#narcissicism

[linear9]

I’m sharing this because it puts on display something that many people experience, but don’t have the emotional/psychological tools to unpack it, and so they end thinking it’s all in their head. Also, Boze is very good at putting into words the subtleties that make this interaction narcissistic abuse, gaslighting... 101. In summary: it’s not about the bill, it’s about the principle; the mother’s unwillingness to accept that what she did was wrong, or to apologize for it.

Edit: the instances where the daughter seems to waver made me straight up want to give her a hug. She comes across like a child who just wants mommy, who’s willing to reconcile with her, forgive all of this, put it all behind her, and love mommy... if she just took a sliver of accountability

#youtube #boze vs the world #narcissicism

[beetplease]

#so this is what dating myself is like #don’t think I’ll ever date anyone else #is it self love #or narcissicism #idc #really needed this today #ngl #costar #message from past self

[480pfootage]

The “realistic creepypasta” is gone too far. Thanks for letting us know! My faith has been restored. Now I can freely write BEN, and Zalgo as redeemed benevolent characters! :D

I wouldn't say it's gone too far lol it's just severely annoying to see people write the pastas being *all* abusive. To me it seems like blatant ableism seeing as most if not all of them are mentally ill with often stigmatized illnesses (i.e. schizophrenia, narcissicism, aspd).

Someone tagged it like this in the post you're referencing it was sumn like "if you're gonna write them as abusive assholes, say it's because they're serial murderers and not because they're mentally ill" and that's banger advice

Most of them are more likely to jsut be aloof and not there completely instead of full on "I'M GONNA SLAP AND VERBALLY ABUSE YOU AND YOU'LL STILL STAY WITH ME BECAUSE YOU LOVEEEE ME 😈😈"

Either way write what you want I can't stop you, I just block whoever's writing stuff I disagree with

#im a hater okay #only MY interpretation of them is correct SHUT UPPP #and it's not like I don't think jeff's an asshole I definitely think he is one #just not an abusive one #he cuts you up because you both like it!! #this whole thing started because I saw a tiktok that said it was 'realistic headcanons' and i was HATING #creepypasta #creepypasta fandom #jeff the killer

[jzq]

true crime channels be like Murdering is a sign of antisocial personality disorder and narcissicism so we’re going to say this guy is those two things because he is a murderer while admitting that he shows no/very little symptoms of those mental illnesses

#ableism #true crime #dont ask why im tagging this idk

[wern]

is it ableist or stigmatizing to talk about how drug use contributes to abuse? to admit that some people only abuse their family when drunk? to call yourself an "adult child of an alcoholic"? no? then how is it ableist to talk about how NPD contributes to abuse?

people blatantly lie about NPD being a "harmless" disorder but it does actually put you at risk of being abusive. and it is possible to spread the info that not everyone with NPD is abusive without denying that sometimes NPD is a driving force behind abuse. without denying that victims whose abusers have NPD will often have key experiences in common, much like children of drug addicts, children of depressed parents, etc. if you don't like the term "narcissistic abuse" we can dance around it and find new terminology, but the fact is NPD can contribute to specific patterns and manifestations of abuse, and if you deny that fact you're not really helping anyone, you're just alienating victims. and we really don't have to pit victims of abusers with NPD against everyone who has NPD. i admit that the whole narcissicism infotainment industry contributes to that perception, but it should be possible to criticize those channels without criticizing victims speaking honestly about their abuse

#im on my soapbox about npd again #sorry folks

[canadian-riddler]

Do you think Arkhamverse Riddler is capable of love? Not necessarily romantic or anything. I just mean, do you think he has the ability to care for another living thing or person? Did he ever have that ability? Could he find a way to fee those things again?

Well, to answer this we have to go back to his being a narcissist. If he is willing to do the work to treat his disorder, yes, he can care about people. If he isn't then no, because he sees people more as means to an end. If he were willing to admit he had a problem and willing to commit to the years of therapy it would take to address it, he could learn to care.

I don't know enough about narcissicism in children to really answer if he was ever able to care about others and we don't see enough of him as a child for me to really make a good guess.

