#no hard feelings if anyone wants to unfollow !!!

[thought--bubble]

Taking a little breaky break

This is just a heads up for my small little group of people on here. I have come to call my friends. I just wanted to let you all know that I'm going to be taking a much needed respite from tumblr and probably discord, too. I am feeling lost, sad,overwhelmed, and confused.

I know it sounds silly or whatnot, but all of this stuff is overwhelming and depressing, and I feel sick when I open this app at this point.

The best word to use, I guess, would be winded, maybe?

I joined Tumblr in Sept 23, and at first, it was really fun, a much needed escape from my daily never-ending list of crap to do.

I unfortunately learned how crazy this fandom can get early on and the hard way. I had hoped that that was just a one-off due to my newbie ignorance and took it as a lesson learned for myself.

But it's starting to feel like the drama never fucking stops. It just keeps going, and nice people, kind people, just get dragged and ridiculed for seemingly no reason. I will pathetically admit that I am a sensitive soul, and the things I've read and seen have seriously negatively affected me.

When people are catty regarding people they don't like or that don't like them, I can usually reconcile that to a particular degree. People are, in fact, people. Not everyone is going to vibe with everyone, and people will make jokes at others' expense, and it isn't exactly mature, but it happens.

That is what I expected when I heard this was coming. Some catty shit slinging between people who don't like each other.

But that isn't all this was, and I'm having a really hard time with that. I even thought, "Oh maybe some moderately rude jokes here and there where you know cultural differences and stuff could account for that" like I'm from the northeast and we can be harsh out here. So something that may be offensive to someone from another area may be looked at here just as a joke made in poor taste.

I know I myself have made jokes or whatnot, but you would think certain things would be off limits.

I thought I could combat the negative with positives. Silly jokes, little messages filled with love, but even that isn't working at this point.

My heart hurts, and my brain hurts.

And all this stuff has made me question myself. I had a block list a mile long for the longest time. Filled predominantly with people I had never spoken to because I was scared, nervous, I didn't want to accidentally interact with a post of someone who would be upset that I did, I unfollowed blogs I liked based on this same principle. I just desperately did not want to make someone mad or uncomfortable and find myself back in some weird mean anon tornado.

I tried to sus out who would be bothered by my presence and who wouldn't. I can't even know if my thoughts on who may or may not be upset by me were based on my paranoia or a perception i developed or was potentially affected by outside sources.

Now, i just don't know what the hell is going on.

Sorry for the word vomit. Just wanted to be honest. There are some of us out here who are just standing around with question marks over our heads.

Maybe it's because I wasn't here for a lot of that other weirdness. Maybe it's because of early events that shaped my experience on this app, but I for sure 100% need a break.

I'm an odd duck and love this app mostly because it's the only site I've seen where others actively fan-girl over my favorite Ewan character.

But right now, not even my love for Will can keep me on this app, and for those who know me, that's truly saying something.

This post is not meant to badmouth anyone at all. Honestly at this point I couldn't bad mouth anyone because I'm fucking lost on who anyone really is or how they really feel about things, dude I'm just plain lost.

Thank you to those who have been kind. My apologies to those I may have judged or assumed things about based on who the hell knows.

I hope that when I come back, I can open this app without yet another person that I like having a post of them being torn apart. Or a post of a story that I had heard being told in a completely different way and throwing me for a complete loop.

For now I am going to watch Will edits on TikTok and maybe read via Ao3.

Love and healing vibes to all.

#To my lovelies #I'll be back #I'm just not sure when #hotd fandom

[shahs1221]

thanks for not putting any sort of nsfw label on that art like I totally wanted to see that shit it's sooooo cool that you didn't give enough of a shit to even tag it as nsfw or nsft so my filter would catch it

Hey anon, I would've definitely tagged it as such if you were just you know, nice about it. It would've been SOOOO easy for me. But I suppose that was super difficult for you, so guess what?

I'm not gonna tag it.

Fuck off.

