#mutual confidence

[betterlifeinoverall-rethabilep]

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#+6-Months #Ann Landers #Forgiving #Friendship Caught Fire #Good And Bad Times #How Love Makes Allowances For Human Weaknesses #How Love Settles For Less Than Perfection #How To Catch Fire In Friendship #Love Is Friendship #Love Quotes #Loyalty All The Time #Music #Mutual Confidence #Quiet Understanding #Quite Understanding #Remember #Sharing

[jasontoddenthusiastt]

Batman Annual #25

Before Talia took him in, before he was dunked in the pit to have his memories restored, even when operating purely on survival instinct, he always split a meal with the other homeless people. It may not have been essential to his survival, but caring about and helping other people when he couldn’t even help himself was just always such an intrinsic part of Jason’s core.

#so much so that it prevailed over basic self-preservation #my guy lost 90% of his cognitive function and he’s still out here helping people in any way he can #my post #new headcanon: that’s why he stole all 4 tires. because he wasn’t just feeding himself in crime alley. #or at least he was planning to expand his work now that he had more confidence in his ability to feed and care for himself #I mean he also isn’t the type to brag about his good deeds yk? we all know he was putting up a tough guy façade when Bruce found him #a mutual asked abt Jason’s white streak so I directed them to hush which ofc reminded me of this book #rather than it being exclusively a pit thing imo it makes more sense for it to be a combination of actual health related issues #like the chronic prolonged mental and physical stress he had to endure coupled with the fact that superboy’s punch kickstarted his body #in ways that are unknown to modern science #and then the pit also had a hand in it (probably??) #(imo). like Talia doesn’t have it. neither do Damian or Ra’s or anyone else who’s been in the pit. #jason todd #dc #batman annual 25 #comic panels

[cheese-water]

Leo and Sunny together gives me tons of feelings because at surface level, it’s just two very similar girls fighting over very childish things like who copied who and who likes Pepito more. But looking deeper made me realize just how similar they are.

It’s a funny coincidence that both Sunny and Leo have pivotal character moments when they interact. One right before and one right after.

Sunny’s is the mermaid family meeting with Tubbo before she was told about Leo’s prank, and it’s hard to watch. This little girl so desperately wants to be loved by others. She so desperately wants her other parents to meet her and take care of her that she’ll take any semblance of them and love it to moon and back. It’s too bad the remaining shards she has are horror stories and a body by the dock.

Leo’s happens right after saying “hola” and a few other words to Sunny and running away up the hill. When Foolish catches up to her, she’s already sitting in a chair and partway through watching a video. The video was an ai Foolish cover of Gary come home in spanish but replaced Gary with Vegetta (Vegetta vuelve a mí). Leo continues watching and it becomes apparent just how much she is affected by her other father’s disappearance. The depressing scene only darken when discovering that the ai cover was made a month before she disappeared. Two and a half months is a dangerously long time to hold out hope. Especially when it can all come crashing down on you in an instant.

Leo and Sunny are deeply lonely and crave the love and attention from their other parents that their single dads just can’t provide. They’re just a couple of girls god damnit let them live :(

#qsmp #qsmp eggs #qsmp leonarda #qsmp sunny #qsmp sunnysideup #disclaimer idk too too much about leo’s past pre-purg so this might not be as pivotal to others compared to her other rp #However I accidentally caught this moment live and have been thinking about it ever since #So leo enjoyers I hope I did you proud #Sunny enjoyers too ofc I just have more confidence in interpreting her than leo lmao #Anyway I’ve been thinking about this for a few days then prison happened and displayed tubbo and foolish’s single dadness #(them being one of if not the first to notice the other’s kid was by themselves and immediately inviting them to hang) #Like wow #Also love how whenever the other’s parent isn’t around Leo and Sunny just tolerate each other #Contributes to their mutual loneliness that this is a unspoken agreement but I may just be chatting #who knows

[humblemediagenius]

The need to share my OCs with everyone vs the fear that people won't be FUCKING NORMAL FOR THE LOVE OF GOD

#seaspeak #SORRY I'M LIKE #so paranoid all the tine #im just like #will you enjoy my OCs normally or will you say things #will you keep it to just you and me or bring it to places I'm not at #pleade if you're a mutual or something Do not talk about my OCs if I'm not there #my ocs aren't pieces of media they mean so fucking much to me #and the idea of people doing stuff without me freaks me tf out #i don't want a fandom I don't want a following i want a handful of normal friends #i like sharing my stories and playlists and stuff but god I'm so so so so so so so afraid people will take it too far #and so when I try to be more confident I immediately retract back into my paranoia #i just wish I had some reassurance that people mean the best #because i feel like I can't trust people I normally trust!!!!! when they literally have done Nothing wrong #THIS ISNT ABOUT ANYONE HRRE BTW ITS JUST PARANOIA

[gg-is-a-loser]

Yo, drawing reqs open? Hell yes.

