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aro-culture-is · 10 months

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More of a question, hope it’s okay to ask this type of stuff but as a polyamorous fluitic aroaceflux person, does it seem valid to also have times where you want to date many people because you desire the many connections beyond friendship but due to being aflux fluitic, disabled/nd, and busy with personal life, you may not be able to interact much/do many activities that most people have expectations of in relationships? I’ve always found that so draining and restricting on me having the expectations but i want a relationship with people without the high expectations or worrying about seeming disinterested in the relationships. I just want an easy go with the flow wavership. Does it seem wrong if I were to have many relationships with my limitations, or is it understandable?/gq /nfta

(gonna be real, no idea what nfta stands for as a tone tag - probably not any of the various niagra related or trade association related things we found lol)

generally speaking: it is always valid to want certain types of relationships, but I suspect the question you're asking is if this is practical.

there's some good and bad news, in my personal opinion: first, yeah, bad news, that sounds hard as fuck to manage and find partners who want it. the good news though? tbh someone who is already good enough in your books with responding to shit as an a-spec disabled person is much more likely than the average person to at least consider it, if not try.

i think the best thing to say here is this: relationships are always gonna involve some exchange of energy and preferences. i'm not here to tell you exactly how to go about that, but i would advise that if you wanna be in any sort of polyamorous relationships, especially in a wavership, you're gonna want to brush up on communication skills, boundary setting, and conflict resolution. You're gonna need the ability to recognize that sometimes your partner(s) will want something like your time and attention when you really don't have the desire. You'll need to be able to respond effectively to that - in the moment, can you step back mentally, assess the situation, and say to yourself, "I think in this situation, even though it is uncomfortable, this is necessary.", or "I feel like I can't do this right now, but we've discussed alternate options like reminding them of a resource."

It can be hard to find the line between disability and comfort zones, personally. I won't try to advise you on that type of matter - only that you'll want to ensure that you practice awareness of discomfort that is bad for you and discomfort as your brain setting off unneeded alarms at something new, something that once was associated with bad things, or all sorts of "fun" little things. This is incredibly important when in relationships with unique formats or expectations, since you'll often be exploring territory without a map; learn how to navigate discomfort as a sign rather than a roadblock.

I hope any of this helps? it's mostly just... my thoughts spat out onto a page. Generally speaking, I anticipate that you know most of this, but it might be helpful to see another person's take on it. I wish you luck, kindness, and spoons.

#Anonymous #not aro culture #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod leo #advice #idk what else to tag this with tbh

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cooldudes-kinhelp · 2 months

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White Wings Care Kit, with a focus on usability during school.

Wing Backpack

Wing Clips

Feather Earrings

White Shawl

@lightfarerdistortion Hopefully this suits your fancy! I tried to gather some items that were on both sides of the budget spectrum, as well as subtle vs more obvious. Thank you for your patience <3

#mod leo #filled requests #angel #angel kin #angel wings #care kit #angel kin care kit #white wings #wings

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small-system-culture-is · 1 year

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Small System Culture is not having a headmate for EVERY situation, but everyone makes it work when we work together

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#mod leo #yeah!#small system culture #small system #plurality #plural #endo safe

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yourfaveisdivorced · 1 year

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PROFESSOR SADA and PROFESSOR TURO from POKEMON are divorced!

#submission #professor sada #professor turo #pokemon #your fave is divorced #yourfaveisdivorced #mod leo

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whentheycrynegativity · 8 months

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Just watched the new pokemon presents today and I love how stupid these look I love these guys

#pokemon #mod mion #mod leo #pokemon presents #nintendo

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enstarsbb · 2 months

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do you think you’d hold another big bang for the next year? i couldn’t sign up for this one but i’d be really interested in the next!!

it's definitely a possibility! i (mod leo) really enjoy running bigbang events and i definitely plan on running future events (both bigbang and otherwise) in the future. i would love to make this a yearly thing if life permits, and would definitely want to expand my mod team and take all i've learned from this year's bang into consideration going forward!