#Asshole probably unfollowed anyhow #Srsly how hard is it just to be polite #Stop with this fake ass sarcastic spilled internet nonsense #You did it as anonymous too... Must feel so tough ey? #Anywho #Of anyone else wants me to tag my nsft stuff pls just ask nicely #Don't be like this dick bag of a joke here

[hee-blee-art]

hi friends. I'm going on indefinite hiatus for while. in the meantime, I'm going to be queuing a lot of my drafts and some sketches, but for several reasons my blog/posts will look a bit different, and be less accessible (specifically less/no ids and less tags). I sincerely apologize for this & I hope those of you who can will be flexible with me as I continue to share my work within my current limitations, even though its not ideal. all the best to you & yours <3

#ik this may result in less people being able to & also wanting to see my posts #which is okay #no hard feelings for anyone who unfollows bc of this #just really want to keep sharing art in any way I can #anyone who wants to add ids is more than welcome to but ofc I dont expect it #also i know all this is confusing and vague. apologies again #I wish everyone who reads this all the best <3 #updates

[unquietspiritao3]

i’ve gotten a lot of new followers since i posted a few dick turpin gifsets, so just checking y’all know this is a nsfw kinky rpf blog. we good?

#no hard feelings if you unfollow lol #i wrote that fic in that recent taskmaster outtake you may have seen going around with the insane tags (fyi in case you didn���t know) #expect more of the same #i don’t want anyone caught off guard when i post a link to a chapter update and it’s called something like ‘piss-monogamous’

[schleierkauz]

#istg if anyone spoils this book for me im driving into a tree#do we have spoiler tags/etiquette ready /via @kennabeth

once i have the book in my hands i will tag anything relating to it tcor spoilers - but, honestly, i probably won't post much if anything about it in english on this blog. for discussions we have a tcor channel in the discord server as well as my regular non-suspicious book club/mailing list.

i'd hate to ruin the fun for anyone so everything containing spoilers will be tagged, probably in german anyway and, if it's my original post, under a readmore for good measure

#i wonder how many people won't see this post bc they already have tcor blocked lmao #i just hope cornelias daughter pulls a few all-nighters #if anyone wants to unfollow me until the official translation is out no hard feelings

[feluka]

i'm going to be embarrassingly open about something very personal right now: as stupid as this sounds, the finale of GOS2 has entirely reverted me to the moment in my life when i was a bright-eyed lovestruck teenager who put *all* my plans and hopes and dreams for a better future for myself into one relationship, and then got horrifically dumped in a way that made me feel entirely worthless as a person for a long, long time

#like suddenly i can feel it like it was yesterday that it happened to me and i just feel something awful in the pit of my stomach #and want to curl up and sleep and not talk to anyone for at least several months #which is a sign of good fiction when it makes you project THAT STRONGLY onto a character. it means they did something right #but good god it doesn't stop it from hurting OWWWWWWWWW #god i swore i's try to keep the gomens posting to a minimum because #i know the dash is about to become intolerable for people who don't care about it because so many people are talking about it #but at this point i would say. if you find this annoying i really wouldn't fault you for unfollowing! #bec i feel like i've just gone on an entire spiritual journey in one night and i'm only going to get more annoying about it lol #gos2 spoilers #also im pretty sure she won't see this considering she's never been on tumblr (or any social media really) #but if she somehow does: hi! i'm still damaged! no hard feelings tho!

[superchat]

if i ever annoy mutuals with anything you can always tell me to shut or something and i will, like no salt taken by that. or if you dont wanna directly say you can even send an anon or something i do not know 🤷‍♀️ whatever is most comfortable for you

#i hate the idea of making others uncomfortable #sometimes! i feell like ppl want to block or unfollow but feel obligated not to and if thats ever the case like #im not gonna get mad or make problems for anyone if they blocked me i dont wanna make issues for others #i should sleep its past9pm its the danger hours rn #i care my mutuals i wish i could be a better friend or supporter in some way but thats hard to do online #good night!

