#no sex

[drchucktingle]

do you have any tingler suggestions for an asexual and aromantic buckaroo?

YES BUD all preferred pounds are valid including NO POUND AT ALL and this is very important, as i am sure my aromantic and asexual buds know.

as a buckaroo who spends a lot of time fighting against gatekeeping i will use this as opportunity to say yet again ALL ARE WELCOME IN THE TINGLEVERSE ESPECIALLY MY ACE AND ARO BUCKAROOS.

in fact, after chucks upcoming horror novel CAMP DAMASCUS i have another horror novel coming out next year from same publisher called BURY YOUR GAYS (i am being secret about plot of for now but trust me tumblr buds will like this one) but one of the MAIN LEADS of 'bury your gays' is an asexual aromantic bud and she is such a fun character REALLY enjoyed writing her and i am excited for everyone to meet her.

ALRIGHT as far as tinglers go i have written MANY pound free books that you can enjoy, some are about an ace or aro way and some are about consent or saying NO THANKS BUD but they all do not have sex in them. the favorite of most buckaroos is probably ABSOLUTELY NO THOUGHTS OF POUNDING DURING MY FUN DAY WITH THIS KIND T-REX BECAUSE I'M AROMANTIC AND ASEXUAL AND THAT'S A WONDERFULLY VALID WAY OF PROVING LOVE IS REAL

if you are interested in whole collections there are paperbacks name of NOT POUNDED BY ANYTHING that you would probably enjoy. this series has three whole volumes just keep in mind not all characters in these bundle are ace and aro but MANY are. others just dont feel like a pound.

examples of stories that are more about consent and importance of HOLDING BOUNDARIES would be something like JUST KIND OF IGNORING THIS SAD LONESOME T-REX WHO IS SCREAMING "DEBATE ME" FROM HIS FOLDING CHAIR which is about how sometimes best way to deal with goofball conservative 'commentators' is just ignore their scoundrel whining as they moan their lonesome ways in the dark. so there are no pounds in that one just ignores. it is available as audiobook and so is ace aro story above too.

anyway buckaroo hope that helps. if you want to see full list you can look on chuck website and trot down to section of tinglers that says NO SEX

thank you for proving love is real in your own way i am SO GLAD our timelines have crossed it is an honor and i appreciate it very much. had fun time revisiting these books today and look forward to writing more for my asexual and aromantic buds. LOVE IS REAL

#ace #aro #asexual #aromantic #tingleverse #LGBTQIA #love is real #chuck tingle #no pound #no sex #pound free #tinglers #writers of tumblr #writing

[tvneon]

#no sex #80s #1980s #retro #vintage

[rvspecter]

Hey he says I can't have sex while working with him - is that really his call? Well he is your commanding officer.

#no sex of any kind #weakens legs #clouds your judgement #suits tv #suits usa #harvey specter #mike ross #marvey #no sex

[spnj2fanlw]

Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: Supernatural, Supernatural RPF Rating: Teen And Up Audiences Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Sam/Dean, Sam Winchester/Dean Winchester, Jensen Ackles/Jared Padalecki Characters: sam winchester/Dean winchester - Character, Jensen Ackles/Jared Padalecki - Character, Richard Speight Jr., Sam Winchester, Dean Winchester Additional Tags: Wincest - Freeform, Crack, AU, Fourth Wall, multiple sams and deans Summary:

Sam & Dean investigate an old abandoned photography studio where forty people have disappeared over the past ten years. Set in Season 9.

*****

This has such an interesting concept that I can't stop thinking about it. 

#supernatural #wincest #sam winchester #dean winchester #WINCEST saves the day #no sex #fascinating concept #can't stop thinking about this #all the Sam's and Dean's need wincest

[cardboardbox-fly]

This is how I feel kind of

Sex In reading and theory; 👍👍👍👍👍

Anything to do with actually having sex; 😀👎

#asexual #they hypersexual to asexual pipeline is real #is this why I hate [character] x [y/n] fics #acespec #ace pride #asexual post #no sex #nope #don’t want it #queer

[actual-corpse]

You have got to be fucking kidding me...

And here I was, diminishing my sexuality because I am attracted to someone... I just think he's really fucking cute, but I don't want a relationship (beyond friendship lol) of any kind.

It makes perfect sense!!

#except I still act stupid #i just REALLY like to look at him ya know? #he makes my brain all stupid... #but when I really think about it #i do not want him #at all #no date #no sex #nothing #but hes so fine #i was having a crisis until I remembered aesthetic attraction #asexual #aromantic #aesthetic #aesthetic attraction #i labeled myself as 'grey' because of a misunderstanding (Grey is perfectly valid!) #what a relief

[submissive-cuckold-slave]

Kleiner geht immer !

