#non cis

[blood-moon-night-coining]

Reminder!

Supporting trans folks, Nonbianry/Abinary folks, and in general non cisgender (as well as GNC) folks can be a bit wired it seems. A good example is trans women (example here), the intent can be good but it can be seen as purely sexualizing.

You can support people without being inherently sexual, you can support people without referring to the bedroom. Note I’m not telling you that you can’t express that if you have like a trans partner or have a preference for them, but please don’t only do it under the guise of support. Trans people are more than their bodies, trans people are more then their sexuality, please support them outside those things.

(Tagging you being I reference your post @rottingmagicalgirl)

#📝 : post #🔊 : converation #trans #transgender #gnc #non cis #nonbianry #abinary #mogai #liom #lgbt #queer #possibly discourse

[trans-enby-culture-is]

non-cis culture is having more than three muddle names because they were all too kickass to give up on

#37

#trans enby culture #non cis #trans #transgender #enby #nonbinary #choosing a name

[stardusted-queerness]

Fractigender

fractigender - a gender that feels that it was whole or working at one point in time, but due to a undiscoverable reason, it has been corrupted and/or feels different.

EX Imagine you write a piece of code and it prints out "1 + 2 = 3". The first few times you run the code, it prints "1 + 2 = 3", but after the 3rd or 4th run, it starts printing "1 + 2 = 13" or some other nonsense, but you can't figure out what in the code is causing this bug. This is what fractigender feels like. You were once "working" but now you are "corrupted".

ETYMOLOGY fracti is "broken" in Latin.

NOTES ~ This is not an exclusive gender. ~ It is a good-faith identity under the non-binary and xenogender umbrellas. ~ This gender does not denote a presentation or preference for femininity or masculinity. ~ This term does not currently have a flag. Please reblog + tag me (@stardusted-queerness) so I can see it. Thank you <3

#lgbtq #mogai #mogaireal #mogai term #mogai gender #actually mogai #coining #mogai identity #new term #xeno coining #good faith #lgbtqplus #lgbt safe space #lgbtqia #pride #queer pride #gender #gender identity #non cis #non binary #nonbinary #xenogender #xenogender pride

[catsconflictscopicsandchamomile]

ok, I’m gonna say it. I have one HUGE fear for CR tonight: that they’re gonna bring Launda back (yay!), that they’ll do it under the Sun Tree (okay sure that’s thematic), aaaaand that symbolically reliving her first resurrection will somehow make Launda “At Peace” or “Okay With” her past and/or her present circumstances, or even make her ALIVE again. “Edgy/Creepy/Gothy character dies, is resurrected, and the experience gives them a new Inner Peace(tm) and makes them a more Mature (normal) (societally acceptable) (visibly happy) (lighter color-schemed) person” a trope I’ve seen in more or less every fandom I’ve been in (including CR), and I hate it enough that I’m actually getting a bit queasy worrying that I might be about to see it in action again. Please, Matt, Marisha, whoever is deciding this, if Launda does come back, don’t change her. Honestly, make her creepier. She’s the kind of person who would die, come back, comfort her friends, and then be a Little Shit about it for the rest of eternity. Please don’t force Launda into some kind of dress-shirt, “recovering scene kid”, respectyourselfloveyourself.gif arc just because she died. Please don’t. Goth people can be, and often are, happy. “Weird”, “Freakish”, “Spooky” ppl who collect puppets and dress like it’s halloween every day can be and are happy. That needs to be shown- so many “Edgy” characters die, resurrect, and immediately trade their black, red and snark for white, gold and a gentle smile. stop. let weird kids have a future that isn’t death or normalcy.

#critical role spoilers #critical role liveblog #ik this sounds ranty but yall #this trope happens SO MUCH #Shiro #Catra #Spn definitely TRIED but it cant rly un-edge itself #and it always feels so plastic #it also sends a really bad message! #and mimics really harmful stuff irl! #there's SO much pressure to stop dressing abnormally once you're an adult #and stereotypes of adults who wear alt fashion as EITHER doomed OR recovering #not just existing #honestly the term recovering scene/alt/emo/goth kid #is funny in a vacuum but not when its framed against Resepectability Culture irl #i SHOULD NOT HAVE TO SAY THIS BUT #THIS IS ALMOST ENTIRELY REFERRING TO #NON MALE #NON CIS #QUEER #BIPOC #<ESPECIALLY BIPOC!!!!!!!! #DISABLED AND NEURODIVERGENT #PLUS SIZE #AND LOWER INCOME PPL #pretty skinny white kids who can afford to shop at killstar arent gonna much crap as they age #but everyone else? whoooo boy. #tw rant #anyway. i really hope this doesnt happen #but either way um This Trope Sucks In General And Should Stop

[theraen]

Okay so.