Gotta ask you to draw these

Blossom, Ice/Rain, He/Him (oc trade w teethwitheyes)

Retired Princess Ashmaker, She/Her, Nightwing

(She also has a Nightwing disguise, but I'm leaving it out bc I don't wanna overload)

i hope ashmaker’s features look okay, since the base you used was a general dragon and not a nightwing specifically i kinda guessed some things

#sorry if she looks wrong #im more confident about blossom but referencing from a painted style reference was also challenging #neither of these are me complaining btw !! it was the fun type of challenging #thanks for requesting !! #wings of fire #wof #wof art #wof oc #gg draws #watermark because i’m scared of ai :( #also no way hit tumblr mutual teethwitheyes

[bougainvillea-and-saltwater]

Who named you Shulyolviim, Laat Dovahkiin, and made you the fireglow of Sun's wrath?

This is my very first attempt at drawing the portrait of my Last Dragonborn, Jia. I dreaded to start this piece, but I'm actually very very VERY proud of how it turned out, especially since I considered myself clueless. I'm aware there are things to be improved here (I couldn't draw clothes whatsoever, LET ME LIVE), but I cut myself some slack since I hadn't attempted to draw since I was 12 or so...🥲

As for Jia, she appears in my fic here, and she's a Nord/Imperial spellsword with a weakness—as you might imagine—in the fire element, Martin Septim's long-lost great grand daughter, Akatosh's favorite human, and Miraak's soulmate and smoocher.

#now that I'm more confident at drawing I'm *sure* I'll try to draw her miraak too! #or maybe the two of them together... I have some references! #a huge thank you to Beloved Mutuals™ who encouraged me on this... I see you I love you! 💖 #my art #last dragonborn #skyrim oc #skyrim #the elder scrolls #tes oc #tesblr #digital art #oc: jia #the priest and the dragoness

[bumblingbabooshka]

#Chakotay/Tuvok #lowkey bitch x highkey bitch <3 true love #'You're assuming the first one will work. [pretty confident huh??] / Yes.' [obviously.] #Chakotay: Wooow never thought I'd see YOU working on the fly. Didn't know you had it in you Mr. Rules. #Tuvok: (lining up his tal'oth ritual card) Well you know one does what one must. #Tuvok's the type of dad who walked uphill both ways in the snow to school - barefoot in the summer. #I love Chakotay's little smile...it's only there for a brief moment but it's a nice character moment #he could have been just annoyed/angry or not shown any particular emotion at all...I like that he smiled #OH AND THEN THE END OF THE SCENE??? #Where Tuvok goes 'When he comes back I'll...'Improvise' another.' and Chakotay smiles full out after being surprised?? #They're just fucking around <3<3 mutual snark #st voyager #Chakotay #Tuvok

[swinging-stars-from-satellites]

please pray for me and others, it's been an incredibly emotionally trying day

#nearly got into a car accident bc apparently if I get confident in my abilities I also get stupid and misjudge things #youth group was... rough. it just was. I can't say a whole lot but it just was really really rough #I feel like there's this tension wound in my chest wrapped around in my ribs and it's being pulled on and tangling the ribs together #which. I need you to understand. is a metaphor I haven't used since i was 17. that's where I'm at right now #please pray for me and the youth group kids. please #Lu rambles #prayer request #if you're a close close mutual I might be willing to divulge some vague details but otherwise I won't get into it

[hawkeabelas]

I have some decent job prospects on the horizon (and a job interview monday!!) but in the meantime my account is in the red (thanks to a $30 fee every time i forget like... a $5 auto payment. thanks bank!) so if anyone can afford to help me out right now I'd appreciate it! If you can't just pass it along if you can.

Ko-fi link

cashapp $seokeefe

#donations #mutual aid #donation request #donation post #mutual aid request #salem says #i feel weird doing this lol but shit's been rough #and i'm not confident enough in my skills to do commissions #maybe i'll open up some little 5$ sketch commissions??

