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#negative thinking
positivelypositive · 8 months
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in the moments...
...when the negativity talks louder inside your mind than your thoughts and it gets difficult to ground yourself, you're still you.
don't hate that version of yourself. even if it feels like you're doing it to yourself on purpose. you're not a bad person.
you're a person who's struggling and that's all. give yourself as much kindness as you can and if the most that you can do is be less harsh on yourself, that's okay too.
your empathy is best used on yourself. you deserve that support too ✨
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wandoffire · 4 months
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wordsofwisdomandsoul · 6 months
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cleosmasterpiece · 5 months
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Hate to be a pessimist but nothing ever works out
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stoicmike · 3 months
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It is always so much easier not to think... -- Michael Lipsey
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bpdcrybaby213 · 9 months
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People say that other people won't want to be your friend if you're self deprecating and talking negatively about yourself all the time. Well then obviously I need friends I can say self deprecating things with and we can be negative together. I really don't need your toxic positivity, I feel how I feel about myself and fuck anyone who can't handle that.
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m0o0nsmile98 · 4 months
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When negative things messing my mind🙎🏻‍♀️
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symphoniedrang · 1 year
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Your heart's as black as coffee.
Call me Karizma
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redysetdare · 7 months
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No one ever mentions when your negative thinking is proven right. Everyone's like "that won't happen. You're worrying too much" but no one ever mentions when it does happen.. when your worrying turned out to be justified and right.
One time some people I viewed as friends left a server we were in with a few other ppl. I thought it was my fault at first but was trying to follow what everyone said "it's not your fault. You're probably overreacting." And I put it to the side. Turns out my negative thoughts? The ones that said it was my fault? They were right. Someone else in the server contacted them and they came into my DMs, aired out all their grievances, and that was that. I've never spoken to them again. (This is a vague description of a very complex situation. I kept it vague for a reason. Just do not make assumptions on who was bad here. No one was.) The point being my negative thoughts, the ones everyone says to ignored, were proven right. No one ever says how you handle that. Your brain suddenly have evidence - proof that things CAN be that bad. Proof that these negative thoughts CAN be right. It becomes so difficult to break out of that thinking when deep down you know it can be true.
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freyatarotreadings8 · 16 days
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Feelings of Guilt
Principle The sense of guilt always generates scenarios related to punishment, without you realising it. This is typical of the usual worldview. Every crime is always punished. As soon as you notice the slightest trace of guilt, get rid of that rubbish immediately. Do not let it spoil your life. Live true to your own convictions and you will never experience guilt. No one will dare to judge you if you do not consider yourself guilty. When you are free of guilt, you will never find yourself in a situation in which someone tries to threaten you with violence. No guilt, no punishment. Interpretation If you are struggling to shift a guilt complex, it is important to stop justifying yourself. This is one of those cases where treating the symptoms of the disease successfully deals with the cause. You do not have to convince yourself that you are not obligated to anyone. Simply observe your everyday actions. This requires a certain level of awareness. If previously you had the habit of apologising for the slightest thing, adopt a different habit. Explain your actions only when it is absolutely necessary. Stop feeling as though you owe something to others. Even if the feeling of being obligated continues, do not show it outwardly. When they stop getting the former knee-jerk reaction, the manipulators will gradually back off. At the same time, the heart and the mind will gradually get used to the new sensation. If you are not trying to justify yourself, then things are obviously as they should be, and so your guilt simply cannot exist. As a result, the need for ‘redemption’ will appear less and less often. Therefore, via the feedback chain, the outer form will gradually tidy up the inner content. The feeling of guilt will disappear and with it, all its associated problems.
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positivelypositive · 8 months
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just because...
... others seem to have larger problems, it doesn't mean your problems are any smaller.
your struggles need not be ignored or minimized. just because others are struggling, doesn't mean that you can't.
your issues need solutions too. your worries are not you being dramatic. you deserve love and attention. you're worth it ✨
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michaelbogild · 2 years
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There are two types of people in the world. Those who curse the rain and those who are grateful for the umbrella.
by @michaelbogild
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Some men see things as they are, and say why. I dream of things that never were, and say why not.
-Robert F. Kennedy
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saber-monet · 5 months
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Don’t Borrow Suffering! (How Negative Imagination Directs Our Reality Ex...
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bpdcrybaby213 · 2 years
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When you get semi good news but you're mentally preparing for everything to fall apart and go bad.
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