the narc moment when you have to convince yourself you're better than someone who hurt you because otherwise you'll be unable to function.
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living with NPD is having an internal struggle with who you are, how you look, how you’re being perceived, etc. that doesn’t match the way you act externally.
it’s having debilitating crashes over your own appearance and other aspects of yourself, whilst simultaneously trying to make sure others still know you’re better than them, that you’re still superior to them.
this condition hurts us more than a lot of people seem to think. if you seriously believe that those around us suffer more from our condition than we do, then you’re severely uneducated about the internal sufferings of having NPD.
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So for those of you who don't know. Personality disorders are commonly caused by a combination of childhood trauma and genetics. Many narc abuse believers would have ended up as narcissists themselves if they were genetically predisposed to it.
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This thought provoking, unflinching 2020 documentary about the psychology of Donald Trump is a must see (especially for those that support him). Four years later and what was revealed in this documentary is even more poignant.
It’s discouraging that the people who need to watch it won't.
The entire doc is available on Amazon and Apple TV.
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tw abuse and ableism
NPD traits + BPD culture is recoining "narcissistic abuse" and "borderline abuse" to mean "the specific types of abuse that narcissists and borderlines are subjected to by abusers who take advantage of our disorders". Obvs these don't have to be the only ones, I definitely think "autistic abuse" is a thing under this framework too, but these are just the most obvious of "phrases that have been said before but THEIR meaning was WRONG and mine is better"
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𝕬𝖓𝖙𝖎𝖘𝖔𝖈𝖎𝖆𝖑 𝖙𝖗𝖆𝖎𝖙𝖘 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝕹𝖆𝖗𝖈𝖎𝖘𝖘𝖎𝖘𝖙𝖎𝖈 𝖙𝖗𝖆𝖎𝖙𝖘 𝖋𝖑𝖆𝖌𝖘
Antisocial traits and Narcissistic traits flags
You may be wondering, why did I make flags for the 'traits' associated with NPD and ASPD? There are multiple reasons why someone could use these flags over the flags specific to the disorders: someone who isn't quite disordered but has traits of said disorders; someone who has the traits, but doesn't fit the criteria. Somebody who experiences narc traits or antisocial traits due to another disorder or neurodivergence. People who refuse to classify their differences from society as 'disordered' (please note that this point is not anti recovery if you are a danger to yourself or others). Etc.
These are self indulgent redesigns of equally self indulgent flags I made (but haven't posted), but I think they're neat so am posting them.
𝔄𝔫𝔱𝔦𝔰𝔬𝔠𝔦𝔞𝔩 𝔱𝔯𝔞𝔦𝔱𝔰
Antisocial traits
[ID: a rectangular flag with five horizontal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are: red, dull reddish magenta, bluish black, purple, dark purple. End ID]
𝔑𝔞𝔯𝔠𝔦𝔰𝔰𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔦𝔠 𝔱𝔯𝔞𝔦𝔱𝔰
Narcissistic traits
[ID: a rectangular flag with five horizontal stripes. The colors from top to bottom are navy blue, red, orange, pastel yellow, pastel blue. All of the colors are dulled. End ID]
The color choices for both were made by taking inspiration from the ASPD (link) and NPD (link) awareness flags I found. My goal was to make my flags similar to the disorder flags, while retaining a sense of originality.
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Constantly torn between "I'm not for everyone" and "I'm so great everyone should love me! Wtf?!"
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Most Nazis didn't have ASPD or NPD.
Most Christian extremists didn't have ASPD or NPD.
Most child abusers don't have ASPD or NPD.
Most clansmen don't have ASPD or NPD.
Most billionaires don't have ASPD or NPD.
Most rapist don't have ASPD or NPD.
ASPD and NPD are commonly cause by child abuse. You blame childhood trauma survivors instead of society that routinely abused people.
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Apparently my narcissism was very obvious from the outside and I just never noticed because I thought I was legitimately better than everyone.
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szpd, ppd & npd traits culture is HATING needing attention and needing to talk to people because "needing" something from other people implies that they have some kind of power or advantage over you, and youre letting them. even though you're better than them you still need them around and you just flip flop between hating yourself and hating them all
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