[1pcii]

One piece headcanon: Zoro is POSIC+

(POSIC+ : (the) Perception of Object Sentience, Individuality, and Consciousness)

I think his relationship and perception of things like his swords (which he see's as having distinct personalities and consiousness') aswell as his view of the going merry (chapter 327, last page) being just as sentient as usopp and luffy make it so i wouldnt consider it a streatch to interpret his character this way.

(further context) <- seriously check the tags on this out if you want a better explenation its so good.

#sorry i cant have original thoughts ever. but the tags the link leads to are just rlly good and i probably couldnt word it better myself #-honestly! #1pc #text #one piece headcanons #roronoa zoro #posic+ #autistic headcanon #autistic zoro #<- i will however say that you could also attribute this as a part of neurodivergent-coding. as the personification of /hyperempathy toward #objects/ideas can be linked with autism (and synesthesia but thats off-topic) #which links to posic+ and osor #it could also just be a swordsman thing. in still pretty early on in the manga so im not AS confident on that statement #but considering the other two major swordsmen are MIHAWK and TASHIGI at this point... hm #but also his relationship with the going merry! he views her as just as sentient as usopp and luffy do #idk i feel like im just ascribing lables to things that just.. exist in canon lol #but as a posic+/objectum person myself i think this extra layer to his relationship with his swords (and merry) is very interesting! #ik this is a long shot but other objectum/posic+ zoro fans if you have any thoughts. any at all i would love to hear them! #psii.txt #also would like to mention thats posic+ and objectum/osor are not mutually exclusive! (though an osor reading of zoro is also an idea... 👀)

[ghoulishautism]

I dont think my freelance work is gonna be as taxing as I assume it would be, so I gotta think...

#danny phantom #May have stolen the first idea from a mutual who was asked about a DP reboot #Picturejasper20 to be specific #the second one ive been thinking about for a while now #I also wanna do some self indulgent stuff with my ocs BUT i dont want the comic series to be mostly ocs yknow? #I didnt include episode rewrites because I dont feel confident enough to tackle those yet

[lesbianlotties]

10 CHARACTERS/10 FANDOMS/10 TAGS

tagged by @natscatorrcio thank you sm <3

oh i'm so going to cheat and add more than one per fandom

yellowjackets: laura lee + lottie

stranger things: robin

the haunting of bly manor: dani

warrior nun: camila + ava (+ beatrice)

the old guard: quynh

the wilds: shelby + leah

the locked tomb: harrow + ianthe

fear street: sam

the haunting of hill house: theo

a league of their own: esti

god that was difficult. i'll be ranting about it in the tags. anyway

tagging: @dufrau @hellmo @reesesfastbreak @femmeetart @yee-hawlw @lilolilyr @annieofhearts @lottieurl @sapphicscience (if u want/haven't been tagged!)

#in case you're wondering yes i still get scared tagging mutuals <3 #BTW!! esti comes included with lupe and jess i don't make the rules they just do #HOW'S THIS SO DIFFICULT #somehow i even struggled to pick 10 fandoms hgsjdfhjgf #harrow is my favorite ever but somehow the answer was ianthe so there you go. both #choosing quynh feels like cheating but i swear i mean it hsgjdfhgjf #choosing theo over nell and olivia while actively rewatching the show right now is TOUGH #i'm confident about only 3 of these answers guess which ones hgjsdhfgjhf #okay i'll shut up now!! #thanks for tagging me!!

[tio-trile]

This is about GOS2 but not quite -just wanted to tell you how refreshing (and calming) it is to see someone dislike something, or disagree with something, or someone (Neil, in this case) while being completely polite and respectful to people who do like it (the show, the ship, this season specifically, whatever) and not doing personal attacks or being insulting or downright hostile or aggressive. Just... Liking what you like, not liking what you don't like, and being in your own "bubble" so to speak. I adore the first season, and some moments in this one (not the season in general), and I've had to see and start avoiding absolutely wild stuff since 2019, from haughty superiority from book first fans calling people who liked the show absolute idiots, people directly attacking fanwork creators or even Tennant, Sheen and Gaiman themselves, to even worse stuff I'd rather not think about. As you can probably already imagine, that specific kind of dumpster fire has only gotten worse since the release of S2.

My take on fandom has always been to enjoy what you enjoy and ignore the rest unless it's something serious with real-world implications or consequences. It's always stressed me out how people can get, to the point that for several years I stopped engaging with fandom entirely, and I just wanted to say this, I guess, because it's been a breath of fresh air. I wish more people engaged with fictional material and fandom the way you do. Cheers, hope you have nice day and that this wasn't too weird of a message to get

This is really beautifully put, thank you for the nice message! Yeah all-in-all, these are just a show/a book/content made for people's entertainment, and there's absolutely no reason to get to the point of attacking the cast and crew or fans personally.

