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chaos-in-one · 1 year

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People with npd: Hey can we not be treated like abusers just for our disorder and be treated like actual human beings instead of monsters?

'Narc abuse' mfs: Is this an excuse to trauma dump on a complete stranger who is most likely a trauma survivor already?

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thestuffiammadeof · 8 months

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She sat there,

hands folded across her lap,

small and hunched,

looking about at the giant pit she found herself in.

Crumbled towers of pedestals from long ago

on every side.

She finally realized she had created one for everyone

but herself.

The deepest attention seeker of all,

basking in shadows.

Misfortune was too simple a word to describe

her current situation.

Her life.

What could she do now?

Everything had culminated into this moment.

The moment where nothing was left

but herself.

She looked down.

And cried.

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starseers · 2 years

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Narcissistic people are very sweet actually, I've never met one that hasn't put more work into being a good person than most people. They inspire me to be good myself and I'm even dating one who has been the healthiest relationship I've been in. They are not monsters, and if they are they are the ones who are misunderstood and deserve compassion.

#🛰️✶.*̥˚#narcissistic personality disorder #npd #npd safe #narcissismawareness #narcissist #narcissistic #narcissistic people #npd awareness #npd stigma #i dont know what tags to use sorry yall ༎ຶ‿༎ຶ

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nothing0fnothing · 2 months

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What is it with narcissists accusing me of being "afraid of narcissists"?

Babygirl my literal existence enrages you, if I was scared of you I'd stop.

#narcissistic abuse #narcissistic people #narcissistic abuse awareness #narcissistic abuse survivor #narcissistic abuse is not real #except it is #literal professionals say it is #narcissistic abuse is real

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thebloomingsoulss · 11 months

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Narcissists have no sense of boundaries

Boundaries establish what is acceptable and not acceptable in your life. For many people, boundaries are second nature. For instance, most people will not take insults while lying down. It is simply not acceptable for them to be disrespected this way. Normal people are able to acknowledge boundaries in their everyday life. Narcissists, on the other hand, have no time for such frivolities. A narcissist will have no problem intruding in your personal space because they believe they have a right to be there. They get a high from flouting social norms and rules because they believe these rules do not apply to them, and nobody can do anything about it since they are superior to everyone else anyway.

📚 Richard Campbell - Dark Psychology

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nacissisthunters · 1 year

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"When someone tries to gaslight you, it's important to remember that their words do not define your reality."

#gaslighting #manipulation #manipulate me #narcissistic people #actually abused

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annalouisemay · 1 year

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Narcissistic Abuse & Self-Addiction: A Guide for Empaths & Sensitive Souls | A Mayastar Energy Healing Article | Read at https://www.mayastar.net/narcissisticabuse.htm or visit https://youtu.be/ak9QYGesvz0 to enjoy the audio with my latest animated artwork. EXCERPT: "Narcissistic personality traits are common to everyone. We have all experienced moments where we thought or acted in a way that, looking back, was selfish, manipulative or dishonourable. But that’s where narcissistic traits differ from narcissistic pathology: someone who has Narcissistic Personality Disorder has those traits as their default setting. They don’t look back as an observer of themselves & feel guilt or regret over their actions..." Latest Mayastar Meditation: Starseed Ascension Activation | Lemurian Light-Codes Channelling Mayastar Light-Language Meditation | https://youtu.be/51Wwt4PWvOU Special Offer | Goddess Diana Mirror Shield Activations Course | https://www.mayastar.net/diana.htm Energy updates, spiritual guidance & daily affirmations from Mayastar on Maya Muses | www.mayamuses.net Energy updates, spiritual guidance & daily affirmations the Mayastar YouTube Channel | https://youtu.be/kEVwqK4QhF8 Artwork by ALM-Maya: Intersomnia Transmutations | Documenting my journeying on the astral plane ♡ Visit www.deviantart.com/annalouisemay or www.flickr.com/annalouisemay for more ♡ Also find me at www.pinterest.com/alm_mayastar & www.instagram.com/annalouisemay Enjoy! Xxx

