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pluralkittenz · 28 days
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Based on that one jesus meme
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genderqueerdykes · 1 year
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a past therapist explained to us that plurality is extremely common in trans people because we are very used to having to live alternative lives in order to stay safe, or keep things quiet and live relatively peacefully. whether or not that person dissociates or develops trauma doesn't really matter, from a young age we start living several lives-it only makes sense that many of us adapt to live as many people.
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leafstem · 2 months
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whats the funniest way to come out as plural
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parsnipkit · 1 year
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What are endogenic systems?
Just a little thing I decided to do because a lot of people just don't know what they are, and still try to get involved in this dumb drama Do not reblog to syscou.rse blogs, or if you know your blog might attract bad attention (I'll also use my digression to block anyone who doesn't respect my existence. this is inherently not a fair debate!) Edit: can't believe I have to say this but radfems will be blocked without any engagement
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shipaxe · 1 year
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My experience being wrong about multiplicity
Hi. For a year and a few months more, I believed I was a system. Why did I believe this, and what are some reasons I did, as well as how I realized I was wrong? Why I thought I was a system Around September of 2021, I labeled myself as an endogenic median system. Upon finding the system label, I did nowhere near enough research before labeling myself as one. It felt like the non-traumagenic community didn't care; if you thought you were a system, you were one! If you didn't, you weren't. It felt black and white. Eventually, I realised I had trauma I was unaware of, and switched to the label traumagenic. I was no longer median, either. In less than a year, I had 100+ "alters", almost all "fictives". While this can happen, I don't believe I was nearly as stressed as I would have needed to be, and just.. didn't feel right. Other factors that lead me into the belief I have multiple other disorders. Specifically, I suspect I have BPD, and the dissociation, mood swings, sense of emptiness, and identity issues impacted me a lot. I mistook these symptoms for OSDD-1. I subconsciously started sectioning off parts of my identity, and felt more and more separate- hence the switch from median to multiple. I am also fictionkin and polymorph otherkin. Around 20 of my "fictives" ended up being kins. I am also, to put it simply, lonely. I never feel like I fit in. In the system community, sometimes I DID feel like I fit in. When I didn't, someone else was "chilling in cofront". A lot of them were like imaginary friends to make me feel less alone. Those ones don't even feel like a part of me, but they're not separate people, either. They're just.. figments of my own imagination. To be honest, I've felt much lonelier upon learning I am a singlet. How I realized I was wrong Honestly, it was somewhat obvious. Many of my "headmates" felt like they were a part of me, and if we had different bodies, it wouldn't be the same- because they were me. I also subconsciously started to copy symptoms I didn't have, I switched as I wanted, I was fictive heavy- which can happen, but it's rarer than people realise. My trauma was not severe or repetitive. I could go on. A big problem in the system community is the "everyone is valid" mentality; I believe MUCH more research should be done before labeling as a system, and not enough people talk about it. Another issue is that not a lot of people talk about being wrong, and personally, I was terrified to tell people I was wrong. It's fucking difficult. There's too much "you're valid! you're valid! you're valid!" and not enough "hey, it's okay if you're wrong!". When I panicked around the time I realized I was wrong (and denied it for weeks), I never received an "it's okay if you're wrong". All I got was "hey, calm down, you ARE a system". I think the community has a lot to fix. This has fucked up my dissociation issues and identity problems worse than they were before. I wish I had realized I was a singlet sooner or never jumped into this label. Not all of these mean you're a singlet, but if you relate to this, please be open to the idea of being wrong. Thanks for reading this. Please share this- my goal with it is to help others. Have a good day/night, drink some water, and know that it's okay to be wrong. ☆
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equinoxiansystem · 1 year
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i just think it's really wild that people act like plural systems and DID don't exist at all when i saw it with my own two eyes growing up. my mom had it, i remember watching her switch and seeing a literal toddler talk out of an adult's mouth. it's just really weird that people act like it's this new internet phenomenon when it's really not, and if you know what to look for, you'd realize there are actually tons of systems all around you in every day life, not just on the internet.
a lot more people are systems than even realize it, too. my mom never knew formally about DID or plurality but i can 100% tell you with confidence i watched her become completely different people, with completely different voices, handwriting styles, body language and age ranges many, many times over the years, and not on purpose. i could tell my mom wasn't doing this on purpose. not always, but we are often times this way because our parents or guardians were.
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plural friends/support groups
So I've seen some pretty hot takes from r/systemcringe. I'm not even sure where to start to be honest. I guess I'll start with the one that's echoing through my brain. Actually, there's two but I'll give them each their own post.
They seem to think that someone wanting plural friends is some gross statement of wanting people to suffer. Now this is mostly from a trauamgenic standpoint.