#chastity slave #never inside #no sex #small penis size

[widebruh]

I rode my bike so hard that my teeth hurt

#this is not a euphemism #no sex #sex isnt real #no cock no balls and probably no butthole #also no homo just in case #196 #r/196 #rule #apartmentofawesome #:3

[lukewarmcrayfish]

Part two: Saboteur x Prince.

The pocket watch felt like a still beating heart, cold and beating pressed against his thigh as the minutes droned on. He chided himself for arriving early, a mistake to be sure. With royalty, the event started when he decided to grace it with his presence. The saboteur should expect nothing less from a privileged prince.

The night was deafening and still. Every sound was funneled to his ears. The clank of armor from the knights on the other side of the wall. The September wind biting at him. He swore he could hear the chill of it as it brushed against his ears. It was certain that autumn had arrived. He heard every cicada, every locust flapping its wings. He watched a locust as it took flight with an obnoxious whirr to its wings. It perched atop the toe of his boot. He kicked his foot watching as it flew away. Behind him he heard a soft thud.

He whirled around to see the prince. His disguise was lacking. Had it been more skillfully crafted, he wouldn’t have recognized him at first glance. It was a dreadful attempt at concealing his identity for a night out, if there was any attempt made at all. A woolen cloak with a gaudy gold clasp. The cloak had an odd waxy sheen, perhaps treated by lanolin. His gloves were the same elf-green and lanolin treated. The saboteur should expect nothing less, he wouldn’t dishonor the royal tradition for even one night. The glasses didn’t help either, but they were a necessity. It seemed every heir of the kingdom had dreadful vision. Thankfully, they were simple. Sterling silver and clear, not tinted.

The prince’s tight hug parted his cloak, slightly. As the hug forced the air from the saboteur’s lungs he felt the warmth of the prince’s skin. He wore but a single layer under the cloak. A low-necked button up. Oversized and reminiscent of commoner fashion. Possibly, the only satisfactory part of his disguise. As they separated, a kiss lingered against his lips already tainted with champagne.

“I’m glad I still caught you,” the prince said. His voice was hushed and the smile on his lips was audible. “I was wrestling with the ledger. My sisters decided on a shopping spree today.”

His informant was spot on, the prince indeed was in charge of managing the royal family's finances. Perfect. The image of him sipping champagne as he inserted every receipt into the ledger was oddly humbling. Just a regular guy drinking before a date while finishing his work.

#jayson rambles #regency kink #royalty kink #saboteur x prince #saboteur #prince #prince ftm #no sex #i wrote this at work so sorry no sex in it

[coochiequeens]

Men can either evolve or die alone. The women in this movement may not have a spouse or kids but they are building their own community

Many South Korean women are so fed up with machismo that, in recent years, they’ve taken up a radical stance: refusing to marry, date men, have sex and reproduce. This movement—known as “the four no’s”—began in 2019. It has since spread, in the hope that the conservative government of Yoon Suk-yeol will adopt measures that promote gender equality.

Despite the solid academic credentials of women in South Korea, according to a study by Statista, the gender pay gap is scandalous: men earn 30% more than women. This makes the country, according to the Korean Herald, the most gender-unequal OECD nation.

Added to this is a poor work-life balance in South Korea, as well as a disparity in the distribution of domestic tasks. Women often assume the responsibility of raising children, pushing them to have to choose between working or being mothers. In South Korea, the work week is 52-hours-long.

The ”four no’s” is a desperate cry that arose after the incumbent South Korean president began his term. He has stated his intention to abolish the Ministry of Gender Equality and Family. The repercussions of the so-called “birth strike” have been severe for the country. For three consecutive years, the country has had the lowest fertility rate in the world, with an average of 0.78 children per woman.

“Life isn’t going well for many young people, for whom getting married or having children is no longer natural,” Lee Sang-lim, a demographer at the Korea Institute of Health and Social Affairs, told The New York Times.

The country is on alert, since an average of 2.1 children per woman is estimated to be necessary to keep the population stable. In 2020, the number of deaths exceeded the number of births in South Korea. Many cities are at risk of disappearing in the coming years.

Hawon Jung, the author of Flowers of Fire: The Inside Story of South Korea’s Feminist Movement, tells EL PAÍS that the movement was sparked by the governmental policies in a country that she considers to be very conservative.

“Single mothers are stigmatized, doctors refuse to give IVF to women without a male partner—even though it’s not illegal—and out-of-wedlock births represent only 2% of the total, compared to the average of 41% for women in the OECD. Marriage and childbirth are closely intertwined; women are pressured to sacrifice their career once they have a child or get married.”