#so says Indy #asks #anon #Riddler

[safesthavenoutsideofexistence]

Each and every planck length inch of my narcissicism is utterly validated

#this made bark so insanely loud

[rebeleden]

Watch "Teyana Taylor & Iman Shumpert Divorce Over NARCISSICISM + Teyana Calls Out Blogs As Well!" on YouTube

CC FATAL POLY BS

NEVER MARRY PUBLIC PENIS

[glitteringenerality]

Martin Kippenberger

i <3 blank= hyperindividualist, neoliberal, identity construction, narcissicism, vapidity, hipsterism. but also playful and engaging

seems to be about 80s new york arty bohemia

i <3 jeans and smoking 🤎🤎🤎 iconic phrase

interesting way of presenting photos- think of presenting own photos in similar way

or whiteboard with magnets, scrap metal with magnets, pinboard, etc

the failed masculine

ineffectual, not fit for purpose. use similar imagery.

[a-few-good-books]

How much larger your life would be if your self could become smaller in it; if you could really look at other men with common curiosity and pleasure; if you could see them walking as they are in their sunny selfishness and their virile indifference! You would begin to be interested in them, because they were not interested in you. You would break out of this tiny and tawdry theatre in which your own little plot is always being played, and you would find yourself under a freer sky, in a street full of splendid strangers.

G. K. Chesterton

#g. k. chesterton #quotation #narcissicism #self-absorption

[pondsquatter]

reread detective pony and i personally cannot believe hs2 had the audacity to reference dp when dp manages to dunk on post canon content *this* severely from five years before it was released

#txt #dp!dirk recognises his dumbass mistakes!!! probably he's built all of the emotional honesty into it in a semi ironic way #but the Thing Is #that having hundreds of thousands of words of dirk wank where he's all out of self loathing and has just gone all into narcissicism #is not only depressing it's boring as all fuck #dirk is a good character not in spite of but because he cares so much about his friends #and dp is fundamentally about how love is the only thing that matters #which is why it's good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #the longcat passage and the ripping on derrida is interesting to a degree #but love & respect for other people's autonomy are the most important themes at the end of dp

[nandysparadox]

Nanda used to be just my persona, you know, basically me, but now she's my pointy-hair child and I love her so much *sOBS*

#I mean #she's still kinda me but not really #she just kinda drifted away from me in so many ways that I think of her as a completely different person now #like me in an alternate universe you know #anyway she is my daughter and I love her #peak narcissicism

[mueritos]

I get random art critiques from time to time again and usually its like “i think this character would look better like this (insert opinion)” or something along those lines, and sure they’re kind of annoying because i think its just the standard to ask someone if they want a critique or not, you shouldn’t just flop them around. However, the worst part is when you find out those people are 1. Not even artists 2. Are beginner artists (i mean like, tumblr art style, still stuck drawing anime, no sense of anatomy, etc) 3. Weird hentai dudes

#sometimes you get a combination of the 2 and 3! #those are the worst #yea i suppose you should take every critique seriously no matter who its coming from #but whos critique am i gonna listen to more: an artist who draws bad anime art or someone with anatomically correct art style? #someone who just started drawing or someone whos been in the game for years? #idk its also my art i think i know above most people what i need to improve on the most #idk! just had to get some thoughts out! #hope i dont sound pretentious or whatever #im not rcdart level narcissicism yikes! #and some critiques are valid yes but most times theyre things im already aware of lmao

[asexualglimmer]

We are 1 hour into seeing my grandmother - who has not seen me in person in a year - and she had not asked me a single question about myself, my job, or my life. Just in case you were wondering.

#the narcissicism in this family is fucking insufferable #i leaned away from her saying hello bc i didn’t want her to kiss me #and she was so OBVIOUSLY disappointed. like i’m not allowed to have boundaries as an adult #my life the universe and everything #brain problems

[anik]

u can beg me to stop this relentless narcissicism time travel but it won’t work

[obscurism]

I send you a ❤️... now talk

I genuinely don't understand people who have an inflated sense of narcissicism/ego to the point that they think the world revolves around them and will do anything to grasp at attention when it isn't being directed at themselves.

I think it's very telling of emotional immaturity and that insecurities are being projected onto others.

#asks