Having had a group of plural friends I hung out with some years ago, I can honestly say that none of us were thinking "I wish more of my friends suffered". Mostly what we were thinking was "Oh, you go through some of the same shit I do, you can understand in a way singlets don't." We could talk openly with each other about system stuff in ways we couldn't with singlet friends and family without having to stop and explain what "this" is or what "this" means. Sometimes you don't want to be the teacher, you just want to hang out with some friends.
It gave our system mates a chance to learn safe interactions, if they didn't know them. To learn that not everyone was evil or ready to abuse us. To learn that we can have friends too. And it gave us people to lean on in the bad times, people who understood just what those bad times were like. It gave our system mates a chance to be out for more than trauma and therapy things, to learn to have fun like "normal" people did.
It's definitely NOT a bad thing to want plural friends. It has nothing to do with wanting other people to suffer and everything to do with wanting a peer group. And you know what? Systems are allowed to want that, too.
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radiostaticsmile · 22 days
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Just realize how fucking funny it is to be like
'Gentle reminder: I am not a murderer uwu 💖💕❤'
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partypacking · 6 months
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The fun thing about being plural is we have 8000 genders between us.
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stars-in-our-skies · 11 months
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can plural (and honestly, kin & alterhuman) spaces normalize:
fictives having a name that doesn't match the character theyre an introject of (same for other -tives)
fictives being canon-divergent
having a name / quirk / appearance associated with a character / person you aren’t an introject of
typing quirks in general, and not just when theyre associated with a fictive or a character
being fictive-heavy and having multiple fictives from the same source
fictives having relationships that differ from their source material
NOT ASSUMING you know who / what someone is an introject of, IF they are even an introject, or that you are entitled to that information at all
Please and thank you it would make our lives a lot easier
~ K
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neuroticboyfriend · 7 months
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Thoughts on endogenetic systems
Endogenic systems are epic. They're actually what helped us start to heal from doctors trying to "cure" us because they thought my headmates were just hallucinations. I was front locked for a long time bc of that trauma (and intracommunity pluralphobia did not help). I'm still very frontstuck and struggle with a lot of denial.
But endogenic systems just existing made me realize that it doesn't matter if my headmates are psychosis or not (and, we did have some identity delusion related alters, so we're partly endogenic too). That opened me up to reconsidering my plurality. I've also realized that even though I've been frontlocked, I myself am a median subsystem (i.e, I have facets - versions of myself connected to certain times in my life).
There's so many ways to be plural, and us experiencing things is what makes us real, not the validations of doctors - especially not singlets.
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pluralkittenz · 2 months
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Guys please, if you are OSDDID sys and minor stop think know what form of healing want while still be a CHILD. Is ok not know, is ok be confused, is ok be scared. And no, do not look for final fusion as a 13yo. If you do actually is have OSDDID you much much probably still need your alters !!!
— Calico/Gnarpy [xe/they] 👽
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genderqueerdykes · 1 year
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living as a system is honestly the important part. coming out as one isn't necessary, if you all feel it won't be safe. you do not have to disclose being a system, but living as one in whatever capacity you are able to is important. realizing it and figuring out ways to express yourselves and live your individual lives helps a lot more than telling folks who may or may not get it, such as family
try to find ways to enrich your lives as best as possible. let yourselves dress differently, talk differently, act differently. do differently hobbies. eat different foods. go to different places. pick up new interests. engage with different media. create different types of art. whatever constructive influence you feel from others inside, go ahead and nurture that
you don't have to know everyone's names yet to live and be independent. whether or not you have dissociative or other types of barriers shouldn't hold you back from being yourselves, whether that's in your headspace or innerworld, or expressing it on the outside in a way you all understand. this is crucial for your collective health and well being. it just helps to be able to be yourselves
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meanwhile-in-iowa · 1 month
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We saw this fucking meme and resonated so fucking hard with it.
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the-rest-is-silenc3 · 1 month
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Endogenic and non-disordered focused discord server
I made a (currently very primitive) server focused on endogenic and non-disordered plurality! currently it's just me and two bots so if anyone would like to join it would be great. ofc people with CDDs and traumagenic people are welcome! just be aware it's a space focused on endogenic and non-disordered experiences. I made it because I've seen a push for separating CDD related spaces with endogenic plural spaces, which I think can be a very good idea if done right.
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tommyssupercoolblog · 20 days
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friendly reminder that while knowing you're not the completely the same person as your source or doubles is important and healthy, full source seperation is not a requirement and you're allowed to enjoy + feel connected to your source, period.
Also if someone tries to FORCE YOU to change your NAME???? bite them. have we not learned that names are a personal and important thing?? have trans ppl taught u nothing???? bestie my name is Tommy and you don't get to tell me it isn't.
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