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meowtismz · 5 months
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Remember that if talk or type weird all ok
Remember that if not low support need all ok
Remember that if not level 1 autism all ok
Remember that if nonverbal or semiverbal all ok
Remember that if cognitive function low all ok
Remember thay if dysfunctional all ok
Remember that if "more debilitating autism" all ok
Remember that disability ALWAYS debilitate one thing or another, if have "less accepted" autism still valid and deserving of love respect help
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radiostatic166 · 5 months
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Please stop infantlizing autistic people
Stop being weirded out when we cuss. Stop being weirded out when we talk about nsfw topics. Stop being weirded out when we are semiverbal or nonverbal.
We can smoke too, we can drink, vape, and cuss and do anything normal people can do. We can have (concented) sexual relationships. We can kiss people. We can have kinks. We can like BDSM or have fetishes. We are not innocent little kids.
Just because we have a disability doesn't mean we aren't people.
Just because we sometimes need to live with someone else doesn't mean we aren't people.
Just because we don't pick up on social clues doesn't mean we aren't people.
STOP INFANTILIZING US. STOP CALLING US INNOCENT. STOP THINKING YOU NEED TO PROTECT US. WE ARE REGULAR PEOPLE TOO.
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boughkeeper-dainsleif · 8 months
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thinking about the time i said to a couple people that i can't drive due to my autism, and one of them said something like "i don't have a choice bc my parents made me drive". that bothered me for a while, and continues to bother me. i don't have a choice either. if my life depended on me driving, i would die.
it feels to me like whenever i say "i can't do this because of my autism", allistics (or often times lower support needs autistics) assume that i have actually just decided not to do something, instead of understanding that i am physically incapable of doing it, even if my life depended on it, even if i desperately wanted to.
i wish allistics understood that an autistic person's limitations cannot be changed with motivation or different choices. sometimes it feels like other people have a harder time accepting my needs and limits. than i do myself.
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twisted-rat-king · 1 year
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so sick of seeing "their poor parents" in regards to someone who is delusional, psychotic, or otherwise "not normal." any time the topic comes up, someone's there to drop that steaming pile of shit. i promise you, the caretakers aren't suffering half as much as the person they're caring for. but nobody talks about that part.
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the-rest-is-silenc3 · 3 months
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shout out to the people who DO look autistic
to the people who have different facial features from autism or conditions that often occur with autism
to the people who need padded equipment, gait trainers, or other highly noticeable aids
to the people who are ignored in favor of talking to their parents/guardians/carers
to the people who have been told they shouldn’t be seen in public because of their autism
to the people who are told they don’t exist by low support needs autistics
there is a place for you in the autistic community <3 [heart]
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ditzydoodiary · 3 months
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i feel really bad for saying this, but something i struggle with regarding my autism is trying to sound interested in other people's interests. i try so hard to seem interested because i know that feeling of being ignored when infodumping about your interests, but also, my own interests are so restricted that i cant get into/seem interested in anyone elses interests.
i cant get into things people recommend me, at all, no matter how hard i actually want to because it just feels like a demand. i also cant get into anything else even if i myself really want to get into it. especially if someone else's interests involve anything with real humans. cant watch anything thats live action, it needs to be animated and usually has to involve animals in some way.
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autisticdreamdrop · 7 months
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autism regression needs to be talked about more.
you can lose so many skills. lose the ability to mask. lose the ability to control stimming. lose the ability to use motor functions. lose the ability to take care our yourself.
it's so hard.. it's so scary.. we just got able to write again and it's so bad. you can come out of regression, you can gain skills back in some areas or all areas affected but it's so hard and you can always be forced back. it's not fair.
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clownrecess · 1 year
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I can not currently, nor will I ever, be able to live alone.
I have mid-high support needs, and they have lately been becoming higher and higher. I can not take care of myself. I can not make myself food. I can not do laundry. I can very rarely take care of my hygienic needs without lots of reminders. When I have meltdowns I am a risk to myself. I have put a small hole in my wall from a meltdown. I have severe sensory issues. I don't think I'll be able to hold most jobs.
I can not currently, nor will I ever, be able to live alone.
This is okay. There is nothing bad, or wrong, or shameful, or childish about this.
Everyone has different support needs, and if you need a caretaker or to live with people as a support, that is okay.
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Shout out to anyone who has a demonized diagnosis, cluster b disorders, mid or high support needs autistic people, all disabled people, anyone with sensory issues or texture issues, people who get overwhelmed easily, people who find it hard to do things alone, people with trauma, anyone who uses a mobility aid, people who struggle with social interactions, and people who feel awkward in their skin. We are not burdens and we deserve to feel good, we deserve to happy and have good things in our lives. We are not broken people. We are amazing and just as special as anyone else.
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notabled-noodle · 2 years
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shoutout to autistic people who have challenging support needs. people who need a lot of things explained to them. people who can’t go anyone alone. people who rely on their parents or their partner to survive. people who have one or two safe meals and can’t eat anything else. people who need reminders to do daily tasks, or help to complete those tasks.
your needs are not too much. you are not too much. I hope you have people around you who don’t make you feel like a burden, and I hope you remember that you’re not any less worthy of respect because of your needs
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meowtismz · 5 months
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please please please STOP weird out when autistics specially nonverbal semiverbal autistics cuss talk about nsfw topics etc
deserve talk about topics if old enough like any other peers
autistic cuss have sexual relationship (with consent) consume alcohol date etc etc etc
STOP INFANTILIZING US we humans too
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flirts-with-dragons · 11 months
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Had a couple experiences today, so-
Don't expect neurodivergents/disableds to erase their emotions, symptoms, or needs for you.
When I say neurodivergents/disableds, I mean ALL neurodivergents/disableds. I mean every level of support needs. I mean people with severe trauma. I mean people who can't live by themselves. I mean people who see and hear and think in ways that others call crazy. I mean people who can't control their emotions/emotional reactions. I mean people that you think are "annoying" or "off-putting" or "gross" or "insane" or "delusional" or "ugly".
A lot of people can't make themselves your personal safe space. Thank you for reading.
(For reference, I am medium support needs autistic, visibly physically disabled, chronically ill, personality disordered, and schizophrenic.)
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boughkeeper-dainsleif · 9 months
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what i need level 1s to understand is that when i say "i can't do this because of my autism", im not saying "all autistic people can't do this", i'm not saying "doing this is hard and i don't want to", and i'm (usually) not saying "people have told me i can't do this".
what i'm saying is that i'm aware of the ways my autism limits me personally, and i've realized that successfully doing the thing is not a realistic or achievable goal for me. sometimes i would love to do the thing. sometimes everyone in my life believes i can do it, but i've realized i can't. and i'm very well aware that not all autistic people are like me, and many can do the thing.
i need level 1s to comprehend the fact that not every autistic person has high intelligence and independence. it's cool if you do and nowhere did i ever say no autistic person is like that, but you need to acknowledge that some autistics are genuinely not as smart or independent as you are, and that no amount of encouragement or motivation will change that.
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dreamdropsystem · 10 months
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nonverbal communication is valid communication
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people who can do something but with great mental and/or physical distress (e.g. fatigue, pain, depression, anxiety, etc) still have advantage over someone who can’t do the thing at all, no special circumstances, not buts and ifs, even in emergency even if their life depends on them doing the thing
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ditzydoodiary · 4 months
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daily reminder that if youre an autistic person who struggles with independence, you are not alone and you are 100% valid. you dont owe anyone an explanation; if you need help, you need help. and thats perfectly fine !! 💞
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