Hmmm ok been thinking. I need some advice on coming out to my parrents
They’ll most likely be supportive but im not entirely sure how to explain my pronouns to them, specifically how I use multiple. (they/he/it)
I don’t intend on telling them about my useage of it/its pronouns but i do plan on telling them about using they/he. (For context im afab so it would be 2 different pronouns for them to get used to)
Rambling aside I could use some tips on how exactly to tell them and explain my pronouns (or if i should even tell them at all?)
Y̶o̶u̶ t̶h̶o̶u̶g̶h̶t̶ i̶ w̶a̶s̶ y̶o̶u̶r̶ p̶r̶i̶n̶c̶e̶s̶s̶
I̶t̶ t̶u̶r̶n̶s̶ o̶u̶t̶ i̶m̶ y̶o̶u̶r̶ k̶i̶n̶g̶
I̶ s̶t̶i̶l̶l̶ w̶a̶n̶t̶ t̶h̶a̶t̶ p̶r̶e̶t̶t̶y̶ b̶o̶y̶
W̶i̶t̶h̶ a̶ d̶i̶a̶m̶o̶n̶d̶ r̶i̶n̶g̶
Y̶o̶u̶ s̶a̶y̶ i̶m̶ t̶o̶o̶ y̶o̶u̶n̶g̶
B̶u̶t̶ t̶h̶u̶s̶b̶i̶s̶b̶w̶h̶a̶t̶ i̶ f̶e̶e̶l̶ l̶i̶k̶e̶ r̶i̶g̶h̶t̶ n̶o̶w̶
I̶m̶ t̶a̶l̶k̶i̶n̶g̶ t̶o̶ m̶y̶s̶e̶l̶f̶
I̶ d̶u̶n̶n̶o̶ w̶h̶i̶c̶h̶ e̶n̶d̶ i̶s̶ u̶p̶
T̶h̶i̶s̶ l̶i̶f̶e̶ m̶a̶k̶e̶s̶ m̶e̶ f̶e̶e̶l̶ l̶i̶k̶e̶ i̶m̶ o̶u̶t̶ o̶f̶ l̶u̶c̶k̶
“j̶u̶s̶t̶ t̶e̶l̶l̶ u̶s̶ w̶h̶e̶n̶ y̶o̶u̶r̶e̶ o̶l̶d̶e̶r̶”
B̶u̶t̶ o̶l̶d̶e̶r̶ n̶e̶v̶e̶r̶ c̶o̶m̶e̶s̶
J̶u̶s̶t̶ b̶e̶c̶a̶u̶s̶e̶ i̶ s̶t̶a̶n̶d̶ m̶y̶ g̶r̶o̶u̶n̶d̶
D̶o̶e̶s̶n̶t̶ m̶e̶a̶n̶ t̶h̶a̶t̶ i̶ d̶o̶n̶t̶ l̶o̶v̶e̶ y̶o̶u̶ n̶o̶w̶
T̶h̶i̶s̶ i̶s̶ a̶ l̶e̶t̶t̶e̶r̶ t̶o̶ m̶y̶ f̶r̶i̶e̶n̶d̶s̶
T̶o̶ m̶y̶ f̶a̶m̶i̶l̶y̶
T̶o̶ t̶h̶e̶ o̶n̶e̶ w̶h̶o̶ t̶e̶l̶l̶ m̶e̶ t̶o̶ b̶e̶ m̶e̶
T̶o̶ t̶h̶o̶s̶e̶ w̶h̶o̶v̶e̶ h̶e̶l̶p̶e̶d̶ a̶n̶d̶ t̶h̶o̶s̶e̶ w̶h̶o̶v̶e̶ h̶i̶n̶d̶e̶r̶e̶d̶
Y̶o̶u̶r̶ k̶i̶n̶d̶ w̶o̶r̶d̶s̶ h̶a̶v̶e̶ s̶u̶r̶e̶l̶y̶ l̶i̶n̶g̶e̶r̶e̶d̶
I̶n̶ m̶y̶ h̶e̶a̶d̶
S̶o̶m̶e̶t̶i̶m̶e̶s̶ i̶ w̶i̶s̶h̶ i̶ n̶e̶v̶e̶r̶ s̶a̶i̶d̶
A̶n̶y̶t̶h̶i̶n̶g̶ a̶t̶ a̶l̶l̶
i’m so, incredibly, utterly enamored with you
Demiboy vigilante character idea
name: angelica
pronouns: they/them
age: 18+
reads for: queer identity, nonbinary (agender/genderfluid), demiromantic/grey asexual, bisexual, ehlers danlos syndrome (hypermobility/joint disorder), mast cell activation disorder (histamine intolerance including food), disability at a young age, adhd, bipolar, anxiety, depression, dealing with parents with mental illness, handling college with mental illness
sensitivity reading:
general questions and discussion: yes
in-depth discussion of plots and characters: yes
partial read (relevant sections): yes
full read: yes
willing to read: original work, fanfiction (honestly as long as it’s focusing mainly on the characters identities in a general sense i don’t have a preference, but if you want me to be familiar with the fandom feel free to ask), erotica/nsfw/explicit scenes
unwilling to read: incest or pedophilia portrayed positively. no graphic or nonconsensual sex scenes- feel free to ask for clarification. similarly, kink that involves breaking consent/boundaries but in general it’s fine. vivid descriptions of eye injury or chopping off hands/feet/fingers/toes or neck injuries (for instance a vampire biting someone is fine but going into great detail other than “their teeth sank into their flesh” is not)