[eeunwoo]

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#actually also #I was thinking abt this bc I can’t sleep and like. #u guys prolly remember my bestie m///ika and I’ve never talked abt it properly but like #we were best friends for abt 6y before she ghosted me bc of a new boyfriend (army guy which is already 🤢 but yeah) #and like before she ghosted officially she basically met another group of girls and a guy online and they all have regular meet-ups and #hang out. which is fine. but it’s such a slap in the face bc they’re like. all rich lol #like they say they’re not but if u can afford regular trips across the country. hotels and restaurants and parties. u are rich #and I already know she’s rich but yeah I thot our friendship kinda looked over class status lmao #but to see her make friends strictly w rich people and suddenly forget all her morals re other stuff has been. hard on me to deal w frankly #I unfollowed her on all socials bc it makes me sick to my stomach knowing that she ghosted me even tho I asked her a few times to just tell #me if she doesn’t want to be my friend anymore. bc I saw it coming bc when she made other friends and got the new bf she started pulling #away. and I know ppl grow apart but we never really did. she just decided I wasn’t good enough. completely out of the blue decided to stop #answering my messages. idk #my trust issues skyrocketed since then #we were so close I was supposed to teach in the usa and we were gna move in together like it was that deep #and yeah idk. I think abt it every so often bc. it’s upsetting #like #I thought she cared abt me lmao but #I guess I’m basically only good to make ppl feel good abt themselves and then if anyone else comes along I immediately get ditched #it’s an awful existence to have #mrow.org

[lady-yfrit]

sincere apologies to all my followers for the reblog spam

I had time to waste and remembered that apex legends exists

#yfrit.txt #no hard feelings if anyone wants to unfollow me lmao #I'm terribly sorry

[goldenpeng]

i want to give a little heads-up that I went on an unfollowing spree. I want to center my dash around blogs who I have an interest in/have seen interest from when it comes to interacting (ic or ooc). Newer mutuals are exempt from this since I'm aware I haven't been around much to begin with. I'm hoping this will make it easier for me to come on and work on things C:

#––– ❛ ramblings 【 ooc. 】 #if you think i unfollowed by accident #or if you still want to write/chat #feel free to reach out via ask/discord! #this is merely an attempt to declutter both dash and brain #so no hard feeling toward anyone!

[cricketandclover]

hot take but is there any other panic blogs i can follow that aren’t either extreme brendon haters or extreme brendon lovers and just post silly images and text . or am i the only one

#i can feel people unfollowing me already #it’s just ANNOYING . i said it it’s annoying on both sides. and being in the middle not exactly caring about either one is just 😒 #like no i don’t care about your brendon hate. i also don’t care if you wanna defend him to the ends of the earth #i just want cool little fever era pics on my dash without drama is that too much to ask for!!! #like god dam everyone. chill out and move on it’s not hard and i’ve kind of had it… #ry speaks #patd #panic! at the disco #p!atd #like has anyone realized the dwindling panic content on here . it’s not on purpose . it’s just that every blog has either died or #become an anti #i can probably count active blogs on one hand

[thedevilsfamiliar]

[insert emote of me banging my fist against the floor]

I’m in the process of hating Genshin Impact on sight, it’s my new irrational anger trigger, it’s just fucking everywhere that I’m literally blocking the tags on all platforms

In the same vein:

I don’t like Yuri On Ice

I can’t stand kpop bands whatsoever

One direction and all the members that were once in it.

I find certain characters annoying and wish them death in the hands of a spiteful author (or at least erased from existence).

I’ll be completely honest— expect me to shit on characters. Expect me to voice my opinion. That being said, the tag for my opinions is #Devils.Musing (I won’t tag it as anything else, I’m not gonna barge into fandom space, that’s dick.)

So this is my warning, don’t like what I say? Unfollow and block is right there.

“Oh why can’t you just keep your opinions to yourself?” [Insert crybaby noises]

Cuz I like to vent and this is my personal blog.

#if anyone knows anything about me is that I fucking hate seeing repetitive shit that I have no interest in #oh wow a game that looks like a generic mobile game how interesting /s #oh wow a show about ice skating guys. fascinating. /s #I’m not saying my interests are superior #I’m not saying that I’m in the right #just that shits annoying and I want nothing to do with it lol #also no hard feelings to mutuals who unfollow idc /gen

[gloxk]

hate fuckin w aot plz🙏🏿 like uh what position would they fuck you in when they mad?

Fuck me like you mad at me baby.