#anon #mod leo #enstarsbb qna

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tmnt-kin-lair · 5 months

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guys what Is it with me being Strange Little Creatures

#i am. turtles. i am various versions of Specific turtles #i may or may not be a kobold #i am an Orc. i am various homestuck guys #what Is my deal <- its the autism and mental illness and also systemhood #mod leo #leo moment #🔷⚔🌌

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citylightsrpmemes · 2 years

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Mystery Dungeon Sentence Starters

[ taken from pokemon mystery dungeon games || be sure to specify on multis || feel free to change as necessary ]

"The world's full of cheaters, thieves, and liars. There's nothing to believe in anymore."

“I was lucky to have known you. Though the parting hurts, the rest is in your hands!"

"There are plenty of criminals out there. They are caught and punished, but... but... truly bad people... don't really exist anywhere."

"The important thing is not how long you live, it's what you accomplish with your life."

"You have to be strong on your own.”

“You have to go home... Tell everyone about what happened here. So that... nothing like this ever happens again."

“Don't you understand? You made me strong.”

“Not one of their lives is without meaning! So never think that you're not wanted ever again.”

“Everything ends eventually. Even if history is not changed. “

“While I live, I want to shine.”

“We can exist here! We can live here! And that alone is something that we should be happy and grateful about!”

"Whatever I do, I do it stylishly. That's my motto."

"Change your point of view even a little, and you might find an entirely new picture."

"A child's dream can't be destroyed by adults."

"I'll be fine! I'm always fine, aren't I?"

"This... this isn't how it was supposed to end..."

"Time can heal most things, even if some hurts seem insurmountable at first."

"It's a pleasure to meet you! Oh wait... No, it's not..."

"No one says what they mean. It's all just lies and lip service..."

“That's why I've never had any friends, until now.”

"Look at my eyes. See how serious I am."

“It gets lonely when no one believes in you or what you say... But if you have even just one friend who'll believe you... then you'll be really happy.”

“When two spirits meet and go through so much together... they must be drawn back together. They will surely meet again.”

#rp meme #roleplay meme #sentence starters #roleplay starter #ask meme #rp memes #Ask memes #mod leo

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thiscoldheart · 2 months

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emma and dexter + kisses

ONE DAY (2024)

#*#one day #one day netflix #one day spoilers #emma morley #dexter mayhew #ambika mod #leo woodall #emma x dexter #userbbelcher #muse inspo #ship inspo #otpsource #romancegifs #tvedit #netflixedit

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stevenrogered · 2 months

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ONE DAY

↳book > screen

“If you muck me about, Dexter.” “I won’t-“ “I mean it, if you lead me on or let me down or go behind my back, I will murder you. I swear to God, I will eat your heart.”

“I won’t do that, Em.” “You won’t?” “I swear, I won’t.”

And then she frowned, and shook her head, then put her arms around him once more, pressing her face into his shoulder, making a noise that sounded almost like rage. “What’s up?” he asked. “Nothing. Oh, nothing. Just…” She looked up at him. “I thought I’d finally got rid of you.” “I don’t think you can,” he said.

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admireforever · 2 months

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One Day

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aro-culture-is · 2 years

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okay okay i think i fixed the playlist link, please let me know if it's working !

the problem has to do with tumblr adding it's referral/tracking aspects to the link automatically. I'm not sure that I can prevent it from doing that, since it immediately added it back when I deleted it, but... in the meantime, if anyone wants to play around and lmk of any better ways to link to it without tumblr's janky referral system, the direct URL is under this. Also, I'm not particularly familiar with Spotify, so if there's parts of that link which are unnecessary, lmk of those as well.

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5QJBvqv37eou5L4wUMs8k5?si=zOuHr14iR5-4gJfICKvTGA&nd=1

#funnily enough we can't access spotify player widgets because they automatically track you #and we have so many privacy / anti-tracking things installed #that privacy badger is like jfc no we're not opening this that's a terrible idea #uhh #not aro culture #not aro #exactly?#uh.#mod leo #ig i don't really do this i got called in for tech support #(another system alter)#look if anyone needs more tags they get to add them later i'm out #Spotify

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cooldudes-kinhelp · 5 months

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Na'vi Stimboard - Forest and Water