DRAG!!!!! DRAG THING!!!!!! YASSSS SLAY #hxh #OSSRY #i miss hxh sometimes #maybe i shall rewatch it #sometime.. #im watching banana fish rn with my bf . we're fishing. and i want to finish one anime for once in my life #does anybody know if the pain ever ends in banana fish. probably not right. Shorter save me

[mamawasatesttube]

heres how t4t timkon can still win.

#rimi talks #every single timkon ive ever written is t4t and always will be. wahoo #take my hand. genderfluid transmasc tim and genderqueer nb kon. do you hear me #baby tim is closeted transmasc. teen tim is like im BINARY im MAN ONLY and in stringent denial of any dysphoria-- #--around having more femme or agender days bc hes like no im clearly a GUY. #adult tim is genderfluid transmasc and finally comfortable in his own skin #meanwhile kon is assigned male at cadmus and doesnt start thinking harder abt it until his resurrection #at which point he gets a lot more introspective bc hes like. i was made to die saving the world and i DID so why am i back??? #whats my actual purpose then?? what AM i ???? #and the ''what am i?'' question leads to the queer realizations esp in the wake of his breakup with cassie #and he just slowly figures out feelings abt gender via learning fibercrafts and cooking and ''girl stuff'' from ma #hes like. well calling it all girl stuff is stereotyping i can be a boy who likes to make lace and decorate pies!!!!! #and hes not wrong he CAN. but also hmmmm actually maybe what if hes not. a boy. #do you hear me do you see the vision. i have thoughts

[sainamoonshine]

My unpopular opinion is that in languages with grammatical gender like french, it does make sense for Murderbot to be referred to by whatever pronoun is usually used for robots or constructs. (In french, therefore, grammatical masculine.) Because there are no traditional « it » pronouns in these languages for objects, and while there are neo-pronouns, they are things one must choose for themselves. Do you honestly think MB actually spent time thinking about its pronouns?! No it didn’t. On forms it picks « non-applicable ». When people ask it what pronouns they should use, its honest opinion is « why do you even need to talk about me. Just don’t fucking do that. Don’t think about me either. Just fucking stop perceiving me altogether! »

Thinking about what pronouns to use probably makes it way more uncomfortable than letting people call it what they’ve already been calling it. Making a conscious choice about its identity? And telling other people about it??? No thanks bye, it’s just gonna walk into the ocean now, see you never.

Lbr it probably thinks the only bots that get fancy pronouns are comfort units, and the pronouns are probably shoved into them by humans same as everything else. MB would meet a bot using a neopronoun and it would wish it could barf. Because in a language like french, he/him and she/her, when applied to objects, ARE fulfilling the function of the english « it ». Nobody is saying the table is a woman or related to feminity in any way outside of stand-up comedy; when it comes to objects grammatical gender really has fuckall to do with human gender even if we use the same words. Even animal species names have grammatical gender and everyone gets that there are male and female turtles even if the word « turtle » is a female word, it’s not that confusing.

(I know this is strange when your language has different pronouns for people and for objects, but understand that english uses the same word to indicate if I’m addressing one or many people, and that is confusing to me.)

TL;DR; stop harassing international fans for not getting the correct MB pronoun in english right off the bat. Yes in english calling it « he » or « her » or « them » is upsetting because it’s projecting an identity unto it. But same goes for trying to get a foreign language translation to use a pronoun intended to express or showcase an identity (or even a lack of one!). Murderbot has not thought about it this hard, refuses to think about it this hard -> and that is its only canon accurate gender identity.

#the murderbot diaries #taking a bat to an hornet’s nest there but I said what I said #I go by she/her because that’s the default people use for me even tho my own gender identity is also #ugh I would sincerely prefer not to have to deal with this think about it or even be perceived #and I would be hella pissed if a book of my life came out and people got into fights about my pronouns #trying to assign me the most politically accurate agender pronoun possible #when my own choice has always been specifically to let people call me the default because idc #and I don’t want to be identified by any identifier that might indicate I do care #and using a different pronoun even if its a gender neutral one is a CHOICE! #it does indicate a preference! and caring about it enough to pick a word and tell people about it!!! #Murderbot didn’t pick IT that is specifically the point! #it was used for it and MB just kept going with that #I mean imagine it if wrote down a different pronoun on its ID form one day and someone actually called it that #it would set itself on fire #its discomfort at having made a personal choice and the personal choice being respected would be off the charts #maybe it a later book after hella character development but I just don’t see it happening tbh #respect the agenders who just don’t want to get involved and use the pronoun equivalent of the default avatar that came with the account #PLEASE #that is all

[olive-garden-hoe]

Man when 2012!Splinter said “you are who you choose to be, not what others made you” that really hit my little non-binary heart

#2012 splinter #tmnt 2012 #bro really began the trans timeline for me #2012 splinter being good (for once) #2012 leo #2012 mikey #2012 raph #2012 Donnie #I think there’s a strong case for all of me to be trans #but my main hcs are #transfem 12!leo #non binary 12!donnie #gender fluid 12!mikey #also maybe bi-gender raph but I see that more in Rise than 2012 #if anything I think he’s agender #but that’s just me #2012 tmnt headcanons #tmnt hc #2012 tmnt pride hc #also Casey was AFAB and is a Demi boy/gender-flux #no I’m not taking criticism #I choose to believe April is an aroace ally #just bc her character is so 2D in 2012 that I just gotta put a little bit of spice in her #2012 casey jones #2012 april o'neil #ftm 12!casey #aroace 12!april truther for life

[ahalliance]

qétoiles agender aromantic asexual call that me projecting

#jay rambles #tbf those hcs do all fit him incredibly well…… maybe it’s less me projecting and more me finding blorbos that fit the hcs kekw #hes agender bc he also fits the colour palette . hope this helps