#misogyny affected

[starry-bi-sky]

Dead on Main Childhood Friends Memes

Because now that I've gotten the hang of making au memes, i can't stop.

#dpxdc #dpxdc crossover #dpdc #dpxdc memes #dead on main #i keep calling this ship undead on main #childhood friends au #jason not believing that danny's gonna kill the joker is not only one of the funnier things i've come up with for this au but ALSO #my attempt at fixing that little plothole i made in the first post with danny outright stating his intentions about the joker #bc i didnt think i was continuing the post #it was mostly a prompt LMAO #sam's list is her internalized misogyny hypocrisy performative activism entitlement and her general refusal to accept that she can be wrong #remember how sam and danny hated each other in the beginning? yeah thats why #like lbfr sam's parents canonically spoiled her that has GOT to have affected her views on everything despite how she likes to act otherwis #hey look these memes have more variety than my clone danny ones #jason and danny are paralleling each other with their conspiracy boards btw #and if i could make an animatic of this au it would be with the song 'Hollow Moon' by. you guessed it. the crane wives

[pillarsalt]

Top contender for Least Self-Aware Post 2024. This is, in fact... your own fault!

#yep ​sure sucks to not allow yourself to speak concisely about who misogyny affects #if only there was a way to just simply not do that

[snail-scholar]

yeah yeah we all love the "you fuck her" scene because the mom is right on the money sorta, but is it just me or is it also kinda fucked up?

isn't it fucked up that she thinks the only way andrew, ashley's whole ass brother who essentially had to raise her himself, would stay by her side, would be if he got to bang her?

isn't it fucked up that she thinks the only way ashley could possibly have value to someone would be tied to her body?

doesn't it a hit a bit close home to anybody who had one of those moms who kept policing your appearance and general behavior because "men won't want you if you do this and that"?

ashley deserved to eat her parents. as a treat.

#the coffin of andy and leyley #i saw a few people here and there diminishing coffincest because it's straight #and like. fair. preferences #but i think the gender roles in their relationship are actually very interesting to analyze #even if they're not in the spotlight you can see it #on how ashley is the one who cooks and cleans while we often see andrew sitting down checking the news #and how that routine affects their dynamic #even to the way ashley was treated as a kid #suspiciously similar to how neurodivergent girls are treated #and considering most of the trauma comes from the mother it adds a spice to their mother-daughter dynamic #because like. i think so many people fail to acknowledge a lot of the misogyny faced by little girls comes from women and other girls #i just. think about ashley and her experiences a lot. #i should stop rambling before i write the first draft of an essay or smth

[gayvampyr]

i actually hate when people interject with “the patriarchy hurts men too!” in every discussion about womens systemic oppression. like yeah, it does. but you don’t need to bring it up every single time we discuss misogyny as a reason people should *really* care about dismantling the patriarchy. like womens suffering isn’t enough of an issue, it has to affect men before it’s actually taken seriously. im just sick of having to cater to mens victim complex and validate their feelings of oppression before any real work can be done. isn’t it enough that we’re suffering? cuz it doesn’t feel like it is

#idk im rambly but i’ve been thinking this for a while now and honestly unless you’re talking about mens oppression on the intersection of an #alternate axis like race or sexuality #i don’t want to hear about it #‘men are oppressed because of toxic masculinity and gender roles!’ yeah forgive me if im not exactly weeping with sympathy for my oppressor #because the system that they use to oppress me is what keeps them in power but also tangentially hurts them #like the ways male privilege affects women vs men are on completely different planes #not at all comparable #text post #misogyny #feminism and stuff #top posts

[uncanny-tranny]

The thing that sucks about misogyny is that it's not just a problem for one group of people or one gender group. If you want to combat bigotries, you (impersonal) have to not come at it from the angle of bigotry as an identity you have, but as a set of beliefs and actions. To be a misogynist isn't an identity like being gay or a similarly deep and personal identity. A misogynist is somebody who believes in and acts upon misogynistic ideas, myths, or any other such thing.

This goes for pretty much any bigotry, and the idea of bigotry as identity does us all a disservice, especially if you turn the bigotry into essentialism. When you essentialize bigotry in a certain group of people, you empower people to keep said bigotry unchecked and uninterrogated. That does everyone a disservice.

#feminism #politics #that's why i hate the 'its in mens very NATURE to be sexist' from rightists and leftists... #...if it is essential to being a certain 'type' of person then what would be the point of them going 'against' their nature? #like as a man it doesn't bother me to hear the essentialism above because it hurts my feelings... #...it bothers me because it ultimately won't work as a strategy to combat misogyny and sexism... #...like my feelings aren't hurt because i do try to combat misogyny - especially in my real life #and i recognize that misogyny affects me and it affects me in very weird ways for plenty of reasons

[radfae]

this is genuinely upsetting. how much longer are women not only going to be complacent in but actively encourage misogyny?