(Eren Y. Connie S. Armin A.)

A/N: BEAT THAT COOCHIE UP LIKE YOU MAD AT A BITCH! Sorry it took so long to get your request. But let’s just all agree Eren, Connie, Armin are the big three. I’m not arguing with anyone. It’s true. NOT PROOF READ! 17+

Synopsis: Aot men fucking you after an argument!

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༺Connie༻

—————ON DA WALL.

Connie isn’t going to show you he’s mad, but baby you gonna feel it.

And oh boy you done did it today. After he seen you flirt with a guy…jeez. You really got him walking around in circles trying to not scream at the top of his lungs.

You not going to know he’s mad for a while, after an argument and you THINK everything cooled down it hasn’t. He’s still pissed.

Props to him for controlling his anger (Eren could never.) But when you start sweet talking him again that’s when it comes out.

When you get to rubbing on his chest and start saying “I’m so sorry baby, lemme make it up to you. Please.” with that little whine in your voice…oh best believe he gonna make you sorry for real.

He gives you a small grin and says “Oh for real? You wanna make it up to me?” You should have never even offered because now look at you. Against the kitchen wall crying out how sorry you are.

“You sorry ma? How sorry?” The harshness of his voice craving down on you. You couldn’t even spit out a comprehendible sentence just “Yes mmm so sorry!”

He was satisfied with your sorry, after the second round. I mean after all you did offer…

༺Eren༻

—————FROM DA FRONT.

Now, Eren he’s rough rough when he’s mad. Like oh lord..pray he don’t get his hands on you.

Please run while you can, because after he got you alone you can’t run.

This was especially the case after he found out you followed a guy from your work place, the same guy who continuously flirted with you.

Don’t ask him how he knows, he just does.

“I ain’t dumb mama. So go ahead and do as I asked.” The request was so simple, just unfollow him. But the principle pissed you off, you never told him who to follow and who too not. So you refused. Wrong answer…

Because that refusal sent him through the roof. He just laughed while shaking his head. He tossed you on the bed with no regards.

You never been fucked so hard in your life…The headboard slammed against the wall with each thrust he gave you it was ridiculous. “Look at me while I fuck you.” Eren spat out.

Your poor neighbors, the surely heard the madness that was occurring in your bedroom. But Eren did not give a single fuck.

He had your hair twisted in his fingers while he watched you block ole boy on everything single app you had. “Nuh uh. you ain’t done yet. Block him on spotify.” You were going to learn not to go seeking attention from anyone that wasn’t him.

“Nobody’s better than me mama. You should know better than that.”

༺Armin༻

————— BENT OVA.

You would never expect Armin to act the way he acts when he’s MAD.

Of course he got upset with you before but never something that made you change your view on him.

He always tried to be understanding, always listening to what you had to say and what was wrong. But, today was a little different.

He got so mad that you commented on how his friend looked good. He took it as you wanted his friend, but that wasn’t your intention at all.

“Ah, I see. Well just how good did he look y/n?! Why don’t you just tell him how much you want him to fuck you!” His insecurities were really starting to show. But damn, he just look so fucking hot with his button up shirt slightly undone, and his hair sticking to face. His eyes widened, it was a sexy sight. Armin could tell how turned on you were getting from him slightly raising his voice.

“Fuck—y/n. Stop looking at me like that.” The threw his keys on the table while shaking his head. Armin couldn’t look at you while your hand traveled up his shirt rubbing his abdomen. You were making it so difficult for him to be mad at you right now. Especially since you started begging for him to calm down and let you make him feel better.

The small tugs at his shirt just really got him going. He immediately bent you over on the couch, throwing your clothes everywhere. “Can’t even look at you. So fucking filthy.”

You tried to move away from him pounding your insides, hoping to get a break but no. “What the fuck did I tell you about that shit? Just fuckin take it.” Sluts didn’t deserve a break. They didn’t get that courtesy.

Eventually his hatred turned into love and he started spilling out how much he loved you while he was close to cumming. “I love you so much.” & “You mean the world to me.” & “Wanna make you a mommy.”

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Ah! tysm for 400!

