Okay, but do you know what my favorite love language is? Trying.
Imagine your f/o trying to learn your native language so they can better connect with you, trying to bring it up in casual conversation as they fumble up on words. (endearingly).
Imagine them trying to learn how to sing a song in your native language, trying to understand the deeper meanings behind it.
Imagine your f/o connecting with you and your culture, and the same as well to them! Sharing each others' traditions and celebrating them. Even if some values may not align, they will full on respect your beliefs.
☁︎ proship/comship DNI ☁︎
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was recently party to a Terrible Plumbing Incident, so here are some shame-free tips for people whose parents never taught them how not to wreck a toilet:
never flush anything other than toilet paper or like,, a single paper towel (this excludes tiny things like bugs and chewed gum)
this ^ does NOT exclude things like pads, tampons, diapers. tragically, sometimes bio waste has to be thrown away. just bag it up.
if you’re taking a huge shit, flush halfway through so there’s less risk of it clogging the pipes
additionally, flush before you wipe for the same reason, and if you’re using a ton of tp, you can flush in the middle of that too. remember- no matter what they taught you about water conservation when you were a kid, it’s always better to be the guy who flushed a weird number of times than the guy who blocked up the toilet
relatedly, you do not need mummy hand when you wipe. 4-5 squares should do it when you pee, and if it’s messier (poop, period, etc), use that amount and just repeat until clean instead of using one huge wad
bonus:
if you go to the bathroom and leave any visible residue, you have to clean it up. if it’s on the seat, wipe it off. if it’s in the bowl, look around for one of those gross little brushes and see if you can scrub it away.
similarly, you should clean your toilet with a brush and actual toilet cleaner every few weeks if not every week, because it holds all the gross stuff and also is wet, so mold loves it in there
if you’re having a huge shit, turn on the fan lol
also, if you were neglected as a kid and you have questions about “basic” stuff like hygiene, chores, etc. because no one ever taught you, and you’re too nervous/embarrassed to ask anyone irl, you are more than welcome to send me a dm or an ask and I will do my best to help 💜
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Papyrus plays rock paper scissors with sans but sans just falls asleep midway into it
Oh this is incredibly silly I love it.
Imma have them use the Japanese version of Rock Paper Scissors (Janken) purely because thats the version I did when I was really little and also its slightly longer therefore theres more time for sans to fall asleep lol.
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thinking about crowley falling because he wanted to know answers that the almighty wasn't willing to provide, just for "asking questions", and about how he's the serpent in the garden of eden who tempts eve and adam to eat the apple which gives them knowledge of good and evil which leads them to fall from the paradise in eden. thinking about how so much of crowley's existence has been defined by questioning heaven and god, and by the suffering it brought.
thinking about crowley consistently not telling aziraphale any of the details of just how bad heaven is, no matter how much he wants aziraphale to be free from heaven's influence and cruelty.
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SKYSTAR DOES WHAT TO ARC
Man send this guy to cat hell let his dark forest edition be one eye eating him
HE MAULS HIM
Arc goes into his territory and Skystar RIPS! THAT! BOY! UP!!!
And then later Skystar uses the will of StarClan to justify his invasion of RiverClan, which BTW is 10000% consistent with A Forest Divided (a post redemption arc book) where he completely misinterprets Fluttering Bird in a way that would get him more power.
So if you just ignore the fact they tried to write him as being so scared :( he doesn't know what he's doing :( for the 400th time, it totally tracks. That's Skystar. That's who he is.
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Hey uh I don't feel like getting confrontational with internet randos and I'm...genuinely confused about what this is trying to say. This was on my post about how men and masculinity aren't inherently evil and a bunch of people were agreeing with it. Like I'm not about to sit here and say that white trans dudes have it just as bad as trans women, we don't, that's not what this is about and it's not a contest. That being said. Are they implying that we don't face our own unique form of societal backlash and oppression? It’s nice to be able to talk about the kinds of things we face with a word more specific than 'transphobia' but I get why people would think it's annoying. Is this more about inter-community stuff? Am I missing something here??
I'm very aware that I could just be being the exact White Trans Dude Being A Pussy they’re talking about but I just. Genuinely want to understand what's being said here lol
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