About the gender crisis I'm currently drowning in. I think I need to at least start to let it out cause it's been killing me for so many months now that sometimes it doesn't really make me breathe properly.

I'm surely not cis. Woman? Definitely not me. Chest? I wish mine wasn't this prominent. Actually, hell, sometimes - more than sometimes, it's kind of a daily feeling - I wish I could just whoop, dismantle it from my body and put it far away into my drawer for spiders to have a new surface to make cobwebs on. I wish I could forget about it. But I can't, cause I can't see my feet and it's heavy and looking at my body in the mirror makes me either wanna cry or be sick.

I'm having huge waves of gender envy looking at men being feminine. I have no idea what this means. Also with anime characters, but that's a whole different story of me projecting my doubts on fictional characters to cope and bla bla bla.

Back to the feminine side of men. There's this huge thought in my brain that's been stirring the wheel of my inner hamster non-stop lately: I wanna be feminine the way men are.

I also wanna be delicate and small and held between stronger arms, but when I picture this I'm not in the body of a woman.

I am a mess. I don't know where to start. It's AAAA adjdksjskskdj I'm just a baby non cis gay who needs love and protection.

Another thing: I'm trying he/him pronouns (the Italian language doesn't have a neutral like they/them, we are trying to make it more inclusive and it's a long road but one that's worth fighting for) and it didn't feel groundbreaking, but it felt good.

But also I feel like an impostor. Idk. Urgh. I'm a mess as I stated earlier in this post.

What do I do

#lgbtq #non binary #transgender #lgbtq community #non cis #paoli thinks #and kinda despairs

[judas-isariot]

Today meeting with other LGBTQIA+ I learn about another secret pride happening after the regular one. A pride undeclared to protest Transphobia and celebrate trans and non cis identity.

Wanna join ?

#I don't have the date yet #it is a night pride #marseille #after the regular one #pride #pride month #trans #let's fight #transphobia #non cis #non binary #Oh maybe ! WE WILL COME IN A BUS #this will be the #down with cis #bus

[nothorses]

after having an entire hour long conversation with my coworkers about what "degendering" is, and the importance of using trans people's pronouns when you know them- rather than always defaulting to "they/them" no matter what- and still getting "they/them"ed by people I trusted not to fucking do that to me, I have decided that the name and pronouns circle of introductions for new additions to the group will now include the very clearly stated boundary that they do not use "they/them" pronouns for me.

your move, cowards!

#the positive end of this is that i happened to be the first non-cis person to introduce myself in the circle #and two nonbinary(?) people after me both followed suit & elaborated on like #which pronouns were okay AND which pronouns they actually preferred people use for them/how they use them #which was really cool!! #usually they've just given the list of which ones were okay #so it was nice to have the detailed insight and also nice to see them asset boundaries

[isabellascarlett1]

Your Intersex Awareness Day reminders that:

- Micropenis jokes are intersexist and not funny

- Intersex genital mutilation (IGM) is still allowed in nearly every country

- AFAB TransFem, AMAB TransMasc, Cis Trans, and Cis Non-binary are important terms for many Intersex folks

Include Intersex folks in your activism.

#LGBTQIA #LGBTQI #LGBTQ #LGBT #Intersex #Intersex Day #Intersex Awareness Day #Intersex Rights #Intersex Liberation #End IGM #Queer #Queer Liberation #AFAB TransFem #AMAB TransMasc #Cis Trans #Cis Non-binary #Cis Nonbinary

[cyanwyrmy]

Oh dear… (cw: needle and syringe)

(Fan Art!)

I think Eddie is afraid of needles and dreads doing his T-shot each week. It’s not that he doesn’t want the T, but he’d prefer it didn’t come from a nasty poke every Monday. Thank the stars Frank always remembers. Now that I’m thinking about it, Eddie would genuinely forget sometimes if he’d done it. Poor sap.

If it’s not obvious, this is based purely on my experience with T-shots 😅 it might be silly, but it’s a comforting thought to me that Eddie might share my struggle haha. I’m very blessed to have people in my life willing to help me 🩷

#welcome home fanwork #tw needle #tw syringe #transmasc experience #eddie dear #frank frankly #not my character #I hope clown is okay with drawings like this #I know Eddie is confirmed gay but there’s nothing saying he’s trans #doesn’t mean he’s automatically cis but I want to respect the canon #definitely over thinking it #eddie dear x frank frankly #eddie x frank #Eddie dear trans #frank frankly non binary #tw dysphoria #tw fear of needles #attempt at background #welcome home

[coinzevs]

& CW // Non-Cis Person having struggled with an ED Flag.

created by me / tumblr coinzevs

This flag is NOT pr# #n# (o, a, a) !! This is for anyone who isn’t cis and has struggled or is struggling with an e#ting disorder (a).