#i mean the post is just weird and wrong in the first place #and there’s a lot to pick apart about how it’s contradictory #and people on twitter on both sides REALLY aren’t helping discussion #but i’m just saddest about this :/ #they think it’s okay because it’s not happening to them #but they don’t realize that this affects us all #it’s not that they even think misogyny is acceptable against evil or bigoted women (most of them anyway) #it’s that they don’t even recognize what is and isn’t misogyny anymore #we’ve gone too long suppressing feminists and we’re feeling the effects #and now they can’t even call out when someone is going against women #why do you think that cain deleted that post? because there was something wrong with it #he KNOWS that he is being brash and speaking out of turn #he KNOWS that that post will get him called out #he KNOWS he did something wrong #:/

[housecow]

what are some things other than feedism and breeding that you’re into?

being loved and cherished 😭😭 also rocks and fossils, i know a crazy amount about the geologic timeline and texas geology :3

i know you probs mean kinks though!! i’m into some other things i prefer to keep between me and who i’m with 🫣

#i like being degraded and i enjoy slight misogyny lmfao #mostly bc i’m genuinely v confident in myself and it doesn’t affect me personally #but i love being called a fatass cow by a man 2x stronger than me #talk #ask

[yuri-for-businesswomen]

and i think some women want to be gay men because they have the only sexual relationships not directly affected by misogyny. send post

#indirectly affected because homophobia is a byproduct of misogyny and vice versa #but any relationship with a woman in it will be impacted by misogyny #rambling

[anticomphet]

it’s so interesting when tifs talk about “being perceived as a girl” and how much that affects their lives and everything they go through.. like huh.. it’s almost as if your sex shapes your life experiences more than any internal invisible “gender identity” ever will

#misogyny is SEX-based and no amount of identifying out of being a woman will make you exempt from it #if we refuse to acknowledge the group that is actually affected by these issues we won’t get anywhere in achieving equality #gender critical #radfem #gender abolition #sex not gender #terf

[ilynpilled]

i can fully understand the gripes with certain misogynistic tropes/writing issues that are present in the execution of some of cersei’s writing, but i will never understand the “she should have a redemption arc” or “she should be more likeable/less morally dark” perspective. that is not what her character is or has to be to make it great. wanting more female anti-heroes or “redemption arcs” with moral greyness and complexity of the level that asoiaf gives to primarily male characters is entirely understandable, but do some of you people even like cersei as a character, like at its core? like this is not about criticising the execution of certain things when it comes to this character, this is about taking issue with her as a villain fundamentally, which i just do not agree with at all

#i also do not understand why she is juxtaposed only w her brothers #in this respect #like if u wanna take issue w not as many female anti heroes that r allowed the level of true moral greyness of j theon etc i get that #but thats a whole text problem like a family isnt a monolith they r different characters with different drives its not a competition between #them #all three r dealing w some very very diff things too like they r distinct characters #and i honestly dont think cersei’s character set up works with a redemption story like she specifically is way more interesting as she is #she is a discussion of tropes when it comes the ‘female villain’ and u can take issue w the execution but i like the concept a lot #like she is written the way she is for a reason why do u want her to be a different character entirely #like if u want this why not advocate for george making a female character whose story would actually work with the redemption trope instead #of making their writing weaker and less trope busting #ig i just really like with cersei the idea that her being an evil perpetrator doesnt erase her being a victim of misogyny and vice versa #like i like that challenge that she is deserving of sympathy for these things without the need to redeem her or make her ‘likeable’ #patriarchal violence will affect all women #and the story deserves to work just as well with someone u r not supposed to root for #its about the humanization of these people #evil doesnt exist in a vacuum #and it makes perfect sense that these specific systemic conditions create it #and then perpetuate it

[swagyna]

intersectional feminism trending but all the posts talking primarily about how stupid radfems are rlly just sums up the state of modern feminism

#instead of shitting on women you don't like why aren't you actively talking about how black womyn and native womyn are treated #why aren't you talking abt how class and health and geolocation affect womyn #why aren't you talking about transmen and the misogyny they still face on a systemic level #ik a lot of radfems complain a lot abt males but y'all steal our posts like it's candy

[cowboymater]

none of the batboys are "woman-coded" or undergo the "female experience" bc you motherfuckers actually talk about them instead of stripping their backstory for parts and slapping them onto your special guy so that the 839584th whump fic on his ao3 tag can have some extra kick

