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#negative body image
incendavery · 1 year
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look at this photograph... wait, on second thought, don't
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san-sebastienne · 1 month
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The section of my closet that contains clothes I’m too fat for but can’t bear to get rid of bc they’re either really nice or have sentimental value is just growing and growing.
“But get rid of them!”
But did you hear they are SENTIMENTAL. they are my grandmother’s or the dress I graduated college in. They are the last time I remember feeling pretty. I know it’s damaging as fuck to look at them every day but I’m not ready to give up the idea that I could feel pretty again, and that’s probably even worse.
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monstersandmaw · 2 years
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Shy chubby orc who thinks that he will never be able to court you because he's not as muscular as the other orcs and thinks that you find him disgusting due to his tummy size :<
Turns out he's just been hanging around with the wrong people, and he's 100% perfect as he is.
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You can't hate your body into looking the way you want it to look.
Do what you will with that knowledge.
- Erika, The Crazy Medicine Lady
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unfindable-author · 8 months
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Fucking hell why do men only like fat asses until the women is fat? Who stared that bull
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goose-onthe-loose · 8 months
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The shitty thing about dermatillomania is that there's no winning. Not picking feels just about as bad as picking. Crushing guilt and self loathing versus infuriating frustration and self loathing. The only solution I can see is figuring out the hormonal issues that are causing the acne in the first place, and that's going to take time. I hate being around other people because it just reminds me of how ugly I am. I start college in two weeks.
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relearningmybody · 1 year
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Do you ever feel so fucking horny you’d fuck the next similar-aged person in the airport but then you remember that you don’t like your body and you’re like “ah… fuck” bc same
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h4turuth · 11 months
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Imagination
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anazen333 · 2 years
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After reading all the available books by Ali Hazelwood, I have come to the conclusion that she has types. (Yes, plural).
Women: must be short, small chested (and complain about their small chests. Not to mention complain about their bones sticking out. And how men ogle them).
Men: must be super tall, built like comic book heroes, and have huge…equipment.
Normally, I wouldn’t give a hoot about her personal preferences. But when one is spouting messages of diversity and inclusivity, and has had their first work be a major hit (that I myself loved, btw), then I’m just saying it would be nice to see said diversity when it comes to the body types of her main characters.
I’ve already ranted about romance heroines making me want to slap them because they have the gall to whine about their small breasts, especially modern day girls who shouldn’t complain since the fashion and beauty industries center around thin women so really, they have no right-
But my point is that if Ali Hazelwood can get away with inserting her personal preferences into ALL OF HER BOOKS (seriously, there doesn’t seem to be any differences between all of the characters - males and females - besides hair color, eye color, and skin color) then I think that gives me the right to do the same and no one should be allowed to judge me for it.
Thus, all my main characters will be:
Women: all will be 5’5, plus size, and thank the gods they were born with ample bosoms (and also how they have those womanly tummies we all have no matter what our sizes). And have butts and hips that sashay from side to side without even having to try. Because it drives their men wild.
Men: all will be no taller than 5’9, will NOT have 'full' lips, have the bodies of Japanese figure skaters (especially the flat butts), and have equipment so small their pants never look awkward (because really, men need to know there are women out there that don’t find the male wish fulfillment body type attractive. I certainly don’t).
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jessiesjaded · 1 year
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Wish I didn't have such an intense hatred of my hips and legs lol
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iamyourdensityy · 2 years
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TW: talk of negative body images and fatphobia
I keep thinking about it and kinda want to cut my hair, but I'm super hesitant to do it because I'm plus sized. I know this is just internalized fatphobia and stuff, but I feel like if I cut my hair it's just going to somehow make me look even fatter and that I can only do it if I get skinny. I hate that I think like that and it sounds horrible but I'm just so scared to do it because I don't want to end up feeling worse about my body than I already do. Has anyone else experienced this? Is there anything I can do or any hairstyles that I could try that would help? Idk, I just feel frustrated.
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cat-boy-tits · 2 years
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a lot of people who get top surgery celebrate graphic tees finally fitting how they're "supposed to".
and i would never begrudge them that pleasure.
but as a very fat person, that's not an option for me.
no amount of breast reduction will ever make graphic tees fit like they're "supposed to" on me. because they were not made for fat people.
99% of the clothes available to me were not made for fat people.
clothes will never look "right" on me, whether i get top surgery or not.
there's not really anything to be done about this. it just really bums me out in terms of like... transition goals. or lack thereof, in my case.
what am i supposed to be aiming for, as a very fat person. i was a very fat woman who looked bad in clothes, and now i will be a very fat man...who also looks bad in clothes. cool.
(this is not to say that all fat people look bad in clothes, just that once you go past like, 2x/3x, the options are shit. or non existent. it's hard to make that look good.)
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yournightingale · 2 years
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I hate this. I hate being so ugly, untouchable, unwanted, worthless, and unlovable. I'm terrified of being alone forever and wish so badly that I was beautiful and that I could find a man that would love me, but after trying for years I know that's impossible. My dream of getting married and having a family will never happen, and I was stupid to ever think it was possible. I'm only living for my Dad now, once he dies then I can die and put myself out of my own and everyone else's misery.
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I made a poem
It’s called One Size Fits All
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A bit of info before the poem:
I am skinny, I know that. I have been underweight most of my life. This spring I finally got over 100 lbs as my average weight. I am 5’5”. I know my struggles are not the same as others but I have always struggled with my weight and body image. Being trans has worsened that. Clothing that is labeled as “One Size Fits All” is often too big for me. That was the inspiration for this poem
Ok on with the poem!
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You know the clothing where the tag says ‘One Size Fits All’?
Those labels lie.
Well, at least for me.
If One Size Fits All doesn't fit, you’re not ‘pretty’
If I don't fit One Size Fits All
Then ‘all’ can't be true.
But if One Size Fits All fits you,
am I the one that should change?
If One Size Fits All is true,
doesn't it include your brain too?
Why isn't my mind like yours?
Your art is like water, it always flows in new ideas
My art is a dune
Blocking that water
Those ideas
From entering my mind
I need to become more like you
I need to be in the One Size Fits All of art
I heard there was not one but still
Every time I think I find myself, I falter
Will I ever fit in this one size?
Or will I always be the outcast in this
One Size Fits All
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carebearvee · 2 years
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why can i adore everyone elses shape except mine. even people that are thicker than me i think theyre absolutely gorgeous why cant i just love myself why do i feel the need to wither away into nothing
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rabidblasphemy · 1 month
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Oh dear sudden urge to cry and its body image issues again i hate this
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