#me....... and whom

[ispyspookymansion]

no nuance option for well sort of kind of we’re friendly!!!!! make your own call on what you define friend as

#just curious #i feel like i know a lot of people for whom the answer is yes leaning which is crazy to me #i havent spoken to most of the people i was friends with in high school in 4 years and i only graduated 4.5 years ago #kora.txt

[demon-of-the-ancient-world]

Hate (affectionate) how it's made so clear from the very beginning of part 1 just how loved Paul is by his family and household. Both his parents, Duncan, Gurney, Thufir, even Dr Yueh all clearly care so deeply for this kid, and we're shown that time and time again.

Cut to the end of part two, and almost every one of those people is gone. The only ones who remain are a weird, came-back-wrong version of Jessica, and Gurney who has gone from mentor to worshipper. Paul goes from someone deeply loved and valued for who he is by a small but caring group of people - to someone followed and worshipped and feared by thousands. They're obsessed with him in a way, as a leader and "messiah", but nobody loves him.

The only one remaining who loves him for who he is is Chani, who leaves him because in the end that love isn't enough to bring who he is back.

#dune #dune part 2 #paul atreides #i am losing my MIND #upon rewatching part 1 it struck me just HOW loved paul is. and then you contrast that with his horde of followers in part 2 #none of whom will so much as touch him when he's injured badly enough that he can barely walk #he's not human anymore. he's just an idea. #i am in physical pain #something something it's about parasocial relationships & celebrity culture #like idk if that was frank or denis' intention but. i see a bit of That.

[retquits]

local hylian literally too shy to revisit zora's domain

#my art #tears of the kingdom #totk #link #legend of zelda #listen. i am not a shy person. AND YET #I AM PHYSICALLY INCAPABLE OF GOING TO ZORA'S DOMAIN #I CAN'T DO IT! #save hyrule? yeah sure give me a stick and a new arm and i'm off to the races #TALK TO A HANDSOME SHARK? #WHOM I'VE BEEN IN LOVE WITH FOR YEARS? #WOULD RATHER DIE #(y'all have been so great about not posting spoilers in the tags!!! please don't make me regret this 😣💕)

[inkskinned]

they want to talk about mental illness and acceptance and how everyone is a little ocd it's cute and quirky and their "intrusive thoughts" are about cutting their hair off and you say yours are about taking a razorblade to your eye and they say ew can you not and everyone is a little adhd sometimes! except if you're late it's a personality flaw and it's because you are careless and cruel (and someone else with adhd mentions they can be on time, so why can't you?) and it's not an eating disorder if it's girl dinner! it's not mania if it's girl math! what do you mean you blew all of your savings on nonrefundable plane tickets for a plane you didn't even end up taking. what do you mean that you are afraid of eating. get over it. they roll their little lips up into a sneer. can you not, like, trauma dump?

they love it on them they like to wear pieces of your suffering like jewels so that it hangs off their tongue in rapiers. they are allowed to arm-chair diagnose and cherrypick their poisons but you can't ever miss too many showers because that's, like, "fuckken gross?" so anyone mean is a narcissist. so anyone with visual tics is clearly faking it and is so cringe. but they get to scream and hit customer service employees because well, i got overwhelmed.

you keep seeing these posts about how people pleasers are "inherently manipulative" and how it's totally unfair behavior. but you are a people pleaser, you have an ingrained fawn response. in the comments, you have typed and deleted the words just because it is technically true does not make it an empathetic or kind reading of the reaction about one million times. it is technically accurate, after all. you think of catholic guilt, how sometimes you feel bad when doing a good deed because the sense of pride you get from acting kind - that pride is a sin. the word "manipulation" is not without bias or stigma attached to it. many people with the fawn response are direct victims of someone who was malignantly manipulative. calling the victims manipulative too is an unfair and unkind reading of the situation. it would be better and more empathetic to say it is safety-seeking or connection-seeking behavior. yes, it can be toxic. no, in general it is not intended to be toxic. there is no reason to make mentally ill people feel worse for what we undergo.

you type why is everyone so quick to turn on someone showing clear signs of trauma but you already know the fucking answer, so what's the point of bothering. you kind of hate those this is what anxiety looks like! infographics because at this point you're so good at white-knuckling through a severe panic attack that people just think you're stoic. even people who know the situation sometimes comment you just don't seem depressed. and you're not a 9 year old white kid so there's no way you're on the spectrum, you're not obsessed with trains and you were never a good mathematician. okay then.

mental illness is trending. in 2012 tumblr said don't romanticize our symptoms but to be fair tiktok didn't exist yet. there's these series of videos where someone pretends to be "the most boring person on earth" and is just being a normal fucking person, which makes your skin crawl, because that probably means you are boring. your friend reads aloud a profile from tinder - no depressed bitches i fucking hate that mental illness crap. your father says that medication never actually works.

you still haven't told your grandmother that you're in therapy. despite everything (and the fact it's helping): you just don't want her to see you differently.