#ask #nice ppl #I'm not gonna pretend that I'm always level-headed and calm but I know better than to lash out on a public blog that everyone can see #And 1. Neil Gaiman WAS still following me on the first few days after the show came out at the peak of my anger so #as mad as I was I still can't bring myself to say the worst words in front of my...mutual...? 😂 so thank you Neil for controlling me ig LOL #2. some of my old friends actually really liked the show and that doesn't change how much I like them? #Just like how my friends and I have different opinions on media all the time? Sometimes I'm in the majority sometimes I'm in the minority #3. I have outlets aka DMs and groupchats with like-minded ppl (or ppl who don't care) who I trust where I can spew the worst venom 🤣 #Basically where nobody else on the receiving end will ever be able to see #So I guess the lesson is...find someone you can confide in so you don't have to show your true colors to everybody #so you can appear calm and collected in public alksdjhalskdhas

[echo-bleu]

Just finished the second part of this piece, I think it's my most complex artwork to date... Now I'm scared of posting it because everything lately just kinda flopped :'(

[ID: Screenshot of Procreate, on a detail of a digital painting, showing marble statues of Celegorm and Huan, Caranthir and Curufin.]

#ngl it's gonna be a serious self-confidence blow if it flops #and it inevitably will #celegorm #huan #caranthir #curufin #echo's drawings #silmarillion #silm art #tolkien #boy we are *struggling* with this again #and i hate that i even care #like the few mutuals (or not mutuals) who always reblog and leave nice tags should be enough #and the friends i show outside of social media #but it never is #i also know that it's a fairly small active fandom #and the art i see that does get a lot of notes #deserves it #plus there's a lot of selection bias for it to even end up on my dash #but still #sorry for the whine

[ante--meridiem]

Well. Potentially inadvisable message I sent a few days ago not really expecting a reply to did, in fact, get a reply.

#personal #for those with enough knowledge of blog lore to know what I'm talking about here: #I caved and messaged First Ex/Former Closest Friend again #out of a mixture of the fact that I keep circling back to that friendship breakup on an approximately monthly basis that I knew #I'd never be able to really let it go unless I at least tried once #and the confidence from my knowledge of him that if our positions were reversed *he* would have tried #in any case. He's not sure if we'll succeed in being friends again but he *is* willing to talk #on the condition (which I offered in my initial message) of me not telling any of the people we mutually know #that he ended up having issues with #that we are speaking with #& there is (unsurprisingly since there was clearly a lot missing from the stories I'd gotten) more to said issues than I'd heard about #which it sounds like he's going to elaborate on when we talk #I think the biggest difficulty for me in re-establishing contact like this is going to be accepting that he and my mother #outright despise each other now #which. l mean - I'd never claim she's perfect #she can be very blunt in a way that comes off as just *mean* and hurtful and I've been hurt by that too #but she's also been a much better parent to me than most people's parents seem to be to them #it's possible maybe even likely that if some of our arguments when I was younger had ended in us cutting ties rather than #eventually talking it through that I would see her the same way Former Closest Friend does #but they didn't and she's been at certain points amazingly supportive since #so it's likely I'm going to have a hard time reconciling the version of her he's going to present to me with that #even though I'm totally open to believing that he's justified in how he feels about whatever happened #& I'm not going to be able to process it out loud irl bc that would violate the 'not telling people involved about this' clause #so there may be a lot of venty personal tumblr posts coming soon to a blog near you

[unlikelywrestlingfan]

time to go eat a snack before I start making an Okada and Jay's dynamic connects to their dynamics with Shelley flowchart

#elle you don't even go here (nooj) stop analyzing #BUT THE CONNECTIONS #no stop #unlikelywrestlingfan #because like. okay okada was baby in tna and shelley is one of the people who looked after and helped him and then as we all know jamie lit #rally lived in shelley's house on excursion but okada is the golden boy that everyone loves and respects and jay despite all his success is #still the coward who isn't confident enough to rely on his fighting spirit and his jealousy (even tho there's nothing to be jealous really #ecause jay is just as talented) of okada isn't all about shellley but it is absolutely partially connected to that. like it's not caused by #their mutual connection to shelley but it does make it worse TO ME AT LEAST #anyways sorry this is horribly scattered in the tags and non specific i am tired and my inhibitions are lessened #that knife guy from new japan #stealer of nick's ring gear #don't make me say it #tag monologue