#if you're mad at this post then it's probably about you #hit dogs holler etc etc #you are not absolved from participating in misogyny just because it affects you #like sometimes i think y'all would rather die than talk about a character who is also a woman #mia dearden helena bertinelli stephanie brown cassandra cain etc etc ad nauseum #their interesting traits and lore have magically migrated to a man and then you'll call the man ''female-coded'' #fucking maddening #fandom misogyny #crosspost from twt mind ur business #dc #dc comics #batfam #batboys #naming names: #dick grayson #jason todd #tim drake #i haven't seen anyone make an argument for damian yet #which like. if i Had to hazard a guess #it's probably bc the venn diagram of fans who think like this and fans who irrationally hate his guts is just a circle

[werewolf-transgenderism]

gonna start biting if people keep saying "gay men keep getting more and more shows and movies while lesbian stuff gets cancelled and that's the fault of gay men" like 1) infighting about it isn't going to solve the problem when queer media is such a tiny portion of the media landscape and 2) the villain you're looking for here is misogyny along with homophobia. the proportion of media centered on women vs men is incredibly unbalanced in GENERAL and adding queerness into the mix just heightens the misogyny it's likely to face from audiences and the studio execs responsible for greenlighting projects by adding homophobia into the mix, stop starting fights about who gets what percentage of the crumbs left for women and for queer media to claim and focus on the big picture (we shouldn't HAVE to be fighting over crumbs in the first place)

#I see these takes and it's like. do you not see the huge amount of energy that goes into trying to convince studios to renew gay shows also #like the enemy here is the general culture of homophobia and misogyny which disproportionately affects wlw media #quit doing infighting over crumbs when we all deserve more

[lurkiestvoid]

"transmisandry/transandrophobia does NOT exist!! transmascs can ONLY experience TRANSMISOGYNY"

---> tagged "tme"

#which is it bestie #are they exempt or not? #make up your mind (: #rambles #anyways #zero people are exempt from misogyny #its a systemic oppression. it affects literally everyone #for 'intersectional' “activists” ppl try SO hard to gatekeep gaslight girlboss #and it's just making a hell of a mess in several communities #transandrophobia #transmisandry #antitransandrophobia #antitransmisandry #gonna have to come up with a new '___ do not interact' at this rate #maybe MERFs #masc exclusionary

[god-u]

people on twitter are being real weird about chance.. that man is dead so idk what the point in some of those posts are now. if anything i’m really keeping his family in my thoughts. it’s crazy seeing anyone my age go out like that and i’ve lost family the same way. i’ve lost friends from shootings and more. it’s okay for people to feel shock about something like this. you aren’t better than anyone for saying you don’t care because he was *insert -phobic* when you probably have family who disregard your own identity for the same reason but you’d still cry if some shit like this happened to them because of the little good you experienced with them even if the bad outweighed it

#many of whom are still supporting artists who let their music and movies play in israel or constantly listen to abusers #so it’s okay when YOU separate the art from the artist but if you don’t like them then everyone has to hear it?? #saying this as someone who is trans and clearly affected by racism and misogyny #things chance was dumb enough to support before being exposed #if you don’t care just don’t say anything #but you really aren’t as moral as you think you are #if my mom passed of course i’d cry despite being subjected to her abuse growing up and her still denying my identity #that man was not an abuser even if he was shit in other ways as far as i know #it’s easy to keep quiet and literally just say nothing #you can acknowledge both things or simply not speak at all #it’s not hard but we also aren’t going to dismiss the fact that he had terrible beliefs #chance perdomo

[spitblaze]

Hey uh I don't feel like getting confrontational with internet randos and I'm...genuinely confused about what this is trying to say. This was on my post about how men and masculinity aren't inherently evil and a bunch of people were agreeing with it. Like I'm not about to sit here and say that white trans dudes have it just as bad as trans women, we don't, that's not what this is about and it's not a contest. That being said. Are they implying that we don't face our own unique form of societal backlash and oppression? It’s nice to be able to talk about the kinds of things we face with a word more specific than 'transphobia' but I get why people would think it's annoying. Is this more about inter-community stuff? Am I missing something here??

I'm very aware that I could just be being the exact White Trans Dude Being A Pussy they’re talking about but I just. Genuinely want to understand what's being said here lol

#spitblaze says things #i need to make it VERY clear. this isnt a contest. trans women have historically and presently gone through a lot worse #than trans men have. especially in thr states. they are the first target almost consistently. #to my knowledge transandrophobia was the word we were using to tlk about the *specific* ways that trans mwn are discriminated against #the awful cocktail of misogyny homophobia and toxic masculinity affects different populations different ways #and i dont think trans dudes are 'pussies' for pointing that out?? #but again. i feel like im missing something here. idk