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chaos-in-one · 2 years

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I wish all narcissistic abuse blogs a very shut the fuck up and stop being ableist pieces of shit

Narcissistic abuse is not real and never will be

#it's just emotional physical or psychological abuse fr #npd #npd thoughts #actually npd #npd mood #npd vent #npd safe #npd stigma #narcissistic personality disorder #actually narcissistic #narcissist #narcissistic people #narcissistic personality traits #narcissismawareness #covert narcissism #narcissim #pathological narcissism #malignant narcissism #surviving narcissism

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courtttaaney · 2 years

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narcissists ALWAYS blame their problems/issues on you. you are NOT the problem, they are. remember that.

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im--really--tired · 11 months

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Soooo, I just told my boyfriend that I got a new job, but it only starts in August, and he said "If taylor Swift Show is in November and you are only going to get paid in September it means that you are not going to buy me any gifts until 2030" like...

I just got this amazing opportunity that is going to pay me the shows that I want to go, and he's only thinking about the gifts that I will not be able to buy for him every month. I know he sees this as a very important part of a relationship. Maybe it is his love language (even though he didn't buy me any last week), but this is so upsetting.

#bad relationships #relationship #help help help #personal problems #poetry #post #answers #questions #narcissistic people #narcissistic behavior

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moonbeam-dreamer · 10 months

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The Storm (Continued from part 1. Ending)

I made sure to keep it at the speed limit and safe for the animals, while tending what I could to my wounds. Blood streaked down my head and into my shirt, thankfully of black material. My hand dripped and soaked into the fabric of my jeans. Moose, the poor sweet lab/German shepherd mix, was beside himself with anxiety, panting whining, and trying to muzzle me to claim my attention. He’d always come to me when shit hit the fan and this was worse than anything he’d been through. The cats were crying, which aggravated the pain, but I couldn’t bring myself to yell at them. It wasn’t their fault they were afraid and put in this situation by a psycho. Besides, I was scared too, and it made my already high blood pressure soar. There was nausea, dizziness, and I couldn’t get myself to stop shaking from the tension in my nerves. The highway out of town was a straight path, and it made concentration an effort. I turned on the radio to metal to keep me awake and somehow made it to town without further incident.

Inside the city, however, I sent a prayer to the Goddess Brigid, asking her to keep the eyes of the townsfolk away from my vicinity. I didn’t need anyone playing hero and involving themselves, least of all the nosey biddies at the salon. They had a way of spreading gossip that would put the women on ‘The View’ to shame. It wouldn’t matter once I got home and secured the animals. I could bandage myself up and hide until the wounds healed. Li told me to call if I had issues or needed help, but he was better off keeping to his own affairs. I’d have to message my father about this and I was already dreading his reaction. Maybe I just Wouldn’t call him, and let the incident pass? It wasn’t like I was going there again. She’d just have to find her own ride to QT for smokes and a way to charge her phone. Her friend and drug dealer could order her an Uber to the laundromat every day for all I cared. The days of being her enabler were at an end.

By some miracle, I pulled into the drive and killed the engine. The rush of quiet sent my nerves into a frenzy. Moose was finally relaxed in the passenger seat and the cats had stopped howling. I was thankful to have made it home, but the eventual call to my father made me anxious. I was going to need a reason for my decision, but I wasn’t going to revisit the events. Better they stay between two than play out for the world to see. It could wait until tomorrow, however. The animals needed to be made comfortable after that hellish journey, then I had to see about myself. I wasn’t looking forward to the cleanup process, specifically running a washcloth over the gashes, then using alcohol to disinfect. There would be pain enough to make the dizziness worsen, and I hadn’t been able to stand up yet.

