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coins-crow · 2 years

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How do I ask a pretty girl out on a date???? she wears period corsets and Mary Jane heels daily and is so pretty and she's funny and gorgeous and hhhhhhh I just want to ask this pretty girl out please help me

gonna cry i have a fear of rejection

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sapphic-cultureis · 3 months

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Neurodivergent sapphic culture is wondering how on earth you're ever going to get a girlfriend when you don't ever actually interact with other people

#sapphic #sapphic culture is #wlw #lesbian #gay girls #nblw #wlnb #nblnb #neurodivergent

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butch-with-a-deep-voice · 29 days

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"I think this is my favourite way to touch you" she said lovingly, while gently tracing circle after circle with her nails along my bare back.

"What?"

"Scratching your back, I think it's one of my favourite ways to touch you. That, or playing with your hair."

I post a lot about how stone4stone love has been healing for me in a way that is so profound and almost spiritual, but finally having it in person has only taken that to a whole other level. My darling femme saying this caused my entire world to slow down as I processed what, up until that point, I thought impossible. A fantasy that would never fully be spoken.

For context, my top three favourite ways to be given physical intimacy/love are the following:

Having my hair played with over long periods of time

Scratching my back and scalp

Massage, especially when chronic pain flare ups are bad

I react so intensely that it excites people a lot of the time. You'd think I was having sex if you were simply listening to the sounds from the other room (which is ironic given I actively hate receiving during, joys of being stone). For my entire life, for my nearly 15 years of dating, every single person before my femme has followed the same pattern.

They'll discover how positively I react to scratches/hairplay, and they actively engage in it regularly due to the advent of your new partner enjoying something that much. Inevitably they get bored but will continue because it makes me happy. Eventually though, the novelty fully wears off and the only true way I can get that level of attention is when I explicitly ask for it. I've often gotten sighs followed by "oh alright" as if it's some chore, or worse yet, half sarcastic "if only you made sounds like this during sex". Every single time I'd inevitably start feeling guilty, anxious, and simply stop asking.

The sheer number of times I'd ask myself "if I said I never wanted to receive during sex again, if I wanted intimacy in only this way, would so-n-so be upset" and the answer was always yes. Always. I'd begun to internalize that my way of receiving was a chore. That how I wanted to be loved was a reward to be earned.

Then comes this absolute darling of a femme, unprompted during our quiet night of non-sexual intimacy after a long day, casually dropping that her favourite way to show me physical intimacy is tied between scratching my back and playing with my hair. By accident in a single half-entraced phrase she took my perceptions of love, what I deserve from love, and what I could expect to receive, shattered them into a thousand fragments, and then stitched them back together into a mosaic that would make the Byzantines weep.

There is something to be said for your partner loving you in a specific way because it is how you like to be showed love, even though it's not their preferred method of showing it. It is a league-of-its-own different feeling to find someone who shows you love the way you want to be shown love because it's how they prefer to show love. She has taught me that and I am never settling for less again.

I've said it before, and I'll say it again.

Stone4Stone is Holy.

#this femme y'all #i love her so much #finally writing about the trip #oh vampling... 💕#stone4stone is holy #bite me #stone4stone #butch #lesbian #wlw #nblw #sapphic #stone lesbian #stone butch #stone top #butch/femme #butch/femme culture

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quirkysapphic · 20 days

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I imagine me and her wearing matching hoodies

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apexious · 2 years

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i want to cuddle up to you and trace your body, as you're the most beautiful painting I will ever witness

#lesbian #wlw #sapphic #lesbian culture #wlw yearning #sapphic wlw #wlnb love #wlnb yearning #nblnb yearning #nblnb #nblnb love #wlnb #nblw yearning #nblw #nblw love #lesbian yearning #lesbian love #sapphic yearning #sapphic love

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t4t-culture-is · 4 months

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t4t culture is being in love and not being able to show it. t4t culture is being obsessed with your best friend, desperate for him to be more than just that. t4t culture is pining, its falling in love and being willing to do anything for a reciprocation of that love. t4t culture is true, kind, accepting love, that is everlasting.

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desiretoadore · 4 months

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Born to live in a little cottage on an island writing poems about and painting pictures of pretty girls, forced to live in a capitalistic society

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deathwishedx · 1 month

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New lingerie and window light fixes everything ♡

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totally-sapphic-posts · 2 years

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There’s something so inherently romantic in experiencing the mundane moments with the person you love

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trixic-culture-is · 1 month

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happy omni awareness day to omni trixics!

#trixic #nblw #nonbinary #queer #not trixic culture #omni #omnisexual

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sapphic-cultureis · 29 days

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sapphic culture is getting all giddy and legs-kicking-in-the-air-excitedly happy when you see a girl put 'wlw' or 'sapphic' in her caption or her bio

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#sapphic #sapphic culture is #wlw #lesbian #gay girls #bi girls #nblw #wlnb

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butch-with-a-deep-voice · 2 months

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Got a package in the mail from my femme, vampling. She's clearly covered whatever is inside in her perfume because it's sitting on my desk, and I just keep smelling it and getting hit with the thought of just burying my face in her neck while holding her 💕🥰

#she knows how strong my sense of smell is and how influential that is on me 🥰#not opening it until we can call tonight so it just gets to sit there teasing me #shes often an absolute tease with me so i suppose thats fitting 💕#god i love being a lesbian #oh vampling... 💕#bite me #butch #lesbian #sapphic #nblw #wlw #nonbinary #butch/femme #butch/femme culture #butch/femme things

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quirkysapphic · 2 months

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I want to make her feel I’m her home.

Her safe haven.

I want to make her feel happy even I’m the most shyest, goofiest person in the world.

Holding her hand, body close to mines.

To tell her how much she takes my breathe away when she walks towards me with her beauty.

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faeriesblog · 2 years

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i love my gf i love my gf i love my gf i LOVE MY GF

#lgbtq #wlw tag #non binary #wlw #wlw blog #lesbian #nblw post #nblw pride #wlw pride #enbylw #wlw culture #nb lesbian

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kitty-chewtoy · 9 months

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FAT IS SO ATTRACTIVE REGARDLESS OF GENDER

"Wweh weh biological laws of attraction" You fucking clod, there is more to love and attraction than breeding, but let's go there - you want the person carrying your baby to have body fat so they have energy to grow and feed an entire person and are also protected from severe injury. And hey if it's all about hormones, why don't all the Hollywood heartthrobs have male pattern baldness?

"Wweh weh health and longevity" Having a larger body is not an illness and in fact has a higher chance of making you live longer, as well as recover faster from injuries and illness. Fat people often don't go to the doctor until their symptoms are severe because doctors don't take them seriously, and then those problems are still blamed on their size. Many ailments thought to be obesity-related are also attributed to fluctuating weight that comes from a life of dieting - the belief that fat makes you unattractive hurts fat people's health!

"Wweh weh gross" Are you fucking kidding me, man?? You don't like a squishy partner? You don't like having your fingers sink in when you grab them? You don't like the way they jiggle when they walk? You don't like ramming against warm, jiggly softness when you fuck them? Are you okay?? Do you need help??

Stop drinking the diet cult kool-aid and open your eyes!

FAT IS HOT!!

#lesbian nsft #wlw nsft #nblw nsft #sapphic nsft #nblnb nsft #dyke nsft #fat positivity #anti diet #kitty talks #stop being afraid of fat #your life will be so much better #diet culture

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t4t-culture-is · 6 months

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T4t culture is one being confident in their gender and the other having a gender crisis every other week

Honestly, felt

Glad you got each other to lean on tho

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