#eyena writes♡ #eren jeager smut #eren jeager x reader #eren x black fem!reader #eren x black reader #eren x reader #eren x y/n #eren smut #eren x you #eren yeager #armin x black reader #armin x y/n #armin x you #armin smut #armin fluff #armin x reader #plug connie #connie x black reader #connie smut #connie springer #aot connie #aot smut

[void-chara]

ok after much thought and stepping away from the fandom for a bit, I’ve decided to post about dream again. I’ve taken a lot of time to think about it and I have my reasons, but one of the biggest thing I’ve been thinking about is how I’ve tied my fandom experience to defending him, and how unhealthy that is. I want to be capable of watching him in a healthy way, and one of the rules I’ve set for myself about that is to not get so caught up in the discourse.

It’s a complicated situation, and he did something shitty, and the extent is unclear and the situation is unclear and it’s gonna be unclear for a while. And I’m just some random blogger, I have no need or reason to get caught up or involved in it. I have about 50 followers, there’s no reason I should feel the need to make big posts about my stance on the issue. That’s not helping anyone.

all this to say, I have my reasons for still being comfortable watching him and engaging in the fandom, and that I will not be posting much about them probably, because the unhealthiest part of the fandom for me was how caught up I got in all the controversies.

if you need to know more about my thoughts about him to feel comfortable following me, then feel free to dm me, and I can elaborate, but I’m not posting about it, because as I said before I have basically no followers and it really isn’t productive or healthy for me to turn my blog into that kind of environment.

As always, I’m gonna be thorough about tagging, so if you want to continue following but not see stuff about him, just block the dreamwastaken tag and you should be fine

I might change my mind when legal stuff gets released, but for now, this is it

#If anyone wants to unfollow bc of this then no hard feelings #It’s a complicated and incredibly unclear situation with no easy answers and whatever you feel about it is valid #dream situation #I think I’ve made like five lasts posts on the situation but this should be the actual last one at least for a while

[1dhq]

x

#anon who wanted an answer in tags #i hope i can say something remotely smart #because i've not been in your particular situation #but since you asked #i would try to figure out what it is that exactly evokes that feeling #being upset and maybe disappointed #and then enact a level of 'physical' distance that allows for emotional distance over time #does that make sense? #so if the people you follow contribute to your being upset #maybe it's time to unfollow #if it's the fandom as a whole #delete tumblr/twitter and see how that goes #'only' following the official channels doesn't make anyone a less dedicated fan in any way #and if it's the thing itself (in this case louis and everything that comes with him) #you can also take a break or step away from that #i think the first step is really trying to figure out what it is that makes being here hard #i hope that helps even a little bit #we can chat more if you like!

[universalitgirlsblog2]

🎀📖STUDYING TIPS FROM STRAIGHT-A STUDENT📖🎀

(1) Passionate about Learning

If we look at Hermione or Rory , they had a burning passion for learning. They were full of curiosity. They didn't just study for good grades , they studied because they were passionate to learn. They read alot of books. Ngl Reading is therapeutic . Hermione always went into detail , she read alot of books about the topics she was studying. There is a reason behind her being a " know it all " .

(2) Rely on Understanding , not rote learning

I was one of those who would study at last moment and rely on rote learning, I would still get good grades . But gradually I realized , studying at last moment is wrong and it makes education unworthy. After the exam , I would forget everything. Sometimes rote learning won't help too. Rely on understanding the concepts. Ofc there will be some topics that are just meant for memorization. When you come back from school , you should revise everything. It will makes things much easier for you.

(3) Be Disciplined and Dedicated

The best form of self love is discipline. Don't procrastinate. Procrastination is the cost of life you could have lived. Be mindful and prioritize your tasks. Start taking responsibility. You owe yourself to be disciplined and dedicated.

(4) Prioritize Education

Education is the most powerful weapon. Being educated and Intelligent is HOT ! HARD WORK WILL NEVER BETRAY YOU. Books are your best friends. When I had my exams or when I was in 10th grade, we had board exams . I studied really hard. It was lockdown but exams were still offline ( lol ). I cut off toxic people or anything which drained me or made me feel bad. I prioritized myself and my education. I used social media for 30 minutes only and I would watch content which made me feel motivated or good about myself. I unfollowed everything which made me feel bad. Did I regret it ? NO ! I GOT 98%. I strongly believe in manifestation too ( that's why this account exists ) so I affirmed for good grades too.