Before I could take hold of the doorhandle it was ripped away and an imposing figure in black kneeled at my side. The sun on the drive over had been blinding, but the shade from my trees perfectly shielded the rays and after a moment of fuzziness incomprehension, Li’s face appeared before me. Those beautiful pastel silver/blue eyes surveyed the damage, assessing the best way to move forward, while his jaw tightened to keep his anger under a tight lid. If he blew up now it was going to make it worse for both of us. There was much that I wanted to say, explanations, the entire backstory that involved childhood trauma, abuse, drugs, and narcissism, but nothing would come out. It was scary how normal that was becoming. After every fight and argument, I internalized and disassociated. I was a commendable zombie. It seemed that the time I spent out of her grasp hadn’t truly changed anything.

In the end, he was the one to break the silence.

“I’m going to take them inside. Then, you’re going to a hospital”. His tone was gentle, yet firm. From this point on, he was taking over and I had no choice but to follow his lead. My body was past the point of taking my own orders, and it let me know.

The last thing I remember was the world tilting and darkness rushing in. There was a feeling of warmth, safety, then nothing but the blessed silence.

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thebloomingsoulss · 10 months

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How to get revenge on a Narcissist

You can get revenge on a narcissist, but not the way you think. Heal, live well, move forward, accomplish your goals, live your best life. Narcissists hate when you are doing better than them, or better without them. As crazy as it sounds its insulting to them. It drives them crazy. Even if they are the ones that left you, they can not handle if you are doing great without them. Some will literally try to find out how you are doing to reassure themselves that you still want them.

-Maria Consiglio

#narcissistic behavior #narcissistic personality disorder #narcissistic people #spilled truth #spilled words #advice

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aveegrex · 2 years

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I’ve recently exited a very close yet just as unhealthy platonic relationship. Me and this guy never labelled each other as anything but friends, but it was a very special sort of friendship for me. Something extremely intimate.

Yet I don’t think I was appreciated as much as I used to appreciate. He would lash out on me anytime he felt insecure or just sad (oh how closely he connected sadness and anger). He would spew the most heinous shit my way when something didn’t go his way. He was manipulative, abusive and toxic. He used to trauma dump on me any given chance, and sometimes used me as a tool of self-harm.

Yes, I think I should have ended things sooner. After he told me he literally collects ‘dirt’ on everyone around just in case. After he gets wished death upon me when trying to prove that he has a full right to steal art from independent artists since he grew up relatively poor.

I had to end things after he used so many of my insecurities to force me into doing things I hated, but I didn’t.

I didn’t, because it was too hard to cut off someone who shared so many of my interests. Who seemed to genuinely care when I told him about my troubles. Who I could talk to for hours on end.

I didn’t cut him off soon enough, and I regret it so much. Because I’m now 23 and I feel like I’ve wasted 2,5 years of my life on someone who didn’t deserve a minute of my time. Because I feel like I wasted the opportunity to make better friends with someone, well, better. Not toxic. Not abusive. Not a fucking manchild who’d spiral into the darkest fucking violence every time he was told no.

And I feel like I have no chance to make better friends now because everyone I’d love to befriend is already ‘taken’. I know it’s probably so not true but this thought is very hard to expel.

I hate the fact that for the past 2,5 years I could have been much happier, much more energetic human being. That I could have focused on personal growth and making better connections and having much better time and living my own life the way I wanted it. Not spending countless nights subject to narcissistic abuse.

And I hate the fact that now I can’t get this voracious thought out of my head. The one that keeps telling me that no one better can love me. That I do not deserve love that doesn’t come with pain. That I am unloveable and should just give up on the thought that someone might genuinely like me and love me for who I am, who’d love me the same love that I would love them.

I hate my abuser for he wasted my precious time, for he plagued my mind and for he left me drained.

One day, I’m going to write the hell out of this, but for now, I just need to not waste any more time and find myself.

#aveegrex personal #narcissistic people #narcissistic abuse #platonic abusive relationships #narcissistic relationship #abusive relationship #abusive friendship #toxic ex #toxic frienship

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