Jung believes that the origin of the problem lies in the role of women since Confucianism—the prevailing ideology before the reforms of the 20th century. The philosophy advocated submissive daughters, chaste wives and self-sacrificing mothers. These beliefs were maintained due to a militarized society, where the concept of aggressive masculinity has been prevalent throughout history. This has applied from the Korean War (1950-1953) onwards, through the military dictatorship, to the ongoing confrontation with North Korea.

According to Jung, “countries where parents are more cooperative and have good family policies—such as Sweden—or that recognize the diversity of couples, like France, have been more successful in stabilizing or even increasing their birth rates.”

The movement of the “four no’s” reflects the radicalization of a frustration that has made women even opt to give up sex. According to Jung, “young women don’t consider it worth investing their time and energy into having affairs with men,” as they find it exhausting trying to find one who doesn’t follow patriarchal norms.

Feminist movements have, historically, been very effective in the country, achieving milestones such as the decriminalization of abortion in 2021, or changes in the notions of female beauty. The “escape of the corset” movement, for instance, rejects the rigid South Korean stereotypes associated with women, such as having long hair or following the K-pop beauty concept, which imposes the obligation on women to have porcelain skin, wear perfect makeup and undergo plastic surgery. It’s increasingly common to see South Korean women and girls with short hair, or daring to wear glasses rather than contact lenses. This has been a real revolution.

But there is still a long way to go in a country where gender violence doesn’t always lead to a charge or divorce. According to a survey published by the Korean Institute of Criminology and Justice, eight out of 10 men admitted to having been violent towards their partner.

Jennifer Jung-Kim, a professor of Korean History at UCLA, points out via email that, in order to solve the problems derived from the gender gap in South Korea, gender-based violence must be recognized and prosecuted as such.

“When it comes to the government and corporations, laws and policies must prohibit discrimination and guarantee equal pay and opportunities for women… especially working mothers. Socially, there needs to be a greater support system for working parents, so that either parent can take days off if a child is sick, or to attend a school meeting or event. And single parents, whether male or female, shouldn’t be stigmatized, regardless of whether they are adoptive or biological parents,” she explains.

For Jung-Kim, the most important thing is an internal change on the part of men.

“They must step up and take on household chores and childcare equally and support their wives in their career choices.”

Judy Han, a professor and vice chair of Undergraduate Affairs in the Department of Gender Studies at UCLA, points out that the movement of the “four no’s” is an invitation to rebuild society.

“Can we imagine a world where women don’t have to shoulder the full burden of reproductive and domestic work, without being degraded or exploited? Where they could have marriage equality without throwing away their professional careers? Can women imagine a world without abuse, rape and violence?” she wonders.

This approach could work in many other democratic countries where gender inequality affects birth rates. Faced with an apparently unbeatable patriarchal system, more and more women around the world are choosing to give up having children, because they cannot reconcile their personal and professional lives. The consequences can push governments to act and shape entire societies.

According to Judy Han, “anyone—men and women, straight, queer, cisgender and transgender—would benefit from taking these criticisms seriously and creating a more just society.”

#South Korea #the Four No’s #No dates #no sex #no weddings #No kids #Hawon Jung #Flowers of Fire: The Inside Story of South Korea’s Feminist Movement

[3dollarbillyalls]

“Should’ve left my pants on this time…”

#limp bizkit #fred durst #no sex

[dare-wishes-they-were-me]

Most people who do not follow celibacy are chill but the worst type of non-celibates are the ones who literally cannot talk about anything but dating and act like other people are weird because they don’t date as often as they do.

Like yes I know you’ve broken up with your significant other for the 29th time and you’re once again keeping it casual and will probably run back to each other in a week but have you seen any funny tiktoks recently? Do any workouts? Any good books? Any good shows? Cat videos? Any good hiking trails in the area? Can you talk about ANYTHING THAT ISN’T YOUR MATCH MADE IN HELL?!

#and by dating I mean hookups tbh #celibate #sex positive celibate #celibacy #no sex #sex free #voluntary celibate

[kittykskorner]

You look fabulous

why thank you very much

#onlyf@nz #free trial #dm for link #i sell content #i sell custom content #i sell socks #i sell underwear #i sell dick rates #dm for info #dm for sexting #video call #girlfriend experience #paid dates #no sex #findoworld #cashpig #cash princess #foot domination #footgoddess #foot feddish #k!nk blog #k!nky thoughts #adult entertainment #blond girl #18+ only #submisive and breedable #subdom #sugar dating #sugardaddy #sugarbaby

[juicedsumo]

Tumblr deactivated all the sex in the world. It's over folks. Only space sex still works!

#Who has a portal? #Time Machine? #no sex #Tumblr became to powerfull