#writeblr #warm up #to be clear let me state again: i think you should id however you fucking want if it helps you seek peace #but there is a HUGE difference between being like '.... im undiagnosed but i think i might be X' #and a person who is like ''omg my intrusive thoughts made me buy a birkin!!!'' #babe mine made me throw up bc they disgusted me so much <3 #mine made me hurt myself evenly. even when i wanted to stop. i have had to put my hand on the stove MULTIPLE TIMES #and again i'd rather have 10000 people get help for something they don't need help for #than have 1 kid NOT get help #but there has GOTTTTT to be a middle ground here #bc at this point it isn't ''raising awareness'' #it's . fucking misinformation. and ''what this picture says about you!!!!!'' #& yes! im mostly talkin about ppl who are actually disgusted and offended by signs of mental illness #but use it to defend THEIR actions #like babe you hate when kids start yelling in the walmart? but you YOuRSELF can yell? #you are depressed so it's fine you were cruel to your spouse? #but if your spouse spends too much time in bed she's a lazy fuck? #your partner needs to do everything for you bc of your history in trauma? but when SHE has needs she's being clingy and gross? #HUGE difference here between whom i think most of my followers are btw. like #all it takes is fucking anyyyy empathy or kindness . like. #anyway it's hard to explain im hoping we all know the person im talking about lol

[jeremyknoxs]

this goes beyond friendship, and i love you to the core.

#* #911 #911 abc #911edit #buddie #911 spoilers #buddieedit #useraish #alielook #userabs #tuserzee #tuserrae #tuserambs #tusersimone #usertreena #<- not doing my usual taglist for my little 5 minute edit <3 just my friends (some of whom are losing their minds with me right now)

[heldhram]

My friends: Wanna go out for a bite this weekend? Me: Sorry, I've got errands to run x.x

The errand:

Those blueberry bushes just ain't goan water themselves yanno?

#non-sims #stardew valley #harvesting them blueberries is so satisfying in this game for some reason is it just me #when them don't fall into those ponds because of how close I initially planted the bushes around them #guess for whom those peppers were lmao #yeah I should probably get sprinklers

[catabasis]

He sees you, and he likes what he sees.

Demonology and the Tri-Phasic Model of Trauma: An Integrative Approach by Nnm

#good omens #aziraphale #crowley #aziracrow #ineffable husbands #goodomensedit #dailyineffablehusbands #demonology and the tri-phasic model of trauma: an integrative approach #mygifs #mygifs:goodomens #my favourite piece of fanfiction of all time #it means so much to me and i wanted to make a little something for it #special mention to aubrey thyme whom i adore and my eternal gratitude to the writer of this fanfiction #mygifs:aziraphale #mygifs:crowley #mygifs:aziracrow

[otpadsis]

#the magnus archives #jonathan sims #my anxiety went so fast over the skies because i listen to like 10 eps a day #me as an anxious and generally scared of everything girl: hmm yes mystic horror podcast right what i need #paranoing like jon <3 #i feel bad drawing fanarts of relatively real people whom i dont know personally eh..

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Autistic trauma: School Edition

Hiding in the bathroom

Feel like social outcast

Constant self monitoring

Know you are not liked but not sure why

Bullied

Hyper vigilant

Lonely

Crying at home

Last pick for games

No real friends

Not invited to parties

Littlepuddins.ie

#autism #actually autistic #autism awareness month #autism acceptence month #tw trauma #I was bullied a lot and had few friends #whom I don’t even talk to anymore #honestly I liked to be alone #it allowed me to focus one school #I’m sure some of you can relate #neurodivergence #neurodiversity #actually neurodivergent #feel free to share/reblog #littlepuddins.ie (facebook)

[catnippackets]

"haha look at this ridiculous ai image isn't it funny" no it's not and I wish people would stop knowingly spreading ai generated art theft around under the guise of mocking it

#ramblings #multiple ppl I follow—some of whom are artists themselves—are doing this now and it genuinely makes me want to cry

[ikiprian]

yeah yeah, jason todd’s dip in the ecto-lazarus pit changed something in him irrevocably, enough that he feels a resonance with fellow living-dead danny we’ve all been there

but you know who else has been killed and was revived by the lazarus pit? another member of the batfamily, a fellow hero, world class fighter, stubbornly believes in second chances and redemption? cassandra motherfuckin’ cain