#ed tw #ed cw #ana cw #ana tw #flag #ed flag #noncis #non cis #queer flag #lgbtq flags #coined

[lenshrooooooooo]

Hi.

Another Day ends with Dysphoria and still question my gender and everything.

I dunno what to do.

I’m not having the confidence to talk to my best friend, even if I know she would support me and would help me. Just because I don’t know how to explain to her, what I feel. I kinda now that I’m not Cis-gender, but don’t know what gender identity I have.

I hate having b00bs just because I always get called She or girl or something like that. I mean I don’t feel uncomfortable with female pronouns but I feel happiness when someone call me with the male pronouns.

Thx for reading.

#gender crisis #gender identity #dysphoria #lgbtq #non cis

[stardusted-queerness]

Penguinself

Penguinself pronouns, made by me.

Pen/pen/guin/guins/penguinself

Examples (in order):

Pen went to the market today. I met pen today. Pen walked guin dog today. Pen let me borrow guins phone. Pen drives penguinself to school every day.

These were made for somebody who's penguingender and wanted pronouns to fit that.

#pronouns #neopronouns #pronoun coining #queer identity #mogai #actually mogai #lgbtq #gender identity #non binary #non cis #nonbinary #questioning #lgbtqplus #lgbt safe space #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #queer pride #queer #stardusted queerness

[uncanny-tranny]

Your fears that you don't have a body that will transition "well" are, sure, understandable, but there isn't truly such thing as a body that's unworthy of transition. Perhaps your changing body won't suit everybody's taste, but would you rather live for yourself or for the whims of random people who don't care about your happiness as long as they're attracted to what they see?

Transition is for anybody who wants it. It's okay to be fearful. It's okay to be uncertain. But it isn't the end of the world. You are in control, and if you choose to transition to any capacity, it should be at your behest. You and your body are worthy of transition. I hope you are able to seize transition and do what you truly want for yourself.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #have been seeing a small resurgence in some trans spaces that there is such thing as an 'untransitional' body #there are people out there who cannot transition for medical/financial/social reasons but that isn't what people often mean #kill the person in your head that says you need to adhere to cishet standards. it's okay to be trans and *look* it if you want #transition because it makes you feel happy or fulfilled. transition because it is something *you* want #while yes it's complex because appearing trans can be dangerous i ultimately want people to have the freedom to make decisions solely... #...on what *they* want y'know? #i have seen this idea that some people just aren't 'able' to transition because they won't 'appear cis' for years now and it's heartbreaking #like i used the whole 'i don't look cis' against myself because it's impossible for me *to be* cis... #...i will never be non-trans. i will never not be a transsexual and i used to hate that about myself... #...because i was taught that being trans is bad. i was taught that looking trans is a curse that nobody should EVER inflict upon themselves #and that the goal was to essentially distance yourself as far away from transness as you can #and it's okay for people to not want to 'look' visibly trans. it's neutral. what was harmful was the idea that TRANS was bad #there's a huge difference between 'i don't want to be visibly trans' and 'i think being trans and looking it is bad'

[drowningwoodfae]

#cisnt #non cis #agender #trans #genderfluid #nonbinary #lgbtq community #stickers #redbubble shop #signal boost #drowning woodfae #queer artist #pride #lgbtqa2s

[chi-va-piano-arriva-dopo]

Mathias Malzieu, “Il guerriero di porcellana”.

#mathias malzieu #il guerriero di porcellana #volere #essere #bussare #porta #dire #sono io #indovinare #cosa #portare #te #boris vian #ninna nanna per gli orsi che non ci sono #libri #frasi libri #quotes #13 ottobre #7 anni

[lilowoof]

splatoon 3 and those they/them octo pussies, eh?

#splatoon #splatoon 3 #octoling #shiver #dedf1sh #acht #I could have sworn dedfish was using they/them waaaay back from art book notes but also. could have just been a head canon #it's funny. IDM ppls headcannons on any of the characters or their pronouns but #dedfish is the only one who I kinda recoil when ppl use she/her in a cis way. IDK WHY it irks me so much #but to each their own. call em how you wanna! #also they both have cheeto hands. like. just non binary thingssss #art of pigs