(5)Less Social Media or N🚫 Social media at all.

Alot of my classmates who are also exceptional at studying . Some of them joined Social media very late and some of them still don't use Social media. I joined Social media in Grade 9 but these days I try to use it as less as possible. This can be different for everyone. Maybe you use Social media in a healthy way and get good grades. For me , Social media can be draining sometimes so I use it less whenever I need to focus on myself. I was thinking to deactivate my account or take a break 😅. Most of the posts you see are scheduled btw, including this one .

(6)Find your WHY

Why are you studying ? What is your reason ? Is it because you want to make your parents proud ? Is it because you love learning ? Is it because you want to prove others wrong ? It is very important to have a reason for studying. Maybe connect your goals to studying. Let's say you want to become a dentist , now you can't become a dentist without studying ,right ?

(7) Find a Role Model

If you can't find your WHY yet , it's okay. Try to find a role model. It can be any real life person or a fictional character. It can be ANYONE ! My role models are Hermione and Elle Woods. You can put your role model Keychain on your pouch , stick their posters etc so whenever you look at it , you gain motivation to give your best. Again , it's okay if you can't find a role model . Become your own role model If you can't find any role model 😉

(8) Don't let Past intervene

It's okay if you weren't a good student from start . According to manifestation, you can revise being one too ! You can still change yourself and become a good student . You can prove all those people wrong by becoming a good student. Once a wise man said , don't let your past blackmail your present to ruin a beautiful future.

(9) Believe in Yourself & Be confident

Harry potter once said " Working hard is important but there's something which matters even more ; Believing in yourself " . Even if you aren't a potterhead , you should listen to Harry Potter. Another example can be Elle Woods , she believed in herself when no one did. She showed us the power of self belief. Be confident in yourself.

(10) Be attentive and Regular

You must be attentive in class. Participate in class and don't hesitate . I can understand if you can't participate in class because you feel shy ( I used to be like that ) but the more you push yourself to participate, the less you will hesitate. Gradually , you will feel confident too. Like Thewizardliz said , sometimes you need to get uncomfortable to get comfortable. Be a good listener.Also , be regular in your classes. If you aren't able to be regular, study at home. Some of my friends weren't able to be regular in school because of personal reasons but they studied at home . They didn't waste their time in unproductive stuff. Sometimes I was also not able to be regular at school but I studied at home and took breaks in between.

(11) Study From Youtube

I don't know if it's just me but youtube teachers can make the most complicated topics so simple. They explain everything in detail. Youtube teachers can be more helpful than school teachers tbh 😀. Self Study is important.

(12) Take care of Your Mental health.

It can be very hard to study with bad mental health. I tend to take care of my mental health. Stress can be the biggest distraction sometimes. So take care of your physical and mental health. Journal. Meditate. Take a break from social media if you need to. Use affirmations.Dance. Exercise. Read.Paint . Sleep. Whatever makes you feel better. Poor mental health can also interfere with your attention span so please take care of your mental health. Don't take it for granted 😃.

Short and simple tips

- Value your time. Time is money

- Self study is very beneficial

- Be organized

- Avoid Drama

- I WANT TO LET YOU ALL KNOW HOW IMPORTANT YOUR TODAY IS , YOUR NOW IS .STUDY HARD . WORK HARD.PLAY HARDER. DON'T BE BOUND BY RULES. DON'T HURT ANYBODY AND NEVER EVER LIVE SOMEONE ELSE'S DREAM. REMEMBER HOW MANY TIMES YOU GO WRONG, NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU FAIL , DESPAIR, FEEL LIKE THIS WORLD IS AGAINST YOU . IN THE WORDS OF BOB MARLEY , AT THE END EVERYTHING IS GONNA BE ALRIGHT . - SHAH RUKH KHAN aka SRK👑

🎀📖These are some tips which helped me and I live by these tips. I hope these tips help you too. I apologize if the post wasn't helpful🎀📖

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