#WRITE HER IN YOU COWARDS!!!! #dpxdc #dcxdp #cassandra cain #danny fenton #shes SO cool shes SO interesting. she holds herself to impossible standards she was killed by her brother whom she tried to save #shes ruthless and relentless and she projects onto every killer she sees hyperempathetic #and the whole fight that kills her shes like LET ME HELP YOU PLEASE #please read batgirl (2000) if you guys like fucked up resurrection stuff and parents bring evil and defiance of fate you’ll love cass #kipthought

[mathlann]

I don't know if anyone needs this, but since it took me a bit to find out:

If you're playing the Dark Urge, Go. To. Sleep. on your first "day" out the pods. Recruit Astarion, and if you want, Gale and Shadowheart as well. Don't recruit Lae'zel or do the grove yet (idt it triggers otherwise). You get a special dream, and can reflect on your class/ancestry. If you're wondering why you can't tell Astarion about your memory loss or the Urge but he knows about it anyways, it's because he has special dialogue about it afterwards and the game will just act like you already talked to him whether you triggered the scene or not.

#im always an advocate for going the fuck to sleep whenever in this game and it still took me 3 runs to find it #so to whom it may concern #bg3 #baldur's gate 3 #astarion #the dark urge

[dameferre]

plagued by thoughts of barbie and queerness

specifically after my friend and i went to see it and were discussing it and i brought up the obvious queer coding she said ‘oh yeah weird barbie’ and i went ‘oh. no? stereotypical barbie??’

and when we unpacked it further i realised that she’d seen weird barbie as inherently queer bc of the way she’d been ostracised and called names that she made her own in time and could never fit in with the other barbies because of who she was and how she looked? and i saw stereotypical barbie as queer because of her lack of attraction to the people she was meant to be attracted to, liking them but never able to do so in the way they liked her. of being expected to act and be certain ways because of how she looked and the life she lived but not really wanting those things

honestly i don’t really have a point with this it’s just been ceaselessly rattling around in my lil brain

#the queer experience is not a monolith!! #idk!!! #also i was a weird kid (and yknow. black and brown) so to me weird barbie was just representative of weird girls #a lot of whom are queer obvs but the queerness Literally never read for me #barbie #ep #anyway barbie’s ace and so am i ✌🏽 lmao

[mimimar]

♡the princess and the pauper♡

everything's the same but princess anneliese is a lesbian

#the princess and the pauper #started this a couple of years ago for fun and forgot abt it until i found the wip again recently and finished it #anneliese... miss “and marry whom i chooseeee” #i love this movie soooooooooooo much #the cat's meow always makes me cry #all the songs are so good #barbie as the princess and the pauper #the princess & the pauper #the princess and the pauper fanart #princess anneliese #anneliese #erika #character design #artists on tumblr #wlw art #sapphic art #lesbian art #wlw #sapphic #lesbian #pink #barbie #barbie fanart

[yennyinc]

Acceptance!

#my hero academia #bnha #boku no hero academia #bkdk #bakugou katsuki #katsuki bakugou #izukus hand #bakudeku #bnha fanart #I didn’t forget about you guys! idk why it’s so hard for me to post on multiple platforms lol #im always here though fellers lurking about #katsuki’s gaze is fixed on Izuku’s hand #katsukis gaze is fixed in izukus hand resting gently atop his heart. #His own palms lay open a symbol of acceptance and vulnerability towards Izuku #His expression bears a serene tender demeanor a testament to the knowledge of whom his heart belongs. #lol

[sentientsky]

a hastily thrown-together good omens shitpost made with my actual real life text message conversations

(here’s part 2)

#imagine wlw says ‘angel’. I’m a lesbian and I’m too lazy to try and make that one work lol #I didn’t want to include too much of other ppl’s responses to my messages bc privacy but yeah #anyway true story I literally asked this girl (my best friend whom I was in love with) to run away with me #like as a joke (but tbh I would have probably done anything she asked me to lmaoo) #and she was like yeah!!! then she ghosted me like 2 weeks later :) #aksjksjdkdj #metatron one doesn’t rly fit but whatever #good omens 2 #good omens #aziraphale #aziracrow #ineffable husbands #crowley #ineffable lovers #go2 #ineffable wives #good omens season 2 #good omens shitpost #shitpost #good omens tv #David tennant #Michael sheen #the metatron #ineffable divorce #ineffable dumbasses #ineffable idiots