rates: $1.20 (american dollars) per 250 words, more for difficult subjects, in-depth/lengthy analysis or other significant time/energy commitments. general discussions or other projects that don’t fit neatly into this structure can be negotiated based on topic/time required
contact: angelicajessamyn@gmail.com
additional notes: i’m pretty laid back and i understand the “constructive” part of constructive criticism. i won’t avoid saying things that are necessary but i promise not to be cruel. i’m also perfectly willing to work with you to figure out what you need or a fair price for projects. also specify if there’s anything you do not want comments on because otherwise i will most likely comment on your word choices, sentence structure etc
I just jumped the gun and bought some boxers from the men’s section. They’re a size small.
I just discovered I’m too small for a small.
I also just discovered that the men’s section don’t carry extra small.
I am now going to burrito myself in blankets until i am a shapeless blob and try to come to terms with the idea of going back to shopping in the kid’s section.
I may or may not have changed my name (again) to Rin.
No AGAB will ever make someone more or less valid in their gender over any other AGAB.
name: mar
pronouns: he/him, they/them
age: 18+
reads for: i’m nonbinary (genderfluid, between agender, demigirl, and maverique) asexual butch lesbian. i’ve previously been in a polyamorous long-distance relationship. i use neopronouns, and i’m autistic. i can also read for depersonalization, depression, anxiety, trauma, dermatillomania, sensory issues, neurodivergency (in general), and delusions. i also have a primary immunodeficiency (selective iga deficiency), gerd, and am anemic. i grew up catholic, and am currently agnostic and researching in order to convert to reconstructing judaism. i’m white (polish) and of romani descent. i have been to therapy, am currently a community college student, and i have a large, very complicated family. i can speak on emotional abuse, and long-term recovery from physical abuse within a family. i can also read for spontaneous chronic vision loss/eye pain, specifically relating to recurrent corneal erosion/abrasions
sensitivity reading:
general questions and discussion: yes
in-depth discussion of plots and characters: yes
partial read (relevant sections): yes
full read: yes
willing to read: original work, fanfiction (schitt’s creek, star trek, the magnus archives, warrior cats - erin hunter, community, more too; ask if a fandom isn’t listed, as i cannot reasonably list all of them), erotica/nsfw/explicit scenes
unwilling to read: available on request. hard no on stories about cocsa.
rates: usd, discussed case-by-case. higher rates for; nsfw, fandom i’m unfamiliar with before reading, extremely heavy topics, character(s) experiencing hate crime(s) within a story
contact: marley mothbard#8001 (discord)
additional notes: i’m typically open to questions at most times, but more in-depth questions and reading stories/segments i am not always open for due to time constraints. i can also edit/proofread in general for an additional fee
Today’s gender is- Number seven.