Dominants: If your partner doesn't feel like having sex with you, just make her sink deeper and deeper and order her to get horny and BAMM you got what you wanted... a whore
the things i always forget about / fail to associate with this shitty disorder i have.
"is so intense that they feel it is beyond their control."
i always just thought of it as the big scary Social. but now realise it was: humiliation, judgement, and rejection. and that is why ...
... SAD includes if person is not anxious in social situations generally, but is scared in Performances.
avoidance is a symptom
it is not just within the situation, but also in the weeks/months leading up to, and after the event.
usually starts during late childhood, and looks like extreme shyness/avoidance.
feeling of the mind going blank is a literal symptom of SAD!
rigid body posture and soft voice are also literal symptoms that are often not talked about.
the anxiety happens whether we want to be in the situation or not! i hate my anxiety, not you. i hate the discomfort of being at the event, but i still want to be there.
source: 'social anxiety disorder: more than just shyness pdf' by nimh, revised 2022 version
disclaimer: just because these are symptoms of SAD, doesn't mean that if you have these symptoms, they are necessarily because of SAD. 🌹🌹